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Would you be in a relationship with a broad who has kids? Especially 3 kids. Mind you, her body is just as hot as before she had the kids. And let's say the broad is in her 30's, still prime.
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Maybe, just maybe, if she have a job that pays very well. :-\
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Nope
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Maybe, just maybe, if she have a job that pays very well. :-\
What does her job have to do with you and her? She's already divorced and the father has full custody, per day.
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Nope
Why not?
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What does her job have to do with you and her? She's already divorced and the father has full custody, per day.
You didn't say that! Don't cheat.
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What does her job have to do with you and her? She's already divorced and the father has full custody, per day.
why does the father have full custody?
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No.
why does the father have full custody?
Bingo lol.
Hot, but father has full custody? There are billions of single women, why fucking pick a headcase/not single one.
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You didn't say that! Don't cheat.
True, then would you be in a relationship with her.
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why does the father have full custody?
Good question. She married a pretty wealthy guy, and the family has power with upscale people in previous her area. And she's not as well off. In a nutshell reason being he got full total custody? Not sure but supposedly he's a wealthy powerful guy in her previous city.
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What does her job have to do with you and her? She's already divorced and the father has full custody, per day.
Been there and it didn't end well. A father having full custody is a huge red flag. If a mother doesn't love her own flesh and blood enough to fight for them, what makes you think she'll love you?
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No.
Bingo lol.
Hot, but father has full custody? There are billions of single women, why fucking pick a headcase/not single one.
+1 i would never get in a relationship with a women who cant or dont want to take care of her own kids...a big huge warning sign just for that.. imagine if she gets pregnant and you to split would you want her to take care of your kid on her weeks whe shes not allowed to take car of her other kids
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No.
Bingo lol.
Hot, but father has full custody? There are billions of single women, why fucking pick a headcase/not single one.
This is true. But she has the full body package. Everywhere she goes whether it'd be clubs, bars, restaurants, coffee shop, the park men turn around and try to talk to her. Most cases as you know when women get married and have children (3), their stocks go down. But ironically enough hers went up. The kids live with the father in a totally different city thousand of miles away...
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There will come a point in life when you'll have to make a choice to start dating a woman with children. Earlier if you're in America. The older you get obviously the more likely with will be a women will have children. My limit is 1. That's it.
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Good question. She married a pretty wealthy guy, and the family has power with upscale people in previous her area. And she's not as well off. In a nutshell reason being he got full total custody? Not sure but supposedly he's a wealthy powerful guy in her previous city.
thats a bullshit story from her. There is another reason belive me
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This is true. But she has the full body package. Everywhere she goes whether it'd be clubs, bars, restaurants, coffee shop, the park men turn around and try to talk to her. Most cases as you know when women get married and have children (3), their stocks go down. But ironically enough hers went up. The kids live with the father in a totally different city thousand of miles away...
Dude, we aren't worried about there possibly being kid/ex-husband drama, we're all saying that a mother not having full custody is indicative of much larger emotional issues. Trust us...
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This is true. But she has the full body package. Everywhere she goes whether it'd be clubs, bars, restaurants, coffee shop, the park men turn around and try to talk to her. Most cases as you know when women get married and have children (3), their stocks go down. But ironically enough hers went up. The kids live with the father in a totally different city thousand of miles away...
if she wasnt a nutcase she would be fighting for her right 5o get the kids back instead of clubbing. Jist thqt she moved thousand miles from her kids says often alot. Trust me bro her story is made up there is more to it rhan she is wiling to admit
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A father having full custody is rare. This woman must have some issues. Stripper?
True, it is very rare but her children live with the father now in a different country. And he has full custody and it turned out into a big drama so she left for America to start over? She had contact with her 3 kids everyday, or every week rather. No not a stripper.
Even under those circumstances it's very unusual for the father to get full custody. I think she's full of shit. What kind of woman walks away from her kids like that?
It sounds like she's got major issues. I would proceed with extreme caution.
Apparently in her home country, money and power could buy you through the court. But agree still pretty unlikely for a father to get absolute full custody of ALL 3 children.
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Would you be in a relationship with a broad who has kids? Especially 3 kids. Mind you, her body is just as hot as before she had the kids. And let's say the broad is in her 30's, still prime.
