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Getbig Main Boards => Gossip & Opinions => Topic started by: Lundgren on January 27, 2011, 02:53:39 PM
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Alright, this ain't a melt down, just wondering what it is you live for. Alot of you guys will say bodybuilding, but that dosen't last, others say women but again mega waste of time. So what is it that keeps you interested in being alive.
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life doesnt suck the world does(because of the assholes in it)
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meh women take to much effort, every year we get weaker and uglier, money is just a fucking mess, and worst of all were trapped in a culture that values youth pretty women and money.
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Live for yourself first and foremost. Sure life and the world can throw you a crap load of misery but it's how you deal with it, make some mistakes from it and press on.
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Living is an instinct. I really do not live for anything.
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i find the best wisdom comes from meditating upon death. just dont let it depress, keep your thoughts constructive.
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Life just is...
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Life blows. If I could have had the choice to be born or not to be born, I would have asked to not be. Just isn't for me. And I refuse to have children for this very reason. Why subject another human being to this bullshit world and eventual death?
However, I continue to exist for a few things: weight training, music (it's the blood that runs through my veins) and family/friends. Oh, and horror and action movies. And animals.
Otherwise, fuck this place.
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salty bananas?
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isn't complaining about your life on a interweb bulletin board a step away from killing yourself?
what am i saying....of course it is
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Ever hear the phrase 'Rest in Peace?' It came about because the toil/slavery and hardships of olden days were such that death was seen as a reprieve to life. Ease up, and look around at what you have. Then go *fuck yourself* ;D
/jk
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isn't complaining about your life on a interweb bulletin board a step away from killing yourself?
what am i saying....of course it is
Lol considering your too broke/drugged up to get laid, and are approaching forty, I think it has more to do with yours :P
I'm not even that depressed is just I hate money/women/aging, I miss the days when it was grades/girls/growing.
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I'm living to get to a point where I can do a few things i'd like to do before I die. Everything in life has an illusion of seeming like it matters, but when broken down you realize that nothing in this entire universe will ever matter, not what you said at anytime in your life, nothing you've done or ever will do will really matter. Even the kids you gave/give birth to don't matter. It's all going to end and everything will have never been. You'll just be dead. Your spirit may or may not transcend to another dimension (or whatever theory you subscribe to upon death), but you as a person and anything in what we call life will never matter. Humans like to think what they do matters, but it's just the ego subconsciously speaking. You should live to be happy and make the people around you happy, that's all you can do to go through this life as pleasantly as possible. Nothing! from a job promotion to being the pope or president himself will ever matter. Most humans are just monkeys that think they're more important than they really are. In the ''big picture'' none of us are anymore important than a bright red dog dick.
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Your goal should be to leave a larger than life footprint on earth, other that that life is completely meaningless and bullshit waste of time and space.
Being a Schwarzenegger, Obama or Zuckerberg is what life is about, changing that fucking planet fundamentally, so try and spend every waking minute of your fucking day to make something happen noone has done before. Die trying that, and, no matter if you achieve it or not, and your life will be fulfilling!
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As long as there are vaginas in the world..... then life is good.
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Alright, this ain't a melt down, just wondering what it is you live for. Alot of you guys will say bodybuilding, but that dosen't last, others say women but again mega waste of time. So what is it that keeps you interested in being alive.
This here is the solution to all your problems, son.
(http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2011/01/27/article-0-0CECDE13000005DC-18_634x815.jpg)
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Lol considering your too broke/drugged up to get laid, and are approaching forty, I think it has more to do with yours :P
I'm not even that depressed is just I hate money/women/aging, I miss the days when it was grades/girls/growing.
it's sad that you know so much about me and yet I don't know a fucking thing about you
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Well.. Life is what you make it out to be really. I belivie that we should just pursue with the things that makes us happy, whatever that is. I for one know what makes me happy and thats really all that matters to me. I just try to stay positive all the time and not allowing any of this this bullshit around me to let me down. Positive thinking is the key for a good life :) But I understand what your saying, I do get fed up some times.
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I'm living to get to a point where I can do a few things i'd like to do before I die. Everything in life has an illusion of seeming like it matters, but when broken down you realize that nothing in this entire universe will ever matter, not what you said at anytime in your life, nothing you've done or ever will do will really matter. Even the kids you gave/give birth to don't matter. It's all going to end and everything will have never been. You'll just be dead. Your spirit may or may not transcend to another dimension (or whatever theory you subscribe to upon death), but you as a person and anything in what we call life will never matter. Humans like to think what they do matters, but it's just the ego subconsciously speaking. You should live to be happy and make the people around you happy, that's all you can do to go through this life as pleasantly as possible. Nothing! from a job promotion to being the pope or president himself will ever matter. Most humans are just monkeys that think they're more important than they really are. In the ''big picture'' none of us are anymore important than a bright red dog dick.
you should hook up with Lungren, I hear he loves banannas.
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you should hook up with Lungren, I hear he loves banannas.
lol.
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As long as there are vaginas in the world..... then life is good.
Primates like yourself are needed to preserve our race (Blue collar job, beer in the evening + 4 children), so gotta be thankful for the ones like yourself too.
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Your goal should be to leave a larger than life footprint on earth, other that that life is completely meaningless and bullshit waste of time and space.
Being a Schwarzenegger, Obama or Zuckerberg is what life is about, changing that fucking planet fundamentally, so try and spend every waking minute of your fucking day to make something happen noone has done before. Die trying that, and, no matter if you achieve it or not, and your life will be fulfilling!
How did Schwarzenegger change the planet? Never mind, screwing California probably counts.
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it's sad that you know so much about me and yet I don't know a fucking thing about you
Geriatric OWNED.
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How did Schwarzenegger change the planet? Never mind, screwing California probably counts.
How many people started lifting because of Arnold? Started living a healthier, more conscious life? Were influenced by his ambition and drive and tried to incorporate that in their own lives?
Try again, kid. :)
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Geriatric OWNED.
i don't know what you are talking about......see, I'm 25
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Lol women are half the fucking problem, status is the other, and they tend to work together if you know what I mean.
I just wish I could get clarity from both. Is it just our culture which is obsessed with being a billionaire/fucking models. This shit gets old real quick. I got my interest, engineering/culture and health/activity, no need for this other bullshit. But you can't get around the biological need for "friends"/women. I just feel like I'm trapped, in a pile of bullshit I want no part in.
For the record this ain't so much an emotional issue, I'm pretty fucking cold in IRL, just obsessive, it makes me pretty content, but the war with biological gets old fast.
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How many people started lifting because of Arnold? Started living a healthier, more conscious life? Were influenced by his ambition and drive and tried to incorporate that in their own lives?
Try again, kid. :)
83, and of them 8 died from insulin shock, 17 are in jail for trafficking steroids, 83 are getbiggers, 4 of them required or require kidney transplants, 23 of them are friends of BayGBM .... need I say more? :)
P.S. 2 of them are contributing members of society, but that was attributable to solid parenting, not Arnold.
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Your goal should be to leave a larger than life footprint on earth, other that that life is completely meaningless and bullshit waste of time and space.
Being a Schwarzenegger, Obama or Zuckerberg is what life is about, changing that fucking planet fundamentally, so try and spend every waking minute of your fucking day to make something happen noone has done before. Die trying that, and, no matter if you achieve it or not, and your life will be fulfilling!
So then anyone prior to the technology era had meaningless lives?
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How many people started lifting because of Arnold? Started living a healthier, more conscious life? Were influenced by his ambition and drive and tried to incorporate that in their own lives?
Try again, kid. :)
He's 1 in a million which falls under our bullshit society were everyone thinks they are the next billionaire super star the kind of yuppie shit I wanna get away from.
, aside from that he's also, just a brand name at this point, who lives off the conquest of a past self. The guys an old sack of shit at this point, which just falls back to my thoughts on aging.
