Author Topic: roids and kids (Read 4659 times)

ZEEK · « **on:** May 14, 2006, 04:17:23 PM »

I have this question? doe's any one have kids and are still on roids? or knows of anyone?

the reason Im asking is? I am.. (well my wife )is haveing a baby in November.
One of the side effects i am having from being on gear is my mood swings
and temper and just my whole attitude.
I dont want to be pisst off everytime the baby cries or i have to wake up to feed HIM.this is my first and I want it to be great.I dont want to have a short fuse,for no reason.....

Do you think the mood swings and whole attitude will change once the baby is born? or is it time to quit using?
thanks

udeluz · « **Reply #1 on:** May 14, 2006, 06:29:15 PM »

I was on my second cycle when my first born arrived. And I did not notice (or did my wife) any mood swings a baby has a way to make everything feel good. You will be fine bro.

bigjohn_bluesfan · « **Reply #2 on:** May 14, 2006, 06:42:05 PM »

nothing is a factor in how you react to gear..its chemical and predisposition......your baby isnt going to make your mood swings better

Rimbaud · « **Reply #3 on:** May 15, 2006, 08:59:44 AM »

Quote from: ZEEK on May 14, 2006, 04:17:23 PM

Do you think the mood swings and whole attitude will change once the baby is born? or is it time to quit using?
thanks

If you notice mood swings then maybe it's time to give up the gear & focus on your new family. I agree with John that the baby probably won't help things.

jpeso · « **Reply #4 on:** May 15, 2006, 06:57:45 PM »

I'm going through this right now. 4 month old sleeping in bed with my wife and I.

I have NO mood swings , even when the baby cries at night. If you're anything like me, that kid will be a gift.....sorry to sound emotional and shit but that's real...

And if you do get pissed off make sure you remove yorself from the situation....you'll never forgive yourself later otherwise.

You'll be fine.

4thAD · « **Reply #5 on:** May 15, 2006, 07:08:35 PM »

Dude if your a decent human being you will love that baby soooo much it will make your mood swing in a positive direction! I dont think it will be a problem...

ZEEK · « **Reply #6 on:** May 15, 2006, 08:23:32 PM »

i think ill be alrright
im just looking way to far into it.
I dont think there will be any way that little kid will ever get me in a bad mood.
we have been tring for 3 year and i wont let my mood swing or anything stand in the way of that.

freakfestMD · « **Reply #7 on:** May 16, 2006, 08:28:52 AM »

I disagree.

My first child had the WORST case of colic on the planet, screamed all day every day and night for 18 hours straight. She slept 2 hours a day, which my pediatrician said was impossible. Nothing worked, nothing helped, and it went on for about 8 months. No bullsh*t. On top of that, my wife suffered from severe postpartum depression and was completely psychotic for about a year. We almost didn't have a second, but we eventually did. He was a great baby, but the wife's postpartum depression was even worse. Also, he weighed 10 1/2 lbs and they ripped her to shreds pulling him out. She was so traumatized emotionally and physically that she couldn't have sex for a year. Imagine what that was like.

So... no, I don't get mood swings when I'm on, but if I did, I would definitely NOT do it during this rather unpredictible time. Take that as your off-cycle time and see how it goes for a while, because man, take it from me, it aint always rosy...

ZEEK · « **Reply #8 on:** May 16, 2006, 08:35:45 AM »

I was thinking that lastnight

I think im gonna push as much as I can till the baby is born then just take a few mounths off and see how things go and start back up if things go well.

but knowing my lick Ill be off for a whole year. lol

Preinin974 · « **Reply #9 on:** May 16, 2006, 11:20:23 AM »

Quote from: ZEEK on May 16, 2006, 08:35:45 AM

I was thinking that lastnight

I think im gonna push as much as I can till the baby is born then just take a few mounths off and see how things go and start back up if things go well.

but knowing my lick Ill be off for a whole year. lol

Good thinking bro. I have a 3 months old daughter, so I know what I'm talking about. It's a very special time, don't fuck it up.

ZEEK · « **Reply #10 on:** May 16, 2006, 11:33:00 AM »

thanks for the advice.

its going to be great

DIVISION · « **Reply #11 on:** May 16, 2006, 07:00:37 PM »

Quote from: ZEEK on May 14, 2006, 04:17:23 PM

I have this question? doe's any one have kids and are still on roids? or knows of anyone?

the reason Im asking is? I am.. (well my wife )is haveing a baby in November.
One of the side effects i am having from being on gear is my mood swings
and temper and just my whole attitude.
I dont want to be pisst off everytime the baby cries or i have to wake up to feed HIM.this is my first and I want it to be great.I dont want to have a short fuse,for no reason.....

