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Title: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: hifrommike on December 19, 2005, 03:38:18 PM
In a recent issue of PLAYBOY magazine (October issue, I think), one of the playmates was interviewed about her likes & dislikes.  Her first listed "dislike" was "weightlifters."  This sentiment seems to be true for many women.  Why do you think this is the case?  Do women fear BBs being able to overpower them?  Do they just not like the look?  Are they picking up the social stigma that has long existed that disapproves of bodybuilders?  Are they getting their views from the media, which tends to promote the skinny, smaller-built look on male stars?  Or have too many had bad experiences with men who are livin' large?  Any ideas? 
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Mr. Intenseone on December 19, 2005, 03:42:57 PM
Because they want athletes and older, wiser men 8)!!
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Bast06 on December 19, 2005, 03:45:45 PM
They don't like the FAT 'bodybuilders' for the most part.  The guys that are in shape and are not overly large like Pro bb's most girls like.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: eastcoastbbman on December 19, 2005, 03:48:05 PM
in this particular case, mike, it may be that she simply insists on being the center of attention and doesnt want her man outshining her. lots of very hot women seem to date beneath them aesthetically due to straight-up insecurity.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: flexfan on December 19, 2005, 03:50:44 PM
It's a few things:

First off, women aren't attracted to pro bodies any more than men are attracted to pro female bodies.  The extreme musculature screams of obsession and narcissism, which both turn people off.  Pro physiques also reak of drug abuse, that is just how it goes.

Most pros probably feel women are attracted to their physiques though.  Maybe 1% of women like pro bodies - but how many men have those types of bodies?  Far less than 1% so each pro probably stands a very good chance to get lucky.

You made a pretty good list of reasons as it is.  I agree with them.

If you are trying to be pretty and attract the ladies, 160-210 will do it.  I would hope most people training are doing it for their own goals and not to get the girls.

Agreed.  Your moderates will be picked in much higher frequencies than fat guys and skinny guys.  But you honestly don't need much muscle for this (to be more fit than the average male).

Yeah, I've found that most women appreciate a well built guy- but not too excessive. I train mostly for recreation- a personal hobby. However, I must admit that I also train to look decent and attract women.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: BayGBM on December 19, 2005, 03:51:58 PM
in this particular case, mike, it may be that she simply insists on being the center of attention and doesnt want her man outshining her. lots of very hot women seem to date beneath them aesthetically due to straight-up insecurity.

Bodybuilders and playmates insecure . . .  who knew!  ???
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: phyxsius on December 19, 2005, 04:33:51 PM
In a recent issue of PLAYBOY magazine (October issue, I think), one of the playmates was interviewed about her likes & dislikes.  Her first listed "dislike" was "weightlifters."   

who would when those bitches had Hugh Hefner as their sugar daddy. Everything is provided
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: sarcasm on December 19, 2005, 04:38:52 PM
In a recent issue of PLAYBOY magazine (October issue, I think), one of the playmates was interviewed about her likes & dislikes.  Her first listed "dislike" was "weightlifters."  This sentiment seems to be true for many women.  Why do you think this is the case?  Do women fear BBs being able to overpower them?  Do they just not like the look?  Are they picking up the social stigma that has long existed that disapproves of bodybuilders?  Are they getting their views from the media, which tends to promote the skinny, smaller-built look on male stars?  Or have too many had bad experiences with men who are livin' large?  Any ideas? 
she's just been burned by a few bb'ers and she's bitter, nothing more complicated than that, class dismissed!!
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Sculpter on December 19, 2005, 04:40:45 PM
It's because the majority of male bb'ers are so vain that the women will have to fight w/them for the bathroom mirror :D.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Zach Trowbridge on December 19, 2005, 04:45:04 PM
she's just been burned by a few bb'ers and she's bitter, nothing more complicated than that, class dismissed!!

Probably not.  I'm going to bet she probably doesn't even know many, if any, legitimate bodybuilders in person, let alone enough to be burned by several.

And being bitter towards bodybuilders for having been "burned" by one or two is like being bitter towards blondes for eating your last Snack Pack. 
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: eastcoastbbman on December 19, 2005, 04:56:58 PM
lets not forget that on the deepest levels, women are not as attracted to looks as men are. theyre not as visual, for the most part. they respond more to a man's status and income level and degree of power (not physical) than anything else. in fact, in this day and age, a bodybuilders phisique may subconsciously suggest to the woman that that paricular man spends too much time in the gym and not enough on career....TURN OFF!
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: pumpster on December 19, 2005, 05:00:51 PM
Probably because her perception of weightlifters is formed by blockheads struttin' round with sprayed-on T-shifts and stupid pants that scream "look at me, please!" It's the obvious ones who are immediately ID'd as "weightlifters"; can't blame her for deserved, negative perceptions. Someone with the same body but a little more finesse and subtlety in presentation, without the need of a T-shirt 2 sizes too small, isn't someone she'll remember or ID as a weightlifter.

Those who lift but aren't so friggin obvious would likely be appreciated but aren't identified as being the typical lunkheaded ego maniacs people think of when they think of weightlifters.

Second, a guy overtly showing off the bod is not only tasteless to most, it's practically admiting a lack of class or money.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: GUNZO on December 19, 2005, 05:10:46 PM
in this particular case, mike, it may be that she simply insists on being the center of attention and doesnt want her man outshining her. lots of very hot women seem to date beneath them aesthetically due to straight-up insecurity.
Yup. It's a bit of a control issue.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: McFarland on December 19, 2005, 05:13:16 PM
Hef's 10x the man that any bodybuilder could ever be.  Bodybuilders are, as a whole, scared fucking children.  Chicks actually get off more to the idea of getting with a nasty dude than they do a pretty boy anyway.  It's true, it's true.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Palpatine Q on December 19, 2005, 05:18:26 PM
A bobdybuilder is just as vain as a woman. I don't think a chick is attracted to a man with the sensibilities of a chick, they want a man who acts like a man.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: bigdumbbell on December 19, 2005, 05:21:20 PM
women in my neighborhood go for the chubby bald jewish daddys oh i forgot  rich too
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Earl1972 on December 19, 2005, 05:45:16 PM
Her first listed "dislike" was "weightlifters."  This sentiment seems to be true for many women. 


I think that's all in your head.  One or two girls say they don't like muscles and that stands out in your memory making you exaggerate how many women don't like muscular guys.

E
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: saucetradomous on December 19, 2005, 07:06:57 PM
Hef's 10x the man that any bodybuilder could ever be.  Bodybuilders are, as a whole, scared fucking children.  Chicks actually get off more to the idea of getting with a nasty dude than they do a pretty boy anyway.  It's true, it's true.

What's makes Hef 10X better? Money? experience?
I wouldn't say "10x the man than any bodybuilder could ever be"
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Big N on December 19, 2005, 07:33:07 PM
It's because the majority of male bb'ers are so vain that the women will have to fight w/them for the bathroom mirror :D.


lol
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: DIVISION on December 19, 2005, 07:42:45 PM
If you are trying to be pretty and attract the ladies, 160-210 will do it.  I would hope most people training are doing it for their own goals and not to get the girls.

Word, Matthew.

If you are doing it for the pussy you are in the WRONG game.

Muscle is not required to attain pussy.....and that's truth.

she's just been burned by a few bb'ers and she's bitter, nothing more complicated than that, class dismissed!!

Exactly, Mirzy....

Another bitch who got her feelings touched and now she's holding it against ALL bodybuilders.  Very small minded thinking.

lets not forget that on the deepest levels, women are not as attracted to looks as men are. theyre not as visual, for the most part. they respond more to a man's status and income level and degree of power (not physical) than anything else. in fact, in this day and age, a bodybuilders phisique may subconsciously suggest to the woman that that paricular man spends too much time in the gym and not enough on career....TURN OFF!

You're overanalyzing, Eastcoaster..........

Women as a rule like just about anything and everything out there.  It really just depends on what about you strikes their fancy.  Some might like your muscle, others may not, some may like you IN SPITE of your muscle, others may not.  It's way too convoluted a topic to generalize on.  Half the time women don't know what the fu.ck they want......so why should you?

I heard it's a myth that women aren't as attracted to the visual as men are.  I think it's just a social construct - it's "wrong" for a woman to be open or blatant about it.

I think the main thing for women is attractiveness, as it is with men.  My thesis was going to cover this topic before I had to can the project to get another one done (for deadline purposes).

Correct, Matthew.

It is a social construct and many women don't have the balls to work beyond it.  If they did you'd see more women coming up to men asking them out.  Have you ever been working out and noticed out of the corner of your eye a woman staring at you?  You notice it, but wait for the right moment to turn around, just in time to see her turn her head so you don't catch her staring.  That's women.  They are afraid to be blatant, even though they are just as horny as we are.  They want cock as much as we want the pussy............RECOGNI ZE.

It's all how you play it.  Women aren't that hard to understand if you are paying attention.

I think that's all in your head.  One or two girls say they don't like muscles and that stands out in your memory making you exaggerate how many women don't like muscular guys.

Exactly.

This coming from a guy with a physique which I would assume women do go for (as opposed to the pro ones).   ???

Are you kidding me here Jeff?

Jeff's physique is streamlined, he is more like the type that most females would initially go for.  Take what Jeff says with a grain of salt, trust me.  The thing about women being more excited by the "nasty guy" is bullshit.  The majority of women want an attractive guy who at least takes care of his body, regardless of whether he's a prettyboy or a Roid Monkey on the rise.....

Feel this.




DIV
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: McFarland on December 19, 2005, 07:48:22 PM
What's makes Hef 10X better? Money? experience?
I wouldn't say "10x the man than any bodybuilder could ever be"

Just watch Hef operate.  There's no bodybuilder that could walk in the same room with him and feel superior.  He knows his role too well.  He created it, along with the rest of his unique reality, himself.  Because of that, Hef doesn't give a fuck, and he does so with unbelievable class.  Bodybuilders care about TOO Goddamn much.

 
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: McFarland on December 19, 2005, 07:59:07 PM
This coming from a guy with a physique which I would assume women do go for (as opposed to the pro ones).   ???