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I'm living to get to a point where I can do a few things i'd like to do before I die. Everything in life has an illusion of seeming like it matters, but when broken down you realize that nothing in this entire universe will ever matter, not what you said at anytime in your life, nothing you've done or ever will do will really matter. Even the kids you gave/give birth to don't matter. It's all going to end and everything will have never been. You'll just be dead. Your spirit may or may not transcend to another dimension (or whatever theory you subscribe to upon death), but you as a person and anything in what we call life will never matter. Humans like to think what they do matters, but it's just the ego subconsciously speaking. You should live to be happy and make the people around you happy, that's all you can do to go through this life as pleasantly as possible. Nothing! from a job promotion to being the pope or president himself will ever matter. Most humans are just monkeys that think they're more important than they really are. In the ''big picture'' none of us are anymore important than a bright red dog dick.
I don't get the logic with this type of thinking. Yes, everything ends eventually and you die someday, but that's exactly why you want to live your life and do something during the time you have.
If we didn't die and lived for eternity, that's when doing anything would be meaningless, since there is no rush or end, and you can do whatever you want tomorrow or next year or next century. Having so many options and so little time is what makes it worthwhile to do the things we enjoy while we can.
Your goal should be to leave a larger than life footprint on earth, other that that life is completely meaningless and bullshit waste of time and space.
Being a Schwarzenegger, Obama or Zuckerberg is what life is about, changing that fucking planet fundamentally, so try and spend every waking minute of your fucking day to make something happen noone has done before. Die trying that, and, no matter if you achieve it or not, and your life will be fulfilling!
I like the way you think.
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Primates like yourself are needed to preserve our race (Blue collar job, beer in the evening + 4 children), so gotta be thankful for the ones like yourself too.
Oh brother, "analman"........ you're doing it wrong ::)
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So then anyone prior to the technology era had meaningless lives?
WTF are you talking about? Neither Napoleon or Mozart didn't have meaningless lives, like I said, it's about leaving a fucking footprint on that planet for centuries instead of being forgotten 5 days after you've passed away and your relatives have stopped crying.
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I like the way you think.
Oh zip it. I remember well when you were going to change the world. Ended in an extended meltdown as I recall.
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WTF are you talking about? Neither Napoleon or Mozart didn't have meaningless lives, like I said, it's about leaving a fucking footprint on that planet for centuries instead of being forgotten 5 days after you've passed away and your relatives have stopped crying.
Lol so your fixated on the 1 in a million chance you might get remembered, if that's not setting yourself up for failure I don't know what is.
Honestly dude is your ego really that over expanded.
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WTF are you talking about? Neither Napoleon or Mozart didn't have meaningless lives, like I said, it's about leaving a fucking footprint on that planet for centuries instead of being forgotten 5 days after you've passed away and your relatives have stopped crying.
Since you're not going to leave an "extended footprint" you really should call it a day already.
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Oh brother, "analman"........ you're doing it wrong ::)
Yeah, go fuck a whore and have a beer afterwards lil caveman.....and leave the thinking, controlling and decision-making to someone else. ;)
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WTF are you talking about? Neither Napoleon or Mozart didn't have meaningless lives, like I said, it's about leaving a fucking footprint on that planet for centuries instead of being forgotten 5 days after you've passed away and your relatives have stopped crying.
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Yeah, go fuck a whore and have a beer afterwards lil caveman.....and leave the thinking, controlling and decision-making to someone else. ;)
Ahahahaha
What is that statement based on??
I can tell you that right now that I have 15 people who directly report to me and i only answer to the regional manager....... sit down son, you might hurt yourself playing with the big boys.
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Ahahahaha
What is that statement based on??
I can tell you that right now that I have 15 people who directly report to me and i only answer to the regional manager....... sit down son, you might hurt yourself playing with the big boys.
:D
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i don't know what you are talking about......see, I'm 25
how long have you been 25?
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:D
Haha.... now if he was weraing a dhl uniform then I would have extended it to a LOL
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Ahahahaha
What is that statement based on??
I can tell you that right now that I have 15 people who directly report to me and i only answer to the regional manager....... sit down son, you might hurt yourself playing with the big boys.
You guys should just stop fighting your both mid level assholes that know one will ever remember. This is the kind of petty bullshit I'm tired of hearing about. \
Fuck I feel like I'm gonna melt down and turn into some no good comie.
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Oh zip it. I remember well when you were going to change the world. Ended in an extended meltdown as I recall.
Why do we fall?
So we can learn to pick ourselves up.
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life is hard bro. I feel like If I made a little bit more money I would feel better. I'm 26 years old working a bullshit job. It sucks I have nothing. I have always been a kind of depressed person though.
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life is hard bro. I feel like If I made a little bit more money I would feel better. I'm 26 years old working a bullshit job. It sucks I have nothing. I have always been a kind of depressed person though.
Most getbiggers have made their 3rd million by 26.....
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Why do we fall?
So we can learn to pick ourselves up.
Good luck picking yourself up if you subscribe to assman's ridiculous world view.
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Good luck picking yourself up if you subscribe to assman's ridiculous world view.
*Whooooooosh*
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life is hard bro. I feel like If I made a little bit more money I would feel better. I'm 26 years old working a bullshit job. It sucks I have nothing. I have always been a kind of depressed person though.
What do you need more for, for real everyone says that like it's true and I ain't buying it.
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Why do we fall?
So we can learn to pick ourselves up.
"If you make yourself more than just a man, if you devote yourself to an ideal and if they can't stop you. Then you become something else entirely.........Legend, Mr. Wayne."
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life doesn't suck.......your mom does
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Good luck picking yourself up if you subscribe to assman's ridiculous world view.
I don't subscribe to his view in it's entirety. But that nugget of wisdom is true and far superior to your, "You failed once, so you're never going to do anything otherwise" POV ;)
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BTW Mark zuckerberg New house and Girlfriend .... Living the Dream baby
(http://ll-media.tmz.com/2011/01/14/0114-zuckerburg-pcn2-credit.jpg)
(http://ll-media.tmz.com/2010/10/11/1011-mark-zuckberberg-pcn-credit.jpg)
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I don't subscribe to his view in it's entirety. But that nugget of wisdom is true and far superior to your, "You failed once, so you're never going to do anything otherwise" POV ;)
It's not who I am underneath, but what I *do* that defines me.
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I don't subscribe to his view in it's entirety. But that nugget of wisdom is true and far superior to your, "You failed once, so you're never going to do anything otherwise" POV ;)
That's not what I said, my short projecting friend. ALl I'm saying is that you and der asseman appear to not know very much about what makes life living. A condition that can lead to extended meltdowns from time to time, unfortunately. ;)
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BTW Mark zuckerberg New house and Girlfriend .... Living the Dream baby
(http://ll-media.tmz.com/2011/01/14/0114-zuckerburg-pcn2-credit.jpg)
(http://ll-media.tmz.com/2010/10/11/1011-mark-zuckberberg-pcn-credit.jpg)
Thats because the guy gets the game. Money don't mean shit, and "pretty" girls are a waste of time. And he certaintly don't give a fuck about status.
So he ain't trapped in this little game you fucks think you understand.
fuck this is it I HATE YOU ALL. I make a thread about why life sucks and you just proove my point, wasting all your time with petty games like fame/chicks/looking good. You superficial jackoffs just live on a bunch of dreams you thought up when you were 14.
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ALl I'm saying is that you and der asseman appear to not know very much about what makes life living.
And you do? I could assume or make up stuff about you too, without knowing anything about you, but that's not going to make it true, is it?
It's not who I am underneath, but what I *do* that defines me.
Word.
