He's the "just hit me first" type.
Talking is a good way to get your ass kicked. Once you know things have escalated to violence you best be the first to strike. A quick jab to the throat or palm to the chin and ditbab is face down ass up (the way his ex said he likes to be 🤣).
I absolutely try to de escalate things and avoid violence now. Hell I’ll walk away if I need to. In my younger days I got in far too much trouble and was just lucky that I never had too terrible of consequences. But you have no idea how quick things can become life changing. I have a friend doing 25 years because a fight went bad. It was a regular fight but the other dude fell and hit a parking pole on the way down. Was in ICU for a bit, but didn’t make it. We e all gotten to know his family and every one of us feels like shit. Dude was t a bad guy. Everyone was drunk and acting stupid. He did nothing I have t done dozens of times. Neither did my buddy.
People throw around “I fckn hope you die” way too much. It’s an immature and definitely far from a righteous attitude (and ironically many that speak that way claim to be Christians). If you’ve never seen extreme violence and watched someone die, it’s probably easy to spout out nonsense.
I’m definitely guilty of immaturity. I fckd with DJ about his mommy when in reality I believe she is probably a saint to a woman. Dj had no male role model so he’s a weak lil fella. His mom does her best and even though she sees that he is a loser, she remembers him as a little baby boy.