Are you kidding me here Jeff?

You have it held against you more often than not.  Chicks need to feel like they're doing everyone a favor, including the guy they're with.  Besides that, how do you think all the hot-ass chicks you see in prison gangbangs get so damn turned on by it?  You think that's a quality unique to them?  No, they're the only ones bold enough to "keep it real."  This is why many white males are so resentful of blacks that date white women...there is inherent wiring in white women to actually prefer the more primal/less refined (as defined relative to our society) of the two.  I'm actually at a loss anymore when asked to name the more "evolved" party.         
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: McFarland on December 19, 2005, 08:03:21 PM
Word, Matthew.

If you are doing it for the pussy you are in the WRONG game.

Muscle is not required to attain pussy.....and that's truth.

Exactly, Mirzy....

Another bitch who got her feelings touched and now she's holding it against ALL bodybuilders.  Very small minded thinking.

You're overanalyzing, Eastcoaster..........

Women as a rule like just about anything and everything out there.  It really just depends on what about you strikes their fancy.  Some might like your muscle, others may not, some may like you IN SPITE of your muscle, others may not.  It's way too convoluted a topic to generalize on.  Half the time women don't know what the fu.ck they want......so why should you?

Correct, Matthew.

It is a social construct and many women don't have the balls to work beyond it.  If they did you'd see more women coming up to men asking them out.  Have you ever been working out and noticed out of the corner of your eye a woman staring at you?  You notice it, but wait for the right moment to turn around, just in time to see her turn her head so you don't catch her staring.  That's women.  They are afraid to be blatant, even though they are just as horny as we are.  They want cock as much as we want the pussy............RECOGNI ZE.

It's all how you play it.  Women aren't that hard to understand if you are paying attention.

Exactly.

Jeff's physique is streamlined, he is more like the type that most females would initially go for.  Take what Jeff says with a grain of salt, trust me.  The thing about women being more excited by the "nasty guy" is bullshit.  The majority of women want an attractive guy who at least takes care of his body, regardless of whether he's a prettyboy or a Roid Monkey on the rise.....

Feel this.




DIV

I don't know, man.  Of course there are gonna be mediums arrived at, as well as extremes...and the way society distorts it all leaves it all pretty cloudy.  I'm not sure enough on any of this to stand next to it in a debate with anyone.  Just throwing out the theories that tend to rank highest in my mind on this particular day.  They're ever-evolving.   
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: saucetradomous on December 19, 2005, 08:05:17 PM
Just watch Hef operate.  There's no bodybuilder that could walk in the same room with him and feel superior.  He knows his role too well.  He created it, along with the rest of his unique reality, himself.  Because of that, Hef doesn't give a f**k, and he does so with unbelievable class.  Bodybuilders care about TOO Goddamn much.

 

I think he does care because he has an image to uphold.  The whole image he created was that of fantasy he portrayed in his early magazines.  He started living and dressing like he does because he wanted to make his life in the magazines seem much more real.   
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: McFarland on December 19, 2005, 08:14:44 PM
I think he does care because he has an image to uphold.  The whole image he created was that of fantasy he portrayed in his early magazines.  He started living and dressing like he does because he wanted to make his life in the magazines seem much more real.   

Ha ha...I'm sure if he could, he'd take a little more youth and muscle if it were granted to him as an option with no strings attached by God, but seriously...for him to worry about it enough to go work out hard and not eat what he wanted would show a weakness in his character that I just don't see right now, despite his age-associated frailty.  Besides, he could always just pay some bodybuilder dude to drill his girls while he watched or whatever, like Steven Seagall was rumored to have paid Chris Duffy to do to his girl before he did gay porn.  LOL  BTW, I have no idea if that one's true or not, though, as the guy that told it to me's also told me some pretty tall ones before.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: bigdumbbell on December 19, 2005, 08:17:20 PM
Ha ha...I'm sure if he could, he'd take a little more youth and muscle if it were granted to him as an option with no strings attached by God, but seriously...for him to worry about it enough to go work out hard and not eat what he wanted would show a weakness in his character that I just don't see right now, despite his age-associated frailty.  Besides, he could always just pay some bodybuilder dude to drill his girls while he watched or whatever, like Steven Seagall was rumored to have paid Chris Duffy to do to his girl before he did gay porn.  LOL  BTW, I have no idea if that one's true or not, though, as the guy that told it to me's also told me some pretty tall ones before.

all big dick storys aint true
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Unchained81 on December 19, 2005, 08:18:06 PM
in this particular case, mike, it may be that she simply insists on being the center of attention and doesnt want her man outshining her. lots of very hot women seem to date beneath them aesthetically due to straight-up insecurity.

Yep.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: gatomjp on December 19, 2005, 08:21:18 PM
It's dangerous to generalize. That's why those articles in men's magazines...'What Women Want" are usually more confusing than helpful. Interview 20 women and you will get 20 different opinions about what is hot.

Having said that, a bodybuilder is an extreme of a certain type. Just like the skinny rock star is an extreme. I think that people out on the far fringes of the bell curve in any aspect of their attributes...physique, personality or behavior, will naturally have a small group of the opposite sex that finds them attractive. Very often however, those that prefer an extreme will be overly enthusiatic about it and that works to the bodybuilder's advantage. Women that like bodybuilders, REALLY like bodybuilders!

We also have to take into account the stereotypical, public PERCEPTION of the bodybuilder; stupid, narcissistic, poor, we've heard it all before and unfortunately, far too many bodybuilders do little to dispel that image. When a woman meets a bodybuilder that shatters those myths and is articulate, sensitive, funny, worldly and talented in venues other than the gym, the woman may find to her surprise that she actually LIKES a big, extreme physique because, you see, PERSONALITY still counts!
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: DIVISION on December 19, 2005, 09:12:37 PM
We also have to take into account the stereotypical, public PERCEPTION of the bodybuilder; stupid, narcissistic, poor, we've heard it all before and unfortunately, far too many bodybuilders do little to dispel that image. When a woman meets a bodybuilder that shatters those myths and is articulate, sensitive, funny, worldly and talented in venues other than the gym, the woman may find to her surprise that she actually LIKES a big, extreme physique because, you see, PERSONALITY still counts!

Fu.ck Perception........s'all about keeping it real.

If you are stupid, narcissistic and poor, then so be it.

Be who you are............regardles s of the stereotype.

Do what you do..........stay true.



DIV
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: WiseGuy on December 19, 2005, 09:18:56 PM
In a recent issue of PLAYBOY magazine (October issue, I think), one of the playmates was interviewed about her likes & dislikes.  Her first listed "dislike" was "weightlifters."  This sentiment seems to be true for many women.  Why do you think this is the case?  Do women fear BBs being able to overpower them?  Do they just not like the look?  Are they picking up the social stigma that has long existed that disapproves of bodybuilders?  Are they getting their views from the media, which tends to promote the skinny, smaller-built look on male stars?  Or have too many had bad experiences with men who are livin' large?  Any ideas? 

being 35 yrs old it seems younger women in their 20's prefer feminine men, men who do not come off too masculine, as opposed to older chicks who seem to dig it.... these young girls are either intimidated by big guys or like guys who look like chicks cuz they are closet lesbos

I guess wimpy, skinny guys are in fashion...

go figure

 >:(
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Bast06 on December 19, 2005, 11:03:53 PM
Hefner PAYS for girls.  How does that make him a great man, Jeff?

Sure he can have 7 hot girlfriends in their 20s but that's because he lets them live in his mansion, buys them cars, clothes and everything else they want.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: 240 is Back on December 19, 2005, 11:08:41 PM
Hefner PAYS for girls.  How does that make him a great man, Jeff?

Sure he can have 7 hot girlfriends in their 20s but that's because he lets them live in his mansion, buys them cars, clothes and everything else they want.

We all pay for girls, Bast06.

How many women stand by a man that lives in the gutter?

You pay the automobills, you pay the rent, you pay for dinner. 

All men pay.

Hef just has a tad more to show for it than most of us lol..,.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Bast06 on December 19, 2005, 11:09:55 PM
Yes well, some guys aren't rich and have amazing girls.

so basically

Hef is OVERpaying!   ;D
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: 240 is Back on December 19, 2005, 11:13:50 PM
Yes well, some guys aren't rich and have amazing girls.

so basically

Hef is OVERpaying!   ;D

Perhaps.

But you show me one homeless guy with seven supermodel girlfriends, and I'll show you one anatomically blessed vagrant.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: McFarland on December 19, 2005, 11:15:45 PM
Hefner PAYS for girls.  How does that make him a great man, Jeff?

Sure he can have 7 hot girlfriends in their 20s but that's because he lets them live in his mansion, buys them cars, clothes and everything else they want.

Have you ever seen the power that Howard Stern has over EVERY SINGLE WOMAN that goes on his show?  They all fall for him in the first 3 minutes.  Even the rich ones.  It's incredible.  From what I've been seeing lately, true self-assuredness sure tends to trump sexy every time.  Those guys just KNOW THEMSELVES so well that they know everyone else before they even know themselves.  That's what fucks people up.  It's not just the money, man.  It's the AURA.  I know that power comes with money, but still.  You can't just say he "buys them," IMO.  Not everyone with money has what guys like Howard Stern and Hugh Hefner has.     
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: DIVISION on December 19, 2005, 11:16:51 PM
All men pay.

Hef just has a tad more to show for it than most of us lol..,.

Word.

That's the truth.

Hef lives in pussy, literally............pro bably sleeps with his head between a woman's thighs.........




DIV
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Bast06 on December 19, 2005, 11:20:48 PM
Well Howard Stern has a great personality.    Howard is confident and funny so you're right about him.
I wouldn't say the same for Hef.