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Hell no how much money would it cost to take care of a woman and 3 kids and what about when you want to have kids of your own say you want 2 kids thats now 5 kids in the house fuck no i would pass plenty of hot women without kids out there you just need to get up off your ass and start looking, dnot be lazy and settle for less.
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Been there and it didn't end well. A father having full custody is a huge red flag. If a mother doesn't love her own flesh and blood enough to fight for them, what makes you think she'll love you?
True...to a certain extent. She's not as well off money wise and have power as her husband did/does. And who knows how the laws work in other countries. But I agree, regardless of full custody or not its a clear indication of a selfish act to leave your 3 children in another country to start a new life/beginning in another country. I cant put my finger on it too much either, there's always two sides to a story. And she's only telling her side and who knows what's what.
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+1 i would never get in a relationship with a women who cant or dont want to take care of her own kids...a big huge warning sign just for that.. imagine if she gets pregnant and you to split would you want her to take care of your kid on her weeks whe shes not allowed to take car of her other kids
Agree, its a huge warning sign her not taking care of her own kids. But how can she take care of them if the father has full custody, and it was a nasty divorce with too much drama and pressure that she ended up leaving all her family and kids behind to start new.
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There will come a point in life when you'll have to make a choice to start dating a woman with children. Earlier if you're in America. The older you get obviously the more likely with will be a women will have children. My limit is 1. That's it.
Good point, the older women get its more likely they'll have kids. But dont fool yourself to a maximum to one kid bro. If the broad has the full body package and beauty even after three kids, you'll swallow your words.
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thats a bullshit story from her. There is another reason belive me
I agree. Its not that simple to have money and power and buy out the court with full custody. She did mention that the divorce started when she started working on her retail business and started making too much money and have less time with her own husband and kids. And supposedly the husband got jealous and shut down her business and then one thing led to another?
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Agree, its a huge warning sign her not taking care of her own kids. But how can she take care of them if the father has full custody, and it was a nasty divorce with too much drama and pressure that she ended up leaving all her family and kids behind to start new.
i missed that they didnt live in america
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I agree. Its not that simple to have money and power and buy out the court with full custody. She did mention that the divorce started when she started working on her retail business and started making too much money and have less time with her own husband and kids. And supposedly the husband got jealous and shut down her business and then one thing led to another?
if she is from a very corrupt country i can totally see that happen and that the father fixed tvat he cot full custody.
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There's nothing wrong w/ dating her but make sure u don't get her pregnant and u have an exit strategy for when things inevitably go wrong.
True, pregnancy could complicate things. I think i forgot how many times i've gone raw and bought her the morning after pill. But would you say pregnancy would be worse than her wanting to possibly get married in Las Vegas to get her paper work straight? She's by the way from the Phillippines.
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Dude, we aren't worried about there possibly being kid/ex-husband drama, we're all saying that a mother not having full custody is indicative of much larger emotional issues. Trust us...
True. But what am i to do? She left all her other ex's and pretty much most of them blow up her phone on a weekly/monthly basis trying to win her back. They buy her expensive LV bags, name brand bikinis, take her out for dinner, etc as friends so she says. But the point is if i let go of her another man or ex will pick her up just like that. I must really be high strung off of her full body package and beauty, women...
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There will come a point in life when you'll have to make a choice to start dating a woman with children. Earlier if you're in America. The older you get obviously the more likely with will be a women will have children. My limit is 1. That's it.
As you guys get older, you will find more and more women have kids. Eventually, it will get to the point where it will be rare to meet a woman in her late 30's and above who doesn't have at least one ankle biter.
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if she wasnt a nutcase she would be fighting for her right 5o get the kids back instead of clubbing. Jist thqt she moved thousand miles from her kids says often alot. Trust me bro her story is made up there is more to it rhan she is wiling to admit
She doesn't have the money and power to fight back. The ex. pretty much had her checkmate with the full custody. But she did leave her kids in the Phillippines to come to America. Yeah i cant get over that one, its too many variables in her just leaving the kids, and by all means forget the divorce and loosing full custody but to leave 3 kids? Hmm
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Would you be in a relationship with a broad who has kids? Especially 3 kids. Mind you, her body is just as hot as before she had the kids. And let's say the broad is in her 30's, still prime.
