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Getbig Main Boards => Gossip & Opinions => Topic started by: Lundgren on November 09, 2010, 10:38:39 AM
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I mean we know that despite our wants to be alphas most of us are not in real life. the obvious alpha assholes are(parker, groink, etc), obvious crazies(me distubria adonis.), the not so brights(alex,swede etc.) So who are the nice guys my guess would be xerses, and Wiggs, maybe a few others.
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Nice guys finish last, alphas finish on tits
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Nice guys finish last, alphas finish on tits
Yeah but alpha suck and nobody really likes them we all pretend to wanna be em, but there usually selfish pricks who rarely contribute.
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Yeah but alpha suck and nobody really likes them we all pretend to wanna be em, but there usually selfish pricks who rarely contribute.
Epic beta talk.
The only reason men dont like Alphas is jealousy, pure and simple.
Alphas dont give a fuck about what other men think of them.
Alphas also dont go around talking about how "alpha" they are.
HTH
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Epic beta talk.
The only reason men dont like Alphas is jealousy, pure and simple.
Alphas dont give a fuck about what other men think of them.
Alphas also dont go around talking about how "alpha" they are.
HTH
Alpha drain resources horde women etc, the whole point is to be as selfish as possible, but this is a futher extension of what women what, they want someone super selfish, they can milk for their own selfish desire.
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Alpha drain resources horde women etc, the whole point is to be as selfish as possible, but this is a futher extension of what women what, they want someone super selfish, they can milk for their own selfish desire.
Wow. Your an idiot.
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Sev
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Sev
I thought he'd be in the wannabe group along with JNN
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Wow. Your an idiot.
What I said is true what do you think the point of being an alhpa is? It's about the leader controlling of the group, that's able to supply the most resources to the women, this is done through imtiadation and manipulation, as it's the entire point. Did I burst some romantic image of what an alpha is? Nothing wrong with being one, but I wouldn't want to be someones bitch.
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Horde women? Drain resources? where the fuck do you come up with this shit? Every time I read one of your posts, I get a little dumber.
The whole thing with an alpha, is that they dont give a fuck about anyone else and they run the show. That doesnt mean they "horde" women. Evidently they horde yours though. Maybe, ya know, try and actually BE A MAN, then maybe your woman wont go run off and "alphas" behind your back.
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What I said is true what do you think the point of being an alhpa is? It's about the leader controlling of the group, that's able to supply the most resources to the women, this is done through imtiadation and manipulation, as it's the entire point. Did I burst some romantic image of what an alpha is? Nothing wrong with being one, but I wouldn't want to be someones bitch.
So what youre saying, is that its bad to be able to provide for your family and have you and your families best interests in mind. An manipulation and intimidation? WTF are you? You get bullied at school or something? Was your mom wear the pants in the family? Did you even have a father?
Wow. You make G_thang look like a scholar. I never thought I would encouter someone as retarded as you are.
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I'm a nice man. :)
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Alpha drain resources horde women etc
That was supposed to be a secret, asshole. You're out.
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So what youre saying, is that its bad to be able to provide for your family and have you and your families best interests in mind. An manipulation and intimidation? WTF are you? You get bullied at school or something? Was your mom wear the pants in the family? Did you even have a father?
Wow. You make G_thang look like a scholar. I never thought I would encouter someone as retarded as you are.
Nice guys provide for there family too, but by being nice and social, however that ain't good enough, you must be imtimadating and manipulate to be "alpha".
Just look at arnie's 1980 pure alhpa at work. Stop confusing being a man with be an alpha.
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That was supposed to be a secret, asshole. You're out.
Lol I feel like I'm the first person that ever said this but it common sense.
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Nice guys provide for there family too, but by being nice and social, however that ain't good enough, you must be imtimadating and manipulate to be "alpha".
Just look at arnie's 1980 pure alhpa at work. Stop confusing being a man with be an alpha.
No, your have no fucking idea what it means to be an Alpha. You can still be nice and social, and be an Alpha. Some males are intimiated by "alphas", even if theyre nice and social. Its about how you carry yourself. And how the people around you percieve you. You are a fucking tool, and you have NO idea what being an "alpha" means.
Women are attracted by alphas because of the way they carry themselves. And they see it in body language, the way you talk, the way you hold yourself.
Clearly your just a bitch thats trying to justify why you dont want to be like those "alphas" constantly stealing the woman you want.
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What a fucking retarded thread.
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No, your have no fucking idea what it means to be an Alpha. You can still be nice and social, and be an Alpha. Some males are intimiated by "alphas", even if theyre nice and social. Its about how you carry yourself. And how the people around you percieve you. You are a fucking tool, and you have NO idea what being an "alpha" means.
Please post your opinion as it seems to differ from the majority of what most people think of are alpha's.
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Please post your opinion as it seems to differ from the majority of what most people think of are alpha's.
Bein an Alpha is just that. You dont give a fuck what anyone else thinks, you do what you need to do, you have confidence, and you dont take shit.
NO WHERE has anyone said you have to be a manipulative asshole to be an Alpha, dumbo.
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dumbo.
LOL ;D
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Bein an Alpha is just that. You dont give a fuck what anyone else thinks, you do what you need to do, you have confidence, and you dont take shit.
NO WHERE has anyone said you have to be a manipulative asshole to be an Alpha, dumbo.
You don't have to be, but 9 chances out of 10 you are.
Just think of arnold the ultimate, alpha, his whole persona is about manipulating things to go his way,
It's the point you lead the way as long as everyone is convinced your right when in reality you can be completely wrong. All for the self gratification of ego, and reputation.
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Please seperate nice guy from alpha, and no nice guys don't mean geeks.
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You don't have to be, but 9 chances out of 10 you are.
Just think of arnold the ultimate, alpha, his whole persona is about manipulating things to go his way,
It's the point you lead the way as long as everyone is convinced your right when in reality you can be completely wrong. All for the self gratification of ego, and reputation.
Yes, cause there is only 1 way to be an alpha, and theyre all alike. ::)
Its not the point. The point is that you dont FUCKING CARE WHAT THE OTHER PEOPLE DO. You do what you do and they can either take it or leave it. WTF dont you get? You have this idea that alphas are just loud arrogant assholes. Its fucking rediculous. You need to get out of your little hole you live in and learn about the world around you, not just what you read on GETBIG.
People rally and follow alphas for 1 reason... because they have confidence and dont give a shit what others think.
That inspires confidence in people and people will follow that person. THAT is being an Alpha male. Dumbass.
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Yes, cause there is only 1 way to be an alpha, and theyre all alike. ::)
Its not the point. The point is that you dont FUCKING CARE WHAT THE OTHER PEOPLE DO. You do what you do and they can either take it or leave it. WTF dont you get? You have this idea that alphas are just loud arrogant assholes. Its fucking rediculous. You need to get out of your little hole you live in and learn about the world around you, not just what you read on GETBIG.
People rally and follow alphas for 1 reason... because they have confidence and dont give a shit what others think.
That inspires confidence in people and people will follow that person. THAT is being an Alpha male. Dumbass.
So you think simply being independant from other folks makes you an alpha lol.
I don't give a shit about other people in real life that don't make me an alpha just a loaner, maybe you just some loaner wannabe, it would seem likely as no true alpha would ever risk getting themselves exposed.
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Nice as in free from real spite and malice:
Mike Arvilla
Grant Michaels
Ron
Howard
Big Bobs (unless you insult his man)
Stuntmovie
Earl
Pollux
Newmom
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So you think simply being independant from other folks makes you an alpha lol.
I don't give a shit about other people in real life that don't make me an alpha just a loaner, maybe you just some loaner wannabe, it would seem likely as no true alpha would ever risk getting themselves exposed.
No. I see why everyone on here despises you so much now. You are a complete retard. Youre a loaner because your a moron, you have no condidence, and you think "alphas" are arrogant women hoarding assholes.
You know what that spells to me?
Bitch.
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im one of the bigger guys here
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A loaner? Lend me a few bucks then.
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parker and swede are one of the most well spoken here, so...
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No. I see why everyone on here despises you so much now. You are a complete retard. Youre a loaner because your a moron, you have no condidence, and you think "alphas" are arrogant women hoarding assholes.
You know what that spells to me?
Bitch.
Dude I don't think alpha's are arrogant women hoarding assholes, I was under the impressive that's the definition. However I think your equally as bad, as you fall under you want to be alpha so bad, you've convinced yourself you are one. Or worst yet you've been one for so long your to selfish of a prick to realize how you hurt others.
For the record as stated in the beginning of the thread I'm erratic and fucking unstable, hence why nobody loves me :(
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parker and swede are one of the most well spoken here, so...
Swede a nice guy but I can't picture him sitting down and doing my taxes. Parker might be alright but it's hard to tell what he's like in person smart but things like the shit he said in the bullying thread make me wonder.
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Translation = I can be kinda annoying.
Lol I am annoying hence my getbig obsession I've grown tired of pissing my friends off and fell a little deeper than a bit of depression, some might say I'm fucking near killing myself, but I digress, I'm off the fucking rails all over the plac.e
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Dude I don't think alpha's are arrogant women hoarding assholes, I was under the impressive that's the definition. However I think your equally as bad, as you fall under you want to be alpha so bad, you've convinced yourself you are one. Or worst yet you've been one for so long your to selfish of a prick to realize how you hurt others.
For the record as stated in the beginning of the thread I'm erratic and fucking unstable, hence why nobody loves me :(
Hahaha, no where did I ever claim I was an Alpha, nor do I START THREADS bitching about how OTHER MEN are a drain on society and "Horde" women from me. Fucking lolz. If you actually read my posts youd see I had said that alphas dont talk about how alpha they are. So people like Alex23, etc are just betas trying to play alpha. A real Alpha doesnt feel the need to show off to other men.
You sound like a bitter loser that cant find a women for the life of him because the alphas are "hoarding" all the women. Oh brother, epic pussy.
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Lol I am annoying hence my getbig obsession I've grown tired of pissing my friends off and fell a little deeper than a bit of depression, some might say I'm fucking near killing myself, but I digress, I'm off the fucking rails all over the plac.e
This is what Im saying. Dude life isnt that bad. Just reach between your legs, grab your nuts, realize your a man, and go out and start enjoying life. If not, you have no one to blame but yourself. Make a change.