Also Howard has a decent girlfriend.  He doesn't get into relationships with low class girls that do porn and have no character like Hef does.   
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: onlyme on December 19, 2005, 11:20:53 PM
The thing about Hef is not only his money and power but whathe can do for you.  He has launched 100's of carreers if not thousands.  He takes care of all his playmates.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: 240 is Back on December 19, 2005, 11:32:02 PM
The thing about Hef is not only his money and power but whathe can do for you.  He has launched 100's of carreers if not thousands.  He takes care of all his playmates.

keith, you ever go to the playboy mansion in your doo-rag days?
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: onlyme on December 19, 2005, 11:36:24 PM
No I kind of had a chance to go with a friend as his bodyguard but for some reason I didn't.  I know a few who have.  Supposed to be unreal.  I used to take people by the house when they were visiting from out of town.  What a pad.  Plus it is right up the street from Aaron Spelling's house which looks like a hotel.  50,000+ sq. ft. if I remember right.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: 240 is Back on December 19, 2005, 11:38:40 PM
No I kind of had a chance to go with a friend as his bodyguard but for some reason I didn't.  I know a few who have.  Supposed to be unreal.  I used to take people by the house when they were visiting from out of town.  What a pad.  Plus it is right up the street from Aaron Spelling's house which looks like a hotel.  50,000+ sq. ft. if I remember right.

You should write a book, man.  Many of the ironagers as well as young bucks would enjoy your stories of old time BBing, arm wrestling, and general clutter and chaos.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Rome on December 21, 2005, 09:18:51 AM
I've never trained for what women like. There are enough of them who like very muscular men so why try to please everybody. Hell, back when I started 215 was considered too big.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: 21Guns on December 21, 2005, 11:01:44 AM
women love bodybuilders.Even the ones that say they dont usually do.If you see them in a club after a couple of drinks they will be grabbing your arms and feeling your chest.If the chicks aint diggin you maybe you dont look like a bodybuilder.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: phyxsius on December 21, 2005, 01:48:15 PM
Girls dig this kind of body..
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Man of Steel on December 21, 2005, 02:07:25 PM
Women like men that are tall, healthy, lean, attractive, educated, wealthy, cultured, strong, family-oriented, sensitive, goal-oriented, romantic, fun, dedicated and very well-endowed.



This leaves out about 99% of the bb population.


MOS
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Azure on December 21, 2005, 02:25:38 PM
It's usually because their faces are so horrible that no woman is interested.  Natural BB's get women all the time.

So do attractive looking pro's....
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: sarcasm on December 21, 2005, 03:23:36 PM
Women like men that are tall, healthy, lean, attractive, educated, wealthy, cultured, strong, family-oriented, sensitive, goal-oriented, romantic, fun, dedicated and very well-endowed.



This leaves out about 99% of the bb population.


MOS
hahahahahaha, fucking classic.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: brianX on December 21, 2005, 03:27:58 PM
Women like men that are tall, healthy, lean, attractive, educated, wealthy, cultured, strong, family-oriented, sensitive, goal-oriented, romantic, fun, dedicated and very well-endowed.



This leaves out about 99% of the bb population.


MOS

That leaves out 99% of the general population, actually.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Earl1972 on December 21, 2005, 09:25:32 PM
That leaves out 99% of the general population, actually.

yep

E
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Richard2004 on December 21, 2005, 09:45:13 PM
In a recent issue of PLAYBOY magazine (October issue, I think), one of the playmates was interviewed about her likes & dislikes.  Her first listed "dislike" was "weightlifters."  This sentiment seems to be true for many women.  Why do you think this is the case?  Do women fear BBs being able to overpower them?  Do they just not like the look?  Are they picking up the social stigma that has long existed that disapproves of bodybuilders?  Are they getting their views from the media, which tends to promote the skinny, smaller-built look on male stars?  Or have too many had bad experiences with men who are livin' large?  Any ideas? 

Duhhh...ugh...grunt...me thinks it's because these HOT chicks see the bodybuilding mags. on the mag. racks at the newstands, grocery/drug stores, etc....i.e. mags like Flex, MD, IM, & Musclemag, which display mostly pics. of the 280-300+ lb. pro. BB drug-bloated FREAKS...a.k.a. "Chemical Monsters"!!! 

Sadly, these pro. BB drug-bloated FREAKS have become the "stereotypical image" in many women's mind of what a "weightlifter" looks like!  With full apologies to the fabulous competitive Olympic weightlifting athletes!!

These drug-bloated pro. BB FREAKS are sort of "light-years-removed" from the lean, light/medium muscular, physiques of the mass media's promoted "male model ideal look" aren't they?  Duhhh!
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: onlyme on December 21, 2005, 11:02:04 PM
Yes girls like em lean.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: 619Rules on December 21, 2005, 11:34:33 PM
Women like men that are ....................... wealthy.......................................



This leaves out about 99% of the bb population.


MOS

There you go-I fixed it for you!
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Richard2004 on December 21, 2005, 11:52:56 PM
Yes girls like em lean.

(http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=47230.0;id=50163;image)

Now, now, Onlyme, not the "concentration-camp" look, but rather more like the "Desperate Housewives" gardner "hunk" look...

(http://www.bravotv.com/Manhunt/Downloads/Wallpapers/manhunt_wallpaper800_h.jpg)

Why...why...a look one could actually achieve with just LIMITED all-natural BB!
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: onlyme on December 22, 2005, 12:32:09 AM
They don't BB's because they kill people
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: hifrommike on December 30, 2005, 12:18:57 AM
http://teenadvice.about.com/library/weekly/aa122602b.htm

Ahh! My favorite thing about a guy's body (besides his smile) is his arms! I compelty love arms... but I don't like big buff guys either. It grosses me out. Plus, it shows that most of there life is devoted to weightlifting and I don't want to be involved with some one when that's like all they do. A toned guy is nice.

CLUB121LDR

**************************

I just found the above post on the linked site.  Maybe some women feel they won't be able to be the center of attention of the bodybuilder boyfriend.  Also, some may feel that they won't be able to push their boyfriend around (manipulate him) if he's that big & strong. 
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: McFarland on December 30, 2005, 12:29:25 AM
Bodybuilders don't even like bodybuilders.  Why should women?   ;D
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Mobil on December 30, 2005, 12:31:30 AM
if you were ugly before u started lifting weights, then you are still ugly after you got big.  point is... women like a face more then anything. i have a friend that his huge and he gets tons of pussy.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: phyxsius on December 30, 2005, 12:40:52 AM
Bodybuilders don't even like bodybuilders.

you were saying?
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Dan-O on December 30, 2005, 12:59:41 AM
Most bodybuilders are selfish, narcissistic, egocentric assholes, and women who know a thing or two realize that.  And quite a few posters on Getbig validate that presumption on a daily basis.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Oliver Klaushof on December 30, 2005, 01:08:15 AM
There are all kinds of sluts for all kinds of physiques. Unless you look like Quasimodo, you shouldn't find it too hard to fuck some chicks. Bodybuilder physiques might not be popular amongst the mainstream, but there are many devoted sluts that would love to suck and fuck a big muscle man.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: DIVISION on December 30, 2005, 01:09:37 AM
Bodybuilders don't even like bodybuilders.  Why should women?   ;D

True.

Most bodybuilders are selfish, narcissistic, egocentric assholes

Funny.......you could have said those very same things about some women.   :o

hmmmmmm.

Daniel, I think we have irony here.....





DIV
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Dan-O on December 30, 2005, 01:15:31 AM
Funny.......you could have said those very same things about some women.   :o

hmmmmmm.

Daniel, I think we have irony here.....





DIV

Yes, unfortunately you are correct. :(  Perhaps the lesson is that many bodybuilders are rather like women in that respect.....  and you know what they say about like charges repelling.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: DIVISION on December 30, 2005, 01:40:16 AM
Yes, unfortunately you are correct. :(  Perhaps the lesson is that many bodybuilders are rather like women in that respect.....  and you know what they say about like charges repelling.

That's why I can't take bodybuilder seriously........the femmenine attributes....

Sometimes worse than a woman.....



DIV
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: blaster on December 30, 2005, 01:48:31 AM
This is bullshit. I have a mate who is massive and we go to clubs a bit. For every woman who reckons he's too big, there must be at least one who wants to root him cause of his size. I sit back and watch them looking at him and talking to each other about him. They feel his arms and shoulders up all the time.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: scooter on December 30, 2005, 07:04:12 AM
look if you guys are lifting to get pussy you are in it for the wrong reasons. If a girl dosent like a big guy than she is not in to you get over it find someone who is. I am engaged to a girl who is in to the real big vascular guys not some little pretty boy that is going to get pushed around.

WHEN THE GIRLS LIKE YOUR MUSCLES ITS TIME TO GO BACK TO THE GYM
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: tom joad on December 30, 2005, 07:16:09 AM
WHEN THE GIRLS LIKE YOUR MUSCLES ITS TIME TO GO BACK TO THE GYM

H  A  R  D  C  O  R  E
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Beyond Genetics on December 30, 2005, 07:25:16 AM
In a recent issue of PLAYBOY magazine (October issue, I think), one of the playmates was interviewed about her likes & dislikes.  Her first listed "dislike" was "weightlifters."  This sentiment seems to be true for many women.  Why do you think this is the case?  Do women fear BBs being able to overpower them?  Do they just not like the look?  Are they picking up the social stigma that has long existed that disapproves of bodybuilders?  Are they getting their views from the media, which tends to promote the skinny, smaller-built look on male stars?  Or have too many had bad experiences with men who are livin' large?  Any ideas? 

oh c-mon people...

It's playboy...  90% of the guys reading it are either skinny little teenagers or middle aged non-bodybuilding men. It would completely destroy the fantasy for those guys if she said that bodybuilders turned her on.

get it?

Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: drkaje on December 30, 2005, 07:37:53 AM
Just watch Hef operate.  There's no bodybuilder that could walk in the same room with him and feel superior.  He knows his role too well.  He created it, along with the rest of his unique reality, himself.  Because of that, Hef doesn't give a f**k, and he does so with unbelievable class.  Bodybuilders care about TOO Goddamn much.

 

Jeff,

We all create our own role. Some just do a better job. :)

Aside from a lot of the above mentioned reasons...

