I've only done one show and one photoshoot and it was with Terry Goodlad. His wife Elaine did my make-up and she did a GREAT job. She really knows her stuff.
As for Terry, I may be biased but he is my favorite fitness/figure photographer. He is VERY professional while also hilarious! If your wife is inexperienced in modeling (as I am), he is perfect to tell her exactly what to do, how to stand, etc. what to do w/her face, etc.
I had a blast the day of my shoot and am grateful that I have some great pictures from when I was in contest shape.
I don't feel the desire to ever do a show again, but I would diet down just to do another photoshoot w/Elaine and Terry.
His site:
www.bodysport.com