I actually live in the hell that is a black neighborhood right now lol, in freaking Sweden. Africans along with assorted middle easterners. My immediate neighbors are Somalis in this apartment building and they are causing such a ruckus day and night I'm going insane. Nothing can be done to make them behave as asking them to be civilized would be racist. There is a lack of housing in Sweden but these animals are given apartments and houses over native Swedes. Almost none of them work yet they get free money and they often get more money than a working man gets from a normal job. Swedes have sent delegations to the US, Minnesota, to see how to get Somalis to work, but why work when there is no incentive.
This is shortsighted thinking. You determine your fate. If you have trouble living in this neighborhood (regardless of what you think makes it troublesome) you take action. Actions can mean anything to put resolve into place. The obvious being moving to a happier place. If you don't have the resources to do so, do what's necessary to get those resources. This bitching and self-victimising is not healthy.
When i was younger and earning very little, i used to rent an apartment in a neighborhood which was mostly populated by people with dark skin tone. They did in fact make a lot of noise on the streets and there were many night bars and stores all around which means it was a place of gathering and activity.
My immediate neighbor, who wasn't dark skinned, was a young druggie without a job who couldn't find better things to do than to throw late night parties with other druggies . The walls were made of plaster. After two parties, I went and did what I had to do, in order for him not to make these mistakes again.
It got resolved. It's about how
creative you can get in order to handle a problematic situation... Violence doesn't always work well.
Pointing out race or skin color as a prime reason for misbehavior is too simplistic, but when you're frustrated you stop thinking right.
I also remember some crazy person used to poop before our doorstep (and others) from time to time in the midst of the night. This same person would then shout out loud to wake everybody up or ring doorbells and vanish afterwards. I was told this shit had been going on for years! This person had a dark complexion but that doesn't matter. After two weeks, I finally sacrificed a good night's sleep and went to deal with it.
A couple of months later i moved out and found a more suitable place for me.
What i'm saying is, don't blame the people around you for the troubles you are experiencing. As strange as that may seem. Create your own, take action, become a victor. There should always be one or more alternative plan in mind...