Maybe a few of them have hooked up with guys on heavy cycles and inadequate estrogen blockers. ::)
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Serge218 on December 30, 2005, 07:59:12 AM
Facts are facts.  Women find pro bodybuilders repulsive.  We all know this fact but bodybuilding fans respect the work the athletes put in to develop their physiques.  Fitness models and a small segment of women find the pro bodybuilding physique attractive but a majority of women think a man that is 5’10, and weighs 260 with 6% body fat looks stupid.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: sarcasm on December 30, 2005, 08:08:40 AM
Facts are facts.  Women find pro bodybuilders repulsive.  We all know this fact but bodybuilding fans respect the work the athletes put in to develop their physiques.  Fitness models and a small segment of women find the pro bodybuilding physique attractive but a majority of women think a man that is 5’10, and weighs 260 with 6% body fat looks stupid.
sounds like a bodybuilder kicked "serge" off a bench and sat him in the water fountain.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: luv2lift on December 30, 2005, 10:18:54 AM
I'm a woman.  I love them!!!
There are idiots everywhere in every corner of the world.
The bodybuilder's I've dated alway treated me decently.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: HavoX on December 30, 2005, 12:37:25 PM
I have a theory:



bodybuilders = asian women

All white dudes want to try out an asian woman... just to see what it's like.  Most chicks wanna see what it would be like to be with a bullgod.  Not neccessarily forever... but for a while.

I had an ex who dated a little gymnast, then a balleron (read: tiny male ballerina)... two months with me and she thought Pudzianowski was the hottest man on the planet... besides me.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: suckmymuscle on December 30, 2005, 12:40:57 PM
In a recent issue of PLAYBOY magazine (October issue, I think), one of the playmates was interviewed about her likes & dislikes.  Her first listed "dislike" was "weightlifters."  This sentiment seems to be true for many women.  Why do you think this is the case?  Do women fear BBs being able to overpower them?  Do they just not like the look?  Are they picking up the social stigma that has long existed that disapproves of bodybuilders?  Are they getting their views from the media, which tends to promote the skinny, smaller-built look on male stars?  Or have too many had bad experiences with men who are livin' large?  Any ideas? 

  Darwinian fitness predicts, that women, are attracted to athletic and fit men. However, the deformed muscularity, of the pros, makes them look like their sick-which they are-and women look for signes of health on their mates. Extreme muscularity is not attractive because it is a sign tha there's something wrong with that man. Did my explanation help you?

SUCKMYMUSCLE
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Parker on December 30, 2005, 01:02:16 PM
Just watch Hef operate.  There's no bodybuilder that could walk in the same room with him and feel superior. 
 

That is why three out the 5 blonde "girlfriends" he has were cheating on him.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: The Showstoppa on December 30, 2005, 01:05:23 PM
I'm a woman.  I love them!!!
There are idiots everywhere in every corner of the world.
The bodybuilder's I've dated alway treated me decently.

Thanks for the input, "brianX IFBB PRO."
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: onlyme on December 30, 2005, 01:13:24 PM
BECAUSE THEY WILL BURN YOU!
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Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: drkaje on December 30, 2005, 01:24:26 PM
LOL @ Onlyme!

I guess someone had to say it. :)
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: triniguy on December 30, 2005, 01:40:45 PM
Many women think: more muscle = less brain
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Samourai Pizzacat on December 30, 2005, 01:42:36 PM
Lets get rid of the notion that Heffner is leading the lifestyle every man wants to live.
The man had a brilliant idea and it worked when he was in his 40s en 50s. He is 70-something, he hasn't changed, clinging to this fake imperium he created, where everything is controlled and scheduled. Stupid blonde bimbos that surround him purely for the fame, they lose their independance and Hugh has his show. He will never be loved by them, he turned himself from the ultimate playboy into a characature. He has everything he wants but is left undoubtedly emotionally deprived and barren.....No, I do not envy the man.


P.S.
When he goes out with the girls they have there own private room, WTF, why bother going out? It's not like his pad's to small. The fun of going out is to meet people and to prance about..
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: DIVISION on December 30, 2005, 01:43:33 PM
WHEN THE GIRLS LIKE YOUR MUSCLES ITS TIME TO GO BACK TO THE GYM

^Word, nugga.   >:(

If you lift for the bitches you are in the WRONG game.





DIV
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Norton on December 30, 2005, 03:01:13 PM
Lets get rid of the notion that Heffner is leading the lifestyle every man wants to live.
The man had a brilliant idea and it worked when he was in his 40s en 50s. He is 70-something, he hasn't changed, clinging to this fake imperium he created, where everything is controlled and scheduled. Stupid blonde bimbos that surround him purely for the fame, they lose their independance and Hugh has his show. He will never be loved by them, he turned himself from the ultimate playboy into a characature. He has everything he wants but is left undoubtedly emotionally deprived and barren.....No, I do not envy the man.


P.S.
When he goes out with the girls they have there own private room, WTF, why bother going out? It's not like his pad's to small. The fun of going out is to meet people and to prance about..

You just want to be loved. Is that too much to ask!
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Earl1972 on December 30, 2005, 04:03:06 PM
Ahh! My favorite thing about a guy's body (besides his smile) is his arms! I compelty love arms... but I don't like big buff guys either. It grosses me out. Plus, it shows that most of there life is devoted to weightlifting and I don't want to be involved with some one when that's like all they do.
CLUB121LDR



then what are you doing here, woman?

E
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Azure on December 30, 2005, 04:10:40 PM
Wearing those dreadful jumpsuits and fanny packs are not the way to a girl's heart either.  Plus waht the drugs do to the faces is repulsive.

Go to any amateur show and the women find the guys hot.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: 24KT on December 30, 2005, 05:24:01 PM
Hahahaha! Guys, thank you for a thoroughly enjoyable thread!
I can't remember when I've laughed so hard.

Internet access: $40
Computer system: $1700
Reading clued out body builders discussing what women find attractive: PRICELESS!!!  ;D

Serge218 hit the nail on the head when he said:

Facts are facts.  Women find pro bodybuilders repulsive.  We all know this fact but bodybuilding fans respect the work the athletes put in to develop their physiques.  Fitness models and a small segment of women find the pro bodybuilding physique attractive but a majority of women think a man that is 5’10, and weighs 260 with 6% body fat looks stupid.

You might find it hard to swallow, but as a general rule, the majority of women do NOT like body builders. That's a fact. It has nothing to do with stealing the limelight... it's about aesthetics. Most women think that kind of exaggerated musculature is flat out gross looking and repulsive. While many women can appreciate and respect the hard work and dedication it takes to achieve, only a very small % of the female population will find it attractive. It's not a big deal, there are enough bb groupies out there, ...just find one of them.

And yes Matt, women ARE just as attracted to the visual as men are, however, what avid bodybuilders who worship the pros may think is visually attractive can be, and quite often is completely different from what most women consider visually appealing. We also take into account other factors which weigh into our overall determination of whether we find a guy attractive or not. You all laughed at MOS but he wasn't far off the mark when he said: 

Women like men that are tall, healthy, lean, attractive, educated, wealthy, cultured, strong, family-oriented, sensitive, goal-oriented, romantic, fun, dedicated and very well-endowed.

This leaves out about 99% of the bb population.

MOS

And as much as I hate agreeing with a guy who uses the screen name SUCKMYMUSCLE, he was also pretty accurate when he said:

  Darwinian fitness predicts, that women, are attracted to athletic and fit men. However, the deformed muscularity, of the pros, makes them look like their sick-which they are-and women look for signes of health on their mates. Extreme muscularity is not attractive because it is a sign tha there's something wrong with that man. Did my explanation help you?

SUCKMYMUSCLE

I think Dan-O hit a bulls-eye when he said:

Most bodybuilders are selfish, narcissistic, egocentric assholes, and women who know a thing or two realize that.  And quite a few posters on Getbig validate that presumption on a daily basis.

But hands down the Blue Ribbon goes to Gatomjp.

It's dangerous to generalize. That's why those articles in men's magazines...'What Women Want" are usually more confusing than helpful. Interview 20 women and you will get 20 different opinions about what is hot.

Having said that, a bodybuilder is an extreme of a certain type. Just like the skinny rock star is an extreme. I think that people out on the far fringes of the bell curve in any aspect of their attributes...physique, personality or behavior, will naturally have a small group of the opposite sex that finds them attractive. Very often however, those that prefer an extreme will be overly enthusiatic about it and that works to the bodybuilder's advantage. Women that like bodybuilders, REALLY like bodybuilders!

We also have to take into account the stereotypical, public PERCEPTION of the bodybuilder; stupid, narcissistic, poor, we've heard it all before and unfortunately, far too many bodybuilders do little to dispel that image. When a woman meets a bodybuilder that shatters those myths and is articulate, sensitive, funny, worldly and talented in venues other than the gym, the woman may find to her surprise that she actually LIKES a big, extreme physique because, you see, PERSONALITY still counts!

Now, having said all that, I wanna see a pic of McFarland's bod  :P
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: body88 on December 30, 2005, 06:00:10 PM
This the the dumbest post I ever seen.Saying sugar isnt sweet, and the moon is made of chesse.I am married now but when I was single I banged atleast 200 girls, and all of them were hot.Off season I get up to 280-290 lbs, and compete at 250-258 lbs. so I am not small by all means.All my friends who are single that are bodybuilders including my cousinare rotating 3-4 diffrent girls at a time.Look at Chris Cormier he has 4 diffrent women who all train at Golds Venice, and they all now about each other, and he still plays them all.Another Example would be Lee Preist, before he married Cathy, I seen him with a diffrent girl every week.The only girls who dont like bodybuilders is insecure ones, girls that dont want there man getting more attention they get.Even my wives friends, including her sister think im hot.So to think that women dont like bodybuilders you are out of your mind.Who do strippers date?Usually the bounces at the club, or have a bodybuilder boyfriend.I live in Vegas, so I see alot of stripers at my gym , and all of there boyfriends work out.Another good point is women will date a man for money, but have a boy toy bodybuilder on the side for sex .Why you ask?Women love muscles.My sister works at the Wynn casino and she is the head bartender at the pool, she makes 100k a year not bad.Anyways sometimes I go visit her at work, and everytime I go by there all the cocktail waitresses, go crazy.They all conme up to the bar just to come get a look.My sister says, they ask about me , like am I single.I am not bragging my point is I have been training 20 years, and not once in my life I had a problem getting girls.Just like men like women who are femmine , women like men who are muscular.I am married now, and my wife loves the fact that I always look good for her.Want more sex from a woman,just stay in shape.Trust me women like eye candy to



dumbest / gayest post ever

99.9 percent of girls say the word ew the second any bodybuilder picture is looked at

facts jack
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: egoatdoor on December 30, 2005, 06:18:33 PM
Women like men that are tall
Not me.
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healthy, lean, attractive, educated,
Yep,yep,yep,yep
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wealthy,
  Getting there.
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cultured
Nope. More of an engineer than an artist.
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, strong,
Yep.
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family-oriented
. Nope.
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, sensitive,
. Yep.
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goal-oriented
. Oh yeah!!
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romantic
. Yep.
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  fun
. Sorry.
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, dedicated
. Yep.
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and very well-endowed.
. God shorted me here. Does nine out of fifteen count?  ;D



Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: egoatdoor on December 30, 2005, 06:28:42 PM
Another Example would be Lee Preist, before he married Cathy, I seen him with a diffrent girl every week.

