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Getbig Main Boards => Gossip & Opinions => Topic started by: Skorp1o on October 29, 2014, 04:45:48 AM
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Hot wife, cute children and a happy healthy prosperous fulfilling life.
(http://www.advancedhottubdesign.com/images/family-hot-tub-banner1.jpg)
(http://icydk.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/FFN_Sims_Molly_MIJD_122313_51291527.jpg)
(http://media.remisens.com/cms_media/hoteli/excelsior/700x300-obitelj/hotel-excelsior-lovran-croatia-family-3.jpg)
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I predict that this thread will deliver...
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Yes, but no one will ever have this. At least not for long. Not just on Get Big either. Such a life is not conductive to today's society and the people in it.
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Yes, but no one will ever have this. At least not for long. Not just on Get Big either. Such a life is not conductive to today's society and the people in it.
But why?
All you need is to be self established yourself first of all and fall in love with a hot woman who is actually a nice/loyal girl as well.
Once you tie the knot with your dream girl, providing you're not Shizzo ugly, she will deliver you cute children and how it goes from there is up to you both.
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Hot wife, cute children and a happy healthy prosperous fulfilling life.
(http://www.advancedhottubdesign.com/images/family-hot-tub-banner1.jpg)
(http://icydk.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/FFN_Sims_Molly_MIJD_122313_51291527.jpg)
(http://media.remisens.com/cms_media/hoteli/excelsior/700x300-obitelj/hotel-excelsior-lovran-croatia-family-3.jpg)
Do you ever see yourself in this? Think about it? Wish to be a part of it?
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Do not get married!
Overrated, not worth it and few years into it, you will wish you never got married.
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Do you ever see yourself in this? Think about it? Wish to be a part of it?
Yes
This is me this past weekend just gone....I worked 60 hours, earned a lot of money, went to a club and dropped 1k on a table, got drunk as a skunk and went home with two sisters.
(http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=553915.0;attach=585790;image)(http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=553915.0;attach=585789;image)
I would rather chill in a cigar lounge come midnight go home to my hot wife and in the morning get woken up fresh by two cute babies
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Do not get married!
Overrated, not worth it and few years into it, you will wish you never got married.
It's surprising how some people can't see there is nothing distinguishable between a traditional relationship and a marriage. There seems to be the misconception that "tying the knot" has any significance over that the usual delusion-induced, lust-filled rhetoric that people spew to their "significant other" when they're together in a relationship. And then one day they wake up, and realize they can't stand each other.
I mean, no matter what motivates the union, it always, always fizzles out.
Happens to the vast majority of people, if not everyone.
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It's surprising how some people can't see there is nothing distinguishable between a traditional relationship and a marriage. There seems to be the misconception that "tying the knot" has any significance other that the usual delusion-induced, lust-filled rhetoric that people spew to their "significant other" when they're together. And then one day they wake up, and realize they can't stand each other.
I mean, no matter what motivates the union, it always, always fizzles out.
Happens to the vast majority of people, if not everyone.
Ending a relationship costs nothing, ending a marriage doesnt.
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Do not get married!
Overrated, not worth it and few years into it, you will wish you never got married.
When the right girl comes along, I will wear my wedding ring with pride to keep them hoes off of me.
The below beats being in a cab with two 20 year old girls all three of you coked up to the gills and about to hit a club at 2am.
(http://www.celebritybabyscoop.com/files/2012/08/82920PCN_MattMcC07-960x1200.jpg)
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Kids destroy your freedom, your sex life and your wife's pussy, glad I don't have them.
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When the right girl comes along, I will wear my wedding ring with pride to keep them hoes off of me.
The below beats being in a cab with two 20 year old girls all three of you coked up to the gills and about to hit a club at 2am.
(http://www.celebritybabyscoop.com/files/2012/08/82920PCN_MattMcC07-960x1200.jpg)
Finding such a woman always means you take on the role of the woman in the relationship since you're so love-struck, you find yourself treating her with the type of affection that makes you a predictable, sappy, estrogen-filled beta male. Thus, this woman is bound to overstep her boundaries and lose respect for you eventually, which will lead to her "falling out of love" for you.
I sound like a cynic in all this, but a man "falling in love" with a woman never, ever ends well. Now, a man "falling in love" in the sense that he treats the woman like his favorite piece of property is more likely to keep his woman, since women by nature prefer a dominant male over a sappy little pussy whipped homo.
Merely stating the facts. You can't win against nature.
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Finding such a woman always means you take on the role of the woman in the relationship since you're so love-struck, you find yourself treating her with the type of affection that makes you a predictable, sappy, estrogen-filled beta male. Thus, this woman is bound to overstep her boundaries and lose respect for you eventually, which will lead to her "falling out of love" for you.
I sound like a cynic in all this, but a man "falling in love" with a woman never, ever ends well. Now, a man "falling in love" in the sense that he treats the woman like his favorite piece of property is more likely to keep his woman, since women by nature prefer a dominant male over a sappy little pussy whipped homo.
Merely stating the facts. You can't win against nature.
The one in charge is the one that cares the least.
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The one in charge is the one that cares the least.
Precisely.
And it's not the kids that destroy your sex life. It's commitment that destroys your sex life. The second you make the decision to commit to one woman is the second you flip that hour glass. Some have more sand than others. 1-4 years is a good time frame for when things fall apart completely. Especially if you don't lift and look like it.
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When the right girl comes along, I will wear my wedding ring with pride to keep them hoes off of me.
The below beats being in a cab with two 20 year old girls all three of you coked up to the gills and about to hit a club at 2am.
(http://www.celebritybabyscoop.com/files/2012/08/82920PCN_MattMcC07-960x1200.jpg)
Have you tried this
russianbrides.com
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Precisely.
I have an urge to change my mind after taking into account your previous posting history. ;D
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Hot wife, cute children and a happy healthy prosperous fulfilling life.
(http://www.advancedhottubdesign.com/images/family-hot-tub-banner1.jpg)
(http://icydk.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/FFN_Sims_Molly_MIJD_122313_51291527.jpg)
(http://media.remisens.com/cms_media/hoteli/excelsior/700x300-obitelj/hotel-excelsior-lovran-croatia-family-3.jpg)
That is a 95% accurate depiction on my marraige, the 5% being the mid section on the woman.
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I see the points a lot of you are making, and it is based on personal experiences. But why let a few bad relationships tarnish a whole concept and the idea behind it?
There's a lot of controlling crazed money grabbing freedom sapping sex destroying women out there...but this thread is not about them.
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Here's a thought.
The guys that will chime in here saying that marriage is a disaster, theirs was hell, women are bitches, is akin to a toyota celica owner moaning about a breakdown on a ferrari forum.
You picked the wrong ride bro.
Driving cars does not end in a breakdown for everyone.
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That is a 95% accurate depiction on my marraige, the 5% being the mid section on the woman.
Here's your 5% back:
(http://images.askmen.com/sports/bodybuilding/pictures/23b_fitness_tip.JPG)
(http://www.mcdonalds.ca/content/dam/Canada/en/product_pages/Salads/hero/hero_teriyaki-salad.png)
Don't settle for 95%...live the dream fully brah
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Yes
This is me this past weekend just gone....I worked 60 hours, earned a lot of money, went to a club and dropped 1k on a table, got drunk as a skunk and went home with two sisters.
(http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=553915.0;attach=585790;image)(http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=553915.0;attach=585789;image)
I would rather chill in a cigar lounge come midnight go home to my hot wife and in the morning get woken up fresh by two cute babies
You dropped 1k on a table?
What sort of ghetto speak is this?
You mean you spent a thousand pounds in a restaurant?
Please provide a translation.
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Hot wife, cute children and a happy healthy prosperous fulfilling life.
(http://www.advancedhottubdesign.com/images/family-hot-tub-banner1.jpg)
(http://icydk.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/FFN_Sims_Molly_MIJD_122313_51291527.jpg)
(http://media.remisens.com/cms_media/hoteli/excelsior/700x300-obitelj/hotel-excelsior-lovran-croatia-family-3.jpg)
Looks not far off my life.
Although far less vomit in those pics and the children aren't trying to knife each other.
Apart from that, spot on.
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Looks not far off my life.
Although far less vomit in those pics and the children aren't trying to knife each other.
Apart from that, spot on.
What sort of ghetto behaviour is this?
Please provide an explanation
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The one in charge is the one that cares the least.
The one in charge is the one that appears to care the least.
It's simply a matter of understanding what motivates most women.
It's a game.
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Here's your 5% back:
(http://images.askmen.com/sports/bodybuilding/pictures/23b_fitness_tip.JPG)
(http://www.mcdonalds.ca/content/dam/Canada/en/product_pages/Salads/hero/hero_teriyaki-salad.png)
Don't settle for 95%...live the dream fully brah
Thanks mate, I never thought of that bro what a revelation ;D
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What sort of ghetto behaviour is this?
Please provide an explanation
You have kids.
Do you not see them?
Siblings alternate between loving, playing, tickling, fighting.
Actually - sounds like my marriage
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Yup lol. mine are 4 and 20 months, and my daughter (youngest) does the sweetest thing
When she first smacked her brother, we made a point of asking her to cuddle him and kiss him to say sorry
Now she walks over to him, and smacks him and then quickly cuddles and kisses him ;D :D ;D
Bitches learn early.
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Thanks mate, I never thought of that bro what a revelation ;D
Don't thank me...I got it from our in-house nutrition and physique sculpting guru 'the trainer'
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Yup lol. mine are 4 and 20 months, and my daughter (youngest) does the sweetest thing
When she first smacked her brother, we made a point of asking her to cuddle him and kiss him to say sorry
Now she walks over to him, and smacks him and then quickly cuddles and kisses him ;D :D ;D
Bitches learn early.
If you catch your son in a femdom parlour as an adult....you'll know what trauma started this fetish.
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If you catch your son in a femdom parlour as an adult....you'll know what trauma started this fetish.
Yes I must sort out this behaviour now before it spirals out of control. Maybe i'll teach her to smack him and then they both have to throw themselves to the ground and feign agony - at least that way they'll both end up playing in the Premier League.
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Yup lol. mine are 4 and 20 months, and my daughter (youngest) does the sweetest thing
When she first smacked her brother, we made a point of asking her to cuddle him and kiss him to say sorry
Now she walks over to him, and smacks him and then quickly cuddles and kisses him ;D :D ;D
Bitches learn early.
smack your daughter the same way and ask her how it feels.
Back on topic; the reason why i and my wife have been getting a long well enough for 12 years is because we re the same age, same social class (SAME KIND OF INCOMES), same level of self esteem, both growing up at the same pace and taking care of not letting the other lag behind, etc A relationship is a complex mix of strenghts and weaknesses that cancel/improve each others to create a balance that allow both to survive facing the competition of others couples, families.
The less differences, the higher the odds you ll stay together. That's my opinion. I also strongly suggest man has to dominate in sex most of the time and make it clear no sex = violent breakup.
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Yes I must sort out this behaviour now before it spirals out of control. Maybe i'll teach her to smack him and then they both have to throw themselves to the ground and feign agony - at least that way they'll both end up playing in the Premier League.