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You sound like a bitter loser that cant find a women for the life of him because the alphas are "hoarding" all the women. Oh brother, epic pussy.
Nah I got no trouble finding women, I'm just unbearable to be around in person even I can't stand myself hence the suicidal thoughts just keep circling me(no not killing myself any time soon)
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Epic beta talk.
x2
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Maybe you talk to much? I noticed you only had a couple hundred posts before you started posting in '10, maybe get a hobby or some shit ;D. If you keep this up 240 better watch out.
I'm ocd as fuck overly obsessive all the time. I'm not near as bad in person. This is like my mind dumb while in school. I don't get alot of sex at the moment so it's bound to expel it's self somewhere.
For the record, I didn't start this thread to bitch on alpha's. And for the record there's loads of insecure alpha's, and loads of secure beta's that take shit from people without any internal conflict.
I started this thread to be postitive against the slew of alpha bs spread around here, it's completly unheard of to be advocating being just a nice guy. That everyone likes, got few bad qualities,
good to work with and be around etc.
But I digress shockwave as proven himself a true alpha shifting the situation to make soneone else look bad so he can look good.
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I'm ocd as fuck overly obsessive all the time. I'm not near as bad in person. This is like my mind dumb while in school. I don't get alot of sex at the moment so it's bound to expel it's self somewhere.
For the record, I didn't start this thread to bitch on alpha's. And for the record there's loads of insecure alpha's, and loads of secure beta's that take shit from people without any internal conflict.
I started this thread to be postitive against the slew of alpha bs spread around here, it's completly unheard of to be advocating being just a nice guy. That everyone likes, got few bad qualities,
good to work with and be around etc.
But I digress shockwave as proven himself a true alpha shifting the situation to make soneone else look bad so he can look good.
Epic being pissed that you got destroyed for trying to define "alphas" as something its not.
Its clear you have issues with what you define as "alpha males".
I didnt shift the situation, your whole post read like a whiny bitch who is freaking out over the way other men act.
That is called being a bitch, no matter how you cut it. You just dont like that I pointed it out, and now your acting passive aggressive like the bitch you are, because I hurt your feelings.
Oh and FYI, all the people talking about how "alpha" they are, arent. Alphas dont fee the need to show of NOR do they talk about how alpha they are. Trying to tell others your alpha, is the 1st proof your not, because it shows that your concerned with how other men percieve you.
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I've been told I'm difficult.... :-\
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I've been told I'm difficult.... :-\
Misunderstood.
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Misunderstood.
Exactly....all the great ones like us are... 8)
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I've been told I'm difficult.... :-\
You are it's not the end of the world deal with it. I'm annoying yet I still manage.
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Oh and FYI, all the people talking about how "alpha" they are, arent. Alphas dont fee the need to show of NOR do they talk about how alpha they are. Trying to tell others your alpha, is the 1st proof your not, because it shows that your concerned with how other men percieve you.
So basically alpha's suffer from emotional autism in your opinion lol great one you really are in dept.
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So basically alpha's suffer from emotional autism in your opinion lol great one you really are in dept.
Wow. Just wow. Its no wonder no one can stand being around you, youre a fucking idiot. Youre a pussy, youre intimidated by other men, and you have serious issues. And youre on here bitching about alphas. Figure out whats wrong with your life, and change it.
BTW, way to say you have no problem getting girls, then in the next post, say you dont get pussy very often, and you talk bout how people cant stand to be around you. Ever think it might not be your OCD, but it just might be you? Your personality? Cause from here, it looks like your just a bitch with no self esteem and no confidence.
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Wow. Just wow. Its no wonder no one can stand being around you, youre a fucking idiot. Youre a pussy, youre intimidated by other men, and you have serious issues. And youre on here bitching about alphas. Figure out whats wrong with your life, and change it.
BTW, way to say you have no problem getting girls, then in the next post, say you dont get pussy very often, and you talk bout how people cant stand to be around you. Ever think it might not be your OCD, but it just might be you? Your personality? Cause from here, it looks like your just a bitch with no self esteem and no confidence.
Haha. Meltdown.
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BTW, way to say you have no problem getting girls, then in the next post, say you dont get pussy very often, and you talk bout how people cant stand to be around you. Ever think it might not be your OCD, but it just might be you? Your personality? Cause from here, it looks like your just a bitch with no self esteem and no confidence.
Nah I can get a girl I just can't keep her, as I'm obsessive and will find some way to piss her off. I'm good in small doses I can hide my crazy it's just once you get to know how OCD I am you kinda wanna kill my ass. Sure I fall into the trap of being annoying because, I believe I'm annoying but whatever this ain't about me crazy.
Anyhow for a guy that don't care about what other men think you seem very concerned that I don't consider you to fall under the category of an alpha.
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Haha. Meltdown.
I know. Ive never had someone get under my skin like this guy. :-\
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I know. Ive never had someone get under my skin like this guy. :-\
Remeber you dont' care what other men think. Your just faltering a little because I've destoyed the word alpha to mean absolutely nothing.
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I know. Ive never had someone get under my skin like this guy. :-\
It's just a message board bro.
Breathe in. Breathe out.
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Nah I can get a girl I just can't keep her, as I'm obsessive and will find some way to piss her off. I'm good in small doses I can hide my crazy it's just once you get to know how OCD I am you kinda wanna kill my ass. Sure I fall into the trap of being annoying because, I believe I'm annoying but whatever this ain't about me crazy.
Anyhow for a guy that don't care about what other men think you seem very concerned that I don't consider you to fall under the category of an alpha.
WTF? You still going on about that? No where did I ever EVER claim to be an alpha, nor did I say anything about how I am. If your definition of Alpha is a rude, manipulative, pig, then Im glad you dont put me in that category. This has nothing to do with me, no matter how much you try and turn this around, I was just destroying your retarded belief on what alpha males are. Especially when its so clear that you have such deep seated issues with what you deem as an "alpha". ::)
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Remeber you dont' care what other men think. Your just faltering a little because I've destoyed the word alpha to mean absolutely nothing.
Lol. I dont give a shit what you classify me as dumbass, but the fact that you try to act so fucking liberal and non-judgemental, then you come on here and try and say alphas are manipulative and women hoarding is rediculous. Youre stereotyping just like all the people you bitch about.
To top it off, your whole defense is trying to say that im mad that you dont classify me as an alpha, when I never claimed I was, never wanted to be, and never started a thread about bitching about how other men hoard women. ::) Epic fail on your part. Your like that kid in school that has no idea what their talking about, but you just keep going because you dont like whatever youre arguing about but cant explain why. ::)
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I'm one of the nice guys here and if you have a problem with that I'll kick you in the nuts >:(
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i try to be nice but if i have to own somebody, i won't hesitate
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First off I don't care what other people think of me I'm pretty open about my lack of self esteem. However that don't make me an alpha, just disinterested in social shit as it's not benefiting me at the moment.I use to be insecure and shit but in the last year I've matured 23 and come to terms with myself just trying to figure out at the moment how to fix my obsessive nature. Anyhow I think alpha's are like being rich great to be shitty to support. I love arnie think he's great just wouldn't wanna be the guy supporting him.
And remember alpha's a social definition so it would automatically include a social context. I think what your a adressing would be the real man Ideal, little self concern with his own personal appearance, or what others think of him. You'll find this was the norm with men past 30 back in the day had nothing to do with their role in the group.
I'm a strong beliver the contrast between a nice guy like xerses and a guy like groink is that imtimadation, and manipulation are not in his tool kit. Remeber this was a word taken from the animal kingdom to define men who took the role of alpha animals, and not some sort of philosophical ideal. Point is alpha males are the type of guys that gets what he wants,(logic would imply someone loses.) focus of attention (by taking it away from others), terriotorial, and gets the women again(less pussy to go around, as unless your poping women out of thin air someone ain't getting laid.
Remember I don't think these guys are bad quite the opposite it's part of a healthy soceity and they only do it because women embrace it. Again there nothing wrong with being a nice guy. There costs and perks either way you can't have it all. (basic relization of men that your ego can't consume all happens around 25 for mostmen.)
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First off I don't care what other people think of me I'm pretty open about my lack of self esteem. However that don't make me an alpha, just disinterested in social shit as it's not benefiting me at the moment.I use to be insecure and shit but in the last year I've matured 23 and come to terms with myself just trying to figure out at the moment how to fix my obsessive nature. Anyhow I think alpha's are like being rich great to be shitty to support. I love arnie think he's great just wouldn't wanna be the guy supporting him.
And remember alpha's a social definition so it would automatically include a social context. I think what your a adressing would be the real man Ideal, little self concern with his own personal appearance, or what others think of him. You'll find this was the norm with men past 30 back in the day had nothing to do with their role in the group.
I'm a strong beliver the contrast between a nice guy like xerses and a guy like groink is that imtimadation, and manipulation are not in his tool kit. Remeber this was a word taken from the animal kingdom to define men who took the role of alpha animals, and not some sort of philosophical ideal. Point is alpha males are the type of guys that gets what he wants,(logic would imply someone loses.) focus of attention (by taking it away from others), terriotorial, and gets the women again(less pussy to go around, as unless your poping women out of thin air someone ain't getting laid.
Remember I don't think these guys are bad quite the opposite it's part of a healthy soceity and they only do it because women embrace it. Again there nothing wrong with being a nice guy. There costs and perks either way you can't have it all. (basic relization of men that your ego can't consume all happens around 25 for mostmen.)
The point is, youre trying to say that being an alpha=/=being a nice guy. Thats bullshit. There is plenty of alphas that are nice guys. That is why your thread is retarded, that is why ive been such an ass.
Because you constantly try and put yourself out there like this liberal left wing equality bullshit, but then youre on here saying trying to say that alphas cannot be nice guys. The definition of alpha male is simply the dominant one. Youre equating being dominant with being an asshole. That simply isnt the truth. Sure, some use intimidation and manipulation to get their ways, but others use other ways to get to the same end result.
This thread reads like someone who has deep issues with what he (you) consider alphas, and that they intimidate and bully you.
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I am amused at me being presented as the stereotypical "nice guy". :D
I think it has something to do with the light-saber pic..... ;D
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Butterbean is by far the nicest.
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The point is, youre trying to say that being an alpha=/=being a nice guy. Thats bullshit. There is plenty of alphas that are nice guys. That is why your thread is retarded, that is why ive been such an ass.