He left Cathy. His flavor of the month is now Adela Garcia. How long will that last?
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: sarcasm on December 30, 2005, 07:11:39 PM
bitches like bb'ers if the guy has some height, a decent face and looks like he's got some cash, not really different than any other situation in life.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: blaster on December 30, 2005, 07:13:53 PM
look if you guys are lifting to get pussy you are in it for the wrong reasons. If a girl dosent like a big guy than she is not in to you get over it find someone who is.

I agree.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: suckmymuscle on December 30, 2005, 07:26:24 PM
I agree.

  Agreed! It is women who must please men, not the other way around. As Arnold once said:"Women are good to use, for sexual relief, between sets."Arnold is genius!

SUCKMYMUSCLE
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: suckmymuscle on December 30, 2005, 07:33:20 PM
Hahahaha! Guys, thank you for a thoroughly enjoyable thread!
I can't remember when I've laughed so hard.

Internet access: $40
Computer system: $1700
Reading clued out body builders discussing what women find attractive: PRICELESS!!!  ;D

Serge218 hit the nail on the head when he said:

You might find it hard to swallow, but as a general rule, the majority of women do NOT like body builders. That's a fact. It has nothing to do with stealing the limelight... it's about aesthetics. Most women think that kind of exaggerated musculature is flat out gross looking and repulsive. While many women can appreciate and respect the hard work and dedication it takes to achieve, only a very small % of the female population will find it attractive. It's not a big deal, there are enough bb groupies out there, ...just find one of them.

And yes Matt, women ARE just as attracted to the visual as men are, however, what avid bodybuilders who worship the pros may think is visually attractive can be, and quite often is completely different from what most women consider visually appealing. We also take into account other factors which weigh into our overall determination of whether we find a guy attractive or not. You all laughed at MOS but he wasn't far off the mark when he said: 

And as much as I hate agreeing with a guy who uses the screen name SUCKMYMUSCLE, he was also pretty accurate when he said:

I think Dan-O hit a bulls-eye when he said:

But hands down the Blue Ribbon goes to Gatomjp.

Now, having said all that, I wanna see a pic of McFarland's bod  :P

  Who cares what you think? You're one woman. There are, like, three and a half billion women in the world. Do you know what's the difference between men and cun ts? We look better as we age, improving just like fine wine, while you bitches start to look like shit in your mid to late twenties. What's even the point of this discussion? It's not like women are hard to get! Even Bin Laden can get laid by a dozen differen cun ts a night, if he wants to.

SUCKMYMUSCLE
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: blaster on December 30, 2005, 07:47:09 PM
In all seriousness, I go to the gym for me, and me only.

If anything, I go to look better than my mates before I go to look good for my girl because we are a competitive group and like giving each other crap about our bodies.

I'm not very big at all, but I asked my girl if I looked like Jay Cutler would she still love me, and she said 'yes'. If your girl really loves you, she'll stay with you. Besides, how often do they like feeling your arms etc? As if they don't like it. They just don't like the veins!
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Serge218 on December 30, 2005, 08:54:22 PM
sounds like a bodybuilder kicked "serge" off a bench and sat him in the water fountain.

With 18 inch arms and a few black belts, I would love to meet the "bodybuilder" that sits me anywhere.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: 24KT on December 30, 2005, 08:57:53 PM
Body 88 just because you dont get any play dont be hatin the real bodybuilders who do.If women dont like bodybuilders, then why did CraigTitus get so much action?Craig Titus, has be with more women then you fantasize about getting.Everytime I walk into a store girls stare at me, and when I am in line they want to touch my arm.My arms are 21 1/4 cold, so if that isnt a arm of a bodybuiler then what is?Another example Mike Ohearn, women go crazy over mike.He did covers for Haloquin Romances, and women drooled over him.If you dont think girls like bodybuilders you need to get with the program, because all the bodybuilders I know have hot wives inclding me.

There's a HUGE world of difference between the aesthetic appeal of a Mike O'Hearn, Anthony Catanzaro, or even a young Craig Titus, ...and a pumped up grotesque, deformed, mutant freak of nature like certain nameless Mr Olympia's  :-X . I mean really... some of these guys look like caricatures right out of some geek's comic book.

So what if Mike O'Hearn did covers for Harlequin, or if Fabio's picture on an Avon cover made sales shoot up 50 fold. It's not JUST the body, ...it's the whole package, ...made all that much more appealing by the body. The body is just the ribbon, or wrapping paper on the package. But if you can't deliver the goods to get under a woman's skin and penetrate her psyche, ...no amount of muscle is gonna help you.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: suckmymuscle on December 30, 2005, 09:01:16 PM
There's a HUGE world of difference between the aesthetic appeal of a Mike O'Hearn, Anthony Catanzaro, or even a young Craig Titus, ...and a pumped up grotesque, deformed, mutant freak of nature like certain nameless Mr Olympia's  :-X . I mean really... some of these guys look like caricatures right out of some geek's comic book.

So what if Mike O'Hearn did covers for Harlequin, or if Fabio's picture on an Avon cover made sales shoot up 50 fold. It's not JUST the body, ...it's the whole package, ...made all that much more appealing by the body. The body is just the ribbon, or wrapping paper on the package. But if you can't deliver the goods to get under a woman's skin and penetrate her psyche, ...no amount of muscle is gonna help you.

  Penetrate her psyche...I'd rather penetrate something else... ;)

SUCKMYMUSCLE

Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: 24KT on December 30, 2005, 09:57:41 PM
  Penetrate her psyche...I'd rather penetrate something else... ;)

<LOL> First you have to penetrate her psyche... before you can get to the "something else"  ;)
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: DIVISION on December 30, 2005, 10:02:58 PM
So what if Mike O'Hearn did covers for Harlequin, or if Fabio's picture on an Avon cover made sales shoot up 50 fold. It's not JUST the body, ...it's the whole package, ...made all that much more appealing by the body. The body is just the ribbon, or wrapping paper on the package. But if you can't deliver the goods to get under a woman's skin and penetrate her psyche, ...no amount of muscle is gonna help you.

^There's some validity to that.

For women it is typically about the mind, once you own that, the pussy follows.......

As a guy, if you are a bodybuilder you do have an edge because you set yourself apart from the masses, however that doesn't negate the fact that you still have to interest her intellectually at some point or she will lose interest.

-or- she'll just use you for sex like a whore.



DIV
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: McFarland on December 30, 2005, 10:05:06 PM
Now, having said all that, I wanna see a pic of McFarland's bod  :P

OH SNAP

 ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: christinafitness on December 30, 2005, 10:07:05 PM
I like bodybuilders, but they have to be my "type."
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: suckmymuscle on December 30, 2005, 10:29:26 PM
<LOL> First you have to penetrate her psyche... before you can get to the "something else"  ;)

  Not really. There are many bitches who put out, without the conversation bullshit. Women are very easy...

SUCKMYMUSCLE
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: body88 on December 30, 2005, 10:31:35 PM
Body 88 just because you dont get any play dont be hatin the real bodybuilders who do.If women dont like bodybuilders, then why did CraigTitus get so much action?Craig Titus, has be with more women then you fantasize about getting.Everytime I walk into a store girls stare at me, and when I am in line they want to touch my arm.My arms are 21 1/4 cold, so if that isnt a arm of a bodybuiler then what is?Another example Mike Ohearn, women go crazy over mike.He did covers for Haloquin Romances, and women drooled over him.If you dont think girls like bodybuilders you need to get with the program, because all the bodybuilders I know have hot wives inclding me.

I get plenty off ass how the hell would you know because i am stating what i have seen when girls check out pics of pros... and 99.9 percent of girls who are at my place flip through my books or check out my posters of BB say eww..."hes to big" "he looks like it hurts to stand there" ( conditioning). Devid beckem is considered the hottest guy on the planet and bradd pit etc..99 999999999 percent of hot girls would take them over any BB lol

jus saying it like i see it

Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: suckmymuscle on December 30, 2005, 10:37:05 PM
I get plenty off ass and 99.9 percent of girls who are at my place flip through my books or check out my posters of BB say eww..."hes to big" he looks like it hurts to stand there ( conditioning). Devid beckem is considered the hottest guy on the planet and bradd pit etc..99 999999999 percent of hot girls would take them over any BB lol

jus saying it like i see it



  No question about it. Yet...I'd still look like a bodybuilder. If you work ou to please chicks, then you're a model, not a bodybuilder.

SUCKMYMUSCLE
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: body88 on December 30, 2005, 10:43:09 PM
I totally agree muscle....... I was not trying to bash BB Thats guys post just made it seem like all hot chicks die for BB's and we all know that is completley untrue

if youre a good looking guy. then you find a good looking girl no matter what you are. I was merley stating 99 percent of girls find bb way to large and conditiong much to great...BB can pull tons of fitness chicks but walk one into a club anywhere ( i run many and you will find all the girls on a 180 pound ripped kid while they think the 270 bloated ass bb looks fat.

