Author Topic: Are you content with your life?  (Read 6548 times)

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Re: Are you content with your life?
« Reply #25 on: December 13, 2022, 12:30:37 PM »
Can honestly say I don’t remember being happy a day in my life.
To me happiness has always been a fleeting thing.....this probably has a lot to do with my depression and anxiety disorders.


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Re: Are you content with your life?
« Reply #26 on: December 13, 2022, 12:31:25 PM »

That’s cause the average age of getbiggers is 48/50ish, except for Wes
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Re: Are you content with your life?
« Reply #27 on: December 13, 2022, 12:33:09 PM »
Fuck no

I was and didn’t know it, fucked it all up now see just how great it was

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Re: Are you content with your life?
« Reply #28 on: December 13, 2022, 12:34:47 PM »
To me happiness has always been a fleeting thing.....this probably has a lot to do with my depression and anxiety disorders.

Yeah same here.


Fuck no

I was and didn’t know it, fucked it all up now see just how great it was

Unfortunately that’s how it works a lot.

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Re: Are you content with your life?
« Reply #29 on: December 13, 2022, 12:35:53 PM »
Fuck no

I was and didn’t know it, fucked it all up now see just how great it was
Been here a few times also.

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Re: Are you contempt with your life?
« Reply #30 on: December 13, 2022, 12:52:13 PM »
People who are happy all the time are usually just lacking self-awareness.

Or mentally challenged.

I am happy all the time with the aspects of my life I can control.

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Re: Are you contempt with your life?
« Reply #31 on: December 13, 2022, 12:55:41 PM »
Right, but the mean should be in the +.

Do you think all the miserable fucks save are generally happy but save the crying for here?

I am almost never "happy" in the sense that most people define it.

I wasnt even happy about winning my show
Im pretty non-plussed about anything.
Im not unhappy much either.

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Re: Are you content with your life?
« Reply #32 on: December 13, 2022, 12:56:44 PM »
Yeah same here.

Unfortunately that’s how it works a lot.

Been here a few times also.

Been there a few times before also and never learned from it, taken my family for granted was the he biggest fuck up I’ll ever make and probably be paying for it in regret rest of life haha

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Re: Are you contempt with your life?
« Reply #33 on: December 13, 2022, 12:57:16 PM »
I am almost never "happy" in the sense that most people define it.

I wasnt even happy about winning my show
Im pretty non-plussed about anything.
Im not unhappy much either.

If you posted pictures from your win I did not see them, congrats.

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Re: Are you contempt with your life?
« Reply #34 on: December 13, 2022, 12:58:38 PM »
If you posted pictures from your win I did not see them, congrats.

I only had one photo
I havent got anymore since

It was NABBA UK over 55s

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Re: Are you contempt with your life?
« Reply #35 on: December 13, 2022, 01:04:00 PM »
I only had one photo
I havent got anymore since

It was NABBA UK over 55s

Can't find any footage of it on youtube. Did Getbig get a chance to glance at your ripped glutes?

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Re: Are you contempt with your life?
« Reply #36 on: December 13, 2022, 01:05:59 PM »
Can't find any footage of it on youtube. Did Getbig get a chance to glance at your ripped glutes?

I have not seen anything yet myself

My glutes were in, but only just

Still in shape now , doing the Britain in June

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Re: Are you contempt with your life?
« Reply #37 on: December 13, 2022, 01:09:41 PM »
I am almost never "happy" in the sense that most people define it.

I wasnt even happy about winning my show

Congratulations on winning your show!

Im pretty non-plussed about anything.
Im not unhappy much either.

Are you this way naturally, or are you on some meds that suppress emotions?  Nothing wrong with that, just wondering.

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Re: Are you contempt with your life?
« Reply #38 on: December 13, 2022, 01:10:15 PM »
I have not seen anything yet myself

My glutes were in, but only just

Still in shape now , doing the Britain in June

PCA Irish Open in May for myself.

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Re: Are you content with your life?
« Reply #39 on: December 13, 2022, 01:10:20 PM »
For those who are not happy and say they haven’t been happy before or at least not very much, I sincerely wish things get better for you in whatever way you need to be happy. 

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Re: Are you content with your life?
« Reply #40 on: December 13, 2022, 01:15:10 PM »
The most clear sign that someone isn’t content is when they are clearly bald and pretend as if they aren’t.

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Re: Are you contempt with your life?
« Reply #41 on: December 13, 2022, 01:19:20 PM »
PCA Irish Open in May for myself.

Good stuff
PCA seem to be doing things right at the moment

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Re: Are you contempt with your life?
« Reply #42 on: December 13, 2022, 01:20:36 PM »

That’s cause the average age of getbiggers is 48/50ish, except for Wes

Statistically consistently a bit of a trough in terms of life satisfaction, a vague notion of "unmet expectations"  seems to be a common underlying theme in studies no matter one's external success, life situation, or otherwise

Just part of the normal life cycle it seems

Good news is things skew to a trend upwards from 55 or so until mid 70s


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Re: Are you contempt with your life?
« Reply #43 on: December 13, 2022, 01:22:01 PM »
Congratulations on winning your show!

Are you this way naturally, or are you on some meds that suppress emotions?  Nothing wrong with that, just wondering.

Been pretty detached since I was around 9 years old, I dont form deep relationships with people, they come and go in my life and I dont really notice.
Had depression after surgery 3 years ago, been on anti-depressants since.
They do zone me out a bit but the silence can be deafening.

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Re: Are you content with your life?
« Reply #44 on: December 13, 2022, 01:29:04 PM »
I was 20 when I registered to getbig almost 17 years ago. I was living with my parents, going to night school to finish high school. I didn't have friends because all the people at the school where 40-60 year olds. I was happy back then. Lifting and playing guitar was on only thing that made sense.

Fast forward to this day. I've got plenty of friends, great spouse, great career. Still lifting and playing music and check getbig every day. Absolutely content with my life. DVDs?

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Re: Are you content with your life?
« Reply #45 on: December 13, 2022, 02:54:52 PM »
Couldn’t be happier with my pro card.

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Re: Are you content with your life?
« Reply #46 on: December 13, 2022, 03:07:51 PM »
Absolutely thrilled at the way life turned out. Especially for what it was early in life.

GetBig is just a place where we can gather, make fun of each other, argue, agree, talk training, take the piss, bitch about politics/bodybuilders/each other, etc.
Hilarious if you think about it...

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Re: Are you content with your life?
« Reply #47 on: December 13, 2022, 03:08:35 PM »
Congrats to all you who are content with your lives cause to not be is like living in hell and I’ve been living in hell a long time. Hoping it all ends sometime soon, for me being dead seems much more fun than being alive. My mind is my worst enemy and if you have never experienced that just pray you never will, it’s a life sentence of miserableness.

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Re: Are you content with your life?
« Reply #48 on: December 13, 2022, 03:20:18 PM »
I am yes, would like to improve my standing on Getbig though.

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Re: Are you content with your life?
« Reply #49 on: December 13, 2022, 03:31:18 PM »
Congrats to all you who are content with your lives cause to not be is like living in hell and I’ve been living in hell a long time. Hoping it all ends sometime soon, for me being dead seems much more fun than being alive. My mind is my worst enemy and if you have never experienced that just pray you never will, it’s a life sentence of miserableness.

But other than that...