Do you think the mood swings and whole attitude will change once the baby is born? or is it time to quit using?
thanks

If you are worried about mood swings now, then think about how bad it will be when you have to deal with that screaming in the middle of the night.

Only you know yourself, so really, asking us won't help you.

If you had to ask this question, then you probably know the answer anyway.

DIV

ZEEK · « **Reply #12 on:** May 17, 2006, 12:20:44 AM »

just seeing if anyone is in that situation?

jpeso · « **Reply #13 on:** May 17, 2006, 06:29:55 PM »

Quote from: freakfestMD on May 16, 2006, 08:28:52 AM

I disagree.

My first child had the WORST case of colic on the planet, screamed all day every day and night for 18 hours straight. She slept 2 hours a day, which my pediatrician said was impossible. Nothing worked, nothing helped, and it went on for about 8 months. No bullsh*t. On top of that, my wife suffered from severe postpartum depression and was completely psychotic for about a year. We almost didn't have a second, but we eventually did. He was a great baby, but the wife's postpartum depression was even worse. Also, he weighed 10 1/2 lbs and they ripped her to shreds pulling him out. She was so traumatized emotionally and physically that she couldn't have sex for a year. Imagine what that was like.

So... no, I don't get mood swings when I'm on, but if I did, I would definitely NOT do it during this rather unpredictible time. Take that as your off-cycle time and see how it goes for a while, because man, take it from me, it aint always rosy...

If you weren't respected here, I'd call bullshit, but DAMN! 8 mos is a LLLLOOOONNNGGGG time.

In all fairness, that situation freakfest was in is probably the worst case scenario, but yah, perhaps use this as a time off period.

BIG_O · « **Reply #14 on:** May 19, 2006, 09:48:45 AM »

If you can't handle the compound you shouldn't be on it Zeek.

Think your hormones are screwed up?

A woman's hormonal balance is way more delicate than ours.

Now throw a baby into the mix.

Good luck.

ZEEK · « **Reply #15 on:** May 19, 2006, 10:01:23 AM »

I think Im fine I was just looking way into it.

with all the " what ifs "

but im going to take off after the baby is born for like 6 mounths to a year.

enjoy my life and family and then get back in to were I left off.

BIG_O · « **Reply #16 on:** May 19, 2006, 10:08:13 AM »

Smart plan Zeek.

The wife will need to lean on you alot more.

freakfestMD · « **Reply #17 on:** May 19, 2006, 02:37:15 PM »

It's not about you anymore...

ZEEK · « **Reply #18 on:** May 19, 2006, 02:55:45 PM »

yep i have to grow up

thanks guys it will be a blast.

DIVISION · « **Reply #19 on:** May 20, 2006, 05:44:01 PM »

Quote from: freakfestMD on May 19, 2006, 02:37:15 PM

It's not about you anymore...

That's precisely why I'm not looking to have kids for quite a while, Freaker.

Way too much strain......

That screaming sounds like a nightmare waiting to happen.

DIV

Dos Equis · « **Reply #20 on:** May 20, 2006, 08:09:32 PM »

Easy way to handle screaming newborn in the middle of the night is gently elbow the wife in the ribs (assuming she breast feeds). Works every time.

BallzDeep69 · « **Reply #21 on:** May 27, 2006, 06:06:37 AM »

I eat babies.

I blame steroids, even though I'm natrual.

bravo · « **Reply #22 on:** May 27, 2006, 08:11:51 AM »

Quote from: jpeso on May 17, 2006, 06:29:55 PM

If you weren't respected here, I'd call bullshit, but DAMN! 8 mos is a LLLLOOOONNNGGGG time.

In all fairness, that situation freakfest was in is probably the worst case scenario, but yah, perhaps use this as a time off period.

Having been a friend of the Freak for almost 20 years (shit! has it been that long? time flies, Bro's; so have as much fun as you can and get as huge as possible

I can vouch for his sick kid scenario....while the kid got 2 hours sleep a night; the Freak only slept between OR cases at the hospital because he was the one who had to watch the kid while his wife went thru her own issues.

Take the Freak's advice and put it off for now...no sense in aggravating a pre-existing nasty disposition.

Bypass · « **Reply #23 on:** May 27, 2006, 06:15:24 PM »

I have 3 children, 11, 10 and 7, never did gear before they were born, did my first cycle when my youngest was 4, I continue to cycle til this day...gear is like this...if your an asshole before gear, if you have rage issues before gear, then guess what?

...you will still have those issues. Period. Never bothered me, never affected me with my kids, gear does have a tendency to enhance any traits you might have....that is what I have found.

Ledd · « **Reply #24 on:** May 27, 2006, 06:23:03 PM »

Quote from: Bypass on May 27, 2006, 06:15:24 PM

gear does have a tendency to enhance any traits you might have

Can you elaborate on this?

Author Topic: roids and kids (Read 4659 times)

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