Again i believe you have a hot wife and may get many girls but the general population of women prefere the brad pit type fight club look i have found which is just my opinion but proven time and time again by women
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Big N on December 30, 2005, 11:05:13 PM
What's makes Hef 10X better? Money? experience?
I wouldn't say "10x the man than any bodybuilder could ever be"
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: suckmymuscle on December 30, 2005, 11:14:13 PM
I totally agree muscle....... I was not trying to bash BB Thats guys post just made it seem like all hot chicks die for BB's and we all know that is completley untrue

if youre a good looking guy. then you find a good looking girl no matter what you are. I was merley stating 99 percent of girls find bb way to large and conditiong much to great...BB can pull tons of fitness chicks but walk one into a club anywhere ( i run many and you will find all the girls on a 180 pound ripped kid while they think the 270 bloated ass bb looks fat.

Again i believe you have a hot wife and may get many girls but the general population of women prefere the brad pit type fight club look i have found which is just my opinion but proven time and time again by women

  Yeah, there is no question that models with symmetrical faces, six-packs and boyish are far more popular than bodybuilders. Many people think that women like alpha males, but this is only true in a very fe cases. Usually, it's either insecure girls who ant a man to protect them, or very aggressive women, who need an even more aggressive men, o make them feel female. As hard as i is to believe, a significant majority(maybe 70%) of women are attracted to men who look like boys.

  Why? Because women are mothers, and boyish men bring about the female nurturing and protective instincs. This explains the popularity of Orlando Bloom with teenage girls, or the continued popularity of Brad Pitt, who, at the age of 41, continues to play the pretty boy role. Of course, Pitt is a "boy" with some serious wrinkles around his eyes, but that's a different story. The thing is that I don't want to be a pretty boy. Besides, at age 26, I'm getting too old to play this part, anyway. Sure, I could still play it for a few more years, maybe even a decade if I wanted to, but eventually I'd have to snap out of it; we all have to. Think of Brad Pitt in the film "Troy". He had the body of a model in his twenties, but the face of a middle-aged man(he was 40 then, but he actually looks 45 or 46). I prefer to look like a grown man, with large muscles and facial hair. Just my opinion. We do agree on everything, though.

SUCKMYMUSCLE
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: 24KT on December 30, 2005, 11:22:17 PM
This coming from a guy with a physique which I would assume women do go for (as opposed to the pro ones).   ???

Are you kidding me here Jeff?

Ok, I've just checked out the infamous McFarland's bod.  Not bad, ...not bad at all.

I gotta admit, I'm not too fond of all the vascularity. I think there is really only one part of a man's body where it's ok for it to be bursting with veins  ;)  :-[  :-X, ...and his thighs are a just a tad too large for my individual tastes, ...but I think there might be definite advantages to being with a guy with powerful thighs.  ;)  :-X

I'd have to say this is a good example of a male physique that really turns my crank...

(http://www.anthonycatanzaro.com/photogallery/TONYHARDBODY.jpg)

...gotta go. Gonna go catch the rest of the Baby Blue movies  :P
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: McFarland on December 30, 2005, 11:48:19 PM
OH DOUBLE SNAP

 ;D ;D ;D

(I never knew rejection could be this flattering.)

 :-*

Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: 24KT on December 31, 2005, 12:00:02 AM
  Yeah, there is no question that models with symmetrical faces, six-packs and boyish are far more popular than bodybuilders. Many people think that women like alpha males, but this is only true in a very fe cases. Usually, it's either insecure girls who ant a man to protect them, or very aggressive women, who need an even more aggressive men, o make them feel female. As hard as i is to believe, a significant majority(maybe 70%) of women are attracted to men who look like boys.

  Why? Because women are mothers, and boyish men bring about the female nurturing and protective instincs. This explains the popularity of Orlando Bloom with teenage girls, or the continued popularity of Brad Pitt, who, at the age of 41, continues to play the pretty boy role. Of course, Pitt is a "boy" with some serious wrinkles around his eyes, but that's a different story. The thing is that I don't want to be a pretty boy. Besides, at age 26, I'm getting too old to play this part, anyway. Sure, I could still play it for a few more years, maybe even a decade if I wanted to, but eventually I'd have to snap out of it; we all have to. Think of Brad Pitt in the film "Troy". He had the body of a model in his twenties, but the face of a middle-aged man(he was 40 then, but he actually looks 45 or 46). I prefer to look like a grown man, with large muscles and facial hair. Just my opinion. We do agree on everything, though.

Most body builders forget their physiques alone can put them in the he-man category, so they try to overcompensate by acting all tough & badass 24/7. Total turn-off. No one wants a pumped up roid raging alpha-male 24/7. That's flat out stale, boring, and repulsive.

But when you have a masculine manly man, ...with a sweet sensitive boyish side to him... look out!
She gets to nurture and protect, while feeling nurtured and protected too.
A big strong he-man, with a soft gentle ssentitive side = The perfect combination of man & child,
...but only if he's a man in all the right areas and a child in all the right areas.
Unfortunately, most guys esp BB are "men" in all the wrong areas, and children in all the wrong areas.

BTW - It's not so much about a boyish look, ...it's about a demeanor and a quality to the PERSONALITY!

Get it right guys, ...and the world is your oyster!   ;)
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: 24KT on December 31, 2005, 12:44:16 AM
OH DOUBLE SNAP

 ;D ;D ;D

(I never knew rejection could be this flattering.)

 :-*

<LOL> McFarland, don't take it as a rejection, ...it wasn't. Just a comment on my personal taste.
Heck, do you think I feel rejected when Div says he needs a "pale-ass bitch"? Heck NO! That's his taste.

...although, I have a strong feeling I could probably turn him. hahaha!   ;D

Ya know what they say...

                                         once you go Black...


The darker the berry...     ;D
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Beyond Genetics on December 31, 2005, 09:52:12 AM
in all seriousness,,  most guys on these boards, if lean, never get that much bigger than a male fitness model,,  even me at 240lb 6' ..  I don't really have that huge bodybuilder look..
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: body88 on December 31, 2005, 10:00:43 AM
in all seriousness,,  most guys on these boards, if lean, never get that much bigger than a male fitness model,,  even me at 240lb 6' ..  I don't really have that huge bodybuilder look..

You are a big boy compared to a fitness model

most fitness models are in the 170's - 200     200 being heavy
most  that i know anyway
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: DIVISION on December 31, 2005, 04:02:03 PM
ok, 'serge", hahahaha. ::)

Mirzy, are you antagonizing Lil' Serge?   ???

<LOL> McFarland, don't take it as a rejection, ...it wasn't. Just a comment on my personal taste.
Heck, do you think I feel rejected when Div says he needs a "pale-ass bitch"? Heck NO! That's his taste.

...although, I have a strong feeling I could probably turn him. hahaha!   ;D

Ya know what they say...

                                         once you go Black...


The darker the berry...     ;D

It's possible, Jaguar.....

Depends on your attitude, how soft you are, and how thick you have it grown out.

All things must be in order, or no dice.




DIV
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Jadethegladiator on December 31, 2005, 04:18:15 PM
Just my opinion.....I am definitely turned on by big, muscular guys.  The only other criteria for me is that they gotta be somewhat intelligent & definitely packin' ;).  As far as the $$$ situation, I don't really care....

Jade     
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: knny187 on December 31, 2005, 04:28:56 PM
Just my opinion.....I am definitely turned on by big, muscular guys.  The only other criteria for me is that they gotta be somewhat intelligent & definitely packin' ;).  As far as the $$$ situation, I don't really care....

Jade     

The only thing I got going for me is my wit, personality, & charm....


I guess that doesn't go far these days

 ;D
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: knny187 on December 31, 2005, 04:39:05 PM
WOW....AFTER SEEING YOUR PICS, KNOWING YOUR AGE, THIS POST ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTS ME AND MAKES THE URGE FOR ME TO PUKE VERY STRONG, YOU ARE DISGUSTING.

How old is the bag?
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: 24KT on January 01, 2006, 03:44:10 AM
How old is the bag?

Actually knny, he was talking about you.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: 24KT on January 01, 2006, 04:08:09 AM
in all seriousness,,  most guys on these boards, if lean, never get that much bigger than a male fitness model,,  even me at 240lb 6' ..  I don't really have that huge bodybuilder look..

Care to post a pic BG?

Infact, all you guys who feel you have that "fitness model" look, feel free to post 'em if ya got 'em.  :P

It's possible, Jaguar.....

Depends on your attitude, how soft you are, and how thick you have it grown out.

All things must be in order, or no dice.

DIV

Sorry Div,
I had already reached my limit when you got that pic of my tushy.
If you're fishing ...this is about the closest you'll get to a beaver pic from me.
(http://www.jaguarenterprises.net/images/beaver.gif)
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: DIVISION on January 01, 2006, 05:05:11 AM
Sorry Div,
I had already reached my limit when you got that pic of my tushy.

Black women don't have a "tushy"......

They have what known as a thick, juicy "booty".

Feel this?

Beaver = Punani........

Learn this.




DIV
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: 24KT on January 01, 2006, 06:39:07 AM
Black women don't have a "tushy"......

They have what known as a thick, juicy "booty".

Well you've seen a pic of it.. would you say it was more "tushy" or more "thick, juicy booty"?
...or something in between.


Quote
Beaver = Punani........

Learn this.

DIV

Well aren't we refined.  ::)

I got news for you Div, ...if I got my hands on you, ...you'd be callin' it anything I wanted you to.  ;)
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: mesmorph78 on January 01, 2006, 07:34:07 AM
though i wouldnt consider myself a bb
i get no hate from the ladies

(http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y225/lucas78/Pict0041small.jpg)
(http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y225/lucas78/PICT0167-Mod-BW.jpg)
(http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y225/lucas78/PICT0291.png)
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: sarcasm on January 01, 2006, 07:40:00 AM
damn meso you're an ugly dude, facially, you kinda resemble a really short Darryl Strawberry.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: mesmorph78 on January 01, 2006, 07:49:07 AM
 ;)
thanks sarcasm
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: sarcasm on January 01, 2006, 07:50:07 AM
anytime.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Havenbull on January 01, 2006, 07:57:48 AM
Well you've seen a pic of it.. would you say it was more "tushy" or more "thick, juicy booty"?
...or something in between.