If it's the premier league I've been watching, all she has to do is walk past and that's enough to trigger a dramatic fall and the mandatory rolling on the floor in absolute agony holding some random limb, only to be ok and running around 30 seconds later.
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If it's the premier league I've been watching, all she has to do is walk past and that's enough to trigger a dramatic fall and the mandatory rolling on the floor in absolute agony holding some random limb, only to be ok and running around 30 seconds later.
I know man, those team medics that run on are doing some witchcraft shit for sure.
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Who wouldn't want to be in this man's shoes? fertilising the eggs of the stunningly beautiful and classy Jessica Alba and enjoying a holiday in the far east with the off spring.
(http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2012/04/19/article-2132320-12AB9EE4000005DC-880_468x528.jpg)
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Here's how I picture married life ...
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smack your daughter and ask her how it feels.
Back on topic; the reason why i and my wife get a long so well is because we re the same age, same social class, same level of self esteem, etc the less differences, the higher the odds you ll stay together. That's my opinion. I also strongly suggest man has to dominate in sex most of the time and make it clear no sex = violent breakup.
I did.
She said it feels like being uberman.
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smack your daughter the same way and ask her how it feels.
Back on topic; the reason why i and my wife have been getting a long well enough for 12 years is because we re the same age, same social class, same level of self esteem, both growing up at the same pace and taking care of not letting the other lag behind, etc A relationship is a complex mix of strenghts and weaknesses that cancel/improve each others to create a balance that allow both to survive facing the competition of others couples, families.
The less differences, the higher the odds you ll stay together. That's my opinion. I also strongly suggest man has to dominate in sex most of the time and make it clear no sex = violent breakup.
Define " violent breakup ". Lol.
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smack your daughter the same way and ask her how it feels.
Back on topic; the reason why i and my wife have been getting a long well enough for 12 years is because we re the same age, same social class, same level of self esteem, both growing up at the same pace and taking care of not letting the other lag behind, etc A relationship is a complex mix of strenghts and weaknesses that cancel/improve each others to create a balance that allow both to survive facing the competition of others couples, families.
The less differences, the higher the odds you ll stay together. That's my opinion. I also strongly suggest man has to dominate in sex most of the time and make it clear no sex = violent breakup.
More likely you just had an unplanned pregnancy early in life, with your wife, and there's nowhere to run from that (unless you'd be very irresponsible). Everything else is more or less good (in terms of compatibility) so it's a bearable experience (not like to many people who did not manage to make a decent choice/circumstances weren't in favor). And you don't know how to earn good money so there are not many chances to get very "wild" in that sense.. It sums up in a succesfull partnership, probably not very exciting, but still better than being a poor chap with nowhere to go after a boring manual job (wife would be doomed alone with a kid anyway, so she's content with a man at home who's staying faithful to her).
Most of the time when people get married very young, there's one thing enough to destroy it later on - money. Man suddenly realises he can have a lot more and probably better (grass is sometimes actually greener on the other side). Or if a female is not working any kind of a job, after years of being a "house wife" and spending husbands money, various evil thoughts arise (idle mind is a devils playground, as the saying goes).
Basically - these who have plenty of options (good looks , good upbringing and rich) - should treat the choice very carefully, as the temptations may get the better of them, when the "boring" phase sets in. These perfect families in the pics rarely do last "forever", but it's a nice phase to be in if it happens, I'm sure.
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Thanks mate, I never thought of that bro what a revelation ;D
Is your wife's midsection really that bad? You've mentioned this multiple times now lol
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If you catch your son in a femdom parlour as an adult....you'll know what trauma started this fetish.
Rofl
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Is your wife's midsection really that bad? You've mentioned this multiple times now lol
No it's really not.
She is size 12, with double E breasts and a nice thick ass, but once she had 2 children she has some soft skin on her stomach. I don't mind it at all, but when I read threads like 'Women of fitness and althletics' it skews my perspective.
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My first boss got divorced in mid to late 30s. Did speed dating for professionals. Most of the other guys there are out of shape or boring etc. He practically got mobbed. Had six mid to late 30s chicks on go at once. I thought one of them was a good catch. Rest were ok. I challenge skorp to do professional speed dating and keep a getbig diary.
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My first boss got divorced in mid to late 30s. Did speed dating for professionals. Most of the other guys there are out of shape or boring etc. He practically got mobbed. Had six mid to late 30s chicks on go at once. I thought one of them was a good catch. Rest were ok. I challenge skorp to do professional speed dating and keep a getbig diary.
Challenge accepted, we could even video it and do a summary/diary blog on here.
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I kinda like my (15 years) married life:
- Wife is a size 2 hardbody that lifts 4x/week and teaches group fitness 4x/week
- Son who is smart (when he isn't a smart ass)
- lots of dogs and a cat
- 4500 sqft house in the country
- 5+ acres of land
- Good job
- Wife is a good cook and has dinner ready when I get home from work.
- Sex on demand
- Wife is smart, politically aligned with me, a crack shot with a rifle and would trust to have my back in a foxhole
Off the top of my head...
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Getting married? lol That's the way a grown man's life should look like:
(http://www.5lb.ru/files/animalpak1.jpg)
(https://www.animalpak.com/images/journey/26.jpg)
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Challenge accepted, we could even video it and do a summary/diary blog on here.
My prediction is that the "speed dating" won't make it past the first attractive woman. Balls deep that night.
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I kinda like my (15 years) married life:
- Wife is a size 2 hardbody that lifts 4x/week and teaches group fitness 4x/week
- Son who is smart (when he isn't a smart ass)
- lots of dogs and a cat
- 4500 sqft house in the country
- 5+ acres of land
- Good job
- Wife is a good cook and has dinner ready when I get home from work.
- Sex on demand
- Wife is smart, politically aligned with me hates black people and Muslims, a crack shot with a rifle and would trust to have my back in a foxhole
Fixed ;D
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Here is what you guys need to understand, you need to look for a submissive woman for your mate, no diva type bitches with attitude, she knows her job is to please you and make sure that all your demand are met, then on special days like birthdays anniversary etc you take her somewhere nice and let her know that she is appreciated and never behave like a pussy whipped beta bitch, if you follow this simple principle you wont have problems with women.
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Getting married? lol That's the way a grown man's life should look like:
(http://www.5lb.ru/files/animalpak1.jpg)
(https://www.animalpak.com/images/journey/26.jpg)
Looks lonely and has nothing to offer to society...a stale existence with a foundation reliant on how many ml's of hormone induced oils are inserted into his body. An individual with a severe low output in producing or creating anything worthwhile to him or society and no real purpose or use to society or himself other than deprived men with homosexual fantasies gawking at him once in a while to give him enough ammunition (and a mediocre sum of money) to keep going for another little while lifting, injecting and self admiring an oversized musculature.
I have seen many men like him pondering:
"I am restless, I see no colour yet I am not blind, my world is a dark reality no love, no affection. This emptiness I chose to ignore and cover up with densely striated muscle and yet I live a life of mere glass that can shatter. Now at my old age I am breathless, lonely, poor and the pain of failure only gets worse as the years go by" [Insert any ex-IFBB pro's name here]
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Finding such a woman always means you take on the role of the woman in the relationship since you're so love-struck, you find yourself treating her with the type of affection that makes you a predictable, sappy, estrogen-filled beta male. Thus, this woman is bound to overstep her boundaries and lose respect for you eventually, which will lead to her "falling out of love" for you.
I sound like a cynic in all this, but a man "falling in love" with a woman never, ever ends well. Now, a man "falling in love" in the sense that he treats the woman like his favorite piece of property is more likely to keep his woman, since women by nature prefer a dominant male over a sappy little pussy whipped homo.
Merely stating the facts. You can't win against nature.
can you explain this more-I like this -I never gave affection to my ex-yet with my gf now I give a lot of it-but I don't wanna go overboard where I seem to be sappy-its really the first time ive really been in love and im def not a beta trust me-lol
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Who wouldn't want to be in this man's shoes? fertilising the eggs of the stunningly beautiful and classy Jessica Alba and enjoying a holiday in the far east with the off spring.
(http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2012/04/19/article-2132320-12AB9EE4000005DC-880_468x528.jpg)
its a good life as long as he has time away from her and the children now and then.
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Showing millionaires who also have a nanny, chef and house keeper. So wife has time to workout and cheat on her husband.
This is more truth
(http://www.rodkirby.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/family-fight-300x200.jpg)
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A man can only be truly happy if he has a woman committed to him for life.
the logical conclusion to that end is to spread your seed with this woman.
People that complain about it are just losing in life. Probably not happy with the choice they made or their own life.
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(http://static1.nydailynews.com/polopoly_fs/1.1736307.1395919429!/img/httpImage/image.jpg_gen/derivatives/article_970/tara28n-5-web.jpg)
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If u do the late 30s age range speed dating the are really under body clock pressure. But the late 20s early 30s will be hotter and prob a bit desperate having had a meaningful relationship break up and worried if the best guys are taken.
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If u do the late 30s age range speed dating the are really under body clock pressure. But the late 20s early 30s will be hotter and prob a bit desperate having had a meaningful relationship break up and worried if the best guys are taken.
Kill yourself.
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I have a good time with it. Lots of traveling, still party, etc.. we just bring the nanny with us now.
Skorp you will see why I am so lucky in Playa. My wife will party with us and even assist in your quest for enjoying fine tail.
Note: Wife is in the process of dropping weight, she gained 60 pounds with the baby. She's down 50 with 10 more to go.
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Fixed ;D
:D
Edits accepted.
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XFACTOR gets it, this is exactly what I meant in my post.
Beautiful family you have mate, nicely done and looks like you did very well picking a wife, she's beautiful.
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XFACTOR gets it, this is exactly what I meant in my post.
Beautiful family you have mate, nicely done and looks like you did very well picking a wife, she's beautiful.
I know you often here the old adage money doesn't buy happiness. But in some ways it really does man. You need money to buy freedom and time. This is my advice to anyone, set yourself up financially and mind state (obviously) then have kids.
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I have a good time with it. Lots of traveling, still party, etc.. we just bring the nanny with us now.
Skorp you will see why I am so lucky in Playa. My wife will party with us and even assist in your quest for enjoying fine tail.
Note: Wife is in the process of dropping weight, she gained 60 pounds with the baby. She's down 50 with 10 more to go.
Brutal moonface on whole family ;D
Nah well done mate lovely wife and son
Daughter ;D
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:D
Edits accepted.
PMSL ;D
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I believe you will get the life you picture, Skorp. You don't seem like the type of fella to compromise on achieving the life you want. Not compromising is extremely important. Some guys try to tie down the first piece of snatch they get.
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I believe you will get the life you picture, Skorp. You don't seem like the type of fella to compromise on achieving the life you want. Not compromising is extremely important. Some guys try to tie down the first piece of snatch they get.
Agreed, I protect what I have fiercely, and this includes non-tangible assets e.g. freedom, time alone, a night out with boys now and then...etc. I don't carry dead weight and quickly shut down people who hold me back. I see people as a disposable commodity. I make sure girls who get close to me know clearly what boundaries not to cross.
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I kinda like my (15 years) married life:
- Wife is a size 2 hardbody that lifts 4x/week and teaches group fitness 4x/week
- Son who is smart (when he isn't a smart ass)
- lots of dogs and a cat
- 4500 sqft house in the country
- 5+ acres of land
- Good job
- Wife is a good cook and has dinner ready when I get home from work.