Because you constantly try and put yourself out there like this liberal left wing equality bullshit, but then youre on here saying trying to say that alphas cannot be nice guys. The definition of alpha male is simply the dominant one. Youre equating being dominant with being an asshole. That simply isnt the truth. Sure, some use intimidation and manipulation to get their ways, but others use other ways to get to the same end result.
This thread reads like someone who has deep issues with what he (you) consider alphas, and that they intimidate and bully you.
First off I ain't no liberal, if you think that you've obviously not reading most of my views(first to condem modern immigration etc).
Regardless it's your view point versus mine bullshit
read the post that got me started the nice guys finished last comment. That was a response to that question. I think you should stick to the real man theory Alpha by most people's defintions has asshole as a component.Or you've just removed the word so far from the biological term that it's become meaningless. And of course you don't have to be an asshole or manipulate, however outside of your ideals that is often what ends up happening.
http://www.subliminal-messaging.com/alpha-male-traits/
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Butterbean is by far the nicest.
QFT
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rumor has it that your mom is a nice guy
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First off I ain't a nice guy syndrome. I'm hostile controlling dick who can't play nice because I' was instilled a sense of distrust from people due to my years of abuse I recieved from bullies.
Second I guess that's a valid point only took 55 post for something counter to what I'm saying.
I donno I don't think it means your automatically someone bitch that links pushes it in the opposite direction I'm pushing alpha. Into a context where it's a good thing.
Maybe I mean good guy in the sense that he won't break the rules nor we he hurt others?
ALRIGHT XERSES YOUR AN ALL ROUND GOOD GUY, BUT YOUR NOT NICE OK :)
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First off I ain't a nice guy syndrome. I'm hostile controlling dick who can't play nice because I' was instilled a sense of distrust from people due to my years of abuse I recieved from bullies.
Second I guess that's a valid point only took 55 post for something counter to what I'm saying.
I donno I don't think it means your automatically someone bitch that links pushes it in the opposite direction I'm pushing alpha. Into a context where it's a good thing.
Maybe I mean good guy in the sense that he won't break the rules nor we he hurt others?
ALRIGHT XERSES YOUR AN ALL ROUND GOOD GUY, BUT YOUR NOT NICE OK :)
have you sought therapy? Because Getbig is not the place to work out your problems or exorcise your demons...it will make it worse...and you've gotten progressively worse.
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First off I ain't a nice guy syndrome. I'm hostile controlling dick who can't play nice because I' was instilled a sense of distrust from people due to my years of abuse I recieved from bullies.
Second I guess that's a valid point only took 55 post for something counter to what I'm saying.
I donno I don't think it means your automatically someone bitch that links pushes it in the opposite direction I'm pushing alpha. Into a context where it's a good thing.
Maybe I mean good guy in the sense that he won't break the rules nor we he hurt others?
ALRIGHT XERSES YOUR AN ALL ROUND GOOD GUY, BUT YOUR NOT NICE OK :)
Just from reading your posts, its clear your one of those passive aggressive people that despises the kind of man that does what he wants, and gets women because he feels those are the kind of men that bullied him in school, and that he feels a severe resentment towards "alphas", much due to the fact that the embody everything he wishes he could be. Not to mention the fact that youre so frustrated that you dont/cant stand up for yourself that you have to come on here and bitch about those people. Thats what your posts read like.
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Just from reading your posts, its clear your one of those passive aggressive people that despises the kind of man that does what he wants, and gets women because he feels those are the kind of men that bullied him in school, and that he feels a severe resentment towards "alphas", much due to the fact that the embody everything he wishes he could be. Not to mention the fact that youre so frustrated that you dont/cant stand up for yourself that you have to come on here and bitch about those people. Thats what your posts read like.
Close but I don't blame other's so much, I think the conditions of the modern school are a problem but not people. Were animals social animals roles have existed for millions of years read some anthro you might like it.
and yes I should get therapy, however It's hard to goto a shrink when you don't trust his opinion.
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Close but I don't blame other's so much, I think the conditions of the modern school are a problem but not people. Were animals social animals roles have existed for millions of years read some anthro you might like it.
and yes I should get therapy, however It's hard to goto a shrink when you don't trust his opinion.
All therapists do is try to make you get honest with yourself, and realize why the REAL reason you act the way you do. Sounds like youre just making up reasons why not to get help. You have to want to change before you can. You have to go find a shrink you can trust. Just reading your posts, there is a laundry list of signs and signals of serious issues. Justifying, explaining, generalizing, blaming, etc.
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All therapists do is try to make you get honest with yourself, and realize why the REAL reason you act the way you do. Sounds like youre just making up reasons why not to get help. You have to want to change before you can. You have to go find a shrink you can trust. Just reading your posts, there is a laundry list of signs and signals of serious issues. Justifying, explaining, generalizing, blaming, etc.
Not blaming explaining, and I over analysis everything. It's my problem I've gone to a shrink about my shit got it mostly figured out it's just about ending the cycle of negativety has disturbia has put it.
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Close but I don't blame other's so much, I think the conditions of the modern school are a problem but not people. Were animals social animals roles have existed for millions of years read some anthro you might like it.
and yes I should get therapy, however It's hard to goto a shrink when you don't trust his opinion.
Well, make sure the therapist is tall then...stop making excuses. So you wouldn't go to a therapist for a private one on one session, but you'd rather post on here? Is it the Anominity? It seems that certain people like to seek refuge on message boards (like Squad), because it allows one to escape their reality...but, it only makes it worse. Make a list of what you want or can change about yourself and do it. And don't use the excuse of being a Dyslexic, Obssession Compulsive, Depression laden man. The more you are on here, the more excuses you come up with. Because on Getbig, it will only get worse, people are handling you with kid gloves now.
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Well, make sure the therapist is tall then...stop making excuses. So you wouldn't go to a therapist for a private one on one session, but you'd rather post on here? Is it the Anominity? It seems that certain people like to seek refuge on message boards (like Squad), because it allows one to escape their reality...but, it only makes it worse. Make a list of what you want or can change about yourself and do it. And don't use the excuse of being a Dyslexic, Obssession Compulsive, Depression laden man. The more you are on here, the more excuses you come up with. Because on Getbig, it will only get worse, people are handling you with kid gloves now.
Dyslexia don't effect me in the least I don't care about what you fucks think I argue about it because I like to argue.
I ain't hiding behind my OCD I'm working with it. It's not something you fix overnight, and there's no real cure, it's just learning healthy patterns of behaviour to replace your old ones.
Regardless I don't think I'm getting worst on here I think it's helping a bit. I've learned to be more tolerate of people in a context that can't be done in real life.
I've started going out and shit more in the last month, getting myself back together, however I'm a student so this site is one of the few things I can do while doing school work .
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Dyslexia don't effect me in the least I don't care about what you fucks think I argue about it because I like to argue.
I ain't hiding behind my OCD I'm working with it. It's not something you fix overnight, and there's no real cure, it's just learning healthy patterns of behaviour to replace your old ones.
Regardless I don't think I'm getting worst on here I think it's helping a bit. I've learned to be more tolerate of people in a context that can't be done in real life.
I've started going out and shit more in the last month, getting myself back together, however I'm a student so this site is one of the few things I can do while doing school work .
You see Lundgren, that's why people fuck with you. You exhibited the "triggering behavior" that I talked about in the bully thread. People will try and help you, or leave you alone, and you say some off the wall passive-aggressive shit. And then feign wonder at what you did and play the victim. You are using this subconciously as a attention getter. Any attention, whether negative or positive is good to you. This is where Getbig has done you good, because you get the attention that you are missing IRL.
Actually, I think you are not a bad person, you just have some issues that are better off dealt offline.
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Dyslexia don't effect me in the least I don't care about what you fucks think I argue about it because I like to argue.
I ain't hiding behind my OCD I'm working with it. It's not something you fix overnight, and there's no real cure, it's just learning healthy patterns of behaviour to replace your old ones.
Regardless I don't think I'm getting worst on here I think it's helping a bit. I've learned to be more tolerate of people in a context that can't be done in real life.
I've started going out and shit more in the last month, getting myself back together, however I'm a student so this site is one of the few things I can do while doing school work .
You are in so much denial its not even funny. You make up excuses left and right, justify, explain, etc.
Like Parker says, quit making excuses and fucking change something.
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You see Lundgren, that's why people fuck with you. You exhibited the "triggering behavior" that I talked about in the bully thread. People will try and help you, or leave you alone, and you say some off the wall passive-aggressive shit. And then feign wonder at what you did and play the victim. You are using this subconciously as a attention getter. Any attention, whether negative or positive is good to you. This is where Getbig has done you good, because you get the attention that you are missing IRL.
Actually, I think you are not a bad person, you just have some issues that are better off dealt offline.
He reminds me exactly of this chick I know, difference is she was gang raped and molested by her step dad. Lol.
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You see Lundgren, that's why people fuck with you. You exhibited the "triggering behavior" that I talked about in the bully thread. People will try and help you, or leave you alone, and you say some off the wall passive-aggressive shit. And then feign wonder at what you did and play the victim. You are using this subconciously as a attention getter. Any attention, whether negative or positive is good to you. This is where Getbig has done you good, because you get the attention that you are missing IRL.
Actually, I think you are not a bad person, you just have some issues that are better off dealt offline.
I know what your saying but it's only half true. I deal with it offline, but there' s limits.
What exactly do you mean by this triggering behaviour and pasive agressive shit. I mean fully aware I got "vet mode" when I feel like I'm being corned but I'm getting past this in real life. This sites helps grealty in that aspect. Also I admit I feed for attention everyone does. but I wouldn't go into public just to get my fill.
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I know what your saying but it's only half true. I deal with it offline, but there' s limits.
What exactly do you mean by this triggering behaviour and pasive agressive shit. I mean fully aware I got "vet mode" when I feel like I'm being corned but I'm getting past this in real life. This sites helps grealty in that aspect. Also I admit I feed for attention everyone does. but I wouldn't go into public just to get my fill.
When I say triggering behavior, it's a behavior that the "victim" does to gain the attention of the bully. It's as if the victim needs validation of their situation, attention. when someone offers you advice, in a non threatening way, and then you say, "I could give a fuck...", you've just triggered the other person to hammer at you, and then you feign why...when subconsciously, you knew why, because it was the reaction you wanted. Attention. People who are engrossed in the cycle of victimhood often seek situations where they can garner pity, attention or sympathy. They don't see that their livelyhood hinges on the attention that they recieve from being a victim. This attention then becomes addictive, and they only know one way to get it...