Thats a pic from fifteen years ago.  How do I know?  Your stonewashed jeans go all the way up to your navel.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Azure on January 01, 2006, 09:49:06 AM
I bet Richard Jones gets lots of women.....Humility and intelligence are soooo sexy.  And a nice physique is just an added bonus.

I would also venture to guess that the caliber of woman that he attracts is very high as well. ;D

What a great guy.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: wizard of oz on January 01, 2006, 09:52:32 AM
id be willing to bet richard wouldnt give you a second look azure.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: The Showstoppa on January 01, 2006, 10:28:50 AM
id be willing to bet richard wouldnt give you a second look azure.

I'd be willing to bet that "azure" is a dude.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Azure on January 01, 2006, 10:31:41 AM
id be willing to bet richard wouldnt give you a second look azure.

And I'd be willing to guess I wouldn't give YOU a second look...unless it was to report for my homosexual friends Wizard Of Oz.  ;D

And I am all woman baby....
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: wizard of oz on January 01, 2006, 10:33:06 AM
And I'd be willing to guess I wouldn't give YOU a second look...unless it was to report for my homosexual friends Wizard Of Oz.  ;D

well i can only hope that you wouldnt give me a second look, or even a first look for that matter.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: The Showstoppa on January 01, 2006, 10:33:09 AM
And I am all woman baby....


Prove it.  Post a pic with todays newspaper.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Azure on January 01, 2006, 10:53:17 AM

Prove it.  Post a pic with todays newspaper.

How old are people on this board?  12?
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Borracho on January 01, 2006, 10:56:03 AM
How old are people on this board?  12?

No, we're all over 18 so you can post a nude pic. But thanks for confirming before hand.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: wizard of oz on January 01, 2006, 11:31:18 AM
azure wont post a pic because shes ugly.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: DIVISION on January 01, 2006, 11:45:16 AM
Well you've seen a pic of it.. would you say it was more "tushy" or more "thick, juicy booty"?
...or something in between.

Something in-between, porportioned and full, though not bustin' at the seams. 

Well aren't we refined.  ::)

I got news for you Div, ...if I got my hands on you, ...you'd be callin' it anything I wanted you to.  ;)

You've got that kind of pussy control, Jaguar?

Interesting.

You still haven't told me if it grows thick fur or not.




DIV
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: wizard of oz on January 01, 2006, 11:57:17 AM
Something in-between, porportioned and full, though not bustin' at the seams. 

You've got that kind of pussy control, Jaguar?

Interesting.

You still haven't told me if it grows thick fur or not.




DIV
if a grandmother had pussy control would you fuck her?  i hope the answer would be no, fact is, jaguar is ugly, old, over the hill, and has an extremely annoying personality.  not to mention, overconfident, which happens to be one of the most if not the most annoying traits a woman can have.  i cringe to think what her pussy and tits look like.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: DIVISION on January 01, 2006, 12:37:32 PM
if a grandmother had pussy control would you f**k her?  i hope the answer would be no, fact is, jaguar is ugly, old, over the hill, and has an extremely annoying personality.  not to mention, overconfident, which happens to be one of the most if not the most annoying traits a woman can have.  i cringe to think what her pussy and tits look like.

How old is she?






DIV
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: 24KT on January 01, 2006, 01:36:31 PM
Thats a pic from fifteen years ago.  How do I know?  Your stonewashed jeans go all the way up to your navel.

And I got news for you, ...ALL my jeans go up to my navel. I'm not into showing plumber's cleavage.
I'm a woman who dresses like a woman, ...not some teeny-bopper.

I bet Richard Jones gets lots of women.....Humility and intelligence are soooo sexy.  And a nice physique is just an added bonus.

I would also venture to guess that the caliber of woman that he attracts is very high as well. ;D

What a great guy.

I don't know who Richard Jones is, ...but if you're referring to Richard2004, ...I'm in total agreement!


How old is she?

DIV

Div,

None of these guys knows old I am. They're only guessing.
I've never revealed my age, ...and I never will reveal my age.

They think I'm old 'cause I devote so much energy to anti-aging & age-reversal technologies
...and it makes them feel like they're owning me. With guys between 16 & 60 hitting on me,
...I'd say I hold my own.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: 24KT on January 01, 2006, 01:50:39 PM
Something in-between, porportioned and full, though not bustin' at the seams. 

Yep, that's accurate. I still call it a tushy tho.

Quote
You still haven't told me if it grows thick fur or not.

DIV

And I'm not going to either. That's priviledged information.

Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Bossa on January 01, 2006, 02:27:53 PM
when i was lean this got me alot more looks than when I "bulked" up...but I would venture to say that has more do do with my face looking much more attractive when i am lean as oppossed to the puffy face when bulking.  The bottom line is however that muscles may cause initial attrtaction (if that suits her taste) the meshing of your personalities is gonna get you where you wanna go...
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: knny187 on January 01, 2006, 02:30:49 PM
Actually knny, he was talking about you.

avoiding the issue...


bag = 40+
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: 24KT on January 01, 2006, 03:13:27 PM
when i was lean this got me alot more looks than when I "bulked" up...but I would venture to say that has more do do with my face looking much more attractive when i am lean as oppossed to the puffy face when bulking.  The bottom line is however that muscles may cause initial attrtaction (if that suits her taste) the meshing of your personalities is gonna get you where you wanna go...

<LOL>

Gotta hand it to you Ryan. That was a truly insightful explaination as to why neither of us has met.  ;D
Some people's politic is enough to make ya just plain nauseus & homicidal.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Bossa on January 01, 2006, 05:06:23 PM
<LOL>

Gotta hand it to you Ryan. That was a truly insightful explaination as to why neither of us has met.  ;D
Some people's politic is enough to make ya just plain nauseus & homicidal.

Judi...with the new year brings new experiences...and I do believe I am experiencing our first agreement.... :o
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: DIVISION on January 01, 2006, 05:30:30 PM
Yep, that's accurate. I still call it a tushy tho.

And I'm not going to either. That's priviledged information.

Of course it's accurate.  I said it.

Now.......about that bush.  Until proven otherwise it is agreed upon that your bush is thick and full like a proper jungle.

Word.





DIV
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Havenbull on January 01, 2006, 06:27:46 PM
Jag is at least forty, most likely 42 or 43.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: suckmymuscle on January 01, 2006, 07:04:30 PM
Most body builders forget their physiques alone can put them in the he-man category, so they try to overcompensate by acting all tough & badass 24/7. Total turn-off. No one wants a pumped up roid raging alpha-male 24/7. That's flat out stale, boring, and repulsive.

But when you have a masculine manly man, ...with a sweet sensitive boyish side to him... look out!
She gets to nurture and protect, while feeling nurtured and protected too.
A big strong he-man, with a soft gentle ssentitive side = The perfect combination of man & child,
...but only if he's a man in all the right areas and a child in all the right areas.
Unfortunately, most guys esp BB are "men" in all the wrong areas, and children in all the wrong areas.

BTW - It's not so much about a boyish look, ...it's about a demeanor and a quality to the PERSONALITY!

Get it right guys, ...and the world is your oyster!   ;)


  Yeah, I hear you. A good example would be Hitler. Did you see the film "The Fall", which shows Hitler's last days? In that film, he was exploding into ferocious fits of rage every three seconds, executing people on whims, bragging about exterminating the Jews, etc. How can anyone put up with a guy like that? I mean, this extreme level of masculinity is repulsive to everyone, not only to women. Some women are attracted to the self-confidence and decisivness of manly men, but they hate the way these men treat them. Manly men have a tendency towards irritability, and they end up battering their women.

  There was a famous study, which showed that men with symmetrical and boyish faces produced the highest degree of sexual arousal in women, evidenced by vaginal tumification(in simple words, made their pussies the wetest). When shown pictures of highly masculine faces, most women experienced fear and distrust. They only seam to be atracted. to machos, when they are ovulating.

  Symmetry is an indication of genetic quality, and boyishness, as I said, brings about the mommy in every woman. Consider Orlando Bloom. His popularity, with teenage girls, stems from the fact that he's extremely pretty and looks extremely young. He teases the rising mothering instincs of teenage girls; he makes them want to take him home, feed him and then tuck him in bed-together with them. Such is life.

SUCKMYMUSCLE
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: onlyme on January 01, 2006, 09:05:24 PM
Quote
They think I'm old 'cause I devote so much energy to anti-aging & age-reversal technologies
...and it makes them feel like they're owning me. With guys between 16 & 60 hitting on me,
...I'd say I hold my own.

Jag , just a little inside info for you.  This is not a compliment.  16 year old kids will hit on any chick.  I mean ANY chick.  EVen if you had only one leg (which by the way makes things allot easier) or bald guys will hit on a girl.  Please do not misinterpret this as a compliment.  By the way since you are such a uppity girl does that mean you don't have a bald (in your terms) vagina or female organ area.  Jst wondering cause if you are bald you will get more attention from me and others.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: DIVISION on January 01, 2006, 09:14:11 PM
By the way since you are such a uppity girl does that mean you don't have a bald (in your terms) vagina or female organ area.  Jst wondering cause if you are bald you will get more attention from me and others.

Keith,

I'm pretty certain she grows a bush.

A thick jungle.




DIV
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: 24KT on January 02, 2006, 03:57:22 PM
Keith,

I'm pretty certain she grows a bush.

A thick jungle.

DIV

That's something you will never know.  8)
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: DIVISION on January 02, 2006, 09:21:47 PM
That's something you will never know.  8)

The more you say that, the less I am inclined to believe it, Jaguar.

It's almost as if you are trying to convince yourself of this, because you aren't convincing me.