- Sex on demand
- Wife is smart, politically aligned with me, a crack shot with a rifle and would trust to have my back in a foxhole
Off the top of my head...
Living the dream, brother. 8)
Might need a daughter tho...to bring out something special in you.
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I try not to give life advice, as I realize it's merely just my own observation/opinion-that being said, based on my time here on earth, I'd have to say that marriage is THE WORST contract a man could ever enter into. I have never been married, but have observed buddies and family members ruin their lives by getting married-
1) Financially, it is the dumbest contract a male could ever enter into P.E.R.I.O.D.
2) Physically, your saying you will NEVER have sex with another female
3) No male ( wise male or dumb male)has ever has come up to me, grabbed me by the shoulder and said" Man, you have to get married, its the best decision I have ever made in my life"...instead, it is usually the opposite ...how many times has someone told you " Don't EVER get married"
I speak from experience here fellas...
If you have a good head of hair, keep yourself reasonably fit, and make some bank, you can fuck a different girl a week until you get tired of it (which should be never if your not a puff)
Others may disagree with me, but, I wouldn't trade my decision not to get married for anything-
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can you explain this more-I like this -I never gave affection to my ex-yet with my gf now I give a lot of it-but I don't wanna go overboard where I seem to be sappy-its really the first time ive really been in love and im def not a beta trust me-lol
You are fucked.................. ..........
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Brutal moonface on whole family ;D
Nah well done mate lovely wife and son
Daughter ;D
hahahahhaahha too funny!! We do have some moon faces, too much soy sauce at Nobu prior to photo. Will ensure diuretics are handed out after dinner next time
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this is how I picture married life. Honourable, fighting for survival, a life of meaning.
I'm thankful that being single for me means a life of shit, I feel sorry for you guys that have something to loose.
Being a man to me means being selfless.
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Agreed, I protect what I have fiercely, and this includes non-tangible assets e.g. freedom, time alone, a night out with boys now and then...etc. I don't carry dead weight and quickly shut down people who hold me back. I see people as a disposable commodity. I make sure girls who get close to me know clearly what boundaries not to cross.
That's what you have to do. You definitely have your head screwed on right. As you said, its about boundaries. Establish boundaries and be consistent about them. I don't know how the divorce laws are in the UK but buy any property you want to keep before you ever get married. I've known guys who during the course of their marriage inherited land that had been in the family for generations only to lose it in a divorce.
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Lots of johns giving out divine wisdom on lifelong relationships, based on their 17 min sexual escapades at the massage parlour in this thread.
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Lots of johns giving out divine wisdom on lifelong relationships, based on their 17 min sexual escapades at the massage parlour in this thread.
WHY YOU! I've been with my wife for almost sixteen years.
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You are fucked.................. ..........
lol thx
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WHY YOU! I've been with my wife for almost sixteen years.
Fuck that's gonna be a huge bill, I thought they only did 1 hour slots ;D
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I try not to give life advice, as I realize it's merely just my own observation/opinion-that being said, based on my time here on earth, I'd have to say that marriage is THE WORST contract a man could ever enter into. I have never been married, but have observed buddies and family members ruin their lives by getting married-
1) Financially, it is the dumbest contract a male could ever enter into P.E.R.I.O.D
What if your wife makes more money than you do?
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I personally know off a guy who is much better off being married even though he was a highly paid broker, not particularly good looking and the 30's dealt him a blow looks wise (fatness and hairloss) managed to bag a decent looking girl. He no longer takes cocaine, drinks under control as opposed to rolling into work everyday reeking of alcohol and cigarettes. Quit smoking and overall juts more chilled and healthier...etc.
I am sure should she leave him he will go into meltdown mode again.
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besides money why do good looking women settle for kinda ugly or fat guys -how do they even get aroused by them?-I ask this and not tooting my horn but im a built good looking guy and my gf ex is a disaster...
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besides money why do good looking women settle for kinda ugly or fat guys -how do they even get aroused by them?-I ask this and not tooting my horn but im a built good looking guy and my gf ex is a disaster...
She has little to no self esteem.
Next question.
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besides money why do good looking women settle for kinda ugly or fat guys -how do they even get aroused by them?-I ask this and not tooting my horn but im a built good looking guy and my gf ex is a disaster...
This is such a dilemma, this newly married couple made the news in the UK recently:
(http://resources2.news.com.au/images/2014/03/25/1226864/156346-57604482-b3a2-11e3-995d-6099a80e173b.jpg)
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She has little to no self esteem.
Next question.
you might be right but she also took the easy road and felt sorry for him-I kinda did too in my marriage
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This is such a dilemma, this newly married couple made the news in the UK recently:
(http://resources2.news.com.au/images/2014/03/25/1226864/156346-57604482-b3a2-11e3-995d-6099a80e173b.jpg)
formerly straight working class Brit marries Brazil tv he met at the world cup who wants a passport?
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formerly straight working class Brit marries Brazil tv he met at the world cup who wants a passport?
No she's British, a geordie girl actually
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(http://aweebitirish.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/suicide-gif-tumblr.gif)
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I personally know off a guy who is much better off being married even though he was a highly paid broker, not particularly good looking and the 30's dealt him a blow looks wise (fatness and hairloss) managed to bag a decent looking girl. He no longer takes cocaine, drinks under control as opposed to rolling into work everyday reeking of alcohol and cigarettes. Quit smoking and overall juts more chilled and healthier...etc.
I am sure should she leave him he will go into meltdown mode again.
Tell bigmc to keep his head up.
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I try not to give life advice, as I realize it's merely just my own observation/opinion-that being said, based on my time here on earth, I'd have to say that marriage is THE WORST contract a man could ever enter into. I have never been married, but have observed buddies and family members ruin their lives by getting married-
1) Financially, it is the dumbest contract a male could ever enter into P.E.R.I.O.D.
2) Physically, your saying you will NEVER have sex with another female
3) No male ( wise male or dumb male)has ever has come up to me, grabbed me by the shoulder and said" Man, you have to get married, its the best decision I have ever made in my life"...instead, it is usually the opposite ...how many times has someone told you " Don't EVER get married"
I speak from experience here fellas...
If you have a good head of hair, keep yourself reasonably fit, and make some bank, you can fuck a different girl a week until you get tired of it (which should be never if your not a puff)
Others may disagree with me, but, I wouldn't trade my decision not to get married for anything-
Same here. Could've been married 5 times now if I wanted to, even got engaged once. Always managed to GTFO sooner rather than later. In my heart of hearts of hearts, it's not for me. I was in touch last year with the first girl that ever wanted to marry me when I was 21, she was 23 and dying to get married and have children. She eventually did. When I spoke to her she admitted she is 'bored beyond belief' but does love her children.
Oh and also that she wanted to know what happened to the 'video we made and if I'm ever interested in making another one, she'd be keen'. I just laughed and told her in a gentle way to go back to her husband.
Financially it always made me silently seeth if I had to pay the bulk of money for someone I just KNEW weren't going to be around much longer. And they always seemed fucking broke, no matter whom I dated, there were always debts, credit card debts, student debts, store card debts and all sorts of fuck ups. Clueless with money. Very hot, but financially illiterate.
I'm 110% a better person on my own. I train better, party better, live better and now with my business, could finally be very rich.
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Agreed, I protect what I have fiercely, and this includes non-tangible assets e.g. freedom, time alone, a night out with boys now and then...etc. I don't carry dead weight and quickly shut down people who hold me back. I see people as a disposable commodity. I make sure girls who get close to me know clearly what boundaries not to cross.
lol sure you are destined to find great happiness ::)
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besides money why do good looking women settle for kinda ugly or fat guys -how do they even get aroused by them?-I ask this and not tooting my horn but im a built good looking guy and my gf ex is a disaster...
Some women, even if good looking, are not that much into sex, or find it somewhere else on the side sooner or later.
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Here's a thought.
The guys that will chime in here saying that marriage is a disaster, theirs was hell, women are bitches, is akin to a toyota celica owner moaning about a breakdown on a ferrari forum.
You picked the wrong ride bro.
Driving cars does not end in a breakdown for everyone.
And the fellas saying they were financially ruined after a divorce. Lots of women out there are earning big money. Try not scraping the bottom of the barrel ???
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Yes
This is me this past weekend just gone....I worked 60 hours, earned a lot of money, went to a club and dropped 1k on a table, got drunk as a skunk and went home with two sisters.
I would rather chill in a cigar lounge come midnight go home to my hot wife and in the morning get woken up fresh by two cute babies
Sound pretty stupid to me. Now u need to go back to work and do 60 houers again... : )
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Same here. Could've been married 5 times now if I wanted to, even got engaged once. Always managed to GTFO sooner rather than later. In my heart of hearts of hearts, it's not for me. I was in touch last year with the first girl that ever wanted to marry me when I was 21, she was 23 and dying to get married and have children. She eventually did. When I spoke to her she admitted she is 'bored beyond belief' but does love her children.
Oh and also that she wanted to know what happened to the 'video we made and if I'm ever interested in making another one, she'd be keen'. I just laughed and told her in a gentle way to go back to her husband.
Financially it always made me silently seethe if I had to pay the bulk of money for someone I just KNEW weren't going to be around much longer. And they always seemed fucking broke, no matter whom I dated, there were always debts, credit card debts, student debts, store card debts and all sorts of fuck ups. Clueless with money. Very hot, but financially illiterate.
I'm 110% a better person on my own. I train better, party better, live better and now with my business, could finally be very rich.
I have NEVER met a hot girl that made a tenth of what I earn...a hot rich girl is like a fucking unicorn-
Further more, you are spot on- most females are financially illiterate.
Success in health and business are the keys to a happy life if your a male-not a successful marriage...
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Have you tried this
russianbrides.com
lol....not funny >:(
stay away from MY women!
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Lots of johns giving out divine wisdom on lifelong relationships, based on their 17 min sexual escapades at the massage parlour in this thread.
What's the difference between a wife and a prostitute? A prostitute uses up far less of your time and money.
Wives are amateur prostitutes, they've only worked out how to get money out of one man, (two tops, if they are cheating on you).
Preemptive meltdown reduction disclaimer:
Relax, it's just a joke
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And the fellas saying they were financially ruined after a divorce. Lots of women out there are earning big money. Try not scraping the bottom of the barrel ???
I have to agree with this. Find a hot woman who is educated and makes her own money. Wow earth shattering idea
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have been hitched for 6 years now and have absolutely no regrets marrying my high society beauty queen Colombian wife ... having a kid or two will be the icing on the cake.
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What's the difference between a wife and a prostitute? A prostitute uses up far less of your time and money.
Wives are amateur prostitutes, they've only worked out how to get money out of one man, (two tops, if they are cheating on you).
Preemptive meltdown reduction disclaimer:
Relax, it's just a joke
Well, would you raise kids with prostitutes? At least we now know how prostitutes are made lol
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Here's a thought.
The guys that will chime in here saying that marriage is a disaster, theirs was hell, women are bitches, is akin to a toyota celica owner moaning about a breakdown on a ferrari forum.
You picked the wrong ride bro.