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When I say triggering behavior, it's a behavior that the "victim" does to gain the attention of the bully. It's as if the victim needs validation of their situation, attention. when someone offers you advice, in a non threatening way, and then you say, "I could give a fuck...", you've just triggered the other person to hammer at you, and then you feign why...when subconsciously, you knew why, because it was the reaction you wanted. Attention. People who are engrossed in the cycle of victimhood often seek situations where they can garner pity, attention or sympathy. They don't see that their livelyhood hinges on the attention that they recieve from being a victim. This attention then becomes addictive, and they only know one way to get it...
To be honest I don't get alot of attention in real life. So that might not entirely be true I get what your saying though it's close to were I come from.
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You should ask uberman for a better analysis, Parker is too nice.
Say what your saying don't be like that
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This thread needs more pictures of tits.
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I kiiid, I kiiiid :D.
I am just a troll bro, nothing more.
say what your thinking my freudian sense are tingling.
And for the record parker do you understand ocd at all?
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say what your thinking my freudian sense are tingling.
And for the record parker do you understand ocd at all?
Yes, I understand OCD, I had dated a girl with it... Blew my mind...always cleaning, everything had to be clean, spotless. And she had to do it a certain # of times.
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Butterbean is by far the nicest.
QFT
That was close. I was just getting ready to rip TrueGrit a new one for not including me in his list >:(
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I am really sadden that I am not on this list. I am changing my ways. I love you all
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Yes, I understand OCD, I had dated a girl with it... Blew my mind...always cleaning, everything had to be clean, spotless. And she had to do it a certain # of times.
Well I'm more of broader forum of it Obsessive complusive personality disorder, it's less physical and more internal.
I.E. it's no so much my need for attention as my unrealistic expectation that people will see the world the way I do. So when someone attacks me based on the way I type or something like that I'm unable to relate. I still have frustration over how people don't react the way I would but I don't think it's an internal cry for attention.
Just the same my obsessive need to post ever fifteen minutes has only started since school semester started obviously I'm just shifting my school stress but that's the nature of OCD. and no this ain't me trying to cover my ego, it's my obsessive need to over think shit and go far to far than what is normal.
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Well I'm more of broader forum of it Obsessive complusive personality disorder, it's less physical and more internal.
I.E. it's no so much my need for attention as my unrealistic expectation that people will see the world the way I do. So when someone attacks me based on the way I type or something like that I'm unable to relate. I still have frustration over how people don't react the way I would but I don't think it's an internal cry for attention.
Just the same my obsessive need to post ever fifteen minutes has only started since school semester started obviously I'm just shifting my school stress but that's the nature of OCD. and no this ain't me trying to cover my ego, it's my obsessive need to over think shit and go far to far than what is normal.
Bullshit. This whole thread is you trying to cover your ego by trying to justify why you think its ok not to be an "alpha" male. And everything else youve been typing is you trying to explain/justify/manipulate to keep your ego from seeing whats really going on and being honest with yourself. Weather or not you like what I say or how I say it, its truth. You can either accept it and try and change, or you can keep making excuses/justifications/etc and stay the same miserable bastard. Up to you.
FYI, I speak from experience.
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Bullshit. This whole thread is you trying to cover your ego by trying to justify why you think its ok not to be an "alpha" male. And everything else youve been typing is you trying to explain/justify/manipulate to keep your ego from seeing whats really going on and being honest with yourself. Weather or not you like what I say or how I say it, its truth. You can either accept it and try and change, or you can keep making excuses/justifications/etc and stay the same miserable bastard. Up to you.
FYI, I speak from experience.
That's a bit of a stretch I've learned to not get overly caught up in that type of thing about alpha's and me. Your own projections are coming into play. Being an alpha ain't on the radar at the moment. Not an issue for me. I'm trying much harder to be a nice person, and less of a douche(IRL not here this is my sand box).
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That's a bit of a stretch I've learned to not get overly caught up in that type of thing about alpha's and me. Your own projections are coming into play. Being an alpha ain't on the radar at the moment. Not an issue for me. I'm trying much harder to be a nice person, and less of a douche(IRL not here this is my sand box).
This has nothing to do with me. This has to do with how youre refusing to be honest with yourself. There you go, making excuses again. Youve already admitted in this thread all of that, you just cant admit it to yourself cause it will hurt your ego. But youve already shown that to all of us. But trust mewhen I say this, you look like a moron with all your backtracking,admitting things, then being in denial and shifting and explaining and justifying why it doesnt pertain to you.
The big show off, was the first post where you were trying to justify why you SHOULDNT be an alpha, and you tried to explain to everyone else why you didnt want to be like those people, and you included the whole hoarding women thing. That doesnt say shit about your opinion on alphas, it tells us everything about YOU and how you resent those people and how youre scared to compete with them, and how they intimidate you. But youre twisting the definition of alpha to fit your reasoning on why you dont like those people. Like you said, you dont like it when people dont look at the world the same you do, and in this case, youre flat out WRONG, and youre just trying to justify why you shouldnt be a MAN.
Maybe one day you can be honest with yourself and realize all the resenments that you have, but until you do, your just gonna be the same arrogant asshole that you are now.
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I've been pretty consistant and open, no lies and stand by what I said, if you think there's some contradiction, then I think your misinterpeting what I said.
I got things I'm bad at, like hostility but that's not my anger at alpha's just at humanity in general, has more to do with my past then my current outlook.
I don't think of it in terms of alpha vs me. I hate everyone equally for the record we'd all be alpha in the right condition, I don't really got a lot of patients for right and wrong.
Whatever works works. However there's a lot of merit to being a "good" guy that often get over looked. Far more pleasant to be around than most alpha(yes there are exceptions for alpha, but it's not the norm, unless you think people are a whole lot prettier than they actually are.
I do understand that I look bad saying the truth about my personal shit, but whatever this ain't real life, I stand by what I said about alpha's etc.
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I've been pretty consistant and open, no lies and stand by what I said, if you think there's some contradiction, then I think your misinterpeting what I said.
I got things I'm bad at, like hostility but that's not my anger at alpha's just at humanity in general, has more to do with my past then my current outlook.
I don't think of it in terms of alpha vs me. I hate everyone equally for the record we'd all be alpha in the right condition, I don't really got a lot of patients for right and wrong.
Whatever works works. However there's a lot of merit to being a "good" guy that often get over looked. Far more pleasant to be around than most alpha(yes there are exceptions for alpha, but it's not the norm, unless you think people are a whole lot prettier than they actually are.
I do understand that I look bad saying the truth about my personal shit, but whatever this ain't real life, I stand by what I said about alpha's etc.
Bam. More clear cut, indisputable evidence of your feeling resentment towards what you call "alphas". You resent that youre what you think a "Nice guy" should be, but that you dont get the respect, or the women, that "alphas" do. It pisses you off, because you see them as assholes. But I know your just going to give me some other lame BS excuse why im way off the mark.
Alright, clearly you are incapable of seeing the denial your spitting out. So like Parker told me to do, Im going to bow out, cause you dont get it. (You ego wont let you get it).
Here, read this. This is you.
You have listened to her complain about the jerk who treated her badly countless times only to watch her go out with him again and again. All of your selfless acts fall to the wayside only to hear about her mistreatment the following week.
You are left in pit of despair and confusing as the mantra “nice guy’s finish last” repeats in your head. “When will she wake up? When will she realize that there is a nice guy who will treat her the way she deserves to be treated sitting right here?”
She will never realize this because you aren’t in fact a nice guy. Appearances can be deceiving and the “nice guy” act is one of the biggest deceptions around.
On the surface nice guys appear to be selfless, kind, caring human beings but this is far from the truth. Beneath their generous acts and humble words lurks something darker. A dark side few nice guys care to admit because nice guys aren’t really that nice.
Here is a paraphrase from the book “No More Mr. Nice Guy”
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Nice Guys avoid conflict.
Nice guys have difficulty making their needs a priority.
Nice Guys lack conviction in their opinions or beliefs. Typically they will wait and see what the popular opinion is before taking a stand. If a rift happens in the group they will wait to see who is winning before taking a side.
Nice Guys lack loyalty. They develop a chameleon like type of behavior when interacting with others. If one member of a group doesn’t like another the nice guy will take on the belief of whoever they around. One day they will talk badly of one member and the next they will reverse their opinion.
Nice Guys are dishonest. They hide their mistakes and say what they think people want to hear. They will say pretty much anything to gain the approval of others.
Nice Guys are secretive. They are so driven to seek approval that they will hide anything they believe might upset anyone.
Nice Guys are manipulative. They have a hard time making their needs a priority and have difficulty asking for what they want clearly, so they feel powerless and result to manipulation.
Nice Guys are controlling in order to keep their world smooth.
Nice Guys give to get and expect some kind of reciprocation.
Nice Guys are passive-aggressive.
Nice Guys are full of rage, a rage which tends to erupt at some of the most unexpected and seemingly inappropriate times.
Nice Guys have difficulty setting boundaries, and instead feel like victims.
Nice Guys are attracted to people and situations that need fixing.
Nice Guys are terrible listeners because they are too busy trying to figure out how to defend themselves or fix the other person’s problem.
Nice Guys form relationships with partners who are “projects” or “diamonds in the rough.”
And Nice Guys tend to swing back and forth between the nice side and the dark side.
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Elite Alpha's hoard women and use up resources. Ala' Stallone and Arnold.
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Elite Alpha's hoard women and use up resources. Ala' Stallone and Arnold.
Hahaha when I read that, I seriously almost spit mountain dew out my nose laughing.
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Hahaha when I read that, I seriously almost spit mountain dew out my nose laughing.
I wasn't talking about the overly nice pussy type I even restated at a later point that I meant good guy when parker brought up the issue.
I've stated I got hotility issues and OCD. Stop looking in to shit, it's out in the open.
If you look at the bilogical term from which alpha comes from the point is to gain control and get more resources, this is where the theory that to women they are more attractive, despite being seen as assholes by the rest of the group. I stand by what I said.
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I wasn't talking about the overly nice pussy type I even restated at a later point that I meant good guy when parker brought up the issue.
