Does life suck - Not about me thanks mods for merging unrelated threads.

[jaejonna]

Lungdrenisgay was asking the same thing of himself when he was preforming his 'gay test' ...  'Do I suck ?'

[James28]

Alright, this ain't a melt down, just wondering what it is you live for. Alot of you guys will say bodybuilding, but that dosen't last, others say women but again mega waste of time. So what is it that keeps you interested in being alive.

Myself, my hobbies, my future. Keeps me busy. I aint got a lot of time for the world. I worked hard through my 20's and gained the necessary base for a future filled with travelling, kids and working whenever I feel like it. This year alone I have Austria in March, Canada for my birthday in June, Greece for a summer holiday, Kilimanjaro (the mountain) in August and a move to Austria in November. These things keep me excited and motivated. I don't read papers, magazines or watch ANY tv. I download the stuff I want to see and that's about my only contact with the outside world. I have my group of friends and family and I want for nothing more.

[Les Grossman]

"suicide is becoming a lingering thought."

Triple dog dare you.....

[jaejonna]

Meh I don't think there's much of a differnece, I'm not delusional, but suicide is becoming a lingering thought. And I don't mean that in some dark attenion whore shit. I mean that in a more of a matter of fact, like shit man doesn't everyone?

P.S. I'm not gay if I were I'd have no problem admitting it, I'm pretty open about that shit. If you can't tell by the subject of thread.

Your pathetic ...stop cloggin the internet with your whining you little bitch...be a man for once you little bitch ...

[wes]

Your pathetic ...stop cloggin the internet with your whining you little bitch...be a man for once you little bitch ...

^THIS^

[Les Grossman]

Your pathetic ...stop cloggin the internet with your whining you little bitch...be a man for once you little bitch ...

Exactly....harden the fuck up, or go buy three feet of rope.

[Lundgren]

See, in the US, you wouldn't be on a waitlist for one...and be on here talking about this mess.

Basically, you are looking for purpose, for definition...
we all seek it, yet you are missing a key component---people around you who can help guide you, give you hope, not false hope or false pride, but build you up, and give youexpectations to meet. This is where family comes in, people who have a strong sense of family or whose parents instilled in them a strong sense of identity and purpose, don't have to this type of issue as bad you do.  

I've come to realize my problem isn't my purpose, I've always had a sense of purpose and direction since I was about 15. It's that I'm stuck in this cycle of going off the rails, just as I get something going whether or not its a band, friend, a girl, job or school.

[James28]

How about doing some of those things NOW, or at least taking proactive steps to achieve these goals as soon as possible. You are not even promised tomorrow, let alone a 75+ year life span. Work to the experience the best life possible TODAY, not off in the distant future.

Usually this type of thinking is due to financial constraints that are of our choosing. So many are obsessed with material items that give you a very short-term happiness before the excitement subsides or these things become obsolete.

EXPERIENCES are much more lasting and satisfying than purchasing material goods. For me, that meant traveling the world and making many sacrifices to do so. You have to make it your mission to what it takes to enact your dreams.

That's true, but eventually you always end up home, suitcase in hand, very much broke. Yes, the experiences changed you, yes it has opened your mind, but there is always home in the end. It's best to work hard, pay off your mortgage, get a few pennies in the bank THEN set off adventuring.

Last weekend I went to the leaving party of a colleague that 'chucked it all in' and went travelling. He left on Monday. He made £15 000 debt to fund all of this. Sure, he will have a cracking time, see places, bang sluts, smoke shit and sleep on beaches, but his return date to the UK is already booked. He is coming back to debt and nothing. I'm not claiming that it's the wrong way to do it, but get yourself a base first and make sure it's stable. Only then you can travel with a clear heart.

[Lundgren]

Your pathetic ...stop cloggin the internet with your whining you little bitch...be a man for once you little bitch ...

Lolz me thinks you wouldn't be saying that to my face right now. But whatever dude your not cool as you think. Your just caught up in your ego like there's no tomorrow, every post you make shows that it's your main fixation. I made to seperate posts one was asking does life suck, the other was wether or not am I fucked. I got a pm about the personal one and it answered my question.
As far as the general does life suck, your immature answers, obsession with cool, and lack of anything else beside jokes on here has me wondering is your life that great.

[jaejonna]

Lolz me thinks you wouldn't be saying that to my face right now. But whatever dude your not cool as you think. Your just caught up in your ego like there's no tomorrow, every post you make shows that it's your main fixation. I made to seperate posts one was asking does life suck, the other was wether or not am I fucked. I got a pm about the personal one and it answered my question.
As far as the general does life suck, your immature answers, obsession with cool, and lack of anything else beside jokes on here has me wondering is your life that great.