Driving cars does not end in a breakdown for everyone.
So, hypothetically you meet the "right one"...
Why get married? Just co habitate until you start to hate her (which you eventually will)
Furthermore, your'e saying you will give up on having sex with other women?
I agree with the logic in your analogy, but that logic doesn't apply here mate-
Not to throw bouquets at myself, but, I have tagged my fair share of females during my time, and am still at it ...it NEVER gets old. Furthermore,
I have NEVER banged one that made me think " I never want another female as long as I live"
At the end of the day, only ~3-5% of all mammalian species are socially monogamous, including us. It's just nature and people make their lives complicated when they try to fight this natural instinct that we have.
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absolute requirements for a wife...
1. comes from a great family
2. highly educated
3. accomplished in "whatever"
4. attractive
5. no bad habits (smoking, drinking etc)
6. physically fit
7. independent
8. very sexual (make that top 3)
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absolute requirements for a wife...
1. comes from a great family
2. highly educated
3. accomplished in "whatever"
4. attractive
5. no bad habits (smoking, drinking etc)
6. physically fit
7. independent
8. very sexual (make that top 3)
Found. Albeit "Accomplished in whatever" might be a stretch. Nurse practitioner, owned/owns home when I met her, few investments, $140k+ year. She could be doing better but that's me trying to bring out the best possible in her.
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Well, would you raise kids with prostitutes? At least we now know how prostitutes are made lol
I wouldn't raise a kid period, or provide for a woman financially, to the degree that she can sit at home watching daytime TV in between going to the cafe and mall with my credit card and her girlfriends while I work a 60 hour week to pay the mortgage and bills. (Very, very common scenario)
As women these days are strong, independent and sassy and don't need no man. (Except welfare payments which derive from taxes of which men pay the majority of).
I wonder how fathers feel when the government hands out welfare payments for their children. Do they feel like inadequate providers for their family to the point that the government has to take on the role of second daddy and husband?
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so a single guys view of relationships and marriage
most single guys will tell you how great being single is as a cover up for actually being very lonely. it's kind of a compensating reflex in guys as as men it's cool to be tough and emotionless and it seems to be a trait highly regarded by other guys.
I had a married friend once say to me 'man I want your life. you have these great stories you travel you party your with this chick and that chick etc etc'. I looked at him I said keith, for all the stories I tell you an this chick and that chick and this trip and that party you don't hear abt the nights I'm alone reading a book or watching a movie by myself on the couch. that's when being single for a lot of guys will suck if your not truly meant to be alone. he's like no way I want your life.
fast fwd 2 years. he gets divorced. he was on the downslope of his relationship anyway so this came as no surprise. he starts living the life of the single guy. he comes to me several months later and says your right. being single does suck.
the grass is always greener on the other side. now hes re married and a happy dude. sure he goes thru bullshit but that's what you do in a relationship. they aren't perfect. they need work, attention, sacrifice and compromise.
for some reason I've always been a better friend than a boyfriend. every one of my exs and I maintain good relationships to this day save one, some going back 15 years. my last few relationships I've maintained relationships where I'd be the first person they would come to if they ever needed help.
that's what's important to me. I'm not meant to be the boyfriend or spouse. I just don't have it me. but I do have it in me to be the best friend a person could have in their life. that's my gift. I'm not gifted to be a good partner or spouse
I think the concept of marriage and family and values is an awesome one- in fact I think it's a backbone of society. I see my friends w their kids and it makes me happy to see the joy they get from them. it's a really pure thing.
to you married guys out there. take what you hear abt single life w a grain of salt. if your not really comfortable being by yourself it's really going to suck and your lonliness will feel 10 fold after being w someone 24/7.
you just gotta find out who you are, what your gifts are and go from there. be happy with what you have in your relationship and, not wanting what you don't.
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Found. Albeit "Accomplished in whatever" might be a stretch. Nurse practitioner, owned/owns home when I met her, few investments, $140k+ year. She could be doing better but that's me trying to bring out the best possible in her.
Sounds like a good catch.
Why would a guy settle for anything less.
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And the fellas saying they were financially ruined after a divorce. Lots of women out there are earning big money. Try not scraping the bottom of the barrel ???
This.
And I'm also laughing all of these getbig millionaires.
Worried they are going to lose half of their 86 fkng dollars they have in their checking account
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This.
And I'm also laughing all of these getbig millionaires.
Worried they are going to lose half of their 86 fkng dollars they have in their checking account
bhahahahahahahaha too funny.
You just know this is true too
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so a single guys view of relationships and marriage
most single guys will tell you how great being single is as a cover up for actually being very lonely. it's kind of a compensating reflex in guys as as men it's cool to be tough and emotionless and it seems to be a trait highly regarded by other guys.
I had a married friend once say to me 'man I want your life. you have these great stories you travel you party your with this chick and that chick etc etc'. I looked at him I said keith, for all the stories I tell you an this chick and that chick and this trip and that party you don't hear abt the nights I'm alone reading a book or watching a movie by myself on the couch. that's when being single for a lot of guys will suck if your not truly meant to be alone. he's like no way I want your life.
fast fwd 2 years. he gets divorced. he was on the downslope of his relationship anyway so this came as no surprise. he starts living the life of the single guy. he comes to me several months later and says your right. being single does suck.
the grass is always greener on the other side. now hes re married and a happy dude. sure he goes thru bullshit but that's what you do in a relationship. they aren't perfect. they need work, attention, sacrifice and compromise.
for some reason I've always been a better friend than a boyfriend. every one of my exs and I maintain good relationships to this day save one, some going back 15 years. my last few relationships I've maintained relationships where I'd be the first person they would come to if they ever needed help.
that's what's important to me. I'm not meant to be the boyfriend or spouse. I just don't have it me. but I do have it in me to be the best friend a person could have in their life. that's my gift. I'm not gifted to be a good partner or spouse
I think the concept of marriage and family and values is an awesome one- in fact I think it's a backbone of society. I see my friends w their kids and it makes me happy to see the joy they get from them. it's a really pure thing.
to you married guys out there. take what you hear abt single life w a grain of salt. if your not really comfortable being by yourself it's really going to suck and your lonliness will feel 10 fold after being w someone 24/7.
I d add you can perfectly be alone here and there as much as you want while being a family man if you manage things correctly. Once you re old and kids have left, you ll be facing largely enough loneliness for your liking anyway.
Also just because you never felt like being able to be a decent husband/father doesnt mean you cant be one in the future. You re probably lurking around other people's families to learn what is best and what not to reproduce once you re ready to do it yourself.
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Sounds like a good catch.
Why would a guy settle for anything less.
I know you have banged a ton of broads, I've done the same, after while you start to crave a little more out of the opposite sex. (Complete and utter homo) We know we have options when it comes to woman so why not pick one that's at least some what established, at the minimum.
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so a single guys view of relationships and marriage
most single guys will tell you how great being single is as a cover up for actually being very lonely. it's kind of a compensating reflex in guys as as men it's cool to be tough and emotionless and it seems to be a trait highly regarded by other guys.
I had a married friend once say to me 'man I want your life. you have these great stories you travel you party your with this chick and that chick etc etc'. I looked at him I said keith, for all the stories I tell you an this chick and that chick and this trip and that party you don't hear abt the nights I'm alone reading a book or watching a movie by myself on the couch. that's when being single for a lot of guys will suck if your not truly meant to be alone. he's like no way I want your life.
fast fwd 2 years. he gets divorced. he was on the downslope of his relationship anyway so this came as no surprise. he starts living the life of the single guy. he comes to me several months later and says your right. being single does suck.
the grass is always greener on the other side. now hes re married and a happy dude. sure he goes thru bullshit but that's what you do in a relationship. they aren't perfect. they need work, attention, sacrifice and compromise.
for some reason I've always been a better friend than a boyfriend. every one of my exs and I maintain good relationships to this day save one, some going back 15 years. my last few relationships I've maintained relationships where I'd be the first person they would come to if they ever needed help.
that's what's important to me. I'm not meant to be the boyfriend or spouse. I just don't have it me. but I do have it in me to be the best friend a person could have in their life. that's my gift. I'm not gifted to be a good partner or spouse
I think the concept of marriage and family and values is an awesome one- in fact I think it's a backbone of society. I see my friends w their kids and it makes me happy to see the joy they get from them. it's a really pure thing.
to you married guys out there. take what you hear abt single life w a grain of salt. if your not really comfortable being by yourself it's really going to suck and your lonliness will feel 10 fold after being w someone 24/7.
you just gotta find out who you are, what your gifts are and go from there. be happy with what you have in your relationship and, not wanting what you don't.
Solid post.
I also used to get all the envy from my mate's about being with different girls all the time. This brings more drama and stress than one can realise unless you're just sleeping with paid hookers. The amount of times girls flip on me and call me names cos I go bold after 1st or 5th date. The amount of girls that play all sort of games to try an keep you or get something out...etc. it was a constant drama
I would spend a great weekend with a beautiful girl, we get along like a house on fire and sex us amazing, then she asks when are we seeing each other next....I'm like I had no plans to take this further. I'm ashamed to say I have brought tears and hurt on many people before, this is despite telling them from the get go that I'm not after a relationship. Someone will always get attached and want more.
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Sounds like a good catch.
Why would a guy settle for anything less.
I don't speak abt x's life on here mostly our friendship as really it's not my place but he's got apart from all that stuff a 'stand by me' woman. she's no bullshit, straight up and stand up. in that they are both peas in a pod.
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my wife was marrying down when she walked down the aisle with me ... and I come from a fairly well-to-do Canadian family, am a lawyer living the good life etc.
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so a single guys view of relationships and marriage
most single guys will tell you how great being single is as a cover up for actually being very lonely. it's kind of a compensating reflex in guys as as men it's cool to be tough and emotionless and it seems to be a trait highly regarded by other guys.
I had a married friend once say to me 'man I want your life. you have these great stories you travel you party your with this chick and that chick etc etc'. I looked at him I said keith, for all the stories I tell you an this chick and that chick and this trip and that party you don't hear abt the nights I'm alone reading a book or watching a movie by myself on the couch. that's when being single for a lot of guys will suck if your not truly meant to be alone. he's like no way I want your life.
fast fwd 2 years. he gets divorced. he was on the downslope of his relationship anyway so this came as no surprise. he starts living the life of the single guy. he comes to me several months later and says your right. being single does suck.
the grass is always greener on the other side. now hes re married and a happy dude. sure he goes thru bullshit but that's what you do in a relationship. they aren't perfect. they need work, attention, sacrifice and compromise.
for some reason I've always been a better friend than a boyfriend. every one of my exs and I maintain good relationships to this day save one, some going back 15 years. my last few relationships I've maintained relationships where I'd be the first person they would come to if they ever needed help.
that's what's important to me. I'm not meant to be the boyfriend or spouse. I just don't have it me. but I do have it in me to be the best friend a person could have in their life. that's my gift. I'm not gifted to be a good partner or spouse
I think the concept of marriage and family and values is an awesome one- in fact I think it's a backbone of society. I see my friends w their kids and it makes me happy to see the joy they get from them. it's a really pure thing.
to you married guys out there. take what you hear abt single life w a grain of salt. if your not really comfortable being by yourself it's really going to suck and your lonliness will feel 10 fold after being w someone 24/7.
you just gotta find out who you are, what your gifts are and go from there. be happy with what you have in your relationship and, not wanting what you don't.
