Women don't like BBs: why?

[bigdumbbell]

Ha ha...I'm sure if he could, he'd take a little more youth and muscle if it were granted to him as an option with no strings attached by God, but seriously...for him to worry about it enough to go work out hard and not eat what he wanted would show a weakness in his character that I just don't see right now, despite his age-associated frailty.  Besides, he could always just pay some bodybuilder dude to drill his girls while he watched or whatever, like Steven Seagall was rumored to have paid Chris Duffy to do to his girl before he did gay porn.  LOL  BTW, I have no idea if that one's true or not, though, as the guy that told it to me's also told me some pretty tall ones before.

all big dick storys aint true

[Unchained81]

in this particular case, mike, it may be that she simply insists on being the center of attention and doesnt want her man outshining her. lots of very hot women seem to date beneath them aesthetically due to straight-up insecurity.

Yep.

[gatomjp]

It's dangerous to generalize. That's why those articles in men's magazines...'What Women Want" are usually more confusing than helpful. Interview 20 women and you will get 20 different opinions about what is hot.

Having said that, a bodybuilder is an extreme of a certain type. Just like the skinny rock star is an extreme. I think that people out on the far fringes of the bell curve in any aspect of their attributes...physique, personality or behavior, will naturally have a small group of the opposite sex that finds them attractive. Very often however, those that prefer an extreme will be overly enthusiatic about it and that works to the bodybuilder's advantage. Women that like bodybuilders, REALLY like bodybuilders!

We also have to take into account the stereotypical, public PERCEPTION of the bodybuilder; stupid, narcissistic, poor, we've heard it all before and unfortunately, far too many bodybuilders do little to dispel that image. When a woman meets a bodybuilder that shatters those myths and is articulate, sensitive, funny, worldly and talented in venues other than the gym, the woman may find to her surprise that she actually LIKES a big, extreme physique because, you see, PERSONALITY still counts!

[DIVISION]

We also have to take into account the stereotypical, public PERCEPTION of the bodybuilder; stupid, narcissistic, poor, we've heard it all before and unfortunately, far too many bodybuilders do little to dispel that image. When a woman meets a bodybuilder that shatters those myths and is articulate, sensitive, funny, worldly and talented in venues other than the gym, the woman may find to her surprise that she actually LIKES a big, extreme physique because, you see, PERSONALITY still counts!

Fu.ck Perception........s'all about keeping it real.

If you are stupid, narcissistic and poor, then so be it.

Be who you are............regardles s of the stereotype.

Do what you do..........stay true.



DIV

[WiseGuy]

In a recent issue of PLAYBOY magazine (October issue, I think), one of the playmates was interviewed about her likes & dislikes.  Her first listed "dislike" was "weightlifters."  This sentiment seems to be true for many women.  Why do you think this is the case?  Do women fear BBs being able to overpower them?  Do they just not like the look?  Are they picking up the social stigma that has long existed that disapproves of bodybuilders?  Are they getting their views from the media, which tends to promote the skinny, smaller-built look on male stars?  Or have too many had bad experiences with men who are livin' large?  Any ideas? 

being 35 yrs old it seems younger women in their 20's prefer feminine men, men who do not come off too masculine, as opposed to older chicks who seem to dig it.... these young girls are either intimidated by big guys or like guys who look like chicks cuz they are closet lesbos

I guess wimpy, skinny guys are in fashion...

go figure

 

[Bast06]

Hefner PAYS for girls.  How does that make him a great man, Jeff?

Sure he can have 7 hot girlfriends in their 20s but that's because he lets them live in his mansion, buys them cars, clothes and everything else they want.

[240 is Back]

Hefner PAYS for girls.  How does that make him a great man, Jeff?

Sure he can have 7 hot girlfriends in their 20s but that's because he lets them live in his mansion, buys them cars, clothes and everything else they want.

We all pay for girls, Bast06.

How many women stand by a man that lives in the gutter?

You pay the automobills, you pay the rent, you pay for dinner. 

All men pay.

Hef just has a tad more to show for it than most of us lol..,.

[Bast06]

Yes well, some guys aren't rich and have amazing girls.

so basically

Hef is OVERpaying!   

[240 is Back]

Yes well, some guys aren't rich and have amazing girls.

so basically

Hef is OVERpaying!   

Perhaps.

But you show me one homeless guy with seven supermodel girlfriends, and I'll show you one anatomically blessed vagrant.

[McFarland]

Hefner PAYS for girls.  How does that make him a great man, Jeff?

Sure he can have 7 hot girlfriends in their 20s but that's because he lets them live in his mansion, buys them cars, clothes and everything else they want.

