the replies are great,even my wife is getting a kick out of it,as far as the cancer thing i hope i dont have cancer,last time i had a check up i was fine.i dress in some off the wall stuff when im home hangin out just relaxin,sometimes my socks dont even match but everythings comfortable,i bought a new camara at best buy and im gonna have a blast today takin pics,i do have hair and ill post a pic later just to clear that up and the bandana thing is just me,do i wear it all the time?no,do i wear them alot?yes but mostly in the summer months when its hot out and when im training or just hangin with the family at home,my wife even tells me i dress like i just escaped from a nut house so its all good