Dude...lonely?
What the fuck man? If your an adult with a career worth having, how the fuck are you ever alone? You work your ass off, you have your mates after work to carry on with, a few pieces of azz to call at a moments notice etc. Who has time to sit home at night and watch TV?
There is not a single guy out there that has his act together that would EVER trade with a married guy...EVER!!!
Get a grip man-
Being married is being castrated-I don't care how cool your wife is and what type of coin she makes-she still gets her period, still has fucked up hormones, still has mood swings etc.
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Dude...lonely?
What the fuck man? If your an adult with a career worth having, how the fuck are you ever alone? You work your ass off, you have your mates after work to carry on with, a few pieces of azz to call at a moments notice etc. Who has time to sit home at night and watch TV?
There is not a single guy out there that has his act together that would EVER trade with a married guy...EVER!!!
Get a grip man-
Being married is being castrated-I don't care how cool your wife is and what type of coin she makes-she still gets her period, still has fucked up hormones, still has mood swings etc.
Really? I freaking love alone time. Always have, even when I was single. I'd stay at home and read books all the time.
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Really? I freaking love alone time. Always have, even when I was single. I'd stay at home and read books all the time.
Alone time is different from "lonely"...
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Dude...lonely?
What the fuck man? If your an adult with a career worth having, how the fuck are you ever alone? You work your ass off, you have your mates after work to carry on with, a few pieces of azz to call at a moments notice etc. Who has time to sit home at night and watch TV?
There is not a single guy out there that has his act together that would EVER trade with a married guy...EVER!!!
Get a grip man-
Being married is being castrated-I don't care how cool your wife is and what type of coin she makes-she still gets her period, still has fucked up hormones, still has mood swings etc.
lol you need to relax.
before you lose your grip over my post to play the man take a minute to re read it.
lemme know where I said I was lonely. in fact let me know anywhere in my post I allude to being anything but comfortable being alone.
I'm far from 'lonely'. I want female companionship I have a cell full of numbers I can call. I want to hang w my buddies likewise.
for me being single is suited to my personality. for you to say age guy who has his shit together and is single would rather that than be married is a blanket statement that might apply to you, but to not all single guys. I know a single guy who's got good loot. 2 businesses. good looking dude. wants nothing more to settle down.
your post is ignorant at best. you cant make assumptions based on your life or the one you wish to portray that applies to all single males.
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lol you need to relax.
before you lose your grip over my post to play the man take a minute to re read it.
lemme know where I said I was lonely. in fact let me know anywhere in my post I allude to being anything but comfortable being alone.
I'm far from 'lonely'. I want female companionship I have a cell full of numbers I can call. I want to hang w my buddies likewise.
for me being single is suited to my personality. for you to say age guy who has his shit together and is single would rather that than be married is a blanket statement that might apply to you, but to not all single guys. I know a single guy who's got good loot. 2 businesses. good looking dude. wants nothing more to settle down.
your post is ignorant at best. you cant make assumptions based on your life or the one you wish to portray that applies to all single males.
I can attest to the cell full of numbers of friends as I am one of them. Lol
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I can attest to the cell full of numbers of friends as I am one of them. Lol
this is a good point actually in this discussion.
when your comfortable being alone you don't need to be in communication w someone constantly. or hang out w them constantly. but with the good friendships you don't need to. no matter when you talk or when finally hang out there's no lag. x and I might go weeks w/o txting each other. fuck man when was the last time we hung out even? that day we shot hoops and trained or canada day?
I called a vg friend of mine the other day. I was driving so I didn't want to txt. he picks up the phone and says 'what's wrong?'. that's how little I actually call my friends. but you know what? I could call any one of my friends if I were in trouble and they'd be the first to bail me out. those are how great the relationships I have. but the need to constantly cultivate then or be in touch doesht exist. they're just 'there'. and that's how a true friendship should be.
I'm comfortable alone or in a crowd. doesn't matter. Im more than able to function well in either environment. I know guys who are single who got their shit together who want nothing mpre than a family or kids.
if ANYONE could come on here say being single is awesome it's me, but that's an ignorant blanket statement that is far from the truth for a lot of guys.
it's great when your 20-30-40. what happens when your pushing 50-60 when what you want is companionship and someone just to be there? that's when the wheat gets separated from the chaff in the whole 'being single is awesome' mantra everyone preaches.
I'm trying to keep a neutral position here cause 'being single is awesome!' just doesht fit for a lot of guys. and for anyone to suggest it's cause they are weak or need someone is utter bullshit.
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''I have never been married''
''I speak from experience here fellas''
::) Oh brother
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this is a good point actually in this discussion.
when your comfortable being alone you don't need to be in communication w someone constantly. or hang out w them constantly. but with the good friendships you don't need to. no matter when you talk or when finally hang out there's no lag. x and I might go weeks w/o txting each other. fuck man when was the last time we hung out even? that day we shot hoops and trained or canada day?
I called a vg friend of mine the other day. I was driving so I didn't want to txt. he picks up the phone and says 'what's wrong?'. that's how little I actually call my friends. but you know what? I could call any one of my friends if I were in trouble and they'd be the first to bail me out. those are how great the relationships I have. but the need to constantly cultivate then or be in touch doesht exist. they're just 'there'. and that's how a true friendship should be.
I'm comfortable alone or in a crowd. doesn't matter. Im more than able to function well in either environment. I know guys who are single who got their shit together who want nothing mpre than a family or kids.
if ANYONE could come on here say being single is awesome it's me, but that's an ignorant blanket statement that is far from the truth for a lot of guys.
it's great when your 20-30-40. what happens when your pushing 50-60 when what you want is companionship and someone just to be there? that's when the wheat gets separated from the chaff in the whole 'being single is awesome' mantra everyone preaches.
I'm trying to keep a neutral position here cause 'being single is awesome!' just doesht fit for a lot of guys. and for anyone to suggest it's cause they are weak or need someone is utter bullshit.
this, and we re not designed by nature to be alone, if you re not stimulated by the presence of other siblings, your brain starts deteriorating. Stress, pain, and loneliness both destroy the brain. Ideally an happy individual is surrounded by few significant people he has genuine relationships with. This is what keep your brain healthy; you mostly find these people in religious families. It somewhat slows the brain's aging process.
As animals we exist to be function, part of something bigger; the family, the clan, the specie. The more you re being useful to others, the better you feel, as long as you re getting something in return.
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what happens when your pushing 50-60
The party never stops , bro.
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what happens when your pushing 50-60
visiting retirement homes and psychiatric institutes might give you a hint.
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The party never stops , bro.
(http://www.onlyinatlanticcity.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/drunk-old-guy.jpg)
(http://www.imagecoast.com/images/ClassyTina/oldman.jpg)
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dude you dont even know how much i joke abt not wanting to be the creepy old guy at the party :D
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The party never stops , bro.
(http://www.onlyinatlanticcity.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/drunk-old-guy.jpg)
(http://www.imagecoast.com/images/ClassyTina/oldman.jpg)
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this looks great
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. what happens when your pushing 50-60
That's a valid question....... 30 years back in time, for someone who was 40 at that time. 20-30 years from now - 50-60 will be very different in many ways, compared to current 50-60. Physically, but that's just one side, another - technologies. You'll be able to have a "companioship" in ways that we can't even imagine currently (probably even AI will be a good friend to have a company, or maybe it will be a better friend than real people, who knows..). Peoples brains are used to thinking "linear", but that's not how technological evolution happens. Life will be VERY different for these who'll manage to stay alive 30 years from this day and I'm confident to say that most uf us aren't able to even imagine of HOW different it will be. From heart transplants, grown in a lab, to brain regeneration, stem cell therapies, full immersion virtual reality, etc... just earn some fukkin money, that's what a main goal must be for these who are afraid of becoming "lonely".
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dude you dont even know how much i joke abt not wanting to be the creepy old guy at the party :D
Haha , yeah I couldn't imagine being in my 60's and still chasing young pussy
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this looks great
That says a lot about YOU..
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Here's a thought.
The guys that will chime in here saying that marriage is a disaster, theirs was hell, women are bitches, is akin to a toyota celica owner moaning about a breakdown on a ferrari forum.
You picked the wrong ride bro.
Driving cars does not end in a breakdown for everyone.
Marriage is stupid because a woman's emotions can go cold out of nowhere. Most divorces I know the guy had no clue it was coming....the chick just went cold. As for choosing the right girl well Even the most selfish, heartless bitch will treat the man she's into like a king while she's into him.
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That's a valid question....... 30 years back in time, for someone who was 40 at that time. 20-30 years from now - 50-60 will be very different in many ways, compared to current 50-60. Physically, but that's just one side, another - technologies. You'll be able to have a "companioship" in ways that we can't even imagine currently (probably even AI will be a good friend to have a company, or maybe it will be a better friend than real people, who knows..). Peoples brains are used to thinking "linear", but that's not how technological evolution happens. Life will be VERY different for these who'll manage to stay alive 30 years from this day and I'm confident to say that most uf us aren't able to even imagine of HOW different it will be. From heart transplants, grown in a lab, to brain regeneration, stem cell therapies, full immersion virtual reality, etc... just earn some fukkin money, that's what a main goal must be for these who are afraid of becoming "lonely".
you re out of your mind.
Being lonely at 50/60 and later -if you get there- will always suck. It sucked 1000, 100 years ago, it sucks now, and it will always suck. Having an artificial heart and a chip in your brain or not. You re way overrating technology and science.
The older you get, the less relationships you have, if you dont have close relatives , kids, grandkids. Nothing replace family. Fact is as you age you become a kid again and you re FORCED to deal with people just like you were forced to once a kid, sent at school and facing the competition of others.
Also all the implants and progresses you re talking about will only be accessible to the richest. Most will tell you what's the point of living eternally if it's to be alone surrounded by people who dont give a shit about you; other old lonely people and prison retirement home wardens. People who dont really need you, not really as much as kids or grandkids would anyway.
The only thing you want as you get old, is to talk to someone who actually genuinely looks like he or she cares about what you re talking about, as it gets rarer and rarer as you become disgusting looking to most.
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you re out of your mind.
Being lonely at 50/60 and later -if you get there- will always suck. It sucked 1000, 100 years ago, it sucks now, and it will always suck. Having an artificial heart and a chip in your brain or not. You re way overrating technology and science.
The older you get, the less relationships you have, if you dont have close relatives , kids, grandkids. Nothing replace family. Fact is as you age you become a kid again and you re FORCED to deal with people just like you were forced to once a kid, sent at school and facing the competition of others.
Also all the implants and progresses you re talking about will only be accessible to the richest. Most will tell you what's the point of living eternally if it's to be alone surrounded by people who dont give a shit about you; other old lonely people and prison retirement home wardens. People who dont really need you, not really as much as kids or grandkids would anyway.
The only thing you want as you get old, is to talk to someone who actually genuinely looks like he or she cares about what you re talking about, as it gets rarer and rarer as you become disgusting looking to most.
