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Title: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: Balloon on April 27, 2010, 04:48:52 AM
I'm not against interracial relationships...

But they inevitably attract attention from family members, the general public etc.

People stare, whisper, form opinions etc.

I like the "love is colorblind" concept, but in reality....

Is the stigma attatched to interracial relationships worth the hassle? Let's face it,

It's easier to date your own race

Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: Parker on April 27, 2010, 04:54:56 AM
Yes, you love someone, you love someone. Simple as that. There is no such thing as being colorblind. It's okay to take notice of a diff race.
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: WillGrant on April 27, 2010, 04:55:44 AM
Who cares what others think bro..if you are in love with someone who gives a fuk what colour they are
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: Azn Muscle on April 27, 2010, 04:57:58 AM
It depends, are you upgrading or downgrading  ;D
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: spinnis on April 27, 2010, 05:00:10 AM
Fine looking black biatch = Ok.

Ugly black biatch = Not ok.
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: newmom on April 27, 2010, 05:02:11 AM
No it shouldn't matter what others think. It can bring havoc to a relationship. Plenty of friends that date outside their race. Like I have said before (no offense against the sistahs) but they usually pop off to the white girl if she is with a black guy. Does it make it right or wrong, Im no judge, but IMO not worth it
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: Spike on April 27, 2010, 05:02:18 AM
black chicks are fine ass.....and there are plenty out there - dont get me wrong

and interracial relationships are fine - i dated/whatev a few outside my 'kind' - no grips whatsoever

its the shitbags and this western north carolina shit I see EVERYDAY at least 4-5times

this shit that grinds my gears is when I see some FAT white pasty ass bitch/ho driving a 1995 dodge neon with 'carolina girl' or 'baby phat' riding on 13'' hub caps from walmart

and she got some knee grow who doesnt know his ass from his head, no job, sells a few dimes and thinks he nino brown, thinks he's hard cause he did 6months in JAIL not prison for stealing shit outta cars, either with some wack ass dreads or a fckd up ass homemade fade, riding shotgun or better yet drivin HER car knowin his ass dont have any insurance

i know its the classic "well what white guy wants that shit, or she can get a skinny ngg" thats cool -----

its just my friend from middle school (yes he's black) does this - his fat pasty bitch works at TX Roadhouse and he is totally dependent on her - of course they have a lil oreo kid and he has another one with another fat white bitch - doesnt pay child support, no job, uses food stamps to buy muscle milk drink boxes, sells a few blunts to the homies, but all in all homies is broke and that white bitch rides his ass worse than a black chick would

I think they date white women cause a black chick would make em get a job :D :D
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: Parker on April 27, 2010, 05:05:23 AM
Spike you couldn't have said it better...now this thread needs to go away...
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: devilsmile on April 27, 2010, 05:05:49 AM
Yes, you love lust someone, you love lust someone. Simple as that. There is no such thing as being colorblind. It's okay to take notice of a diff race.

fixed for truth  
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: G_Thang on April 27, 2010, 05:09:08 AM
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grant...tell her i'd drink her tub water.  italian dont matter to me.

as far as interracial...



getwhite b###hes.  :)
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: Parker on April 27, 2010, 05:11:16 AM
fixed for truth  
Quite true, and actually...no wait, I will not get into it.
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: devilsmile on April 27, 2010, 05:19:56 AM
Quite true, and actually...no wait, I will not get into it.


 :P

you humans... so silly.... it's like, when you have a head ake and tirred after work you can't do anything... unless some hot girl tells you all of a sudden she wants to be licked and fucked all over, oh THEN You can do anything again  ::)

then god decided to seperate all of you after you tried to build the tower of babel, you couldn't do shit together anymore... what a great god  ::)... me? I don't do shit like that  :), I bring people together, I want you to find inner peace and get along with eachother.. you don't need these oldschool god rules in the back of your head  8)
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: Eyeball Chambers on April 27, 2010, 05:21:14 AM
Is it wrong of me to look at interracial relationships negatively?  :P
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: devilsmile on April 27, 2010, 05:24:08 AM
Is it wrong of me to look at interracial relationships negatively?  :P

to look at anything differend from you negatively is silly... why won't you expand yourself, expand your mind... embrace your self... all your life you're trying to be something else... try to be enhanced version of your self, picture yourself as something, how would you want to be in this existance in your wildest dreams, picture that and then strive for it.

the thing is, you don't even know the people you "don't like", why dislike them? Because someone gave the a stigma? come now  ::)
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: Spike on April 27, 2010, 05:29:37 AM
to look at anything differend from you negatively is silly... why won't you expand yourself, expand your mind... embrace your self... all your life you're trying to be something else... try to be enhanced version of your self, picture yourself as something, how would you want to be in this existance in your wildest dreams, picture that and then strive for it.

