arvilla has a knack for beginning "look how amazing _______ is" threads that turn into slamfests . . . 
this is GET-BIG...immediate acceptance is never guaranteed,if one can persevere thru all the negativity,hate,insults,photoshopping,digging up of ones personal info,finding old "questionable photos",mind games, all without deleting your account,running and crying to a Mod or RON THEN YOU WILL get the recognition you seek, (look how great RHINO turned things around!)
it's not easy over here.................but you will get the truth without a lot of BS ass-kissing
(hang in there Ant...............lol and tell your ex-girlfriend no more pics in a fricken man-thong!!)