Are Interracial relationships worth the hassle/stigma?

[ShipSekki]

I'm not against interracial relationships...

But they inevitably attract attention from family members, the general public etc.

People stare, whisper, form opinions etc.

I like the "love is colorblind" concept, but in reality....

Is the stigma attatched to interracial relationships worth the hassle? Let's face it,

It's easier to date your own race

 Damn where do you live? The deep South? North Dakota? In the US in most places nobody gives a fuck about interracial dating.

[jon cole]

I'm not against interracial relationships...

But they inevitably attract attention from family members, the general public etc.

People stare, whisper, form opinions etc.

I like the "love is colorblind" concept, but in reality....

Is the stigma attatched to interracial relationships worth the hassle? Let's face it,

It's easier to date your own race

1- if you 're doing this shit for the ethnic trip (ex: stupid blonde with black wannabe gangsta) = not worth it.

[Tapeworm]

Never met a non-white chick that struck me as relationship fodder.  Too little in common.  Sorry but true.  And don't gimmie any of that racism shit.  White people are entirely off the prospective employee list, so there.

Besides, what hassle/stigma?  A guy can do whatever the hell he wants, with the possible exception of an asian that's 30 years his junior (mail order!).  Only women have to worry about stigma.  Sorry but true.

[HTexan]

If you date a latina hottie, yes.

[K-1]

1- if you 're doing this shit for the ethnic trip (ex: stupid blonde with black wannabe gangsta) = not worth it.

I agree with this.

I've had this discussion a few times. If it's just a hook up thing..fine..your curious and you know it's not going anywhere beyond that...but if you are actually trying to follow through with an interracial relationship/dating (like I know some people do...it's so obvious) because you think it's "cool" forget it...it won't work.

The ethnicity of the partner should be the last thing on your mind when you are in that relationship. That shouldn't be what brought you together.

[Natural Man]

interracial dating is minimal even with the constant brainwashing you see on TV with black asian arabs pakis etc all smiling with their whitened teeth ...fact is this is bullshit, people dont mix, it's very rare and when it does it does not last, interracial couples all end separating.

Races will fight each others until one replace all the others, as simple as that.

[Tapeworm]

If you date a latina hottie, yes.

Come to think of it, I'm hella prejudiced against anyone who says jew instead of you.

[ShipSekki]

 I've dated women of all races and had long relationships with white, black, asian, latina.....

 It doesn't matter. Intelligent people know that race is skin deep.

 Some of you have pretty immature views on it. Not racist. Just kinda simple-minded and ignorant.

[HTexan]

Come to think of it, I'm hella prejudiced against anyone who says jew instead of you.

Thanks. I love Jews. You and Ron too. ( no homo)

[Tapeworm]

Thanks. I love Jews. You and Ron too. ( no homo)

I'd date a Jew.  Not Ron tho.  He's just a good time.

[brooklynbruiser]

I've been around the world...You come in alone and leave the same way. Enjoy your life on YOUR terms, not the terms other place upon you.

[Option D]

what pisses me off is that these topics and people who even talk about interracial crap are in away dumb ass people.

if you're white and see a white girl you go like; "She's hot!"

if you're white and see a black girl you go like; "that's a hot black girl!"

it's rideculous and I don't whanna be friends with that kind of people, sickens me.

Quoted for Truth..

[Option D]

I've dated women of all races and had long relationships with white, black, asian, latina.....

 It doesn't matter. Intelligent people know that race is skin deep.

 Some of you have pretty immature views on it. Not racist. Just kinda simple-minded and ignorant.

Quoted for Truth

[HTexan]

I'd date a Jew.  Not Ron tho.  He's just a good time.

I havnt hanged with Ron yet

[Kwon]

I havnt hanged with Ron yet

I'd like to

[James28]

I will date interracial but it's going to have to be a fine fine FINE bitch. In my mind I'm already downgrading to 'lower' (forgive me, media brain-fucked me) races therefore it can only be the best examples of those races.

I have no problem dating Japanese, Chinese and at a big fucking stretch Asian (I class Indian, Arab and Pacific into that as they all look the same). Dating black is most likely never going to happen as I just cannot bring myself. I've dated out of race twice and that was with Japanese and Brazilian.

[JBGRAY]

I've found women to be more discerning of race than men.  I did 3 deployments in the Caribbean and South America.  When it comes to women, I'm not picky, I like 'em in all colors.  I'm married to a Filipino now, though.  I've heard women say that they'd flat out NOT date someone due to their race.

Some interracial marriages(if it isn't marriage or you don't have children with them, it doesn't count) are more socially accepting than others...such as white guy/asian chick than black guy/white chick.  Some are looked at very oddly, such as white guy/black girl or asian guy/white girl.

[brooklynbruiser]

Where's Newmom when you need her?

[newmom]

you rang brooklynbruiser

[UPINTHEMGUTS]

I have a thing for olive skinned women or darker complexion.

Fair-skinned blonds are a turn-off.

[newmom]

I have a thing for olive skinned women or darker complexion.

Fair-skinned blonds are a turn-off.

so you like us greek and italian women huh

[UPINTHEMGUTS]

so you like us greek and italian women huh

Abso fricken lutely

My wife fits this genre of beautiful women. 

[newmom]

My wife fits this genre of beautiful women. 

awwwwwwwww that is sweet

[drkaje]

Kind of silly to worry about something like this considering more than half of all marriages end in divorce.

[Fury]

How sad must your life be if you worry about what people that you'll never see again are thinking. Worry about the "hassle/stigma" means you = incredibly insecure.