But watch out, or Ping Pong Lee is going to assume you are a masked vigilante who lives in a cave, just because you quoted a line from a movie ;D
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Thats because the guy gets the game. Money don't mean shit, and "pretty" girls are a waste of time. And he certaintly don't give a fuck about status.
So he ain't trapped in this little game you fucks think you understand.
fuck this is it I HATE YOU ALL. I make a thread about why life sucks and you just proove my point, wasting all your time with petty games like fame/chicks/looking good. You superficial jackoffs just live on a bunch of dreams you thought up when you were 14.
Yes it is true.. he probably gets the game.. but don't tell me he doesn't care about money.. why else would he try to fuck over his best friend Eduardo Saverin who helped him establish facebook ... this lowlife dickface ( i do have a facebook ;D) Mark reportedly had to pay Eduardo $1.1 billion after the settlement.
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Yes it is true.. he probably gets the game.. but don't tell me he doesn't care about money.. why else would he try to fuck over his best friend Eduardo Saverin who helped him establish facebook ... this lowlife dickface ( i do have a facebook ;D) Mark reportedly had to pay Eduardo $1.1 billion after the settlement.
It has alot more with him being a control freak who answers to know one. Of course he cares about money, but he gets that it's not about the superficial.
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And you do? I could assume or make up stuff about you too, without knowing anything about you, but that's not going to make it true, is it?
Strange that I should have received these pms (excerpted) from you then, isn't it? :)
You are very brilliant whoever you are :)
I read the posts in your first page and it's obvious that you are an oracle yourself.
Do I know you from real life? :)
My favorite part was the little smilies you included at the end of each question. :)
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Strange that I should have received these pms (excerpted) from you then, isn't it? :)
You are very brilliant whoever you are :)
I read the posts in your first page and it's obvious that you are an oracle yourself.
Do I know you from real life? :)
My favorite part was the little smilies you included at the end of each question. :)
Haha I wrote a lot of shit when I went temporarily mad. If you wish to judge me solely based on that, it's your choice.
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Life can really suck.
The key to enjoying life is to have some sense of spirituality. Get into yoga, Buddhism, Hinduism or something like that and it will make life feel much more interesting and profound.
Lots of sex makes life great too. Drugs too.
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A heaped tablespoon of "stark reality, responsibility and the daily grind" with a sprinkle of "Cherish each moment and Live for today"
It's a fine balance that must be adhered to in order to avoid the depression of a mundane existence or the recklessness of "living freely"
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Life can really suck.
The key to enjoying life is to have some sense of spirituality. Get into yoga, Buddhism, Hinduism or something like that and it will make life feel much more interesting and profound.
Lots of sex makes life great too. Drugs too.
Nah I just realized I live on a getbig, a site where everyone is just obsessed with their ego, the smug feel I got right now is enough for me atm.
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Lolz I basically just admitted to my folks that I'm a fucking mess., ain't it a great feeling, when your parents admit that you're there number 1 problem.
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P.S. you all agress I'm a fucking nut job right? It's not just me?
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Lolz I basically just admitted to my folks that I'm a fucking mess., ain't it a great feeling, when your parents admit that you're there number 1 problem.
did you admit you suck cock too?
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other than that dick suck thing
you are a clone of me
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We dont know you, see a shrink.
Nah even they had no advice, I'm on a waitlist for one but it'll be another six months before I get to one again, seriously I'm not taking what you say that seriously, just say a one word answer.
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other than that dick suck thing
you are a clone of me
No joke man I'm starting to wonder if I'm bipolar, I'm fucking moody as shit, I keep fucking up basic shit like school, all because I go a little off the rails for a while.
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Lolz I basically just admitted to my folks that I'm a fucking mess., ain't it a great feeling, when your parents admit that you're there number 1 problem.
We could have told them that.
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the problem here is clear, its all about repressed homossexuality, just let it out and you will be ok (apart from being a flaming homo). ask advices from 1 and bay
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You seem more weird than crazy.
this^
It also could be stupid or pathetic too. :D
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You seem more weird than crazy.
Meh I don't think there's much of a differnece, I'm not delusional, but suicide is becoming a lingering thought. And I don't mean that in some dark attenion whore shit. I mean that in a more of a matter of fact, like shit man doesn't everyone?
P.S. I'm not gay if I were I'd have no problem admitting it, I'm pretty open about that shit. If you can't tell by the subject of thread.
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It's called puberty, relax.
You will feel better in a few years.
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It's called puberty, relax.
You will feel better in a few years.
Lol I'm almost 24, it's gotten worst with age.
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In the ''big picture'' none of us are anymore important than a bright red dog dick.
:D
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Try to get your head on straight bro. Are you drugging or boozing? If you are stop. Start practicing your religion if you are religious.
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Lol I'm almost 24, it's gotten worst with age.
Have you tried getting some of this?
(http://c0013624.cdn1.cloudfiles.rackspacecloud.com/x2_4588514)
:D
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Thats because the guy gets the game. Money don't mean shit, and "pretty" girls are a waste of time. And he certaintly don't give a fuck about status.
So he ain't trapped in this little game you fucks think you understand.
fuck this is it I HATE YOU ALL. I make a thread about why life sucks and you just proove my point, wasting all your time with petty games like fame/chicks/looking good. You superficial jackoffs just live on a bunch of dreams you thought up when you were 14.
Yep. People are idiots, wasting their time and energy on things that don't matter in the least.
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just a note---in my 20s i wasnt all wacko and shit
when i hit 30 i went on total postal meltdown nutjob
you should seriously consider seeing a psychiatrist or intake worker for an evaluation at least
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just a note---in my 20s i wasnt all wacko and shit
when i hit 30 i went on total postal meltdown nutjob
you should seriously consider seeing a psychiatrist or intake worker for an evaluation at least
Josh, they do not work.
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Lolz I basically just admitted to my folks that I'm a fucking mess., ain't it a great feeling, when your parents admit that you're there number 1 problem.
not to troll/flame but instead of complaining about it on some message board filled with strangers you should go out and do something about it.
meet a girl, see a shrink, jerk off, whatever.
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Josh, they do not work.
so because you say they dont that applies to every single person on the planet earth?
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x2
go to the gym and build some consistancy in your life
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Nah I just realized I live on a getbig, a site where everyone is just obsessed with their ego, the smug feel I got right now is enough for me atm.
When you realize how other people's egos control them that's a big step.
Instead of getting pissed and hating people about it, just take it as knowledge and use it to become wiser and more self-aware.
By the way, have you tried sucking any more cocks lately?
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Try to get your head on straight bro. Are you drugging or boozing? If you are stop. Start practicing your religion if you are religious.
I quite smoking buckets of weed about 2 years ago, helped a bit, same with the gym, I've gone to a therapist suppose to goto a physchiritrist, but during one of my main melt downs last fall I missed the apointment.
Thanks disturbia, I had a point last winter where it got really bad thought I was gonna go crazy. I donno if this sounds like bipolar, but I do have weeks where things go well get laid, work/school goes well, but it never last more than a month when I start tripping out mad stressed/depressed/paranoid. Than it goes away, and I got back to apathetic for a few months. Everytime I try to snap out of it, it's like my brain juice just seizes and I get set back everything I've worked for.
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Spend more time in Getbig.
All the love and positivity you get here everyday will help you get back on track faster.
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Move out of your parents basement.
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Can you believe people didnt have tv or the internet some years ago.
They also say depression is more likely to occur in winters. And that the shitty foods we eat are full of stuff that feminize us and make us depressive.
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my life is awesome...
bench
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Seriously man go see a psychiatrist or seek some sort of professional help. If you don't have insurance and don't have the money, go to your schools counseling center. This problem is most likely only going to get worse unless you address it. Pay no attention to the jerking off and weightlifting comments that are being suggested to clear your mind. I'm working on my Masters in Counseling right now and I see a lot of college age students who are in your shoes. Seek help bro.