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at my age? 1 kid would be ok..3? fuck no
if i were 40 or some shit? wouldnt really matter how many kids i suppose
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Hell no how much money would it cost to take care of a woman and 3 kids and what about when you want to have kids of your own say you want 2 kids thats now 5 kids in the house fuck no i would pass plenty of hot women without kids out there you just need to get up off your ass and start looking, dnot be lazy and settle for less.
Her kids and ex. all live in the Phillippines. I do need to start looking for a better overall package, but then again start all over with time, money, energy, games, spend money money just to get to the first base, then work your way up to the 4th base for a homerun. Sucks!
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Well, if she's not from the US I'm not sure what to think. Maybe she did get fucked over. Who knows.
Do what u want. Life's a big crapshoot anyway.
Exactly who knows, after all this story or rather her story takes place in the Phillippines. And do what i want? She wants to possibly get married in Vegas.
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if she is from a very corrupt country i can totally see that happen and that the father fixed tvat he cot full custody.
Not sure how corrupted the family court is in the Phillippines, but a mother losing full custody of all 3 children is a red flag. Her story is a bit off or one sided. She said she left him, and she wanted the divorce but yet she lost full fustody? It just doesnt add up.
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I live on an abandoned farm so kids are always welcome.
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As you guys get older, you will find more and more women have kids. Eventually, it will get to the point where it will be rare to meet a woman in her late 30's and above who doesn't have at least one ankle biter.
So then what would you do in this position.
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at my age? 1 kid would be ok..3? fuck no
if i were 40 or some shit? wouldnt really matter how many kids i suppose
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You say that now. But again if the broad had full body package and beauty, you wouldnt care really about one or three kids.
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No offense to anyone, but I can't really get into Asian-type women because I feel like they're too easy to just buy. Why not go to the Philipenes (or Thailand) and arrange to bring a young one back with no baggage? I'm sure you can find the "full body package" in a younger version, and as an American with a job you'll be the hero taking her out of whatever third-world squalor she lives in. Eventually, once she figures out the deal, she may grow to resent you and want to kill you but you run that risk with any woman.
You make a lot of sense, and I agree, but i just cant put my finger on this one. She's in her mid 30's with 3 kids and been divorced, lost full custody as a mother (how rare is that), left her family member and own kids in the Phillippines, she hasnt seen her kids for several years and is showing desperation to either marry me in Vegas or one of her ex's so she can straighten her papers and travel. Am i hooked on her after a year of knowing/dating/relationship with her? Not sure but i guess i do care about her and she's very attractive too. I know i look like a fool, but not sure if i'm ready to bite the bullet for her and roll the dice just to help her out and hope for the best for myself hoping she wont f*ck me over or that we'll "last?!."
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I wouldn't go near a woman who didn't have custody of her children.
a woman has to REALLY fuck up to lose custody of her kids. like habitual prostitution, major addiction, endangering the welfare of a minor.
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You make a lot of sense, and I agree, but i just cant put my finger on this one. She's in her mid 30's with 3 kids and been divorced, lost full custody as a mother (how rare is that), left her family member and own kids in the Phillippines, she hasnt seen her kids for several years and is showing desperation to either marry me in Vegas or one of her ex's so she can straighten her papers and travel. Am i hooked on her after a year of knowing/dating/relationship with her? Not sure but i guess i do care about her and she's very attractive too. I know i look like a fool, but not sure if i'm ready to bite the bullet for her and roll the dice just to help her out and hope for the best for myself hoping she wont f*ck me over or that we'll "last?!."
Jesus dude this sounds like a train wreck..are you stupid? no pussy is that good.
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the key is just to OUTDO anything she tells you.
"You're on 20 mg prozac? All good, I'm on 100mg a day."
"You lost your kids? LOL, no worries babe, I went to jail for stabbing my babymama".
At some point, she will run... or not!
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only if you want years of neverending "drama" and not the good kind either
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You make a lot of sense, and I agree, but i just cant put my finger on this one. She's in her mid 30's with 3 kids and been divorced, lost full custody as a mother (how rare is that), left her family member and own kids in the Phillippines, she hasnt seen her kids for several years and is showing desperation to either marry me in Vegas or one of her ex's so she can straighten her papers and travel. Am i hooked on her after a year of knowing/dating/relationship with her? Not sure but i guess i do care about her and she's very attractive too. I know i look like a fool, but not sure if i'm ready to bite the bullet for her and roll the dice just to help her out and hope for the best for myself hoping she wont f*ck me over or that we'll "last?!."