DIV
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: onlyme on January 03, 2006, 12:08:47 PM
Yea Jag I am inclined to think you don't shave or groom much down there.  I think you think it is below you to touch that area with anything but something battery operated.  I'm not saying it's a bad thing but something that I wouldn't be attracted too.  And you knwo it's one of those messed up meaty roast beef sandwich looking types too.  You just have that look.  Again not a bad thing just something I am not attracted too.  I admre your stand on not showing it but I think most of us have the nighmare embeded in our minds and thank you for not validating it with a picture.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: hifrommike on January 03, 2006, 07:54:19 PM
To get back to the original topic I started on this string:

There are negative cultural stereotypes about big guys that date back at least to David & Goliath.  When bodybuilding began (because of the discovery of resistance exercise in the late 1800s) those stereotypes just transferred over to muscular men.  BBs have never been able to shake those stereotypes, & it wasn't the mass monster era that started them--that era just confirmed them.  The media now drives most people's views, & TV/radio/books/mags/Internet media tend to reinforce stereotypes about BBs, rather than trying to show the truth, which is that there is nothing wrong with most bodybuilders' ability to attract women.  However, the women they attract may be more interested in Mr. Right Now than Mr. Right. 

I suspect that if girls grew up taking in media messages that said BBs were attractive, they would find them to be so as adult women.  For now, the stereotype persists.  I read about a psych experiment in which women & men were shown pix of men with different builds, & asked which they would be most likely to want as friends.  More men than women indicated they would want to be friends with a man with a BB's build. 
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: suckmymuscle on January 03, 2006, 09:18:47 PM
To get back to the original topic I started on this string:

There are negative cultural stereotypes about big guys that date back at least to David & Goliath.  When bodybuilding began (because of the discovery of resistance exercise in the late 1800s) those stereotypes just transferred over to muscular men.  BBs have never been able to shake those stereotypes, & it wasn't the mass monster era that started them--that era just confirmed them.  The media now drives most people's views, & TV/radio/books/mags/Internet media tend to reinforce stereotypes about BBs, rather than trying to show the truth, which is that there is nothing wrong with most bodybuilders' ability to attract women.  However, the women they attract may be more interested in Mr. Right Now than Mr. Right. 

I suspect that if girls grew up taking in media messages that said BBs were attractive, they would find them to be so as adult women.  For now, the stereotype persists.  I read about a psych experiment in which women & men were shown pix of men with different builds, & asked which they would be most likely to want as friends.  More men than women indicated they would want to be friends with a man with a BB's build. 

  Trust me, all things considered, being big and muscular can't hurt. I don't think Ronaldinho or Kobe Bryant have any problems, in getting pussy.

SUCKMYMUSCLE

Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: The Master on July 29, 2008, 08:57:47 PM
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Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Benny B on July 29, 2008, 09:26:24 PM
In a recent issue of PLAYBOY magazine (October issue, I think), one of the playmates was interviewed about her likes & dislikes.  Her first listed "dislike" was "weightlifters."  This sentiment seems to be true for many women.  Why do you think this is the case?  Do women fear BBs being able to overpower them?  Do they just not like the look?  Are they picking up the social stigma that has long existed that disapproves of bodybuilders?  Are they getting their views from the media, which tends to promote the skinny, smaller-built look on male stars?  Or have too many had bad experiences with men who are livin' large?  Any ideas? 
because most of you are vain, dumb, and have no money  :D
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: egoatdoor on July 30, 2008, 04:07:13 AM
because most of you are vain, dumb, and have no money  :D

Most but not all. Yes, I am vain. But I have a college degree, some graduate education ( in finance, not "physical education") a six figure income and six figures in the bank.  ;D
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: musclehedz on July 30, 2008, 06:22:46 AM
They simply don't like fat powerlifters or veins popping up.

Any woman would dig a handsome muscular male at 8/10% bf.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Bull Terrier! on July 30, 2008, 08:23:48 AM
Lots of old and forgotten gimmicks in this thread  ;D
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: local hero on July 30, 2008, 11:24:20 AM
only thing i know, is when they say they love vin deisel and ther favourite film is gladiator,,, im gettn me hole that night, thats a fact!
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Brian Poulos on December 08, 2018, 01:49:42 PM
A bobdybuilder is just as vain as a woman. I don't think a chick is attracted to a man with the sensibilities of a chick, they want a man who acts like a man.
Bingo!
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Henda on December 08, 2018, 02:00:45 PM
Bingo!

You are shizzo who admitted he hasn’t had sex in over 15 years, the only sexual experience in that time is masturbating intensely under your bedsheets whilst listening the screams of pleasure and the headboard banging against the partition wall as some darkie nails your sister
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: michael arvilla on December 08, 2018, 03:01:08 PM
Because we are self absorbed douchebags?
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Notomorrow on December 08, 2018, 03:21:13 PM
Women lie about sexual desire so they dont seem slutty. They are into muscles. Just like for years they said dick size doesnt matter...so they seem sweet and not slutty. Like all the other lies

Dont like bad boys that treat them like shit
Only want a sweet, sensitive guy
Wear yoga pants constantly because their "comfy"..no idea their pantiless snatch is hanging out like a stripper.....
Dont care about money...

On and on....
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: oldtimer1 on December 08, 2018, 03:55:45 PM
A steroided out bodybuilder just looks ridiculous. Women are into guys that are in shape whether by lifting or even running. A guy like this on a beach would have women swooning. The top ten in the Olympia would make girls nauseous. If you need a guide look up Steve Reeves.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: johnny1 on December 08, 2018, 08:28:08 PM
Women lie about sexual desire so they dont seem slutty. They are into muscles. Just like for years they said dick size doesnt matter...so they seem sweet and not slutty. Like all the other lies

Dont like bad boys that treat them like shit
Only want a sweet, sensitive guy
Wear yoga pants constantly because their "comfy"..no idea their pantiless snatch is hanging out like a stripper.....
Dont care about money...

On and on....
The irony is there’s a element of truth in most of that...
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Derrick Rigg on December 27, 2018, 12:13:15 PM
First time I found out women don't like bodybuilders when I was 262 and flexing in the gym. Two women in there late 20s said I was gross looking.

But older women and gays like the muscle.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Humble Narcissist on December 27, 2018, 02:37:13 PM
Women lie about sexual desire so they dont seem slutty. They are into muscles. Just like for years they said dick size doesnt matter...so they seem sweet and not slutty. Like all the other lies

Dont like bad boys that treat them like shit
Only want a sweet, sensitive guy
Wear yoga pants constantly because their "comfy"..no idea their pantiless snatch is hanging out like a stripper.....
Dont care about money...

On and on....
The internet age with social media has exposed the true nature of women like never before.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Irongrip400 on December 27, 2018, 02:49:09 PM
First time I found out women don't like bodybuilders when I was 262 and flexing in the gym. Two women in there late 20s said I was gross looking.

But older women and gays like the muscle.


Uhhhhh...
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Primemuscle on December 27, 2018, 03:03:46 PM
First time I found out women don't like bodybuilders when I was 262 and flexing in the gym. Two women in there late 20s said I was gross looking.

But older women and gays like the muscle.

How impolite of those two women.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: tres_taco_combo on December 27, 2018, 03:51:31 PM
also.. i know women who want to be the center of attention

many chics hate being outshined etc. go to the pool and have abs and get more attention then them - kick in the ego
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: beakdoctor on December 27, 2018, 04:16:15 PM
I used to fuck this sexy thick black woman. She waz married to a college professor who was also an amateur bodybuilder. She said he was a great father, they had 3 children, he was loving and faithfull and made a lot of money. I asked why she was cheating on him. She said he'd rather look at himself in the mirror than look at her. She was actually the JET beauty of the week once back in 1998. Thick with a perfect deep chocolate complexion and short hairstyle.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: lilhawk1 on December 27, 2018, 07:50:07 PM
Women like muscle.  If you have a personality, sense of humor, and other things going for you as well.  Most bodybuilders are complete dumbfucks that don't have anything going for them at all, hence why people think women aren't into muscle.  They usually believe the stereotypes surrounding bodybuilders, and most bodybuilders confirm it by being a complete dumbass.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: cephissus on December 27, 2018, 09:37:19 PM
Big muscles are a sign of self-poverty, enslavement, fear, etc. See: www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=650916.0
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Pray_4_War on December 28, 2018, 02:32:00 AM
Two important things to remember about men and women....

1.  Women like men with good facial aesthetics that have money.

2.  There is no second thing.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Kwon on December 28, 2018, 03:14:42 AM

Uhhhhh...

It's true, a lot of younger chicks in their 20s do not like the muscle. (more like the muscle today though, than for 20 years ago)

Lots of women 40+ enjoy the muscle.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Humble Narcissist on December 28, 2018, 04:27:40 AM
Two important things to remember about men and women....

1.  Women like men with good facial aesthetics that have money.

2.  There is no second thing.
Yes there is.  Tall with a big cock.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Kwon on December 28, 2018, 05:15:39 AM
Yes there is.  Tall with a big cock.

Which is why Christina Hendricks is with that dude right :D
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: oldtimer1 on December 28, 2018, 05:17:49 AM
If you had an Adam Levine skinny runner's body with a great face, clothes and a career women will be beating down your door.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: milone79 on December 28, 2018, 05:51:44 AM
Generally women are insecure, jealous and bitter creatures. They have to be in the spotlight 24/7 and the center of attention wherever they go. They don't want men who shine brighter than they do especially when undressed.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Humble Narcissist on December 28, 2018, 11:29:47 AM
Which is why Christina Hendricks is with that dude right :D
Have you seen Geoffrey Arend's cock? ???
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: tres_taco_combo on December 28, 2018, 01:12:11 PM
hence why i always tell bbers to date bikini or figure girls.

it has my dating life 10x easier these last 3 years.

Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: usmcdevildoc on December 30, 2018, 01:26:05 AM
Because they want athletes and older, wiser men 8)!!
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They don't like them because some suffer from micropenis and nut is small because they do not use hcg or clomid so they shoot blanks.
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Humble Narcissist on December 30, 2018, 03:25:16 AM
hence why i always tell bbers to date bikini or figure girls.

it has my dating life 10x easier these last 3 years.


Why would you date any of those narcissistic whores anyway?
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: tres_taco_combo on December 30, 2018, 08:31:19 AM
Why would you date any of those narcissistic whores anyway?

i have had zero issues
Title: Re: Women don't like BBs: why?
Post by: Humble Narcissist on December 30, 2018, 04:01:16 PM
i have had zero issues
If you've had zero issues why aren't you still with the first one?