I would say it in your face quicker than you can jump from your roof of your house...bro I've been posting here a long long time, its not being about cool just that you don't go to a drug dealres house if you to be sober, and you sure as hell don't come to getbig for life coaching... if you need a goal, pick a small one.. like make your bed or something...plan, execute, complete...then feel good you did something .. there , now go  run off....

[Lundgren]

I would say it in your face quicker than you can jump from your roof of your house...bro I've been posting here a long long time, its not being about cool just that you don't go to a drug dealres house if you to be sober, and you sure as hell don't come to getbig for life coaching... if you need a goal, pick a small one.. like make your bed or something...plan, execute, complete...then feel good you did something .. there , now go  run off....

I didn't come here looking for coaching slanty, I asked do you think I'm nuts got the fucking answer i was looking for(Pm) it answered the fucking question.
The answer was better than anything I could get in real life,  as getbig lacks a filter unlike real life.
The other question does life suck was more general. It had very little to do with me personally only my own observations about the people around here(jnn,Failcan,all the guys past thrirty in their clubbing thread) and friends and family, their issues with money/women, and more importantly aging. Coming into a thread and saying bullshit that ain't true is bullshit either way you try to slide it, again your ego's self preservation has no end.

[johnnynoname]

But whatever dude your not cool as you think.

amigo,

It has nothing to do with if he is "cool" or not

JJ seems like a guy who genuinely enjoys his life and you are some young punk complaining about your life  during a time when you should be having mindless fun.

Take the tampon out of your cunt and just have some fun

[Benny B]

That's true, but eventually you always end up home, suitcase in hand, very much broke. Yes, the experiences changed you, yes it has opened your mind, but there is always home in the end. It's best to work hard, pay off your mortgage, get a few pennies in the bank THEN set off adventuring.

Bah! I respectfully disagree. Its called making a plan and BUDGETING, my friend. 
If you feel like you need to wait until you're 55+ to start enjoying life, God Bless.

Last weekend I went to the leaving party of a colleague that 'chucked it all in' and went travelling. He left on Monday. He made £15 000 debt to fund all of this. Sure, he will have a cracking time, see places, bang sluts, smoke shit and sleep on beaches, but his return date to the UK is already booked. He is coming back to debt and nothing. I'm not claiming that it's the wrong way to do it, but get yourself a base first and make sure it's stable. Only then you can travel with a clear heart.

Hmmm...I suppose if you just "hit the road" and "bang sluts and smoke shit" without making sure you're straightening things out at home base first, you won't have a "clear heart" while traveling, or doing whatever it is that interests you. 
Why didn't your friend get his financial affairs in order before setting out on his travels? That's plain dumb. Sounds like he not only ran away from his financial obligations at home, but he didn't have a game plan for his life upon returning home. 


"It's nice to have a lot of money, but you know, you don't want to keep it around forever. Otherwise, it's a little like saving sex for your old age."
— Warren Buffett 

[Lundgren]

amigo,

It has nothing to do with if he is "cool" or not

JJ seems like a guy who genuinely enjoys his life and you are some young punk complaining about your life  during a time when you should be having mindless fun.

Take the tampon out of your cunt and just have some fun

Lol hows that having fun shit working out for you, I think I'll pass on that myself.

You can blame the mods for merging threads this is two different questions, one is about me and it was and very well answered in a way that only a completely open form could answer a question, the other was about you guys in general. Considering your a self proclaimed middle aged mess, I thought you might appreciate the title of the thread atleast. As it's more to do with you guys scaring the shit out of me, than the other way around.

[Man of Steel]

Meh I don't think there's much of a differnece, I'm not delusional, but suicide is becoming a lingering thought. And I don't mean that in some dark attenion whore shit. I mean that in a more of a matter of fact, like shit man doesn't everyone?

P.S. I'm not gay if I were I'd have no problem admitting it, I'm pretty open about that shit. If you can't tell by the subject of thread.

I suggest praying about it.  When all else fails take it to the one that truly knows your heart.

[Man of Steel]

How about doing some of those things NOW, or at least taking proactive steps to achieve these goals as soon as possible. You are not even promised tomorrow, let alone a 75+ year life span. Work to the experience the best life possible TODAY, not off in the distant future.

Usually this type of thinking is due to financial constraints that are of our choosing. So many are obsessed with material items that give you a very short-term happiness before the excitement subsides or these things become obsolete.

EXPERIENCES are much more lasting and satisfying than purchasing material goods. For me, that meant traveling the world and making many sacrifices to do so. You have to make it your mission to what it takes to enact your dreams.

Agreed....set your mind and heart firmly around your personal goals and then take steps forward towards them.

I'd also add, that personally I align my heart with God and draw my strength from him.

[Ursus]

My life is good atm

Training is going fine, I am healthy, have a good job and a very nice girlfriend. No complaints at all.