I've stated I got hotility issues and OCD. Stop looking in to shit, it's out in the open.
If you look at the bilogical term from which alpha comes from the point is to gain control and get more resources, this is where the theory that to women they are more attractive, despite being seen as assholes by the rest of the group. I stand by what I said.
Nobodies looking into anything dumbass. Youre the one that put it out there for everyone to see, its obvious from the way you try and describe them that you have issues with them, starting a thread bitching and asking who the other guys that YOU think are nice guys, if you cant grasp this there is no hope for you. Its not like Im the only one saying this, Parker and others have seen the same thing. When are you going to cut the shit and be honest with yourself, cause you sound like a total jackass.
Nice Guys are terrible listeners because they are too busy trying to figure out how to defend themselves or fix the other person’s problem.
This is you in this whole thread.Youre not listening to anyone tryoing to help you, your just interested in how to shift blame or explain it away or deny it. ::)
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Did you even read this? Cause this is why the people you dont like (alphas) get women, and your home by yourself and people dont want to be around you.
I know not all of this is you, but a bit of it is, your beliefs are obvious, dont try and deny it and shift. Just read it, be honest with yourself and identify WHY youre beliefs on "nice guys" and "alphas" are dead wrong and based on your bad experiences.
You have listened to her complain about the jerk who treated her badly countless times only to watch her go out with him again and again. All of your selfless acts fall to the wayside only to hear about her mistreatment the following week.
You are left in pit of despair and confusing as the mantra “nice guy’s finish last” repeats in your head. “When will she wake up? When will she realize that there is a nice guy who will treat her the way she deserves to be treated sitting right here?”
She will never realize this because you aren’t in fact a nice guy. Appearances can be deceiving and the “nice guy” act is one of the biggest deceptions around.
On the surface nice guys appear to be selfless, kind, caring human beings but this is far from the truth. Beneath their generous acts and humble words lurks something darker. A dark side few nice guys care to admit because nice guys aren’t really that nice.
Here is a paraphrase from the book “No More Mr. Nice Guy”
” :
Nice Guys avoid conflict.
Nice guys have difficulty making their needs a priority.
Nice Guys lack conviction in their opinions or beliefs. Typically they will wait and see what the popular opinion is before taking a stand. If a rift happens in the group they will wait to see who is winning before taking a side.
Nice Guys lack loyalty. They develop a chameleon like type of behavior when interacting with others. If one member of a group doesn’t like another the nice guy will take on the belief of whoever they around. One day they will talk badly of one member and the next they will reverse their opinion.
Nice Guys are dishonest. They hide their mistakes and say what they think people want to hear. They will say pretty much anything to gain the approval of others.
Nice Guys are secretive. They are so driven to seek approval that they will hide anything they believe might upset anyone.
Nice Guys are manipulative. They have a hard time making their needs a priority and have difficulty asking for what they want clearly, so they feel powerless and result to manipulation.
Nice Guys are controlling in order to keep their world smooth.
Nice Guys give to get and expect some kind of reciprocation.
Nice Guys are passive-aggressive.
Nice Guys are full of rage, a rage which tends to erupt at some of the most unexpected and seemingly inappropriate times.
Nice Guys have difficulty setting boundaries, and instead feel like victims.
Nice Guys are attracted to people and situations that need fixing.
Nice Guys are terrible listeners because they are too busy trying to figure out how to defend themselves or fix the other person’s problem.
Nice Guys form relationships with partners who are “projects” or “diamonds in the rough.”
And Nice Guys tend to swing back and forth between the nice side and the dark side.
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Nice Guys are dishonest. They hide their mistakes and say what they think people want to hear. They will say pretty much anything to gain the approval of others.
Nice Guys are manipulative. They have a hard time making their needs a priority and have difficulty asking for what they want clearly, so they feel powerless and result to manipulation.
Nice Guys are controlling in order to keep their world smooth.
Nice Guys give to get and expect some kind of reciprocation.
Nice Guys are passive-aggressive.
Nice Guys are full of rage, a rage which tends to erupt at some of the most unexpected and seemingly inappropriate times.
Nice Guys have difficulty setting boundaries, and instead feel like victims.
Nice Guys are terrible listeners because they are too busy trying to figure out how to defend themselves or fix the other person’s problem.
And Nice Guys tend to swing back and forth between the nice side and the dark side.
The rest can be apllied to anyone and is just a bunch of BS
This shit that applies to me is in bold.\ The controlling nature is ocd pretty much the defition, the anger shit I'm open about the other two, well the passive agressive shit again goes back to my hostilty issues.
The victim thing is the tricky one I ain't gonna pretend to be cool with being fucked up, it sucks dick, but I don't think I'm the only one.
And in the bullying case I would be a clear cut victim, that was my point, and as was said in that thread it wasn't alpha's that every fucked with me, it was little insecure bitch's women etc, probally why I see alpha's in a neutral light. The Idea I have some vendetta is laughable.
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Not that this thread was ever gonna be a classic but you two have managed to take a giant shit all over it.
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Not that this thread was ever gonna be a classic but you two have managed to take a giant shit all over it.
;D
Sociology fascinates me. Plus after going through what I did with my addiction, I like taking and using what happened to me and what I learned on others. Its amazing to see how it looks from the other side of the wall.
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Nobodies looking into anything dumbass. Youre the one that put it out there for everyone to see, its obvious from the way you try and describe them that you have issues with them, starting a thread bitching and asking who the other guys that YOU think are nice guys, if you cant grasp this there is no hope for you. Its not like Im the only one saying this, Parker and others have seen the same thing. When are you going to cut the shit and be honest with yourself, cause you sound like a total jackass.
This is you in this whole thread.Youre not listening to anyone tryoing to help you, your just interested in how to shift blame or explain it away or deny it. ::)
First off because I admit to my personal shit and it got mixed into the thread don't change the original point of this thread, parker asked questions and shit and I answered. You weren't a significant part of the situation and even parkers shit was only somewhat right(he's missing the large ocd part of the picture)
Dude I love arnold and lundgren do that mean I have some hatred for them fuck no. It means I don't wanna be under them don't mean I don't appreciate there view point. This is what you don't understand.
Maybe this is the Obsessive nature of my brain, but I don't connect myself to shit, as directly as you think, when there is a connection I'm pretty open about it. I try hard to avoid lieing.
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First off because I admit to my personal shit and it got mixed into the thread don't change the original point of this thread, parker asked questions and shit and I answered. You weren't a significant part of the situation and even parkers shit was only somewhat right(he's missing the large ocd part of the picture)
Dude I love arnold and lundgren do that mean I have some hatred for them fuck no. It means I don't wanna be under them don't mean I don't appreciate there view point. This is what you don't understand.
Maybe this is the Obsessive nature of my brain, but I don't connect myself to shit, as directly as you think, when there is a connection I'm pretty open about it. I try hard to avoid lieing.
No dumbass. You dont even know what you were arguing about. I responded when I saw this. But no, this has NOTHING to do with your viewpoints.
Yeah but alpha suck and nobody really likes them we all pretend to wanna be em, but there usually selfish pricks who rarely contribute.
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What excuse are you going to try and use now? Im waiting.
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What a fucking retarded thread.
LOL!
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Alpha drain resources horde women etc, the whole point is to be as selfish as possible, but this is a futher extension of what women what, they want someone super selfish, they can milk for their own selfish desire.
From the "recovering from nice guy syndrome" site.
Nice Guys hold contempt for women.
Whats your excuse gonna be for that one?
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No dumbass. You dont even know what you were arguing about. I responded when I saw this. But no, this has NOTHING to do with your viewpoints. ::) ::) ::)
What excuse are you going to try and use now? Im waiting.
if I told you a Corvette sucked would you expect me to have some deep hatred of them, no I just think alphas are overrated. Don't look to deep into it. The tone of this thread wasn't too serious, you made it so, and yes I've argued the whole way as I enjoy making a point clearer, I still have a genuine interest in the question of the difference between alpha's good guys(not nice guys) but you guys still seems to make it all about my deep subconcious desires that I'm hiding despite that i was even open about my personal shit.
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From the "recovering from nice guy syndrome" site.Whats your excuse gonna be for that one?
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dude most of the form holds contempt for women one way or another, I'm not a fan of certain types of chicks but I have more than eager love of the kind I do like.
Again your making my opinion some deep shit in reality, I believe were all selfish contrast the difference from a good guy and alpha is that good guys see more for self if they stick to a rules of good conduct and alpha stick to rules of self conduct,
and everyone has rules and value systems, just is more common with ocd types please stop with the wannabe freud shit.
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Excuses, excuses, excuses, justification, explanation,etc. And fuck your OCD, youre just hiding behind it as another defense. I think if you really knew how you were, you would hate yourself, and your ego cant handle it.
No, you just cant accept reality. Like I said, its not like im the only one that sees it. Youre just in so much denial its rediculous. But fuck it, I dont know why I keep trying to show you how you really look to people, its not like youre my friend or anything.
Heres a PM I got.
Don't argue with Lungresisgod, because you said it best, he is a bitch that tries to justify not being "alpha". He has issues with short people because they used to bully him...ya, I know, it's like Gargamel being afraid of the smurfs. It got to the point where I have stopped spoon feeding him and just let him flounder. He read a few books, and is young, now he knows more than the board, and is trying to bend the term "alpha" to fit his reality tunnel, to make him feel better.
I made the mistake of going at it with lovemonkey in my own thread, taking off course from what the initial purpose was. Sometimes arguing for the sake of argument, means that the actually meaning is lost, and one can't see the forest for the trees.
So let Lungredisgod shoot himself in the foot, most people have called him stupid already in the thread, and others
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All Y boarders are nice guys. 8)
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Excuses, excuses, excuses, justification, explanation,etc. And fuck your OCD, youre just hiding behind it as another defense. I think if you really knew how you were, you would hate yourself, and your ego cant handle it.
No, you just cant accept reality. Like I said, its not like im the only one that sees it. Youre just in so much denial its rediculous. But fuck it, I dont know why I keep trying to show you how you really look to people, its not like youre my friend or anything.
Heres a PM I got.
Lol that's parkers some of shit I did hate short people when I was younger but that was before my liberal hippy days when I stopped caring about that shit. My ego did wanna bust his balls so I did go on the attack about his shortness(just like I've been attack for my lack of pics, but that's something else. I don't like short people in bodybuilding because I'm ocd the whole point is shit ain't good enough to my expectations, I.e. cutler too short not as perfect as a IFFB shuld be..