Have you ever seen the power that Howard Stern has over EVERY SINGLE WOMAN that goes on his show?  They all fall for him in the first 3 minutes.  Even the rich ones.  It's incredible.  From what I've been seeing lately, true self-assuredness sure tends to trump sexy every time.  Those guys just KNOW THEMSELVES so well that they know everyone else before they even know themselves.  That's what fucks people up.  It's not just the money, man.  It's the AURA.  I know that power comes with money, but still.  You can't just say he "buys them," IMO.  Not everyone with money has what guys like Howard Stern and Hugh Hefner has.     

[DIVISION]

All men pay.

Hef just has a tad more to show for it than most of us lol..,.

Word.

That's the truth.

Hef lives in pussy, literally............pro bably sleeps with his head between a woman's thighs.........




DIV

[Bast06]

Well Howard Stern has a great personality.    Howard is confident and funny so you're right about him.
I wouldn't say the same for Hef.


Also Howard has a decent girlfriend.  He doesn't get into relationships with low class girls that do porn and have no character like Hef does.   

[onlyme]

The thing about Hef is not only his money and power but whathe can do for you.  He has launched 100's of carreers if not thousands.  He takes care of all his playmates.

[240 is Back]

The thing about Hef is not only his money and power but whathe can do for you.  He has launched 100's of carreers if not thousands.  He takes care of all his playmates.

keith, you ever go to the playboy mansion in your doo-rag days?

[onlyme]

No I kind of had a chance to go with a friend as his bodyguard but for some reason I didn't.  I know a few who have.  Supposed to be unreal.  I used to take people by the house when they were visiting from out of town.  What a pad.  Plus it is right up the street from Aaron Spelling's house which looks like a hotel.  50,000+ sq. ft. if I remember right.

[240 is Back]

No I kind of had a chance to go with a friend as his bodyguard but for some reason I didn't.  I know a few who have.  Supposed to be unreal.  I used to take people by the house when they were visiting from out of town.  What a pad.  Plus it is right up the street from Aaron Spelling's house which looks like a hotel.  50,000+ sq. ft. if I remember right.

You should write a book, man.  Many of the ironagers as well as young bucks would enjoy your stories of old time BBing, arm wrestling, and general clutter and chaos.

[Rome]

I've never trained for what women like. There are enough of them who like very muscular men so why try to please everybody. Hell, back when I started 215 was considered too big.

[21Guns]

women love bodybuilders.Even the ones that say they dont usually do.If you see them in a club after a couple of drinks they will be grabbing your arms and feeling your chest.If the chicks aint diggin you maybe you dont look like a bodybuilder.

[phyxsius]

Girls dig this kind of body..

[Man of Steel]

Women like men that are tall, healthy, lean, attractive, educated, wealthy, cultured, strong, family-oriented, sensitive, goal-oriented, romantic, fun, dedicated and very well-endowed.



This leaves out about 99% of the bb population.


MOS

[Azure]

It's usually because their faces are so horrible that no woman is interested.  Natural BB's get women all the time.

So do attractive looking pro's....

[sarcasm]

Women like men that are tall, healthy, lean, attractive, educated, wealthy, cultured, strong, family-oriented, sensitive, goal-oriented, romantic, fun, dedicated and very well-endowed.



This leaves out about 99% of the bb population.


MOS

hahahahahaha, fucking classic.

[brianX]

Women like men that are tall, healthy, lean, attractive, educated, wealthy, cultured, strong, family-oriented, sensitive, goal-oriented, romantic, fun, dedicated and very well-endowed.



This leaves out about 99% of the bb population.


MOS

That leaves out 99% of the general population, actually.

[Earl1972]

That leaves out 99% of the general population, actually.

yep

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[Richard2004]

In a recent issue of PLAYBOY magazine (October issue, I think), one of the playmates was interviewed about her likes & dislikes.  Her first listed "dislike" was "weightlifters."  This sentiment seems to be true for many women.  Why do you think this is the case?  Do women fear BBs being able to overpower them?  Do they just not like the look?  Are they picking up the social stigma that has long existed that disapproves of bodybuilders?  Are they getting their views from the media, which tends to promote the skinny, smaller-built look on male stars?  Or have too many had bad experiences with men who are livin' large?  Any ideas? 

Duhhh...ugh...grunt...me thinks it's because these HOT chicks see the bodybuilding mags. on the mag. racks at the newstands, grocery/drug stores, etc....i.e. mags like Flex, MD, IM, & Musclemag, which display mostly pics. of the 280-300+ lb. pro. BB drug-bloated FREAKS...a.k.a. "Chemical Monsters"!!! 

Sadly, these pro. BB drug-bloated FREAKS have become the "stereotypical image" in many women's mind of what a "weightlifter" looks like!  With full apologies to the fabulous competitive Olympic weightlifting athletes!!

These drug-bloated pro. BB FREAKS are sort of "light-years-removed" from the lean, light/medium muscular, physiques of the mass media's promoted "male model ideal look" aren't they?  Duhhh!