[Natural Man]

people who are hapier than you dont care about you. They dont want to deal with weaker people, it s the instinct fo survival. They have to defend themselves from your "ilness" and not be contaminated by it. When you re weak nobody is interested in you. People are interested in strong characters it means increased chances of survival if they stick around them. This is the irony, people will stay away from you if you re enaring death. Like animals. You re the weakest link, period.

Life is all about dominating or being dominated. To dominate creates well being, to be dominated creates suffering, frustration. The exception is that women like being dominated by men. Men like being dominated by older father figures.

See the concept of pederasty on google.

[Natural Man]

My life is good atm

Training is going fine, I am healthy, have a good job and a very nice girlfriend. No complaints at all.

You forgot to mention you have a family. Which is crucial to hapiness. Even a not so great one is always better than having none or a "recomposed" one where everyone is hypocrit and luring you with fake emotions.

[Man of Steel]

people who are hapier than you dont care about you. They dont want to deal with weaker people, it s the instinct fo survival. They have to defend themselves from your "ilness" and not be contaminated by it. When you re weak nobody is interested in you. People are interested in strong characters it means increased chances of survival if they stick around them. This is the irony, people will stay away from you if you re enaring death. Like animals. You re the weakest link, period.

Life is all about dominating or being dominated. To dominate creates well being, to be dominated creates suffering, frustration. The exception is that women like being dominated by men. Men like being dominated by older father figures.

See the concept of pederasty on google.

I disagree with this.

[James28]

Bah! I respectfully disagree. Its called making a plan and BUDGETING, my friend. 
If you feel like you need to wait until you're 55+ to start enjoying life, God Bless.
Hmmm...I suppose if you just "hit the road" and "bang sluts and smoke shit" without making sure you're straightening things out at home base first, you won't have a "clear heart" while traveling, or doing whatever it is that interests you. 
Why didn't your friend get his financial affairs in order before setting out on his travels? That's plain dumb. Sounds like he not only ran away from his financial obligations at home, but he didn't have a game plan for his life upon returning home. 


"It's nice to have a lot of money, but you know, you don't want to keep it around forever. Otherwise, it's a little like saving sex for your old age."
— Warren Buffett 

So basically we agree. I'm not 55 by the way, I just turned 30. My financials are in glittering condition although I'm not a Getbig trillionaire.

My point is that very very few people, almost nobody can afford to take oodles of time off and hit the dirt trails of Asia with a joint and bright pink bandanna. My ex colleague realised that he is stuck on the hamster wheel without ever having a chance of making any money in his position, never mind budgeting for travels, and just borrowed the money and left. This is pretty much what everyone does. Unless mommy and daddy is flush with cash and willing to finance the lifestyle. I also suppose that leaving without a plan and throwing yourself to where ever the wind blows you hold a certain kind of allure, although it usually only works out in Hollywood.

It's a damn shame so many people waste their 20's, when it's an ideal time to set yourself up for life, so by the time you're starting to hit the 30's, you're in an awesome position to travel, experience things and just enjoy life without having much financial worries.

[Natural Man]

I disagree with this.

you believe in religion and prayers and judging by your picture you dont sound like you re quite the intelectual so i ll leave it at that.

Only people from your family can care about you, but they dont really care about you but about parts of them in you, ie their genes. People help you because it helps them, not just because they "want to help you". People help you because they have ties with you and because your survival increase their own chances of survival.  But i guess it's too complicated for you to understand especially if you re into the whole "my kid is just born" thing at the moment. Been there, done that.


again great read:

http://thomasslater.blogspot.com

[Cleanest Natural]

“Those who cannot think for themselves quote others“

Sevastase 2011

[wavelength]

It's not that life sucks. Life is all there is, it can't suck by definition. Your life situation may suck right now but clearly other people are happy, at least for some time. You sure have been happy at some point in time too. Life sucks because we make it that way. If you look at it objectively - at least in the western world - it's almost never a matter of life or death, it's only in our heads. Your world is as dark as your thoughts about it are. Some people have an easy path through life, but for most, everything that really matters is a struggle. The world simply won't let you rest for long, it will force you to fight and eventually change, over and over again.

[James28]

It's not that life sucks. Life is all there is, it can't suck by definition. Your life situation may suck right now but clearly other people are happy, at least for some time. You sure have been happy at some point in time too. Life sucks because we make it that way. If you look at it objectively - at least in the western world - it's almost never a matter of life or death, it's only in our heads. Your world is as dark as your thoughts about it are. Some people have an easy path through life, but for most, everything that really matters is a struggle. The world simply won't let you rest for long, it will force you to fight and eventually change, over and over again.

Good post man, good post with a lot of food for thought. Sometimes when I find myself in a bit of a shitty mood, you know, work can fuck off, my boss can fuck off, my parents and girlfriend can fuck off, etc, sometimes I've managed to turn the thoughts around and walk away happy. It's all in the head.