Sounds like you've be better off sticking your wiener in an angry wasps nest. Run.
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I'd do her but I would never raise her kids with her. Fuck that, I dont want kids of my own, let alone someone else's.
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If it means you'll post here less then yes,please get involved with her.
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single moms, i have a feeling this is becoming a trend over here, it's a huge turn off for me though, unless something bad happened to the father they're likely to have issues anyway
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NEVER AGAIN!
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You say that now. But again if the broad had full body package and beauty, you wouldnt care really about one or three kids.
no...i mean that...no way around it...like everyone is saying theres plenty of singles out there without kids to choose from
i stand by my original statement
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Jesus dude this sounds like a train wreck..are you stupid? no pussy is that good.
dude...this could be virgin territory unfolding before our eyes! lol
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I wouldn't and if you are having second thoughts I would drop her. Kids get attached and it's not good to have multiple guys In and out their lives, thy grow up learning what a whore mom was.
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Duded already made uo hid mind, he keepd throwing out variabled trying to get someone to tell him what he wants to hear
chick is a fucking headcase. Youre not going to listen to anyone anyway, so have fun being miserable.
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Duded already made uo hid mind, he keepd throwing out variabled trying to get someone to tell him what he wants to hear
chick is a fucking headcase. Youre not going to listen to anyone anyway, so have fun being miserable.
^^ This.
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This is true. But she has the full body package. Everywhere she goes whether it'd be clubs, bars, restaurants, coffee shop, the park men turn around and try to talk to her. Most cases as you know when women get married and have children (3), their stocks go down. But ironically enough hers went up. The kids live with the father in a totally different city thousand of miles away...
And? extremes are not good in life. Controlled, mastered productive passions are ok. But uncontrolled destructive behaviors, mostly subconscious, arent.
Maybe looking good is all she can do. You say all men turn their heads, obviously that s the only thing that matters to you for some reason.
A woman, wife tho, requires more skills than just being hot, especially to build a family/life. If all you want is a trophy wife, well go for it, maybe you re just like her, and it could work.
Lemme guess...she cheated on her ex?
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Duded already made uo hid mind, he keepd throwing out variabled trying to get someone to tell him what he wants to hear
chick is a fucking headcase. Youre not going to listen to anyone anyway, so have fun being miserable.
Bingo. Not to insult BigN but I'd put money that looks-wise... he's dating out of his league.. and she could be an axe-murderer, he don't give a fuck.
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There will come a point in life when you'll have to make a choice to start dating a woman with children. Earlier if you're in America. The older you get obviously the more likely with will be a women will have children. My limit is 1. That's it.
Hahahahahahahahaha
wtf dude the very same day you write the post above and then you write this?
She is a facebook friend. When I friended her I was still married at the time and she was with someone. But I told her, and she friended me. I remember details very clear. I was 5 and in first grade. She was a white princess that had to be mine. But I had an arch nemesis. A white kid. Robby and he was trying to come in on my broad and I didn't like it. He was a tattletale and storyteller. But for some reason she had eyes for him too. We'd chase each other in the tunnels and we were in the same reading group. I used to always pick her in heads up seven up just so I could touch her (no rapist). Those were special times. Well now Amanda is a mother of 4 and single...before you ask, yes the father is black. >:( :D Anyway, so I guess she likes black guys. And I'm a single dude no kids. (Trust me gents I'll be well on my guard but you have to understand there are vested feelings with this. So tonight she's going out and invited all her facebook friends. I feel like now is the time to have my last gentile woman. Go out the same way I came in literally 30 years later except I wasnt getting any cause I didn't know what "any" was. Anyhow, my confidence is high, as am I, and beard is thick and my penis is hard. I'm locked and loaded ready to go.
Please don't be so harsh on her she's a nice woman and my intentions are good. But how often do you get the chance to get with the first chick you ever had a crush and that like you back? This is epic. I hope no Hebrew ass gets beaten tonight cause I'm ready to go fist to cuffs in her honor. >:(
Ciao! Now I know I'm being a funny guy but I'm serious about the details of the story. Wish me luck. ;D Oh yeah, Robby is now gay. Guess that worked out well for me now huh?
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And? extremes are not good in life. Controlled, mastered productive passions are ok. But uncontrolled destructive behaviors, mostly subconscious, arent.