the thing is, you don't even know the people you "don't like", why dislike them? Because someone gave the a stigma? come now  ::)


YOU really expect me to give this guy a chance at being a contributing member of society - cause that is what your missing

some people are shit no matter how you look at it - they'll live in a trailor and stock gorceries, smoke meth til they die - how does that affect your life or if you accept that how does it enlighten you??

got his oreo kid pics on the wall - no job - dressed like he still in high school -------- what can he offer me??

cant fix my computer
cant tailor my suit
cant change my oil
prob collects welfare from the state taxes they take from my check PLUS I'm prob payin for this fcks food and kids healthcare


(http://i70.photobucket.com/albums/i93/xtina1_2006/HARDASS.jpg)
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: Mr Nobody on April 27, 2010, 05:34:44 AM
Fine looking black biatch = Ok.

Ugly black biatch = Not ok.
Swede bringing the truth in simple words.
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: devilsmile on April 27, 2010, 05:35:30 AM
YOU really expect me to give this guy a chance at being a contributing member of society - cause that is what your missing

some people are shit no matter how you look at it - they'll live in a trailor and stock gorceries, smoke meth til they die - how does that affect your life or if you accept that how does it enlighten you??

(http://i70.photobucket.com/albums/i93/xtina1_2006/HARDASS.jpg)

I told you that looking anything differend from you negatively is silly... It means in english, that if something is differend and you don't know anything about it, you shouldn't think negatively about it.

The same way nobody knows are the coming aliens hostile... why think they are hostile, you don't know them, why you think they should be banished, you don't know them.... same thing with interracial mirrages, you don't know the interracial people, so don't be thinking bad about them.

Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: Spike on April 27, 2010, 05:38:22 AM
I told you that looking anything differend from you negatively is silly... It means in english, that if something is differend and you don't know anything about it, you shouldn't think negatively about it.

The same way nobody knows are the coming aliens hostile... why think they are hostile, you odn't know them, why you think they should be banished, you don't know them.... same thing with interracial mirrages, you don't know the interracial people, so don't be thinking bad about them.



i gotcha now

I thought you were saying we had to accept the fact this fck is diff --- I could care less until his shit starts staining my life

I try not to be judgmental - I grew up in upstate NY but I live in NC so my head is on backward

 ;)
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: muscularny on April 27, 2010, 05:38:50 AM
obviously hes asking as he does care and many people especially bodybuilders do care what other people think, even thou most here yell they train for health reasons only

if shes hot great, but the real issue is black girls need constant reassuring from a white guy that you do see them as a long term thing

lol funny how all white guys say the same bullshit (pre fuck obviously)

black girl: so how do you feel about dating a girl of color
white guy: oh my brother married a black girl, they have 2 kids

fast forward 30 minutes and you are banging

I also feel its a stage for many guys, we go thru the stage of going after milfs, then you figure out that 99.9% its not worth it, many go thru the asian stage and black girl phase etc

Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: devilsmile on April 27, 2010, 05:42:52 AM
what pisses me off is that these topics and people who even talk about interracial crap are in away dumb ass people.

if you're white and see a white girl you go like; "She's hot!"

if you're white and see a black girl you go like; "that's a hot black girl!"

it's rideculous and I don't whanna be friends with that kind of people, sickens me.

Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: muscularny on April 27, 2010, 05:43:56 AM
libral junky
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: devilsmile on April 27, 2010, 05:46:35 AM
Who gives a shit about interracial relationships? :-\ Is this something you spend a lot of time thinking about? ??? If you see a chick you like, go for it, doesn't matter if she's blue or green or whatever.

no if it's outside from your race then you have to really underline the genetic difference from the women of your own race and embrace it, other wise you're racist (american logic)  ::)
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: phreak on April 27, 2010, 05:47:57 AM
what pisses me off is that these topics and people who even talk about interracial crap are in away dumb ass people.

if you're white and see a white girl you go like; "She's hot!"

if you're white and see a black girl you go like; "that's a hot black girl!"

it's rideculous and I don't whanna be friends with that kind of people, sickens me.


You sound like you love you some Nesquik semen.
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: K-1 on April 27, 2010, 06:58:22 AM
Nothing wrong with interracial relations in my book ,and I've never gotten any hassle about it.

I think it's actually very over rated issue, but I know there are certain "areas" of the country where ignorance (whether it's pure or just plain dumb ignorance) still exists and this is in every community imo. It's a small % just like most things.

The stereotypical "interracial couple" most envision when the term is used is generally a "darker" toned person (male/female) with a "pale/light" toned person (male/female) with certain feature characteristics

The funny thing about that is both can be of the same ethnic background yet some would think one is per se "black/afro-american" because of their skin tone,course of hair..etc and one is white due to their skin tone, course of hair, eyes..etc....... When they both are actually Cuban.