I'm ocd it means I love to sort analyze argue ect that's the whole fucking point. So don't act like I'm hiding behind the same part of my personality that your trying to attack. And none of you guys can't pretend to understand how I think if you don't understand how the shit plays out in everything I do.
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Lol that's parkers some of shit I did hate short people when I was younger but that was before my liberal hippy days when I stopped caring about that shit. My ego did wanna bust his balls so I did go on the attack about his shortness(just like I've been attack for my lack of pics, but that's something else. I don't like short people in bodybuilding because I'm ocd the whole point is shit ain't good enough to my expectations, I.e. cutler too short not as perfect as a IFFB shuld be..
I'm ocd it means I love to sort analyze argue ect that's the whole fucking point. So don't act like I'm hiding behind the same part of my personality that your trying to attack. And none of you guys can't pretend to understand how I think if you don't understand how the shit plays out in everything I do.
No. You cant be honest with yourself, and it causes you to stay the way you are and stay miserable. And yes, contrary to what you think, you can very easily understand why someone acts the way they do if they fuck up and give you some info, like you did in a whole bunch of your posts.
But whatever, keep making excuses, keep trying to tell yourself that were wrong, and thats not REALLY how you are, and that we dont know shit. Not like it makes a shit to us, your the one that has to live being miserable. Lol. Reality doesnt give a shit about your excuses.
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Are you guys gonna "dock" and make up ???
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No. You cant be honest with yourself, and it causes you to stay the way you are and stay miserable. And yes, contrary to what you think, you can very easily understand why someone acts the way they do if they fuck up and give you some info, like you did in a whole bunch of your posts.
But whatever, keep making excuses, keep trying to tell yourself that were wrong, and thats not REALLY how you are, and that we dont know shit. Not like it makes a shit to us, your the one that has to live being miserable. Lol. Reality doesnt give a shit about your excuses.
Your making connection that' aren't correct I'm not surprised why you would come to them but it's not true.
i hate short people a laugh all my friends are short, couldn't care less, I don't hate short people. I just don't wanna seem them on stage, no more than I want to watch the nfl being played by a bunch of midgets.
I don't hate or dislike alpha's. Your under the impressive that alpha's simple are self confident which I don't believe. As stallone and arnold are considered very much alpha and both are obviously extremely vain and insecure. Still think there cool, and I don't have some discomfort with insecurity.
Your making connections that would seem to make sense based on my past if you ignored the fact that' I"m ocd. I don't take confort in common viewpoint I.E. about about alphas because I dont think therre challenged. I challenged try to find another view point as I like to anazyze and still think I got a valid point and you havent swayed my opinion and you wont in this thread.
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Personally, I'm nice as hell...until it's time not to be nice... :)
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maybe some day i'll be mentioned on a thread
maybe....
gayer than setting the above goal in one's life
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maybe some day i'll be mentioned on a thread
maybe....
gayer than setting the above goal in one's life
Do you even post here anymore if you donèt post this fall Iainèt gonna notice.
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Do you even post here anymore if you donèt post this fall Iainèt gonna notice.
yes i post here lol
damn I know I'm forgettable but come on
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yes i post here lol
damn I know I'm forgettable but come on
Maybe your just not flashy enough or just a little boring Im sure I could get you some attenetion, if need be.
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Everyone who post on this thread is gay.
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Your making connection that' aren't correct I'm not surprised why you would come to them but it's not true.
i hate short people a laugh all my friends are short, couldn't care less, I don't hate short people. I just don't wanna seem them on stage, no more than I want to watch the nfl being played by a bunch of midgets.
I don't hate or dislike alpha's. Your under the impressive that alpha's simple are self confident which I don't believe. As stallone and arnold are considered very much alpha and both are obviously extremely vain and insecure. Still think there cool, and I don't have some discomfort with insecurity.
Your making connections that would seem to make sense based on my past if you ignored the fact that' I"m ocd. I don't take confort in common viewpoint I.E. about about alphas because I dont think therre challenged. I challenged try to find another view point as I like to anazyze and still think I got a valid point and you havent swayed my opinion and you wont in this thread.
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Whatever.Excuses, excuses, justify, justify, explain, explain, etc
Yeah but alpha suck and nobody really likes them we all pretend to wanna be em, but there usually selfish pricks who rarely contribute.
Yup. I totally just made up that connection.
Nice Guys tend to swing back and forth between the nice side and the dark side.
Nice Guys have difficulty setting boundaries, and instead feel like victims.
Nice Guys hide their mistakes and say what they think people want to hear. They will say pretty much anything to gain the approval of others.
Oh, and intellectualizing/analyzing is another defense people use to keep themselves from seeing how they really are. ::)
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Everyone who post on this thread is gay.
And you posted here.....sooooooooo..... ....
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Everyone who post on this thread is gay.
Epic self Outing.
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And you posted here.....sooooooooo..... ....
:D I know I know, outted.
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Epic self Outing.
You're a good man Chaos.
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I cant believe I keep replying... I should have just stopped when I told him he sounds like a bitch.
Everyone who post on this thread is gay.
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Whatever.Excuses, excuses, justify, justify, explain, explain, etcYup. I totally just made up that connection.
Oh, and intellectualizing/analyzing is another defense people use to keep themselves from seeing how they really are. ::)
All of what you stated is what ocd people due stop with the fucking bullshit.
And parker made the connection that I basically gave to him, and he had some insight but he got the majoirty of it wrong.
The only thing he stated that perked myinterst was the passive aggressive shit, and thats simply because I dont notice how much I say fuck or you assholes.
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You're a good man Chaos.
STFU. I got an image to uphold........
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I cant believe I keep replying... I should have just stopped when I told him he sounds like a bitch.
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Wouldnt of been so bad if you actually stuck to the arguement instead of going on some freud strip just to make yourself feel all deep.
I got OCD I argue with myself in my sleep so I nearly argue 24 hours a day. No lie.
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Wouldnt of been so bad if you actually stuck to the arguement instead of going on some freud strip just to make yourself feel all deep.
I got OCD I argue with myself in my sleep so I nearly argue 24 hours a day. No lie.
It's not arguing, it's debating.
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Burp!
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Burp!
Hey you wanna take this on. Whats your definition of an alpha.
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nothing gayer than asking what kind of man you are in the company of other men hahahahaha
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nothing gayer than asking what kind of man you are in the company of other men hahahahaha
Hahaahahaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!!
Indeed. that exchange was the largest display of faggotry ive seen here in a while
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Hahaahahaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!!
Indeed. that exchange was the largest display of faggotry ive seen here in a while
You certaintly are a nice guy ::)
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Hey you wanna take this on. Whats your definition of an alpha.
I would but I have to go watch SOA and eat a big bowl of butterfinger ice cream ;D
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You certaintly are a nice guy ::)
i'm very nice, i think most here would agree.....don't get all pissy cuz i call it like i see it
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All of what you stated is what ocd people due stop with the fucking bullshit.
And parker made the connection that I basically gave to him, and he had some insight but he got the majoirty of it wrong.
The only thing he stated that perked myinterst was the passive aggressive shit, and thats simply because I dont notice how much I say fuck or you assholes.
Hahaha! Excuses, excuses excuses. Yeah, its the OCD that makes you incapable of being honest with yourself. Its the OCD that makes you shift your excuses around. Its OCD that makes you change youre saying. Keep explaining it to yourself, whatever helps you sleep at night. Hahahahaha. Denial isnt a rive in egypt fucker. Hahahahaha!!!
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Hahaha! Excuses, excuses excuses. Yeah, its the OCD that makes you incapable of being honest with yourself. Its the OCD that makes you shift your excuses around. Its OCD that makes you change youre saying. Keep explaining it to yourself, whatever helps you sleep at night. Hahahahaha. Denial isnt a rive in egypt fucker. Hahahahaha!!!
Dude Im more open about my personally life than anyone here, your obsessed with trying to proove some pseudo pysch theory you got of me and it aint gonna happen.
You wont even talk about the issue, and your just prancing around with some notion you probally read in some bullshit chick magazine.
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i'm very nice, i think most here would agree.....don't get all pissy cuz i call it like i see it
Haha, didnt you see this gems?
Your everything he hates and is intimidated by cause you claim to be an alpha. lol.
Yup, I totally made up a connection here. hahaha.
the obvious alpha assholes are(parker, groink, etc
Alpha drain resources horde women etc, the whole point is to be as selfish as possible, but this is a futher extension of what women what, they want someone super selfish, they can milk for their own selfish desire
Yeah but alpha suck and nobody really likes them we all pretend to wanna be em, but there usually selfish pricks who rarely contribute.
It's about the leader controlling of the group, that's able to supply the most resources to the women, this is done through imtiadation and manipulation, as it's the entire point
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Haha, didnt you see this gems?
Your everything he hates and is intimidated by cause you claim to be an alpha. lol.
Yup, I totally made up a connection here. hahaha.
I saw them.......some people dont get it.......i post "I'm the fucking man" type shit when i'm bored and i feel like picking an E-fight to pass the time. works every time.
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Damn lundrenisgod is getting exposed ...
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i'm very nice, i think most here would agree.....don't get all pissy cuz i call it like i see it
Dude your 46 years old, and your whole ego and technique is about putting down others or apearing yourself to be better than everyone else. Just look at your sig and the point is blatant. But please make some its only a game shit or whateever rebutal your good at that its part of that manipulation shit I was talking about. But whatever.
Sure shift shit to me becasue I have hate alphas in my sig. whatever.
The fact that you cant admit that maybe your a dick or atleast were when you were younger just prooves the point that you cant take loss and only take.
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Dude your 46 years old, and your whole ego and technique is about putting down others or apearing yourself to be better than everyone else. Just look at your sig and the point is blatant. But please make some its only a game shit or whateever rebutal your good at that its part of that manipulation shit I was talking about. But whatever.
Sure shift shit to me becasue I have hate alphas in my sig. whatever.
The fact that you cant admit that maybe your a dick or atleast were when you were younger just prooves the point that you cant take loss and only take.