Tell all that to my "lonely" grandmother who manages to have a bunch of friends of her age who are "lonely" too (my family is small and other family members does not isit her very often btw). You should see their nights of playing cards (does that less these days as some of them can't remember who's turn lol).
Speaking of living "eternally" (this won't happen, more like "a lot longer") you, just like most other people who are used to the "past", think it will be about living in an old body. Well, think again. It's VERY feasable that we will be able to be alot more healthier and stronger till our last breath, compared to what "old" means now. And THAT's why I said "better concentrate on becoming as rich as possible".
Anyway, you are vealutaing the future lookin at the present or past, it doesn't work like this. Very likely an AI will replace a close relative for these who are very old and very lonely. I personally don't plan on keeping myself alive if one day I'll realize that these who are around me are there just because they get paid for cleaning the sheets I pissed. I'll off myself that very minute and it does not scare me at all. You seem to be very scared of ending up "lonely" somehow, maybe there are some very unhappy lonely people in your family.
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Getting married? lol That's the way a grown man's life should look like:
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You forgot the third pic :
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I personally don't plan on keeping myself alive if one day I'll realize that these who are around me are there just because they get paid for cleaning the sheets I pissed. I'll off myself that very minute and it does not scare me at all. You seem to be very scared of ending up "lonely" somehow, maybe there are some very unhappy lonely people in your family.
Why would you off yourself, if your model is your beloved grandmother; who knows the people around her only take care of her cause they re paid to do so, still she keeps hanging on cause her only pleasure in life is to play cards with friends as lonely as her, they can trump the feeling of loneliness pretending to be friends, she can still eat some good food tommorrow , and there's this show on tv she likes ...etc. Just like everybody else you ll hang around until your body fails , if your mind doesnt first. If you knew the number of old people who kill themselves and are passed as natural deaths.
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Why would you off yourself, if your model is your beloved grandmother; who knows the people around her only take care of her cause they re paid to do so, still she keeps hanging on cause her only pleasure in life is to play cards with friends as lonely as her, they can trump the feeling of loneliness pretending to be friends, she can still eat some good food tommorrow , and there's this show on tv she likes ...etc. Just like everybody else you ll hang around until your body fails , if your mind doesnt first. If you knew the number of old people who kill themselves and are passed as natural deaths.
Because I just may not like living life that has became to be of such a low resolution that it's like playing pac man instead of Battlefield. Just my personal preference. Being a burden to my relatives - thank's but not an option either, I'd love them too much. I'm sure that many old people kill themselves and a number would be higher if more of them would be of a high intelligence. Nothing wrong with that. Life is only worth liing as long as you are young (aka "healthy") and can enjoy your time (my said grandmother still can, to some extent, she's not a burden to us yet and...suprise - there are other "lonely" people too.. you can get togeher, you know.. Just like when you are young and meet new people of similar interests), simple as that.
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You forgot the third pic :
it sucks that even frank mcgrath doesnt have sick veins when just sitting down relaxed
veins are a volatile matter
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I have a good time with it. Lots of traveling, still party, etc.. we just bring the nanny with us now.
Skorp you will see why I am so lucky in Playa. My wife will party with us and even assist in your quest for enjoying fine tail.
Note: Wife is in the process of dropping weight, she gained 60 pounds with the baby. She's down 50 with 10 more to go.
Canal at the Venetian?
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Canal at the Venetian?
We have been to Vegas probably 50 times and we've always wanted to. Always been to wrecked to consider getting on that thing.
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We have been to Vegas probably 50 times and we've always wanted to. Always been to wrecked to consider getting on that thing.
Haha, yeah its a blast. I always stay at the venetian/palazzo, almost exclusively.
Do you always go as a family?
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I bailed on this marry-me-now broad about 15 years ago and she's now been married with kids for perhaps a little over a decade. Every time I see pics of him on her Facebook feed, he looks like he's begging for someone to put a bullet in his head.
She is a good woman, as far as they go, but still, I can't imagine ME being this dude ... and I would be, if I hadn't set sail from the relationship all those years ago. Little wanker kids destroying my peace, stealing my money for diapers and goofy sneakers, a wife who isn't blowing me NEAR enough and likely driving me batty with all her endless plans for the weekends and vacation times ...
I so enjoy coming home after a day at work and knowing there's no one there to harass me and keep me from my life passions: music/metal, guitar, YouTube, powerlifting, movies, pizza and burgers ... whatever.
I have five-buck blinds on my windows and no dinner table clogging my stereo space. I eat seated in my reclining chair and rock music DVDs all the time. When I wanna lift, I get the jets warming and leave when I want to. I buy the food I want.
I buy CDs like they're going out of style (well, they are, but ... ha, ha).
My walls have posters featuring The Ultimate Warrior and death metal bands.
Like I'm gonna let some broad ruin things for me.
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Haha, yeah its a blast. I always stay at the venetian/palazzo, almost exclusively.
Do you always go as a family?
Love those rooms!!! Biggest on the strip. Also like the gaming/tables etc..
First time with the fam. Didn't want to leave my little girl. All of us really enjoyed. We had our nanny fly in two days later. So we also got to go rip it up at Drais a few nights.
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I see the points a lot of you are making, and it is based on personal experiences. But why let a few bad relationships tarnish a whole concept and the idea behind it?
There's a lot of controlling crazed money grabbing freedom sapping sex destroying women out there...but this thread is not about them.
Totally agree with you broskie. It's refreshing to see this thread and not the typical 'getting married is a joke', started by guys like shizzo trying to justify don't getting laid. ::)
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this, and we re not designed by nature to be alone, if you re not stimulated by the presence of other siblings, your brain starts deteriorating. Stress, pain, and loneliness both destroy the brain. Ideally an happy individual is surrounded by few significant people he has genuine relationships with. This is what keep your brain healthy; you mostly find these people in religious families. It somewhat slows the brain's aging process.
As animals we exist to be function, part of something bigger; the family, the clan, the specie. The more you re being useful to others, the better you feel, as long as you re getting something in return.
Blanket statements. We are not all the same. Many people are better alone and detest the stimulation provided by others.. Also many many more people dont give a fuck about being useful to anyone but themselves..
Best not to paint with too broad a brush.
P.S. marriage sucks and everybody knows this. some people get lucky. exceptions to the rule, thats all.
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Yes
This is me this past weekend just gone....I worked 60 hours, earned a lot of money, went to a club and dropped 1k on a table, got drunk as a skunk and went home with two sisters.
(http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=553915.0;attach=585790;image)(http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=553915.0;attach=585789;image)
I would rather chill in a cigar lounge come midnight go home to my hot wife and in the morning get woken up fresh by two cute babies
I was just about to suggest that one night stands get old, but you just said it for me.
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Old guys clubbing.....isn't cool, it's creepy. 50 yr old hipsters are sneered at by all
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This is me this past weekend just gone....I worked 60 hours, earned a lot of money, went to a club and dropped 1k on a table, got drunk as a skunk and went home with two sisters.
(http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=553915.0;attach=585790;image)
I would rather chill in a cigar lounge come midnight go home to my hot wife and in the morning get woken up fresh by two cute babies
$1K on a table so he can pose for a shitty selfie with two 6's..... ::)
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(http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=553915.0;attach=585790;image)
$1K on a table so he can pose for a shitty selfie with two 6's..... ::)
I know the one on the right...
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But it has to be said, all this talk of "dropping 1k on a table", smoking cigars, expensive this & that, sounds like Skorp is getting thoroughly fleeced by people selling stuff at 5000% mark up.
It's a 'new money' thing. Wanting to be part of the upper classes - but you can never be one of them. That's old money. All this expensive wine/whiskey/champagne/cigars/cars is merely part of a fleece-job on new money by people that advertise in GQ.
People should do what they enjoy, not what their peers and magazines say they should enjoy to appear succesful.
Cigars taste like shit as does most wine. Cigars are merely a way to advertise that you are a "baller".
Real class surpasses the GQ value system.
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I do business with a gentleman worth 800 million, drives a 2010 pick up wears normal clothes wears a 30k platinum watch that looks like SS.....
Normal guy, forth fifth generation money...his son my age is normal polite friendly person.
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Being married is cool, if you have the right woman. Most people settle, and thus are unhappy.
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smack your daughter the same way and ask her how it feels.
Back on topic; the reason why i and my wife have been getting a long well enough for 12 years is because we re the same age, same social class (SAME KIND OF INCOMES), same level of self esteem, both growing up at the same pace and taking care of not letting the other lag behind, etc A relationship is a complex mix of strenghts and weaknesses that cancel/improve each others to create a balance that allow both to survive facing the competition of others couples, families.
The less differences, the higher the odds you ll stay together. That's my opinion. I also strongly suggest man has to dominate in sex most of the time and make it clear no sex = violent breakup.
You forgot to mention the same parents.
Another great post though.
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I was just about to suggest that one night stands get old, but you just said it for me.
Like you know anything about them.... smfh...
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Being married is cool, if you have the right woman. Most people settle, and thus are unhappy.
Most people just doesn't even have a chance to find someone compatible enough for a success, it's a dream that come true to a small percentage. How many of people you know that married their "big loves" (people who were "right" for them)? Most just "settled down" as you say and that's it. Many haven't even met their "really compatible partners" and doesn't know what it is like to be with one. Some just go insane after 10-20 years because of all that nonsense and everything bites the dust.
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smack your daughter the same way and ask her how it feels.
Back on topic; the reason why i and my wife have been getting a long well enough for 12 years is because we re the same age, same social class (SAME KIND OF INCOMES), same level of self esteem, both growing up at the same pace and taking care of not letting the other lag behind, etc A relationship is a complex mix of strenghts and weaknesses that cancel/improve each others to create a balance that allow both to survive facing the competition of others couples, families.
The less differences, the higher the odds you ll stay together. That's my opinion. I also strongly suggest man has to dominate in sex most of the time and make it clear no sex = violent breakup.
And what class would that be? Does your wife write "I and my husband" instead of my husband and I. If her level of self esteem is comparable to yours and you don't want sex some evening, does she get to violently break up with you too?
While I agree that compatibility is very important, if both partners are nearly identical in every respect, this could be very boring in the long run. Some level of independence and individuality is often the "spice" in a relationship.
If your wife is as much like you as you suggest, does she have an equal say in all decisions and are most major decisions joint decisions? Who has the final say, if anyone and why do they have it?
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Like you know anything about them.... smfh...
You could be right. I don't have a lot of personal experience with one night stands....almost none in fact. However, literally all of our married friends eventually divorced. After the initial thrill of dating all over again, they claimed it really got old fast. I don't live in a vacuum.
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You could be right. I don't have a lot of personal experience with one night stands....almost none in fact. However, literally all of our married friends eventually divorced. After the initial thrill of dating all over again, they claimed it really got old fast. I don't live in a vacuum.
Come on...
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I know the one on the right...
But it has to be said, all this talk of "dropping 1k on a table", smoking cigars, expensive this & that, sounds like Skorp is getting thoroughly fleeced by people selling stuff at 5000% mark up.
It's a 'new money' thing. Wanting to be part of the upper classes - but you can never be one of them. That's old money. All this expensive wine/whiskey/champagne/cigars/cars is merely part of a fleece-job on new money by people that advertise in GQ.