My ex wife is Panamanian and puerto rican, my current wife is Jamaican ......both have in one point in time been asked some of the dumbest sh*t you can possibly imagine by individuals who are just plain ignorant or just are not in the know. My current wife who is Jamaican was actually asked "When did you learn to speak english?" .....LMAO....I laughed, but yes...there are some who are just not up to speed on things.

What is even funnier is with my ex wife most assumed I was Hispanic. With my current wife, most assume I'm Jamaican...LOL ..All because they'd either hear their accents when they speak or finally got the chance to meet me and they assume I'm the same ethnicity.
 
In the end we are all the same. Just people.
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: Eyeball Chambers on April 27, 2010, 07:00:07 AM
I just don't like the idea of people doing away with their own race, (black or white) when they reproduce.  :-\
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: ShipSekki on April 27, 2010, 07:01:04 AM
I'm not against interracial relationships...

But they inevitably attract attention from family members, the general public etc.

People stare, whisper, form opinions etc.

I like the "love is colorblind" concept, but in reality....

Is the stigma attatched to interracial relationships worth the hassle? Let's face it,

It's easier to date your own race



 Damn where do you live? The deep South? North Dakota? In the US in most places nobody gives a fuck about interracial dating.
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: jon cole on April 27, 2010, 07:04:38 AM
I'm not against interracial relationships...

But they inevitably attract attention from family members, the general public etc.

People stare, whisper, form opinions etc.

I like the "love is colorblind" concept, but in reality....

Is the stigma attatched to interracial relationships worth the hassle? Let's face it,

It's easier to date your own race



1- if you 're doing this shit for the ethnic trip (ex: stupid blonde with black wannabe gangsta) = not worth it.
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: Tapeworm on April 27, 2010, 07:22:53 AM
Never met a non-white chick that struck me as relationship fodder.  Too little in common.  Sorry but true.  And don't gimmie any of that racism shit.  White people are entirely off the prospective employee list, so there.

Besides, what hassle/stigma?  A guy can do whatever the hell he wants, with the possible exception of an asian that's 30 years his junior (mail order!).  Only women have to worry about stigma.  Sorry but true.
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: HTexan on April 27, 2010, 07:28:56 AM
If you date a latina hottie, yes.
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: K-1 on April 27, 2010, 07:29:03 AM
1- if you 're doing this shit for the ethnic trip (ex: stupid blonde with black wannabe gangsta) = not worth it.

I agree with this.

I've had this discussion a few times. If it's just a hook up thing..fine..your curious and you know it's not going anywhere beyond that...but if you are actually trying to follow through with an interracial relationship/dating (like I know some people do...it's so obvious) because you think it's "cool" forget it...it won't work.

The ethnicity of the partner should be the last thing on your mind when you are in that relationship. That shouldn't be what brought you together.
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: Natural Man on April 27, 2010, 07:30:55 AM
interracial dating is minimal even with the constant brainwashing you see on TV with black asian arabs pakis etc all smiling with their whitened teeth ...fact is this is bullshit, people dont mix, it's very rare and when it does it does not last, interracial couples all end separating.

Races will fight each others until one replace all the others, as simple as that.
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: Tapeworm on April 27, 2010, 07:33:48 AM
If you date a latina hottie, yes.

Come to think of it, I'm hella prejudiced against anyone who says jew instead of you.
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: ShipSekki on April 27, 2010, 07:35:20 AM
 I've dated women of all races and had long relationships with white, black, asian, latina.....

 It doesn't matter. Intelligent people know that race is skin deep.

 Some of you have pretty immature views on it. Not racist. Just kinda simple-minded and ignorant.
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: HTexan on April 27, 2010, 07:36:52 AM
Come to think of it, I'm hella prejudiced against anyone who says jew instead of you.
Thanks. I love Jews. You and Ron too. ( no homo)
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: Tapeworm on April 27, 2010, 07:41:43 AM
Thanks. I love Jews. You and Ron too. ( no homo)

I'd date a Jew.  Not Ron tho.  He's just a good time.
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: brooklynbruiser on April 27, 2010, 03:34:24 PM
I've been around the world...You come in alone and leave the same way. Enjoy your life on YOUR terms, not the terms other place upon you.

Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: Option D on April 27, 2010, 03:39:29 PM
what pisses me off is that these topics and people who even talk about interracial crap are in away dumb ass people.

if you're white and see a white girl you go like; "She's hot!"

if you're white and see a black girl you go like; "that's a hot black girl!"

it's rideculous and I don't whanna be friends with that kind of people, sickens me.



Quoted for Truth..
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: Option D on April 27, 2010, 03:40:50 PM
I've dated women of all races and had long relationships with white, black, asian, latina.....

 It doesn't matter. Intelligent people know that race is skin deep.

 Some of you have pretty immature views on it. Not racist. Just kinda simple-minded and ignorant.