Maybe looking good is all she can do. You say all men turn their heads, obviously that s the only thing that matters to you for some reason.
A woman, wife tho, requires more skills than just being hot, especially to build a family/life. If all you want is a trophy wife, well go for it, maybe you re just like her, and it could work.
Lemme guess...she cheated on her ex?
I would guess you can shout bingo here.
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no...i mean that...no way around it...like everyone is saying theres plenty of singles out there without kids to choose from
i stand by my original statement
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I don't know about that. Seems like here even the 17 year olds have kids.
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If it means you'll post here less then yes,please get involved with her.
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Hahahahahahahahaha
wtf dude the very same day you write the post above and then you write this?
Yes it's called being completely full of shit.
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Would you be in a relationship with a broad who has kids? Especially 3 kids. Mind you, her body is just as hot as before she had the kids. And let's say the broad is in her 30's, still prime.
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no. i would avoid.
in fact relationships altogether are best avoided
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Would run to the hills.
Smart enough not to have my own fuck trophies why would i want someone else's, they they decide they don't really want , after the fact that is. ???
Does not matter how hot bitch is do not fuck only encourages them.
There are hotter girls out there with non used up beavers. ;)
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True, pregnancy could complicate things. I think i forgot how many times i've gone raw and bought her the morning after pill. But would you say pregnancy would be worse than her wanting to possibly get married in Las Vegas to get her paper work straight? She's by the way from the Phillippines.
hahaha stay far, far away
also epic random benchmstr sighting, wtf
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hahaha stay far, far away
also epic random benchmstr sighting, wtf
yeah, and yeah.
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yeah, and yeah.
I've been in a similar situation. Thought she was hot stuff going into it, ignored tons of glaring flaws, came out of it thinking she was subhuman scum.
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Good looking mother & cute 16yo daughter is every man dream.
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Good point, the older women get its more likely they'll have kids.
With Spanish women, if they're over 18, it's almost a sure thing.
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Social services took her kids because she was prostituting in front of them at home, and openly leaving around drug paraphenalia around the house. There were even allegations she tried to offer her children to the customers for extra cash.
Nah, only kidding bro she sounds like a real keeper!
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Would you be in a relationship with a broad who has kids? Especially 3 kids. Mind you, her body is just as hot as before she had the kids. And let's say the broad is in her 30's, still prime.
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fuck no......I can tolerate one kid....two kids are too much and 3 kids is a definitely no.....
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Bingo. Not to insult BigN but I'd put money that looks-wise... he's dating out of his league.. and she could be an axe-murderer, he don't give a fuck.
Big N is getting played by an east-Asian hustler who is marrying him for citizenship and will divorce him in 6 months, taking half of his meager possessions with her. The fool will make excuses for her behavior, reminiscing about her as the "one who got away".
Dollars to doughnuts she's a 7-8 TOPS
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True. But what am i to do? She left all her other ex's and pretty much most of them blow up her phone on a weekly/monthly basis trying to win her back. They buy her expensive LV bags, name brand bikinis, take her out for dinner, etc as friends so she says.
She can say anything she wants. How much of it is really true? I'm ashamed to admit, but some women do lie...
But the point is if i let go of her another man or ex will pick her up just like that. I must really be high strung off of her full body package and beauty, women...
You sound like a bargain hunter on a close out sale!
You make a lot of sense, and I agree, but i just cant put my finger on this one. She's in her mid 30's with 3 kids and been divorced, lost full custody as a mother (how rare is that), left her family member and own kids in the Phillippines, she hasnt seen her kids for several years and is showing desperation to either marry me in Vegas or one of her ex's so she can straighten her papers and travel. Am i hooked on her after a year of knowing/dating/relationship with her? Not sure but i guess i do care about her and she's very attractive too. I know i look like a fool, but not sure if i'm ready to bite the bullet for her and roll the dice just to help her out and hope for the best for myself hoping she wont f*ck me over or that we'll "last?!."
Stupid!
Sounds like she's not interested in you; any American will do.
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Would you be in a relationship with a broad who has kids? Especially 3 kids. Mind you, her body is just as hot as before she had the kids. And let's say the broad is in her 30's, still prime.
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How about a broad that has herpes? A friend wants to know. On the bright side, she told me him before we they banged.