Dude your posts are becoming more incoherent than a G Thang meltdown. :-\
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Dude your posts are becoming more incoherent than a G Thang meltdown. :-\
Groink will never loose face I stand by what I said, hes become very adept at never loosing face just prooving hes manipulative I dont hate groink its just the obvious truth.
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I've met a few getbiggers in person and I can honestly say "Jaejonna" and "no one" are two very solid individuals!!
They may kick the shit out of some of you guys on here but in person they are very cool dudes!!
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Dude your 46 years old, and your whole ego and technique is about putting down others or apearing yourself to be better than everyone else. Just look at your sig and the point is blatant. But please make some its only a game shit or whateever rebutal your good at that its part of that manipulation shit I was talking about. But whatever.
Sure shift shit to me becasue I have hate alphas in my sig. whatever.
The fact that you cant admit that maybe your a dick or atleast were when you were younger just prooves the point that you cant take loss and only take.
I'm sorry...but you can't be me.
It's not as easy as i make it look 8)
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I've met a few getbiggers in person and I can honestly say "Jaejonna" and "no one" are two very solid individuals!!
They may kick the shit out of some of you guys on here but in person they are very cool dudes!!
Jaejonna is neutral to me and groink wouldn't be worth mentioning, even groink may not be an alpha asshole. Still if you think all the alpha male pussy pullers are a bunch of friendly equal share commies your gullable to say the least.
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Jaejonna is neutral to me and groink wouldn't be worth mentioning, even groink may not be an alpha asshole. Still if you think all the alpha male pussy pullers are a bunch of friendly equal share commies your gullable to say the least.
and yet you've mentioned me how many times ?
You have a major boner for me......it would be flatttering, except that i enjoy sex with very attractive females exclusively
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and yet you've mentioned me how many times ?
You have a major boner for me......it would be flatttering, except that i enjoy sex with very attractive females exclusively
To be honest you look, and remind me of an immature version of my dad(no I don't got no father issues) but it's still annoying.
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Jaejonna is neutral to me and groink wouldn't be worth mentioning, even groink may not be an alpha asshole. Still if you think all the alpha male pussy pullers are a bunch of friendly equal share commies your gullable to say the least.
BAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!!
Oh, I thought I was making a connection that didnt exist?!
HAHAHAHAH!!!!!!
But no, youre not changing what youre saying based on who you talk to, you dont shift things, or give 100024y89105781 reasons why thats not you, or were analysing too much, except that since youre OCD you analyse too much, but that you dont really feel that way, except your OCD so thats what you do... hahahaha
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(http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=354194.0;attach=389658;image)
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BAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!!
Oh, I thought I was making a connection that didnt exist?!
HAHAHAHAH!!!!!!
But no, youre not changing what youre saying based on who you talk to, you dont shift things, or give 100024y89105781 reasons why thats not you, or were analysing too much, except that since youre OCD you analyse too much, but that you dont really feel that way, except your OCD so thats what you do... hahahaha
Lol I'd admit if I didn't you'd just sidetrack the thread because I can't "prove" groink is some alpha asshole. I said he may not, (i think he is but isn't the point of the fucking thread) your just continuing to sidetrack the thread.
If you think I'll give in it ain't gonna happen. So fuck off already or actually discuss this shit without talking exclusively about me.
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Lol I'd admit if I didn't you'd just sidetrack the thread because I can't "prove" groink is some alpha asshole. I said he may not, (i think he is but isn't the point of the fucking thread) your just continuing to sidetrack the thread.
If you think I'll give in it ain't gonna happen. So fuck off already or actually discuss this shit without talking exclusively about me.
Hahaha! Uh oh, someone finally ran out of excuses so now youre down finally giving me the "fuck off" line. Youve been arguing how im wrong this whole time, shifting, coming up with excuses, now finally you have nothing left. All the sudden you give a shit about this thread? Bottom line is you still cant even admit to yourself your issues. You just avoid them and try and blame your OCD and whatever else. Hahahahah. Its cool tho, im sure youll just tell yourself whatever helps you sleep at night.
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it is now 1:58 am, and this thread is at 7 pages. That's 7 pages of attention for Lundgren. As i said before, getbig is not the place for attention nor to "solve" your problems. None of here here are "professionals", when it comes to these situations. As I said, make a list what needs to be confronted, rectified, and analyzed. Because as you get older, it will get worse, because you have already gone into justification mode...imagine 5 yrs down the road. Are you trying to be the next Unibomber?
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it is now 1:58 am, and this thread is at 7 pages. That's 7 pages of attention for Lundgren. As i said before, getbig is not the place for attention nor to "solve" your problems. None of here here are "professionals", when it comes to these situations. As I said, make a list what needs to be confronted, rectified, and analyzed. Because as you get older, it will get worse, because you have already gone into justification mode...imagine 5 yrs down the road. Are you trying to be the next Unibomber?
true words again... I deleted my previous post :P
but sometimes it's fun... you know, like being an attention whore in posting women etc, is getbig rly a place to talk about women with men who all have some insecuritys? Or is it just a way to make ones self look cool.
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Jaejonna is neutral to me and groink wouldn't be worth mentioning, even groink may not be an alpha asshole. Still if you think all the alpha male pussy pullers are a bunch of friendly equal share commies your gullable to say the least.
I don't know, Groink seems cool. I'd have no problem meeting up with that guy to train or party. Seems ok to me. Also Delta9mda met up with him as well. Also a cool mofo.
Wouldn't mind meeting up with Natural wonder I think he'd be too scared though. Also the sheep guy. Dude with the sheep in his avatar. Both these guys would not talk so tough in person.
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true words again... I deleted my previous post :P
but sometimes it's fun... you know, like being an attention whore in posting women etc, is getbig rly a place to talk about women with men who all have some insecuritys? Or is it just a way to make ones self look cool.
you answered your own question. I told you that the answers that you seek are right in front of you. Many times we have the answers to our own problems. It is our own insecurity that lead us to ask others, either for validation or reaffirmation.
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I don't know, Groink seems cool. I'd have no problem meeting up with that guy to train or party. Seems ok to me. Also Delta9mda met up with him as well. Also a cool mofo.
Wouldn't mind meeting up with Natural wonder I think he'd be too scared though. Also the sheep guy. Dude with the sheep in his avatar. Both these guys would not talk so tough in person.
We were supposed to hit up gov't one night as well, plans went awry though.. I'm still sure I'll catch you at one of the cruises next summer, hehe
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We were supposed to hit up gov't one night as well, plans went awry though.. I'm still sure I'll catch you at one of the cruises next summer, hehe
Definitely man! In the same city, no reason not to.
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you answered your own question. I told you that the answers that you seek are right in front of you. Many times we have the answers to our own problems. It is our own insecurity that lead us to ask others, either for validation or reaffirmation.
I wasn't rly "asking" but yeah!
however, most of the time we like to make an attention thread that's prety much bollocks. But you gotta love to stir up shit sometimes...
getbig definetely isn't for asking help... attention, well.. maby not that either but, you know...
but IT IS, come on :D
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Even I admit that all the womanising crap that I spew, that everyone else spews is prety much bollocks along with other topics.
Not me. My spew is 100% true. Especially spew having to do with womanizing.
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Not me. My spew is 100% true. Especially spew having to do with womanizing.
I edited it ;D
I was too slow
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I edited it ;D
I was too slow
Edit? Why edit? You didn’t want people to know that you’re utterly full of shit?
Not a big deal ;D
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Hahaha! Uh oh, someone finally ran out of excuses so now youre down finally giving me the "fuck off" line. Youve been arguing how im wrong this whole time, shifting, coming up with excuses, now finally you have nothing left. All the sudden you give a shit about this thread? Bottom line is you still cant even admit to yourself your issues. You just avoid them and try and blame your OCD and whatever else. Hahahahah. Its cool tho, im sure youll just tell yourself whatever helps you sleep at night.
How the fuck did I give in I went to sleep. I've open and answered my personal question and yet you still get trying to dig something. Your think your owning me or got a something I don't know when I've fed you all my personal shit. Your making connections that aren't that.
Parker same shit he gets part of it but he don't get it all.And as far as the attention whoring, it's boredoom whoring just as much.
we all crave attention stop pretending like I go to some large amount of it in real life. Parker pointed out that I'm sometimes more hostile than I realize not a lot more. He's making connections like I hate short people which ain't true. It's like saying I hate people with wide hip and narrow shoulders just because I don't wanna see them at the olympia.
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Edit? Why edit? You didn’t want people to know that you’re utterly full of shit?
Not a big deal ;D
I was reading my post and I was thinking....
from ALL the topics like aliens, ufos, pseudo science, acupunction, viagra (maby), bodybuilding etcectcetcetcetc it goes on... only one topic remains true in it's quest for reasons and whys...
... that women infact are the most two faced, lieing, whoring and whannabe maniupalative beings on this planet... so that's why I edited it because, lol, no matter how you philosophise it, women are what they are... the beauty and the fucking scum of the earth.
:P
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I was reading my post and I was thinking....
from ALL the topics like aliens, ufos, pseudo science, acupunction, viagra (maby), bodybuilding etcectcetcetcetc it goes on... only one topic remains true in it's quest for reasons and whys...
... that women infact are the most two faced, lieing, whoring and whannabe maniupaltive beings on this planet... so that's why I edited it because, lol, no matter how you philosophise it, women are what they are... the beauty and the fucking scum of the earth.
:P
Put that on a Hallmark card for your Mom
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I wasn't rly "asking" but yeah!
however, most of the time we like to make an attention thread that's prety much bollocks. But you gotta love to stir up shit sometimes...
getbig definetely isn't for asking help... attention, well.. maby not that either but, you know...
but IT IS, come on :D
It's entertainment, sometimes the sitcom gets borning, still don't give a shit about placing my personal shit up here, parker and assumption that I don't have my shit somewhat figured out gets me. He had my attention thought he might of told me something that I haven't heard before, he pointed out my overly hostile shit which I didn't even think of given all the name calling and shit that goes on here, that is it, I was very open to how I hostility issues, and he's trying to make it out like I'm some character from some book. (one of my good friends in mr nice no one would ever say that about me).
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... that women infact are the most two faced, lieing, whoring and whannabe maniupalative beings on this planet... so that's why I edited it because, lol, no matter how you philosophise it, women are what they are... the beauty and the fucking scum of the earth.
Are you sure your not insecure did someone touch you as a child or is that just something everyone thinks?