Quoted for Truth
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: HTexan on April 27, 2010, 07:05:04 PM
I'd date a Jew.  Not Ron tho.  He's just a good time.
I havnt hanged with Ron yet
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: Kwon on April 27, 2010, 09:06:03 PM
I havnt hanged with Ron yet

I'd like to
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: James28 on April 27, 2010, 11:56:34 PM
I will date interracial but it's going to have to be a fine fine FINE bitch. In my mind I'm already downgrading to 'lower' (forgive me, media brain-fucked me) races therefore it can only be the best examples of those races.

I have no problem dating Japanese, Chinese and at a big fucking stretch Asian (I class Indian, Arab and Pacific into that as they all look the same). Dating black is most likely never going to happen as I just cannot bring myself. I've dated out of race twice and that was with Japanese and Brazilian.
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: JBGRAY on April 28, 2010, 03:05:31 PM
I've found women to be more discerning of race than men.  I did 3 deployments in the Caribbean and South America.  When it comes to women, I'm not picky, I like 'em in all colors.  I'm married to a Filipino now, though.  I've heard women say that they'd flat out NOT date someone due to their race.

Some interracial marriages(if it isn't marriage or you don't have children with them, it doesn't count) are more socially accepting than others...such as white guy/asian chick than black guy/white chick.  Some are looked at very oddly, such as white guy/black girl or asian guy/white girl.

Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: brooklynbruiser on April 28, 2010, 07:57:06 PM
Where's Newmom when you need her?
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: newmom on April 29, 2010, 02:19:47 AM
you rang brooklynbruiser
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: UPINTHEMGUTS on April 30, 2010, 10:21:57 AM
I have a thing for olive skinned women or darker complexion.

Fair-skinned blonds are a turn-off.
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: newmom on April 30, 2010, 10:22:38 AM
I have a thing for olive skinned women or darker complexion.

Fair-skinned blonds are a turn-off.

so you like us greek and italian women huh ;D ;)
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: UPINTHEMGUTS on April 30, 2010, 10:51:32 AM
so you like us greek and italian women huh ;D ;)

Abso fricken lutely

My wife fits this genre of beautiful women.  :)
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: newmom on April 30, 2010, 10:59:49 AM

My wife fits this genre of beautiful women.  :)

awwwwwwwww that is sweet
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: drkaje on April 30, 2010, 11:13:36 AM
Kind of silly to worry about something like this considering more than half of all marriages end in divorce.
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: Fury on April 30, 2010, 12:18:27 PM
How sad must your life be if you worry about what people that you'll never see again are thinking. Worry about the "hassle/stigma" means you = incredibly insecure.
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: Eyeball Chambers on April 30, 2010, 02:09:30 PM
I have a thing for olive skinned women or darker complexion.

Fair-skinned blonds are a turn-off.

It's the exact opposite for me...  :P
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: regmac on April 30, 2010, 02:12:21 PM
I like all flavers!     ;D   But asian babes will always be No.1!   Aging from 21-------
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: Mr Nobody on April 30, 2010, 04:39:28 PM
I like all flavers!     ;D   But asian babes will always be No.1!   Aging from 21-------
I see you like the older women reg thats ok to each his own.
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: regmac on April 30, 2010, 07:30:13 PM
I see you like the older women reg thats ok to each his own.
old asian women   are cool.   At least from my experiences.   Long dark hair (ok not THAT OLD) a small waist keeps my mind off the prune face I guess.   
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: benchmstr on April 30, 2010, 07:31:58 PM
i would never date a black man...cause i am not gay...

bench
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: regmac on April 30, 2010, 07:33:22 PM
i would never date a black man...cause i am not gay...

bench
Me neither,,,,,except myself.   I'm a cheap date!
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: 24KT on May 04, 2010, 09:34:27 PM
I'm not against interracial relationships...

But they inevitably attract attention from family members, the general public etc.

People stare, whisper, form opinions etc.

I like the "love is colorblind" concept, but in reality....

Is the stigma attatched to interracial relationships worth the hassle? Let's face it,

It's easier to date your own race

That all depends on who you're dating. If the person you're attempting to have a relationship with is all worried & concerned about any possible hassles or stigma, then I'd have to say it's not worth it to even give them even 5 minutes of your time. You're better off throwing them to the curb and finding a real man with a set of testicles.  furthermore, if you yourself are even conscious of race differences between you, ...you're probably not mature enough or intellectually enlightened enough for an interracial relationship.
Title: Re: Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?
Post by: 24KT on May 04, 2010, 09:37:10 PM
I've dated women of all races and had long relationships with white, black, asian, latina.....

 It doesn't matter. Intelligent people know that race is skin deep.

 Some of you have pretty immature views on it. Not racist. Just kinda simple-minded and ignorant.

Gotta agree with you there.