People should do what they enjoy, not what their peers and magazines say they should enjoy to appear succesful.
Cigars taste like shit as does most wine. Cigars are merely a way to advertise that you are a "baller".
Real class surpasses the GQ value system.
A man can't enjoy a night out once in a moon time these days without people going all philosophical discussing the root causes of his life's decisions, societal patterns and ideologies about consumerism.
But don't worry, in a few years time I'll be posting pics like this, which hopefully won't bother you as much, in the meantime you can stay out of my threads seeing as the content sometimes doesn't mirror your choices.
(http://farm1.static.flickr.com/25/48657270_7b4994f3b0_m.jpg)
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That's a valid question....... 30 years back in time, for someone who was 40 at that time. 20-30 years from now - 50-60 will be very different in many ways, compared to current 50-60. Physically, but that's just one side, another - technologies. You'll be able to have a "companioship" in ways that we can't even imagine currently (probably even AI will be a good friend to have a company, or maybe it will be a better friend than real people, who knows..). Peoples brains are used to thinking "linear", but that's not how technological evolution happens. Life will be VERY different for these who'll manage to stay alive 30 years from this day and I'm confident to say that most uf us aren't able to even imagine of HOW different it will be. From heart transplants, grown in a lab, to brain regeneration, stem cell therapies, full immersion virtual reality, etc... just earn some fukkin money, that's what a main goal must be for these who are afraid of becoming "lonely".
AI companionship is and will always be for losers, or nicely put, those who cannot connect with other people. Who wants fake, when you have the real thing? Oh, I get it, a person wants to have something that will only think like they want, and won't have their own desires. There was an article on AI "companionship" awhile back and they talked about the real sick side of it, which will no doubt come into play, because they represent what sick humans wants.
Humans haven't changed much in their wants and desires from 2,000, or 5,000 yrs ago. We all want power, to be loved, wanted, desired, or admired.
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AI companionship is and will always be for losers, or nicely put, those who cannot connect with other people. Who wants fake, when you have the real thing? Oh, I get it, a person wants to have something that will only think like they want, and won't have their own desires. There was an article on AI "companionship" awhile back and they talked about the real sick side of it, which will no doubt come into play, because they represent what sick humans wants.
Humans haven't changed much in their wants and desires from 2,000, or 5,000 yrs ago. We all want power, to be loved, wanted, desired, or admired.
do people actually have relationships with Aromatize Inhibitors?
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A man can't enjoy a night out once in a moon time these days without people going all philosophical discussing the root causes of his life's decisions, societal patterns and ideologies about consumerism.
But don't worry, in a few years time I'll be posting pics like this, which hopefully won't bother you as much, in the meantime you can stay out of my threads seeing as the content sometimes doesn't mirror your choices.
(http://farm1.static.flickr.com/25/48657270_7b4994f3b0_m.jpg)
Don't consider it a philosophical comment, consider it more a gentle nudge away from schmuckery and braggadocio.
Thanks for the hints on posting - I think I'll just carry on posting wherever the fuck I like if it's all the same to you :-*
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AI companionship is and will always be for losers, or nicely put, those who cannot connect with other people. Who wants fake, when you have the real thing? Oh, I get it, a person wants to have something that will only think like they want, and won't have their own desires. There was an article on AI "companionship" awhile back and they talked about the real sick side of it, which will no doubt come into play, because they represent what sick humans wants.
Humans haven't changed much in their wants and desires from 2,000, or 5,000 yrs ago. We all want power, to be loved, wanted, desired, or admired.
The bottom line (despite all the 5,000 word posts in this thread) is....
Everyone is different.
Some want, some don't. Some can, some can't.
And of course many change their minds later on.
There's no wrong or right and there is certainly no persuading others to come to your side of the fence.
Best thing is to do what you want to do and fuck what anyone else thinks.
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Don't consider it a philosophical comment, consider it more a gentle nudge away from schmuckery and braggadocio.
Thanks for the hints on posting - I think I'll just carry on posting wherever the fuck I like if it's all the same to you :-*
Gaydro melting fast in this thread.
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The bottom line (despite all the 5,000 word posts in this thread) is....
Everyone is different.
Some want, some don't. Some can, some can't.
And of course many change their minds later on.
There's no wrong or right and there is certainly no persuading others to come to your side of the fence.
Best thing is to do what you want to do and fuck what anyone else thinks.
This is what Ameicans have been doing, and why America has been falling into chaos. ANd why more people are lonely and always looking for attention, even though they claim otherwise.
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do people actually have relationships with Aromatize Inhibitors?
I know, right? the nerve...
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This is what Ameicans have been doing, and why America has been falling into chaos. ANd why more people are lonely and always looking for attention, even though they claim otherwise.
I was recently in America and was astounded at the sense of entitlement the majority of people seemed to have.
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This is what Ameicans have been doing, and why America has been falling into chaos. ANd why more people are lonely and always looking for attention, even though they claim otherwise.
Well - you can't force people to get/stay married.
Out here, it's very hard to get divorced. In fact, almost impossible for a man if the woman doesn't agree. One doctor, after trying 8 times to divorce his wife, decided to chop her up into small pieces & stick her down his drain.
I think he did 12-13 years, he's out now.
To be honest, it was probably a better option to do that than another 10 attempts at divorce where you have to put down 1% of assets as surety on the case and the COURT KEEPS THE MONEY if you lose.
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where is out here ^
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Don't consider it a philosophical comment, consider it more a gentle nudgeaway from schmuckery and braggadocio.
Thanks for the hints on posting - I think I'll just carry on posting wherever the fuck I like if it's all the same to you :-*
I don't need nudges, why volunteer unwanted nudges ??? save them for your mates in Thailand I'm all good over here.
As for bragging, I'll brag till the cows come home what's it to you? I've always been pleasant towards you, but if you want to start being a dick, be my guest I'll add you to the dickheads list of ignore like I do with many.
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Well - you can't force people to get/stay married.
Out here, it's very hard to get divorced. In fact, almost impossible for a man if the woman doesn't agree. One doctor, after trying 8 times to divorce his wife, decided to chop her up into small pieces & stick her down his drain.
I think he did 12-13 years, he's out now.
To be honest, it was probably a better option to do that than another 10 attempts at divorce where you have to put down 1% of assets as surety on the case and the COURT KEEPS THE MONEY if you lose.
No, can't, but you can give "incentives" ;)
Didn't you speak on the corruption of Thailand?
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where is out here ^
Thailand. On the bright side, hiding your assets seems to be a National sport here.
A few years ago a night club burnt down on New Years Eve, killing quite a few people.
On investigation, they found the place was registered as a noodle shop in the name of the car park attendant.
So you can keep her hands off a lot of stuff.
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I don't need nudges, why volunteer unwanted nudges ??? save them for your mates in Thailand I'm all good over here.
As for bragging, I'll brag till the cows come home what's it to you? I've always been pleasant towards you, but if you want to start being a dick, be my guest I'll add you to the dickheads list of ignore like I do with many.
Did sarcasm die in the UK?
Seriously, "drop 1k on a table" - where i come from they'd take the piss for weeks at a comment like that. Rightly so. Is this how your peers talk over there?
Well, if you are sensitive to a bit of good old British ribbing, i'll be sure to take you off my "has a sense of humour, can take jokes at his own expense" list.
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No, can't, but you can give "incentives" ;)
Didn't you speak on the corruption of Thailand?
Other than prison or castration, what incentive can make you stay married to someone you dont like?
I think people need educating. Not to get married too soon. Not to have kids too soon. People do tend to jump into these things.
Or do we have to bring back religion?
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AI companionship is and will always be for losers, or nicely put, those who cannot connect with other people. Who wants fake, when you have the real thing? Oh, I get it, a person wants to have something that will only think like they want, and won't have their own desires. There was an article on AI "companionship" awhile back and they talked about the real sick side of it, which will no doubt come into play, because they represent what sick humans wants.
Humans haven't changed much in their wants and desires from 2,000, or 5,000 yrs ago. We all want power, to be loved, wanted, desired, or admired.
Yuo will be surprised (if you'll live to see these times) I'm sure. Other than that, just like I said - if there's really no company, no health and no fun anymore - it's best to just shut down, why bother living more. If there's no health - it's a burden for a family (if there is one) anyway, I would not like to be one (I helped my neighbour a few weeks ago, to lift her old Alzhaimers mother from the floor and lay on the bed as she fell while trying to reach something. I knew hew form many years, but she did not recognize me. That's fucked up. ), idk about you.
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This is what Ameicans have been doing, and why America has been falling into chaos. ANd why more people are lonely and always looking for attention, even though they claim otherwise.
Some are way lonier while in marriage....
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Well - you can't force people to get/stay married.
Out here, it's very hard to get divorced. In fact, almost impossible for a man if the woman doesn't agree. One doctor, after trying 8 times to divorce his wife, decided to chop her up into small pieces & stick her down his drain.
I think he did 12-13 years, he's out now.
To be honest, it was probably a better option to do that than another 10 attempts at divorce where you have to put down 1% of assets as surety on the case and the COURT KEEPS THE MONEY if you lose.
Did I just read this right? Seems to be a lot of scorned men boys in this thread.
If you guys would aim a little higher you wouldn't have to worry about woman taking your lunch money
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dating also sucks
best thing to do is live as a recluse and post on getbig every waking minute of your free time
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All these getbig millionairs expecting dimes to just fall in their lap or pretend that they are not out there.
::) ::)
My wife makes 150k a year, does my laundry and dishes (I don't even know how to use the dishwasher) and shucks my corn regularly.
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This has turned into a rather silly thread, to be honest.
Seems to be single men vs married men. Lol.
At the end of the day, who gives a shit. It all boils down to whatever the hell you want out of life. And I certainly can't judge any of you guys for that. I just know FOR ME that married life is not in the cards. I've met FAAAAAARRRRRR too many married men AND divorced men to know, FOR ME, that married life is not what it's cracked up to be, and there is no shame in not joining the Smiths, Johnsons, etc.
But, hey, more power to those of you on here that are happy. Hell, I'm happy for ya ! :)
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My son is too big these days, but I remember so well him sleeping on me. It is an amazing feeling, having someone so dependent on you.
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My son is too big these days, but I remember so well him sleeping on me. It is an amazing feeling, having someone so dependent on you.
You speak great truth, brother. My two year old woke up in the middle of the night and crawled into bed with my wife and I. She snuggled right up to me. It truly is a wonderful feeling.
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lol you need to relax.
before you lose your grip over my post to play the man take a minute to re read it.
lemme know where I said I was lonely. in fact let me know anywhere in my post I allude to being anything but comfortable being alone.
I'm far from 'lonely'. I want female companionship I have a cell full of numbers I can call. I want to hang w my buddies likewise.
for me being single is suited to my personality. for you to say age guy who has his shit together and is single would rather that than be married is a blanket statement that might apply to you, but to not all single guys. I know a single guy who's got good loot. 2 businesses. good looking dude. wants nothing more to settle down.
your post is ignorant at best. you cant make assumptions based on your life or the one you wish to portray that applies to all single males.
You are correct and I did make a blanket statement-I,however, am not making assumptions based just on my life, but the lives of countless others that I have run across.
A more fair statement would have been to say that a vast majority of people I know would rather have stayed single, or regret getting married.