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counselors are for people with no friends. They are the people who get paid to listen and not treat because they have no medical training. They are just as good as "sponsors" in AA or NA. You need someone who can prescribe some crazy pills if needed.
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counselors are for people with no friends. They are the people who get paid to listen and not treat because they have no medical training. They are just as good as "sponsors" in AA or NA. You need someone who can prescribe some crazy pills if needed.
Pretty far off base with the counseling comment but that isn't the point. Counselors are for prevention who deal with 95% of the population whereas psychiatrists are for someone who is already past the point of preventing a problem, the other 5%. If lundgren is having suicidal thoughts he definitely needs to see a psychiatrist.
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Alright, this ain't a melt down, just wondering what it is you live for. Alot of you guys will say bodybuilding, but that dosen't last, others say women but again mega waste of time. So what is it that keeps you interested in being alive.
Read The Book of Ecclesiastes...
Stop thinking of yourself all of the time and find the joy in doing for others. Get out of your own head. It's hard to be depressed when you know you are interacting with a child and making a difference in his or her's life, or someone else less fortunate.
Oh yeah, SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP and get off of this cesspool of negativity known as getbig until you've got your head screwed on straight.
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Can you believe people didnt have tv or the internet some years ago.
They also say depression is more likely to occur in winters. And that the shitty foods we eat are full of stuff that feminize us and make us depressive.
My theory is that were repressed socially in all ways causing alot of problems.
A man can't be sexual with a women without being sexists.
We can't tell another man to fuck off without getting fired/sued
Aside from gym we are trapped in cubicals most of the time like a hamster stuck in a cage.
Reproduction the most basic indicator of heath has become a novelty.
We must plan our lives out decades in advance or risk becoming, push to the bottom of society. When in the past any planning beyond a few weeks was unheard of.
We must isolate ourselves from our friends and family for jobs, where in the past you spent your working life with the people you always knew and trusted.
We spend our whole lives acting things out like characters on TV because were convinced this is the proper way to do things.
Instead of our fears and pain coming from short term things like a run in with a bear, our fears are wrapped up in things that we must dwell on for years Debt/getting fired.
Instead of getting pleasures at the end of a 3 day hunt or a hard days work, we get them from increasing our personal debt, which in turn creates a distorted cycle, of pleasure from tomorrow pain, which can be anything but happy.
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there are people born with higher serotonin levels than others ... who are less anxious from the very beginning... hapiness is genetical they say.
And having parents who regret giving birth to your sorry ass in your childhood and aoldescence doesnt really help increasing your serotonin levels. In fact factors are both genetical and depends of your environment and conditionnings. But basically they re alrdy shaped from the beginning.
There are mothers who smoke and are depressive while being pregnant and it directly affects the production of serotonin of the embryo and later, adult...
Google it.
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there are people born with higher serotonin levels than others ... who are less anxious from the very beginning... hapiness is genetical they say.
And having parents who regret giving birth to your sorry ass in your childhood and aoldescence doesnt really help increasing your serotonin levels. There are mother who smoke and are depressive while being pregnant and it directly affect the serotonin level of the embryo and later adult...
Google is your friend.
Lol my parents are pretty happy people, they are more shocked that as adults the early promise I showed didn't come through atleast not yet.
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Lol my parents are pretty happy people, they are more shocked that as adults the early promise I showed didn't come through atleast not yet.
it's a lot more complicated than that... they can be happy but have fucked you when you were a newborn, child and teen...and you dont know it cause your consciousness wasnt fully developed when you were hurt, you were too young. Still the scars are there. Basically there are traumatisms, unhealthy patterns which are burried in your subconscious and that condition your everyday life, but you dont remember what happened, how, when and you cant access it and make it come to your conscious level.
There is always an origin to everything. If there s smoke, there s a fire. But most parents and families keep them burried very well... When you start digging in the past and other people's crap, even people from your own family can look like the worst assholes on earth. Especially when they re hiding stuff themselves. You start touching their own weaknesses they never got over.
A man can't be sexual with a women without being sexists.
Believe me, you can. Just pick the right one and teach her over time. Results are proportionnal to the investment. Women are wired to be dominated. As i alrdy said it it's all about transforming a good unexperimented girl into your personal whore, yet she will still be a housewife at the same time. Too shy with others, and enjoying being dominated in bed with her man.
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Man, lots here with negative feelings on life. I love life! Maybe it's because I live stress free, I don't have a nagging wife who goes out and spends money just to spend it, I still have sex with her, and I'm watching my daughter accomplish academically at a much better pace than I expected. Oh and it also helps when you don't have debt and don't give a damn about having a bunch of material things just to "keep up with the jones'". Too many here are worried about what others think of them.
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Alright, this ain't a melt down, just wondering what it is you live for. Alot of you guys will say bodybuilding, but that dosen't last, others say women but again mega waste of time. So what is it that keeps you interested in being alive.
Bodybuilding lasts as long as you keep at it. If your lucky, your woman will stick buy you till you die of old age. Life only sucks if you believe it does. Maintain a positive attitude, keep learning and appreciate the all little details in life, this will keep you interested in being alive.
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psychologist, not psychiatrist. On a side note there are great psychology books available for free in most public libraries...
Sooner or later we all feel the need to understand the past patterns we ve been following subonsciously for our whole life until we get fed up of feeling like we re constantly reproducing the same crap over and over.
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Pretty far off base with the counseling comment but that isn't the point. Counselors are for prevention who deal with 95% of the population whereas psychiatrists are for someone who is already past the point of preventing a problem, the other 5%. If lundgren is having suicidal thoughts he definitely needs to see a psychiatrist.
Just busting your balls about the counselor commented...Sorta...lol.
I am going off of the counselor I have to see as mandated by the court for getting busted with weed. She spends all of her time trying to convince me I am an addict although every test I have taken says I'm not. By the end of this thing I will have her smoking weed...lol. She is OK I guess but I would in no way depend on her for any mental help. She talks to me about her problems more than anything. Feels like I am the counselor at times. I just do it because I have to if I want the charges dropped. It's all a scam.
Who's moving these fucking threads ???????????
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Lolz I basically just admitted to my folks that I'm a fucking mess., ain't it a great feeling, when your parents admit that you're there number 1 problem.
I concur with the folks here who advised you to seek professional help. You should be able to find a psychologist or a counselor who you can talk to about your feelings and concerns.
There are often free services available. I once needed some assistance with some problems I was having and I found a counselor through the Episcopal Church who either charged me nothing or very little, I don’t remember because this was some time ago.
Often, although well meaning, parents are not the ideal choice of someone to talk things over with because there is usually some baggage between parents and their kids. Friends might be ok to talk with but they usually have a history with you too. In most cases, seeking help from folks in an Internet forum, such as this, isn’t going to be very productive for you and it could actually make you feel worse. You need to speak to someone who is neutral and speak to them in person.
Incidentally, the fact that you recognize that you aren’t happy with the way things are and that you need help, is huge. A lot of folks who desperately need help never get it because they won’t admit to themselves that there is a problem.
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where is the paper???
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Lol considering your too broke/drugged up to get laid, and are approaching forty, I think it has more to do with yours :P
I'm not even that depressed is just I hate money/women/aging, I miss the days when it was grades/girls/growing.
I hear what you're saying. When I was younger, I didn't fear aging and had no worries, except your current crush on a girl and how you were going to get her attention eventually. There was zero stress that was relevant. Once I hit 30 I starting feeling older and starting thinking I look older. It all started kicking in. I wasn't young anymore and that feeling fuking sucks. Now it's live to work and work to live. 80% of your waking hours are spent working your ass off for a job you hate and around people that don't give a fuk about you.