You might be as fucked up as me with that attitude.
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Put that on a Hallmark card for your Mom
Actually, my mom told me that when I get kids, try to get sons because girls are no good they are allways trouble. No I ain't kiding.
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Are you sure your not insecure did someone touch you as a child or is that just something everyone thinks?
You might be as fucked up as me with that attitude.
oh COME ON with that "childhood" thing ::)... I couldn't have gotten a better childhood.
I'm in my early 20's, and I think all these bastardising theories about women allready... why do you think? Look around! I'm a wise kid, I think for my self, and when I'm surrounded by beings that my biology lusts, but my heart dispises them for their lack of everything else, it's very frustrating at times.
Girls have no emotional intellect... they are walking fuck fests who try to get screwed without GETTING screwed think about that, how can you respect beings like that?!
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Kidding dude
shock wave thanks he's a little freud.
Do you think chicks dig assholes? Just question, I thought we were in a agreement that they did. (I Don't mean jerk or douche bag)
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Kidding dude
shock wave thanks he's a little freud.
Do you think chicks dig assholes? Just question, I thought we were in a agreement that they did. (I Don't mean jerk or douche bag)
In a differend way, not like an asshole asshole... most of the times they want men who can't think about womens nature. Meaning women like Unthinking men the best, call them stupid if you will... because when men think- they will realise all the structual faults of a woman and will have a very nice vocabulary after that. AND THEN, women usually think men are "assholes", but not stupid.
Women allways say they want a man who can understand women, but then look what happends ::), women are happy aslong as they don't find themselves.
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They want a man that babies them, and treat them like a little child. but that's pretty much everyone ones parental love in some wierd way, but I'm steering clear of this physco babble shit. Parker thinks I hate short people, I think I made him feeel inscure cuz I called him short. Whatever
Point is my roommate cousin(proud of him cool guy etc.) is the pussy pulling asshole type that gets whatever he wants all the time. I don't hate him we even joke about it. I just am proud to be his family would hate to be his beta friend. So you guys and your silly pseudo projections gotta stop.
I think he's the ultimate alpha I don't think there's anything wrong with that, however being a good guy(not a nice pussy) is a good too however you don't get as many ladies. Alpha's get resources which means there better able to supply there women and family, through whatever means read some nietsche it's the strong over the weak. Point is alhpa's technique in the modern day are not ones of force as the alpha is rarely the biggest he's the most able to get people what he wants through manipulation and intimadation
If you somehow think that contradicts my views on bullying your wrong. I don't think school should create an artificial enviroment (public schools) where people have no family or connection to people for any support. ASS KIDS don't give a shit about adults.
The fact that people like shockwave can't even follow the concept without his insecurities being projected on me makes me giggle a little. My view point differs from his therefore I must have some deep hidden desire(when all my shit is in the open) ::)
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They want a man that babies them, and treat them like a little child. but that's pretty much everyone ones parental love in some wierd way, but I'm steering clear of this physco babble shit. Parker thinks I hate short people, I think I made him feeel inscure cuz I called him short. Whatever
Point is my roommate cousin(proud of him cool guy etc.) is the pussy pulling asshole type that gets whatever he wants all the time. I don't hate him we even joke about it. I just am proud to be his family would hate to be his beta friend. So you guys and your silly pseudo projections gotta stop.
I think he's the ultimate alpha I don't think there's anything wrong with that, however being a good guy(not a nice pussy) is a good too however you don't get as many ladies. Alpha's get resources which means there better able to supply there women and family, through whatever means read some nietsche it's the strong over the weak. Point is alhpa's technique in the modern day are not ones of force as the alpha is rarely the biggest he's the most able to get people what he wants through manipulation and intimadation
If you somehow think that contradicts my views on bullying your wrong. I don't think school should create an artificial enviroment (public schools) where people have no family or connection to people for any support. ASS KIDS don't give a shit about adults.
The fact that people like shockwave can't even follow the concept without his insecurities being projected on me makes me giggle a little. My view point differs from his therefore I must have some deep hidden desire(when all my shit is in the open) ::)
There you go with that passive aggresive bullshit again. I finally decide to just fuck off and let you sit here and whine and make excuses without anyone calling you out, and then you have to go and bring me up since I seem tohave gotten under your skin since I pointed out how blatantly you feel about people. Dont be pissed cause people call you out on your rediculous bullshit and you cant handle it, otherwise you wouldnt still be bringing my name up.
BTW, my wife is sitting here next to me, she read that paragraph, and she said point blank, wow that guy sounds like a bitch. Lol.
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BTW, my wife is sitting here next to me, she read that paragraph, and she said point blank, wow that guy sounds like a bitch. Lol.
Alpha chick..... 8)
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To be honest you look, and remind me of an immature version of my dad(no I don't got no father issues) but it's still annoying.
I"m a lot more mature than you think dude. I've been dating the same girl for 11 months now,we are more than likely going to get married next Summer...she hasn't even "slept over" my house once when my Daughter is with me because I don't think it's appropriate. you have no idea who i really am...this place is a miniscule part of my life, an afterthought at best
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I"m a lot more mature than you think dude. I've been dating the same girl for 11 months now,we are more than likely going to get married next Summer...she hasn't even "slept over" my house once when my Daughter is with me because I don't think it's appropriate. you have no idea who i really am...this place is a miniscule part of my life, an afterthought at best
Good enough then, I can go by what you say here not what you do outside.
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Nice guys finish last, alphas finish on tits
Quote of Decade
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All Y boarders are nice guys. 8)
Why yes,yes we are :)
....except that newmom chick...she's a biotch :o
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There you go with that passive aggresive bullshit again. I finally decide to just fuck off and let you sit here and whine and make excuses without anyone calling you out, and then you have to go and bring me up since I seem tohave gotten under your skin since I pointed out how blatantly you feel about people. Dont be pissed cause people call you out on your rediculous bullshit and you cant handle it, otherwise you wouldnt still be bringing my name up.
BTW, my wife is sitting here next to me, she read that paragraph, and she said point blank, wow that guy sounds like a bitch. Lol.
Make excuses for what I stand by what I said, I am who I am, your still sitting around connections that aren't true.
There you go with that passive aggresive bullshit again. I finally decide to just fuck off and let you sit here and whine and make excuses without anyone calling you out, and then you have to go and bring me up since I seem tohave gotten under your skin since I pointed out how blatantly you feel about people. Dont be pissed cause people call you out on your rediculous bullshit and you cant handle it, otherwise you wouldnt still be bringing my name up.
BTW, my wife is sitting here next to me, she read that paragraph, and she said point blank, wow that guy sounds like a bitch. Lol.
This is the shit you act like you've effected me personally. I'm ocd, you just don't get what the fuck that means. Your applying some psuedo understanding of me from what parker has given you. When in reality, all the things you are attacking are the ocd shit in its fullest direct forum. The hostility shit is a little different.
But saying sshit that ain't true don't bother me personally it bothers me in the sense of my room not being in alignment, Jaw cutlers hips are too wide, English is a mut languages with germanic and french mismash, people don't understand what's really going on with shit. I could go on and on all day about this shit ,and it's never remotely personal, it's that I'm obsessive.
You act like I'm keeping this going out of some insecurity or fear, when for me it's like a video game when my brain just wanna keep going and going and going.
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I'm the nicest man I know. :)
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I'm the nicest man I know. :)
Than you don't know your mutter :D
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I"m a lot more mature than you think dude. I've been dating the same girl for 11 months now,we are more than likely going to get married next Summer...she hasn't even "slept over" my house once when my Daughter is with me because I don't think it's appropriate. you have no idea who i really am...this place is a miniscule part of my life, an afterthought at best
You're a good man, broskie.
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I'm a nice guy most of the time..
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Than you don't know your mutter :D
What's a mutter?
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I mean we know that despite our wants to be alphas most of us are not in real life. the obvious alpha assholes are(parker, groink, etc), obvious crazies(me distubria adonis.), the not so brights(alex,swede etc.) So who are the nice guys my guess would be xerses, and Wiggs, maybe a few others.
ahahaha :D
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times are gonna be hard and some of you will be driven to drink
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Starting to think this betaisgod gimmick is another Bluto account
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Make excuses for what I stand by what I said, I am who I am, your still sitting around connections that aren't true. This is the shit you act like you've effected me personally. I'm ocd, you just don't get what the fuck that means. Your applying some psuedo understanding of me from what parker has given you. When in reality, all the things you are attacking are the ocd shit in its fullest direct forum. The hostility shit is a little different.
But saying sshit that ain't true don't bother me personally it bothers me in the sense of my room not being in alignment, Jaw cutlers hips are too wide, English is a mut languages with germanic and french mismash, people don't understand what's really going on with shit. I could go on and on all day about this shit ,and it's never remotely personal, it's that I'm obsessive.
You act like I'm keeping this going out of some insecurity or fear, when for me it's like a video game when my brain just wanna keep going and going and going.
Youre fucking hopeless. You have an excuse for your excuses. Have fun being miserable bitch, having no friends and no woman, but blaming everyone and everything other than your own words and actions.
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They want a man that babies them, and treat them like a little child. but that's pretty much everyone ones parental love in some wierd way, but I'm steering clear of this physco babble shit. Parker thinks I hate short people, I think I made him feeel inscure cuz I called him short. Whatever
Point is my roommate cousin(proud of him cool guy etc.) is the pussy pulling asshole type that gets whatever he wants all the time. I don't hate him we even joke about it. I just am proud to be his family would hate to be his beta friend. So you guys and your silly pseudo projections gotta stop.
I think he's the ultimate alpha I don't think there's anything wrong with that, however being a good guy(not a nice pussy) is a good too however you don't get as many ladies. Alpha's get resources which means there better able to supply there women and family, through whatever means read some nietsche it's the strong over the weak. Point is alhpa's technique in the modern day are not ones of force as the alpha is rarely the biggest he's the most able to get people what he wants through manipulation and intimadation
If you somehow think that contradicts my views on bullying your wrong. I don't think school should create an artificial enviroment (public schools) where people have no family or connection to people for any support. ASS KIDS don't give a shit about adults.
The fact that people like shockwave can't even follow the concept without his insecurities being projected on me makes me giggle a little. My view point differs from his therefore I must have some deep hidden desire(when all my shit is in the open) ::)
Epic owning up to being the biggest beta since bluto