As for myself, marriage and kids are not in the cards-I'm selfish, I love meeting females, and I don't have that inherent desire to "settle down"...
As far as being the creepy old guy in the club, there is a time and a place for everything-
If your caked up and pushing 50, no, you shouldn't be looking to spread your seed at a night club-the venue just changes when your a bit older-
yacht clubs, fine dining establishments, country clubs etc...
Chasing females, carrying on, laughing and making money never gets old...
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You speak great truth, brother. My two year old woke up in the middle of the night and crawled into bed with my wife and I. She snuggled right up to me. It truly is a wonderful feeling.
Yes, but you are too terrified to move...she might wake up!
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Your wives are flirting with and handing out their phone numbers to guys like me at work. True story.
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i always remember in the sopranos
when chris molti sees this loser with his shit wife and dumb kids in a crap car at the gas station
he realizes he doesnt want this
and has his girlfriend killed
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My wife and I have been married forever. This doesn't mean we are glued at the hip. We are each independent people who enjoy doing things on our own on occasion. Every so often, I'll go out for an evening on my own or getting together with a guy friend for lunch. My wife likes meeting her lady friends for lunch and other events which do not include spouses or boyfriends as the case may be.
Neither my wife nor me are looking for extra marital affairs. We just like to maintain that feeling that we can carry on without the other if that should ever come to pass.
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When the right girl comes along, I will wear my wedding ring with pride to keep them hoes off of me.
The below beats being in a cab with two 20 year old girls all three of you coked up to the gills and about to hit a club at 2am.
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indeed. I would love to own that dog.
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'Murica!
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no complaints bout married life from me ... chillin in Medellin for the winter with my lovely Colombian wife and then we'll return to Toronto just before the baseball season starts.
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no complaints bout married life from me ... chillin in Medellin for the winter with my lovely Colombian wife and then we'll return to Toronto just before the baseball season starts.
what part of Colombia ,stud?
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no complaints bout married life from me ... chillin in Medellin for the winter with my lovely Colombian wife and then we'll return to Toronto just before the baseball season starts.
We need some pics to jerk off assess the hotness of your wife.
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what part of Colombia ,stud?
we spend our winters in Medellin (where my wife is from.)
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We need some pics to jerk off assess the hotness of your wife.
probably not a good idea ... suffice it to say, she won some beauty contests when she was younger and was encouraged to take a run at the Miss Colombia but she's a tad too short for that plus it's not really a world for contestants who ain't into at least some cosmetic surgery ... plus her real passion is art.
beauty pageants have a completely different status in countries like Colombia & Venezuela compared to North America ... the winners go on to big careers in politics and business and become instant celebrities ... watching the Miss Universe on T.V. in Colombia is almost as big as the Super Bowl is in America.
anyway, first time I visited Medellin, I saw her in a shopping mall ... She. Was. The. Woman. Of. My. Dreams. ... so I semi stalked her for awhile ... found out where she trained ... joined her gym and timed my workouts to coincide with when she was there ... ultimately met her ... and married her.
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probably not a good idea ... suffice it to say, she won some beauty contests when she was younger and was encouraged to take a run at the Miss Colombia but she's a tad too short for that plus it's not really a world for contestants who ain't into at least some cosmetic surgery ... plus her real passion is art.
beauty pageants have a completely different status in countries like Colombia & Venezuela compared to North America ... the winners go on to big careers in politics and business and become instant celebrities ... watching the Miss Universe on T.V. in Colombia is almost as big as the Super Bowl is in America.
anyway, first time I visited Medellin, I saw her in a shopping mall ... She. Was. The. Woman. Of. My. Dreams. ... so I semi stalked her for awhile ... found out where she trained ... joined her gym and timed my workouts to coincide with when she was there ... ultimately met her ... and married her.
No one wants a story, post the pics already.
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No one wants a story, post the pics already.
yeah. ffs..
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no complaints bout married life from me ... chillin in Medellin for the winter with my lovely Colombian wife and then we'll return to Toronto just before the baseball season starts.
cool man,my wifes colombian also and im going to colombia next month,her family lives in BUCARAMANGA,COLOMBIA. im going to check out some pharmacies just out of curiousity to see what products they carry,im not buying nothing though ;)
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All I know is..........bitch better have my money !
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What does a Columbian wife cost these days?
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What does a Columbian wife cost these days?
about the same as an american wife,absolutely free. unless u got no game and no looks.then u prolly have to pay for her,ive never went to gogo bars alot,i always spent my buddys money man,he would brake out about 350 bucks in singles and i would be grabbing the singles like crazy :Di cant see paying for pussy when i was busting my ass in the gym to look good ??? i figured pussy is just part of the fringe benefits of lifting and dieting hard,its just the way i see it anyway
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about the same as an american wife,absolutely free. unless u got no game and no looks.then u prolly have to pay for her,ive never went to gogo bars alot,i always spent my buddys money man,he would brake out about 350 bucks in singles and i would be grabbing the singles like crazy :Di cant see paying for pussy when i was busting my ass in the gym to look good ??? i figured pussy is just part of the fringe benefits of lifting and dieting hard,its just the way i see it anyway
So about $5k?
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i always joke around and say if i can do it again id never get married but thats bullshit,i cant imagine life without my 8 yr old son.hes my whole fuckin world and we hang out together all our free time,im either helping him with homework,throwing him around on our wrestling mats downstairs,have him lifting these small 5lb and 8lb dumbells also for curls and shoulder presses ect or driving in my vette down the highway cranking tunes super loud with the roof off and both us singing and laughing are balls off :D.im wise enough to know that time goes by fast and im trying to seize the moments with him, i dont want to miss out on anything in his life and i want him to remember me for being a good loving dad who he enjoyed hanging out with
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What does a Columbian wife cost these days?
don't know bro. my wife's family is absolutely loaded, and she does very well for herself too. she married down when she hooked up with a guy with a law degree who chooses to live the good life rather than work very much or very hard.
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i always joke around and say if i can do it again id never get married but thats bullshit,i cant imagine life without my 8 yr old son.hes my whole fuckin world and we hang out together all our free time,im either helping him with homework,throwing him around on our wrestling mats downstairs,have him lifting these small 5lb and 8lb dumbells also for curls and shoulder presses ect or driving in my vette down the highway cranking tunes super loud with the roof off and both us singing and laughing are balls off :D.im wise enough to know that time goes by fast and im trying to seize the moments with him, i dont want to miss out on anything in his life and i want him to remember me for being a good loving dad who he enjoyed hanging out with
he sounds to be on the weak side. have to up the dose.
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I kinda like my (15 years) married life:
- Wife is a size 2 hardbody that lifts 4x/week and teaches group fitness 4x/week
- Son who is smart (when he isn't a smart ass)
- lots of dogs and a cat
- 4500 sqft house in the country
- 5+ acres of land
- Good job
- Wife is a good cook and has dinner ready when I get home from work.
- Sex on demand
- Wife is smart, politically aligned with me, a crack shot with a rifle and would trust to have my back in a foxhole
Off the top of my head...
Sounds good! With greatest respect what are you doing here, and why have you amassed 8000 posts....something must be wrong with you :D
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Looks lonely and has nothing to offer to society...a stale existence with a foundation reliant on how many ml's of hormone induced oils are inserted into his body. An individual with a severe low output in producing or creating anything worthwhile to him or society and no real purpose or use to society or himself other than deprived men with homosexual fantasies gawking at him once in a while to give him enough ammunition (and a mediocre sum of money) to keep going for another little while lifting, injecting and self admiring an oversized musculature.
I have seen many men like him pondering:
"I am restless, I see no colour yet I am not blind, my world is a dark reality no love, no affection. This emptiness I chose to ignore and cover up with densely striated muscle and yet I live a life of mere glass that can shatter. Now at my old age I am breathless, lonely, poor and the pain of failure only gets worse as the years go by" [Insert any ex-IFBB pro's name here]
interesting comments, although I don't see the typical meathead pondering anything, they are too stupid to spend any time on any thought processes. If they did they wouldnt have started injecting vast amounts of steroids and taking 20-30 years off their life.
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No it's really not.
She is size 12, with double E breasts and a nice thick ass, but once she had 2 children she has some soft skin on her stomach. I don't mind it at all, but when I read threads like 'Women of fitness and althletics' it skews my perspective.
She should get radio-frequency on her tummy, tightens skin and causes localised fat loss.
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Sounds good! With greatest respect what are you doing here, and why have you amassed 8000 posts....something must be wrong with you :D
Good question ;D
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Really all depends what you want in your life. I absolutely love love love being married to my wife, love having a baby, and love how we all share our life and our world together.
My wife is a smart and sweet, no nonsense girl with a great sense of humor.... We are polar opposites in sooooooooo many things but somehow we get along so well and really do complement one another. And its cute.... more and more I see my one year old daughter behaving just like her mother, and that just melts my heart.
Would not trade it for the world!
Married 9 years next June.
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he sounds to be on the weak side. have to up the dose.
:D i was joking with my wife about juicing him up for wrestling season this year,she said (yea right)i said he will have a full beard and acne on his back at 9 years old ;) he watches me do my TRT, he also understands that his daddy(me) has low testosterone cause he always goes to doctors with me when i get my check ups.he calls it my medicine and i explained to him exactly what im doing and that its under a doctors supervision, he said daddy i heard that stuff makes people very mean ???i said where did u hear that from?he said i looked it up on the internet :o.believe it or not hes strong when it comes to taking kids down and pinning them in wrestling tournaments but he struggles with 8 lb dumbells for certain movements like curls,overhead presses and lying bench presses,so i give him the 5lb dumbells until his strength increases, im gonna just give him maybe 50mgs of cyp and see how he responds,im gonna turn him into my science project ;) in all reality i would kick his ass if i found out he was juicing at a young age, unless he got offered a major scholarship and had a good chance to go pro in some sport,then id consider it but thats it. i would never want to see my son hurt himself and will do anything i have to to make sure he doesnt make any dumb decisions that i might have made in my day, me and him are super tight and hang out together all the time
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:D i was joking with my wife about juicing him up for wrestling season this year,she said (yea right)i said he will have a full beard and acne on his back at 9 years old ;) he watches me do my TRT, he also understands that his daddy(me) has low testosterone cause he always goes to doctors with me when i get my check ups.he calls it my medicine and i explained to him exactly what im doing and that its under a doctors supervision, he said daddy i heard that stuff makes people very mean ???i said where did u hear that from?he said i looked it up on the internet :o.believe it or not hes strong when it comes to taking kids down and pinning them in wrestling tournaments but he struggles with 8 lb dumbells for certain movements like curls,overhead presses and lying bench presses,so i give him the 5lb dumbells until his strength increases, im gonna just give him maybe 50mgs of cyp and see how he responds,im gonna turn him into my science project ;) in all reality i would kick his ass if i found out he was juicing at a young age, unless he got offered a major scholarship and had a good chance to go pro in some sport,then id consider it but thats it. i would never want to see my son hurt himself and will do anything i have to to make sure he doesnt make any dumb decisions that i might have made in my day, me and him are super tight and hang out together all the time
If you are 50, you were 41 when he was born. That's a good age for a fatherhood I think.