I try to remain focused on what I still want though. To get married to my girl and to have kids. That is something of true value. Another key is to work doing something you enjoy. I can't really figure that out though, which really sucks.
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All right well for the record someone gave me alink and it strongly suggests that I'm borderline personality disorder, basically I can't start meaningful relationships IRL due to trust issues, and I keep fucking up school/work because of iratic tendencies and shit, it's enough explanations makes alot of sense. Anyhow I really don't wanna talk about it, as it's a pointless discussion unless you know what the fuck it is.
Anyhow mods please eat a dick I want my mental health issues, and everyone elses views on life apart. The original thread was just about life in general.
Getting old and shit, not being famous, and the fact that women tend to be fat/crazy/ and greedy by thirty or usually all 3.
I just wanna hear your guys thoughts on life and shit, in general my life doesn't suck, I suck due to poor mental health, something I've been saying for a long time. There's a big difference.
It's just I hear alot of so called healthy people complain about shit and it makes you wonder does there bullshit really work for them.
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In times like these you need to STAY POSITIVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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a salty banana will make you feel better ... indulge yourself
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Nah even they had no advice, I'm on a waitlist for one but it'll be another six months before I get to one again, seriously I'm not taking what you say that seriously, just say a one word answer.
See, in the US, you wouldn't be on a waitlist for one...and be on here talking about this mess.
Basically, you are looking for purpose, for definition...
we all seek it, yet you are missing a key component---people around you who can help guide you, give you hope, not false hope or false pride, but build you up, and give youexpectations to meet. This is where family comes in, people who have a strong sense of family or whose parents instilled in them a strong sense of identity and purpose, don't have to this type of issue as bad you do.
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a salty banana will make you feel better ... indulge yourself
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man up
walk it off big guy
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man up
walk it off big guy
x2.
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Life blows. If I could have had the choice to be born or not to be born, I would have asked to not be. Just isn't for me. And I refuse to have children for this very reason. Why subject another human being to this bullshit world and eventual death?
However, I continue to exist for a few things: weight training, music (it's the blood that runs through my veins) and family/friends. Oh, and horror and action movies. And animals.
Otherwise, fuck this place.
To even make the choice you would already have to be alive in some form. So in reality, there can never be a choice.
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Get your nuts out of the sand,pull up your skirt, and start living!!
I`m one of the most fucked up individuas you could ever meet,but even I know that living beats the old permanant dirt nap.
See a shrink,get some meds,and try to do the next best/ right thing for yourself and others.
Christ,you`re only 24 years old and haven`t begun to know pain and suffering yet!!
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salty banana
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Meh I don't think there's much of a differnece, I'm not delusional, but suicide is becoming a lingering thought. And I don't mean that in some dark attenion whore shit. I mean that in a more of a matter of fact, like shit man doesn't everyone?
P.S. I'm not gay if I were I'd have no problem admitting it, I'm pretty open about that shit. If you can't tell by the subject of thread.
dont do suicide bro
i think you are a VERY smart poster. The smarter you are the more Aware you are thus you seem to encounter more hardships and stresses because you know what is going on. Its ALOT to filter/process /assimilate just bear with it and focus on working out and eating like a falcon. Life is difficult sad for even a falcon, a falcon finds joy in progressive overload to his workouts as well as hoes and just trying to be a good person, its all your ABLE to do in this life.
Most of my life is spent just working and my miind is just going rememberin the good times and planning out minor things in the future. If you dont have a job get one. You will have to succumb and enjoy entertaining lower life forms and learn to enjoy small circumstances in life this is key to finding joy out of work and dumb people, grow that sense of humor but not in a way it breaks people down be silly creative and ballsy, make sure you can back up everything you say with 100 percent truth and reason at all times
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I'm living to get to a point where I can do a few things i'd like to do before I die. Everything in life has an illusion of seeming like it matters, but when broken down you realize that nothing in this entire universe will ever matter, not what you said at anytime in your life, nothing you've done or ever will do will really matter. Even the kids you gave/give birth to don't matter. It's all going to end and everything will have never been. You'll just be dead. Your spirit may or may not transcend to another dimension (or whatever theory you subscribe to upon death), but you as a person and anything in what we call life will never matter. Humans like to think what they do matters, but it's just the ego subconsciously speaking. You should live to be happy and make the people around you happy, that's all you can do to go through this life as pleasantly as possible. Nothing! from a job promotion to being the pope or president himself will ever matter. Most humans are just monkeys that think they're more important than they really are. In the ''big picture'' none of us are anymore important than a bright red dog dick.
This is the absolute truth, don't ever think otherwise.
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Alright, this ain't a melt down, just wondering what it is you live for. Alot of you guys will say bodybuilding, but that dosen't last, others say women but again mega waste of time. So what is it that keeps you interested in being alive.
VAGINA AND LOTS OF IT!
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Alright, this ain't a melt down, just wondering what it is you live for. Alot of you guys will say bodybuilding, but that dosen't last, others say women but again mega waste of time. So what is it that keeps you interested in being alive.
God, family, friends and career.
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This is the absolute truth, don't ever think otherwise.
Not really. It only matters what matters to you. Sure, nobody gives a shit about what you do or have done, other than your immediate family, but don't go through life thinking nothing matters. It's about what matters to you and what you consider important. You are your world and what you make of it I guess. I could die today and understand not one facet of life will stop going on as it has been. I will die, nobody other than family will remember me, and in the years to come nobody will know who I was. But, I believe in something greater when I die.
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whatever the way you look at it if you feel fucked up it means your parents, family, fucked you up in the first place and this is why you consider everything as fucked up, based on the first, original model you ve been exposed to. The funny is that fucked up people can only meet fucked up people. Happy people attract each others, unhappy people attract each others. Everything originates in the first years. It shapes the way you ll interact with others for the rest of your life.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attachment_theory
take a look at the "Child and caregiver behaviour patterns before the age of 18 months" part especially
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This is the absolute truth, don't ever think otherwise.
"Absolute truth" my hairy balls. That post is likely to make this kid more depressed than he was before. :P
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Man, lots here with negative feelings on life. I love life! Maybe it's because I live stress free, I don't have a nagging wife who goes out and spends money just to spend it, I still have sex with her, and I'm watching my daughter accomplish academically at a much better pace than I expected. Oh and it also helps when you don't have debt and don't give a damn about having a bunch of material things just to "keep up with the jones'". Too many here are worried about what others think of them.
Flip, you have your priorities in the right place. Happy for you.
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I'm living to get to a point where I can do a few things i'd like to do before I die.
How about doing some of those things NOW, or at least taking proactive steps to achieve these goals as soon as possible. You are not even promised tomorrow, let alone a 75+ year life span. Work to the experience the best life possible TODAY, not off in the distant future.
Usually this type of thinking is due to financial constraints that are of our choosing. So many are obsessed with material items that give you a very short-term happiness before the excitement subsides or these things become obsolete.
EXPERIENCES are much more lasting and satisfying than purchasing material goods. For me, that meant traveling the world and making many sacrifices to do so. You have to make it your mission to what it takes to enact your dreams.
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How about doing some of those things NOW, or at least taking proactive steps to acheive these goals as soon as possible. You are not even promised tomorrow, let alone a 75+ year life span. Work to the experience the best life possible TODAY, not off in the distant future.
Usually this type of thinking is due to financial constraints that are of our choosing. So many are obsessed with material items that give you a very short-term happiness before the excitement subsides or these things become obsolete.
EXPERIENCES are much more lasting and satisfying than purchasing material goods. For me, that meant traveling the world and making many sacrifices to do so. You have to make it your mission to what it takes to enact your dreams.
Your best post ever, Benny. I totally agree.
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Lungdrenisgay was asking the same thing of himself when he was preforming his 'gay test' ... 'Do I suck ?'
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Alright, this ain't a melt down, just wondering what it is you live for. Alot of you guys will say bodybuilding, but that dosen't last, others say women but again mega waste of time. So what is it that keeps you interested in being alive.
Myself, my hobbies, my future. Keeps me busy. I aint got a lot of time for the world. I worked hard through my 20's and gained the necessary base for a future filled with travelling, kids and working whenever I feel like it. This year alone I have Austria in March, Canada for my birthday in June, Greece for a summer holiday, Kilimanjaro (the mountain) in August and a move to Austria in November. These things keep me excited and motivated. I don't read papers, magazines or watch ANY tv. I download the stuff I want to see and that's about my only contact with the outside world. I have my group of friends and family and I want for nothing more.
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"suicide is becoming a lingering thought."
Triple dog dare you.....
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Meh I don't think there's much of a differnece, I'm not delusional, but suicide is becoming a lingering thought. And I don't mean that in some dark attenion whore shit. I mean that in a more of a matter of fact, like shit man doesn't everyone?
P.S. I'm not gay if I were I'd have no problem admitting it, I'm pretty open about that shit. If you can't tell by the subject of thread.
Your pathetic ...stop cloggin the internet with your whining you little bitch...be a man for once you little bitch ...
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Your pathetic ...stop cloggin the internet with your whining you little bitch...be a man for once you little bitch ...
^THIS^
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Your pathetic ...stop cloggin the internet with your whining you little bitch...be a man for once you little bitch ...
Exactly....harden the fuck up, or go buy three feet of rope.
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See, in the US, you wouldn't be on a waitlist for one...and be on here talking about this mess.
Basically, you are looking for purpose, for definition...
we all seek it, yet you are missing a key component---people around you who can help guide you, give you hope, not false hope or false pride, but build you up, and give youexpectations to meet. This is where family comes in, people who have a strong sense of family or whose parents instilled in them a strong sense of identity and purpose, don't have to this type of issue as bad you do.
I've come to realize my problem isn't my purpose, I've always had a sense of purpose and direction since I was about 15. It's that I'm stuck in this cycle of going off the rails, just as I get something going whether or not its a band, friend, a girl, job or school.
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How about doing some of those things NOW, or at least taking proactive steps to achieve these goals as soon as possible. You are not even promised tomorrow, let alone a 75+ year life span. Work to the experience the best life possible TODAY, not off in the distant future.
Usually this type of thinking is due to financial constraints that are of our choosing. So many are obsessed with material items that give you a very short-term happiness before the excitement subsides or these things become obsolete.
EXPERIENCES are much more lasting and satisfying than purchasing material goods. For me, that meant traveling the world and making many sacrifices to do so. You have to make it your mission to what it takes to enact your dreams.
That's true, but eventually you always end up home, suitcase in hand, very much broke. Yes, the experiences changed you, yes it has opened your mind, but there is always home in the end. It's best to work hard, pay off your mortgage, get a few pennies in the bank THEN set off adventuring.
Last weekend I went to the leaving party of a colleague that 'chucked it all in' and went travelling. He left on Monday. He made £15 000 debt to fund all of this. Sure, he will have a cracking time, see places, bang sluts, smoke shit and sleep on beaches, but his return date to the UK is already booked. He is coming back to debt and nothing. I'm not claiming that it's the wrong way to do it, but get yourself a base first and make sure it's stable. Only then you can travel with a clear heart.
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Your pathetic ...stop cloggin the internet with your whining you little bitch...be a man for once you little bitch ...
Lolz me thinks you wouldn't be saying that to my face right now. But whatever dude your not cool as you think. Your just caught up in your ego like there's no tomorrow, every post you make shows that it's your main fixation. I made to seperate posts one was asking does life suck, the other was wether or not am I fucked. I got a pm about the personal one and it answered my question.
As far as the general does life suck, your immature answers, obsession with cool, and lack of anything else beside jokes on here has me wondering is your life that great.
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Lolz me thinks you wouldn't be saying that to my face right now. But whatever dude your not cool as you think. Your just caught up in your ego like there's no tomorrow, every post you make shows that it's your main fixation. I made to seperate posts one was asking does life suck, the other was wether or not am I fucked. I got a pm about the personal one and it answered my question.
As far as the general does life suck, your immature answers, obsession with cool, and lack of anything else beside jokes on here has me wondering is your life that great.
I would say it in your face quicker than you can jump from your roof of your house...bro I've been posting here a long long time, its not being about cool just that you don't go to a drug dealres house if you to be sober, and you sure as hell don't come to getbig for life coaching... if you need a goal, pick a small one.. like make your bed or something...plan, execute, complete...then feel good you did something .. there , now go run off....
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I would say it in your face quicker than you can jump from your roof of your house...bro I've been posting here a long long time, its not being about cool just that you don't go to a drug dealres house if you to be sober, and you sure as hell don't come to getbig for life coaching... if you need a goal, pick a small one.. like make your bed or something...plan, execute, complete...then feel good you did something .. there , now go run off....
I didn't come here looking for coaching slanty, I asked do you think I'm nuts got the fucking answer i was looking for(Pm) it answered the fucking question.
The answer was better than anything I could get in real life, as getbig lacks a filter unlike real life.
The other question does life suck was more general. It had very little to do with me personally only my own observations about the people around here(jnn,Failcan,all the guys past thrirty in their clubbing thread) and friends and family, their issues with money/women, and more importantly aging. Coming into a thread and saying bullshit that ain't true is bullshit either way you try to slide it, again your ego's self preservation has no end.
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But whatever dude your not cool as you think.
amigo,
It has nothing to do with if he is "cool" or not
JJ seems like a guy who genuinely enjoys his life and you are some young punk complaining about your life during a time when you should be having mindless fun.
Take the tampon out of your cunt and just have some fun
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That's true, but eventually you always end up home, suitcase in hand, very much broke. Yes, the experiences changed you, yes it has opened your mind, but there is always home in the end. It's best to work hard, pay off your mortgage, get a few pennies in the bank THEN set off adventuring.
Bah! I respectfully disagree. Its called making a plan and BUDGETING, my friend. ;)
If you feel like you need to wait until you're 55+ to start enjoying life, God Bless.
Last weekend I went to the leaving party of a colleague that 'chucked it all in' and went travelling. He left on Monday. He made £15 000 debt to fund all of this. Sure, he will have a cracking time, see places, bang sluts, smoke shit and sleep on beaches, but his return date to the UK is already booked. He is coming back to debt and nothing. I'm not claiming that it's the wrong way to do it, but get yourself a base first and make sure it's stable. Only then you can travel with a clear heart.
Hmmm...I suppose if you just "hit the road" and "bang sluts and smoke shit" without making sure you're straightening things out at home base first, you won't have a "clear heart" while traveling, or doing whatever it is that interests you. :-\
Why didn't your friend get his financial affairs in order before setting out on his travels? That's plain dumb. Sounds like he not only ran away from his financial obligations at home, but he didn't have a game plan for his life upon returning home. :-\
"It's nice to have a lot of money, but you know, you don't want to keep it around forever. Otherwise, it's a little like saving sex for your old age."
— Warren Buffett ;)
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amigo,
It has nothing to do with if he is "cool" or not
JJ seems like a guy who genuinely enjoys his life and you are some young punk complaining about your life during a time when you should be having mindless fun.
Take the tampon out of your cunt and just have some fun
Lol hows that having fun shit working out for you, I think I'll pass on that myself.
You can blame the mods for merging threads this is two different questions, one is about me and it was and very well answered in a way that only a completely open form could answer a question, the other was about you guys in general. Considering your a self proclaimed middle aged mess, I thought you might appreciate the title of the thread atleast. As it's more to do with you guys scaring the shit out of me, than the other way around.
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Meh I don't think there's much of a differnece, I'm not delusional, but suicide is becoming a lingering thought. And I don't mean that in some dark attenion whore shit. I mean that in a more of a matter of fact, like shit man doesn't everyone?
P.S. I'm not gay if I were I'd have no problem admitting it, I'm pretty open about that shit. If you can't tell by the subject of thread.
I suggest praying about it. When all else fails take it to the one that truly knows your heart.
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How about doing some of those things NOW, or at least taking proactive steps to achieve these goals as soon as possible. You are not even promised tomorrow, let alone a 75+ year life span. Work to the experience the best life possible TODAY, not off in the distant future.
Usually this type of thinking is due to financial constraints that are of our choosing. So many are obsessed with material items that give you a very short-term happiness before the excitement subsides or these things become obsolete.
EXPERIENCES are much more lasting and satisfying than purchasing material goods. For me, that meant traveling the world and making many sacrifices to do so. You have to make it your mission to what it takes to enact your dreams.
Agreed....set your mind and heart firmly around your personal goals and then take steps forward towards them.
I'd also add, that personally I align my heart with God and draw my strength from him.
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My life is good atm
Training is going fine, I am healthy, have a good job and a very nice girlfriend. No complaints at all.
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people who are hapier than you dont care about you. They dont want to deal with weaker people, it s the instinct fo survival. They have to defend themselves from your "ilness" and not be contaminated by it. When you re weak nobody is interested in you. People are interested in strong characters it means increased chances of survival if they stick around them. This is the irony, people will stay away from you if you re enaring death. Like animals. You re the weakest link, period.
Life is all about dominating or being dominated. To dominate creates well being, to be dominated creates suffering, frustration. The exception is that women like being dominated by men. Men like being dominated by older father figures.
See the concept of pederasty on google.
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My life is good atm
Training is going fine, I am healthy, have a good job and a very nice girlfriend. No complaints at all.
You forgot to mention you have a family. Which is crucial to hapiness. Even a not so great one is always better than having none or a "recomposed" one where everyone is hypocrit and luring you with fake emotions.
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people who are hapier than you dont care about you. They dont want to deal with weaker people, it s the instinct fo survival. They have to defend themselves from your "ilness" and not be contaminated by it. When you re weak nobody is interested in you. People are interested in strong characters it means increased chances of survival if they stick around them. This is the irony, people will stay away from you if you re enaring death. Like animals. You re the weakest link, period.
Life is all about dominating or being dominated. To dominate creates well being, to be dominated creates suffering, frustration. The exception is that women like being dominated by men. Men like being dominated by older father figures.
See the concept of pederasty on google.
I disagree with this.
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Bah! I respectfully disagree. Its called making a plan and BUDGETING, my friend. ;)
If you feel like you need to wait until you're 55+ to start enjoying life, God Bless.
Hmmm...I suppose if you just "hit the road" and "bang sluts and smoke shit" without making sure you're straightening things out at home base first, you won't have a "clear heart" while traveling, or doing whatever it is that interests you. :-\
Why didn't your friend get his financial affairs in order before setting out on his travels? That's plain dumb. Sounds like he not only ran away from his financial obligations at home, but he didn't have a game plan for his life upon returning home. :-\
"It's nice to have a lot of money, but you know, you don't want to keep it around forever. Otherwise, it's a little like saving sex for your old age."
— Warren Buffett ;)
So basically we agree. I'm not 55 by the way, I just turned 30. My financials are in glittering condition although I'm not a Getbig trillionaire.
My point is that very very few people, almost nobody can afford to take oodles of time off and hit the dirt trails of Asia with a joint and bright pink bandanna. My ex colleague realised that he is stuck on the hamster wheel without ever having a chance of making any money in his position, never mind budgeting for travels, and just borrowed the money and left. This is pretty much what everyone does. Unless mommy and daddy is flush with cash and willing to finance the lifestyle. I also suppose that leaving without a plan and throwing yourself to where ever the wind blows you hold a certain kind of allure, although it usually only works out in Hollywood.
It's a damn shame so many people waste their 20's, when it's an ideal time to set yourself up for life, so by the time you're starting to hit the 30's, you're in an awesome position to travel, experience things and just enjoy life without having much financial worries.
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I disagree with this.
you believe in religion and prayers and judging by your picture you dont sound like you re quite the intelectual so i ll leave it at that.
Only people from your family can care about you, but they dont really care about you but about parts of them in you, ie their genes. People help you because it helps them, not just because they "want to help you". People help you because they have ties with you and because your survival increase their own chances of survival. But i guess it's too complicated for you to understand especially if you re into the whole "my kid is just born" thing at the moment. Been there, done that.
again great read:
http://thomasslater.blogspot.com
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“Those who cannot think for themselves quote others“
Sevastase 2011
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It's not that life sucks. Life is all there is, it can't suck by definition. Your life situation may suck right now but clearly other people are happy, at least for some time. You sure have been happy at some point in time too. Life sucks because we make it that way. If you look at it objectively - at least in the western world - it's almost never a matter of life or death, it's only in our heads. Your world is as dark as your thoughts about it are. Some people have an easy path through life, but for most, everything that really matters is a struggle. The world simply won't let you rest for long, it will force you to fight and eventually change, over and over again.
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It's not that life sucks. Life is all there is, it can't suck by definition. Your life situation may suck right now but clearly other people are happy, at least for some time. You sure have been happy at some point in time too. Life sucks because we make it that way. If you look at it objectively - at least in the western world - it's almost never a matter of life or death, it's only in our heads. Your world is as dark as your thoughts about it are. Some people have an easy path through life, but for most, everything that really matters is a struggle. The world simply won't let you rest for long, it will force you to fight and eventually change, over and over again.
Good post man, good post with a lot of food for thought. Sometimes when I find myself in a bit of a shitty mood, you know, work can fuck off, my boss can fuck off, my parents and girlfriend can fuck off, etc, sometimes I've managed to turn the thoughts around and walk away happy. It's all in the head.
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you believe in religion and prayers and judging by your picture you dont sound like you re quite the intelectual so i ll leave it at that.
Only people from your family can care about you, but they dont really care about you but about parts of them in you, ie their genes. People help you because it helps them, not just because they "want to help you". People help you because they have ties with you and because your survival increase their own chances of survival. But i guess it's too complicated for you to understand especially if you re into the whole "my kid is just born" thing at the moment. Been there, done that.
again great read:
http://thomasslater.blogspot.com
I absolutely do believe in the power of prayer, the faithfulness of God and the blessing of a wonderful family (both my own small family and the one I was blessed to be raised in). And no, I'm not an intellectual by any means. I'm ignorant on a number of topics, but I do know that I'm loved, I do know that I'm saved, I do know I have family and friends that care deeply for me and I do know that I don't agree with everything you've said above. That's not a hit on you either....it's just what I believe and how I was raised. Hopefully that doesn't offend you.
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God is Good.
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thats because the only book your read is the bible... Or worst, because it's the only book your parents have read and told you about. Obviously you didnt spend much time in a library. Your view of reality is conditionned by what you know about it = what is told in a single book and what you ve been taught which is based on a single book. Let's hope you never find out about buddhism, psychology, anthropology, biology, physics, ethology etc lol
but it's ok, to each his own.
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thats because the only book your read is the bible... Or worst, because it's the only book your parents have read and told you about. Obviously you didnt spend much time in a library. Your view of reality is conditionned by what you know about it = what is told in a single book and what you ve been taught which is based on a single book.
but it's ok, to each his own.
Good post. Each religion teaches that the one they follow is the only one. How many wars have been fought over religion? Pretty much each religion teaches the same thing but they fight amongst each other which is one of every religion's rules "do undo others" not following there own principles. So best just to do the right things in life and not adhere to some Bible or Religion its simple.
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thats because the only book your read is the bible... Or worst, because it's the only book your parents have read and told you about. Obviously you didnt spend much time in a library. Your view of reality is conditionned by what you know about it = what is told in a single book and what you ve been taught which is based on a single book.
but it's ok, to each his own.
My life has been conditioned by the works God has performed in my heart and my life.
Yes I read the bible....every believer should.
Do I crunch a ton of books each month? No, one a month (occassionally two). My wife reads many more books than I do and my Dad has read a ton of stuff. My mother reads somewhere between me and my wife. I study a lot online...that's my preference. They love to turn pages.
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you re ignorant, but as long as you re peacefully ignorant i have no problem with it.
To scientists the whole picture is defined by evolution, natural selection, biology (and what they learned after years if not decades of observation, reading, studying, which can only be done by people with faster brains), to the average joe who didnt study, dont read much and spend a lot of time behind the TV screen (imitating his own father/grandfather and so on) there s a need for something easier to understand and that's just the way it is. Everyone has his place in the whole picture.
In a recent book i ve read they say you can see slower children and faster ones very soon, in fact in the first months. There s a separation between faster thinking kids who observe slower kids mistakes and learn from them without reproducing the mistakes. That's just how it works.
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you re ignorant, but as long as you re peacefully ignorant i have no problem with it.
To scientists the whole picture is defined by evolution, natural selection, biology (and what they learned after years if not decades of observation, reading, studying, which can only be done by people with faster brains), to the average joe who didnt study, dont read much and spend a lot of time behind the TV screen (imitating his own father/grandfather and so on) there s a need for something easier to understand and that's just the way it is. Everyone has his place in the whole picture.
In a recent book i ve read they say you can see slower children and faster ones very soon, in fact in the first months. There s a separation between faster thinking kids who observe slower kids mistakes and learn from them without reproducing the mistakes. That's just how it works.
I love how you pepper your posts with insults yet I haven't insulted you once.
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people who are hapier than you dont care about you. They dont want to deal with weaker people, it s the instinct fo survival. They have to defend themselves from your "ilness" and not be contaminated by it. When you re weak nobody is interested in you. People are interested in strong characters it means increased chances of survival if they stick around them. This is the irony, people will stay away from you if you re enaring death. Like animals. You re the weakest link, period.
Life is all about dominating or being dominated. To dominate creates well being, to be dominated creates suffering, frustration. The exception is that women like being dominated by men. Men like being dominated by older father figures.
See the concept of pederasty on google.
Lol over simplified to the extreme. People do like weakness as long as their weekness benefits them. I don't hate short people because they are weak, I appreciate that they make me look taller and even more powerful. People also tend to help you if they see they are very much like you or are suffering from the same thing. This is human nature. Turning this into some zero sum game of me over all, is really ego worship.
Well adjusted people/happy people are most happy when they are well connected to a group of people, there weakness's and strength do play a factor as do many others thing. The point is you can't reduce it to any simple desire goal or need, as there are many many competing insticts/desires/values/ etc. The human brain, which overrides all of these so called real things( money,power, youth) in the end is the most important.
From a logical viewpoint there is no such thing as reality, because the physical world around you is so far removed from your brain that it's near impossible to connect the two.
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I love how you pepper your posts with insults yet I haven't insulted you once.
That's because non-believers such as him feel threatened.
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My life has been conditioned by the works God has performed in my heart and my life.
Yes I read the bible....every believer should.
Do I crunch a ton of books each month? No, one a month (occassionally two). My wife reads many more books than I do and my Dad has read a ton of stuff. My mother reads somewhere between me and my wife. I study a lot online...that's my preference. They love to turn pages.
Smart man.
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you re ignorant, but as long as you re peacefully ignorant i have no problem with it.
To scientists the whole picture is defined by evolution, natural selection, biology (and what they learned after years if not decades of observation, reading, studying, which can only be done by people with faster brains), to the average joe who didnt study, dont read much and spend a lot of time behind the TV screen (imitating his own father/grandfather and so on) there s a need for something easier to understand and that's just the way it is. Everyone has his place in the whole picture.
In a recent book i ve read they say you can see slower children and faster ones very soon, in fact in the first months. There s a separation between faster thinking kids who observe slower kids mistakes and learn from them without reproducing the mistakes. That's just how it works.
The worst and most obnoxious fundamentalists are the Athiests. :-\
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The worst and most obnoxious fundamentalists are the Athiests. :-\
True.
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"If we believe absurdities, we shall commit atrocities" -- Voltaire (1694-1778)
Throughout history, religion has been responsible for a large proportion of the suffering in the world - yet religious beliefs are based in ancient myths and legends that should have been discarded centuries ago.
..... Fundamentalists, however, fail to realise that the phrase "sacred text" is self-contradictory. Since writing is meaning that can be handled by anybody, any time, it is always profane and promiscuous. Meaning that has been written down is bound to be unhygienic. Words that could only ever mean one thing would not be words. Fundamentalism is the paranoid condition of those who do not see that roughness is not a defect of human existence, but what makes it work. For them, it is as though we have to measure Everest down to the last millimetre if we are not to be completely stumped about how high it is. It is not surprising that fundamentalism abhors sexuality and the body, since in one sense all flesh is rough, and all sex is rough trade.
The New Testament author known as Luke is presumably aware that Jesus was actually born in Galilee. But he needs to have him born in Judea, since the Messiah is to spring from the Judea-based house of David. A Messiah born in bumpkinish Galilee would be like one born in Gary, Indiana. So Luke coolly invents a Roman census, for which there is no independent evidence, which requires everyone to return to their place of birth to be registered. Since Jesus's father Joseph comes from Bethlehem in Judea, he and his wife Mary obediently trudge off to the town, where Jesus is conveniently born.
It would be hard to think up a more ludicrous way of registering the population of the entire Roman empire than having them all return to their birthplaces. Why not just register them on the spot? The result of such a madcap scheme would have been total chaos. The traffic jams would have made Ken Livingstone's job look positively cushy. And we would almost certainly have heard about this international gridlocking from rather more disinterested witnesses than Luke. Yet fundamentalists must take Luke at his word.
Fundamentalists are really necrophiliacs, in love with a dead letter. The letter of the sacred text must be rigidly embalmed if it is to imbue life with the certitude and finality of death. Matthew's gospel, in a moment of carelessness, presents Jesus as riding into Jerusalem on both a colt and an ass - in which case, for the fundamentalist, the Son of God must indeed have had one leg thrown over each.
The fundamentalist is a more diseased version of the argument- from-the-floodgates type of conservative. Once you allow one motorist to throw up out of the car window without imposing a lengthy prison sentence, then before you know where you are, every motorist will be throwing up out of the window all the time, and the roads will become impassable. It is this kind of pathological anxiety, pressed to an extreme, which drove the religious police in Mecca early last year to send fleeing schoolgirls back into their burning school because they were not wearing their robes and head dresses, and which inspires family-loving US pro-lifers eager to incinerate Iraq to gun down doctors who terminate pregnancies. To read the world literally is a kind of insanity.
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I don't get the logic with this type of thinking. Yes, everything ends eventually and you die someday, but that's exactly why you want to live your life and do something during the time you have.
If we didn't die and lived for eternity, that's when doing anything would be meaningless, since there is no rush or end, and you can do whatever you want tomorrow or next year or next century. Having so many options and so little time is what makes it worthwhile to do the things we enjoy while we can.
I like the way you think.
This is what I was saying in my first sentence, that we need to figure out what we want in life and try our best to do it before it's over. But what must be kept in mind is that it doesn't matter what you do, nothing will ever truly mean anything. So if you've lived for anything other than yourself, you missed the whole point. Even if you become the greatest most influential human ever... you still don't mean anything. You'll just be a manifestation of the universe that came in an out of existence for a small amount of years. It could mean something when you die, but i highly doubt it.