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I had this debate with a male buddy of mine the other day. I'm of the mindset that it's unlikely a straight male would have any genuine female 'friends', i.e a female version of your male buddies, unless there's an ulterior motive (getting into her pants, has a hot friend/friends etc). He reckons straight guys can have real female friends and spend time together/hang out without there being any intent for more.
What say you fellow Getbiggers?
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I had this debate with a male buddy of mine the other day. I'm of the mindset that it's unlikely a straight male would have any genuine female 'friends', i.e a female version of your male buddies, unless there's an ulterior motive (getting into her pants, has a hot friend/friends etc). He reckons straight guys can have real female friends and spend time together/hang out without there being any intent for more.
What say you fellow Getbiggers?
Of course they can...
The females can be their relatives (cousins etc).
The females can be lesbians.
The females can be physically unappealing to the males.
All make for very good female friends without any sexual connotation attached to it.
"1"
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Of course they can...
The females can be their relatives (cousins etc).
The females can be lesbians.
The females can be physically unappealing to the males.
All make for very good female friends without any sexual connotation attached to it.
"1"
Got to admit very well said.
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The females can be their relatives (cousins etc).
The females can be lesbians.
The females can be physically unappealing to the males..
I disagree: After a few drinks... at 5AM a 2 is a 10 (that includes lesbians and/or cousins).
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Of course they can...
The females can be their relatives (cousins etc).
The females can be lesbians.
The females can be physically unappealing to the males.
All make for very good female friends without any sexual connotation attached to it.
"1"
unless shes really hot and you want her!
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I disagree: After a few drinks... at 5AM a 2 is a 10 (that includes lesbians and/or cousins).
;D
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As long as she is goodlooking and give med sex I can have her as a friend!
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Yes.
I was friends (before leaving London) with a Danish girl. We used to go clubbing together or hang out now and again. If neither of us pulled during clubbing we went back to either mine or hers and fuck for hours. We had a good relationship but was never going to be 'dating'. Just good mates with sex when either of us felt like it
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Of course they can...
The females can be their relatives (cousins etc).
The females can be lesbians.
The females can be physically unappealing to the males.
All make for very good female friends without any sexual connotation attached to it.
"1"
Yes, well said.
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a better question more suitable for getbig would be if bi-curious guys or closet homosexuals can be friends with trannys without having sex.
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No fucking way.
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Yes, many...what's wrong with you guys?
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Why?
I am not being harsh. Just honest.
Don't see the point of this at all.
The only ones I make an effort to be friendly with is due to my own ulterior motives to bed them. I don't have any motivation to just have a female "friend" personally.
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An alpha straight man will always find something sexy about a female. Can they be legitimate friends. Yes, of course.
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This is a tough one especially if there's an attraction. I have one female friend, known her since I was 12 and really value our friendship as i never had friendships that lasted that long as my dad was in the military. I did french kiss her and grab her boobies though and her tits were MASSIVE for a 12 year old!!!
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This is a tough one especially if there's an attraction. I have one female friend, known her since I was 12 and really value our friendship as i never had friendships that lasted that long as my dad was in the military. I did french kiss her and grab her boobies though and her tits were MASSIVE for a 12 year old!!!
I hope you were 12 too :-X
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I hope you were 12 too :-X
LOL! Yes, was in grade 6... Had a hunch that could be read oddly, lol...
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It's an interesting topic for debate.
I'd say I honestly can only think of one female I know that I'd call a real 'friend'. I don't mind hanging out with her (in small doses) and I have no sexual attraction towards her whatsoever. She has some smoking hot friends though that she seems really reluctant to introduce to me...
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I can understand why so many women and men can't be 'just friends'. The animal instinct is strong and one needs a lot of practise of mind control or some lucky/great experiences in order to sustain the animal instinct from taking over because 'just friends' means no sexual vibe from either side.
But there are emotionally stable people out there, sexually as well, and those individuals can have friends from the opposite sex because they can separate the animal instincts from interviening humane behavior. But these people are usually assasinated or silenced and you almost never meet one, but when you do, it's a relieving experience.
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Let's put it this way, the pool of "friends" is very, very small.
And if she's hot, forget it. You simply can't just be "friends."
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I can understand why so many women and men can't be 'just friends'. The animal instinct is strong and one needs a lot of practise of mind control or some lucky/great experiences in order to sustain the animal instinct from taking over because 'just friends' means no sexual vibe from either side.
But there are emotionally stable people out there, sexually as well, and those individuals can have friends from the opposite sex because they can separate the animal instincts from interviening humane behavior. But these people are usually assasinated or silenced and you almost never meet one, but when you do, it's a relieving experience.
Nicely said.
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I've never really had a female friend. If I get a girls number its because I plan of fucking her.
I just don't understand it. I like you, your really fun to hang out with, but your ugly as hell?
If I enjoy the presence of a girl why wouldn't I want to get intimate. If she's ugly why would I want to be around her anyways?
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It's an interesting topic for debate.
I'd say I honestly can only think of one female I know that I'd call a real 'friend'. I don't mind hanging out with her (in small doses) and I have no sexual attraction towards her whatsoever. She has some smoking hot friends though that she seems really reluctant to introduce to me...
I've noticed that with some of my female friends (acquaintances) that they have this secret group of hot friends they keep hidden from me. >:(
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Let's put it this way, the pool of "friends" is very, very small.
And if she's hot, forget it. You simply can't just be "friends."
An Alpha doesn't find women hot. Women find HIM (me) hot.
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I've never really had a female friend. If I get a girls number its because I plan of fucking her.
I just don't understand it. I like you, your really fun to hang out with, but your ugly as hell?
If I enjoy the presence of a girl why wouldn't I want to get intimate. If she's ugly why would I want to be around her anyways?
True friends are rarer than celibate men.
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Of course they can have female friends or vice versa.
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the subtle to not-so-subtle sexual undertones usually end up making me uncomfortable
it's not easy being beautiful :'(
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the subtle to not-so-subtle sexual undertones usually end up making me uncomfortable
it's not easy being beautiful :'(
Try being ugly.
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Try being ugly.
2, 1, :-X
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Opposite sex friendships rarely work. Inevitably with enough time, someone develops intense feelings for the other and those feelings aren't reciprocal. Like many I've been in both situations, the one in "love" and the one "loved", and they both suck.
It's also frustrating when the girl you're into has hetro guy friends (and I know it works the other way too because I've never met a woman who was cool with me having female friends).
As someone previously posted, human nature will run its course.
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Opposite sex friendships rarely work. Inevitably with enough time, someone develops intense feelings for the other and those feelings aren't reciprocal. Like many I've been in both situations, the one in "love" and the one "loved", and they both suck.
It's also frustrating when the girl you're into has hetro guy friends (and I know it works the other way too because I've never met a woman who was cool with me having female friends).
As someone previously posted, human nature will run its course.
Human nature doesn't have to equate to perversion. What if she's a 60-year-old lady?
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Human nature doesn't have to equate to perversion. What if she's a 60-year-old lady?
Paging Roger Bacon
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Thread is useless without more pics
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Thread is useless without more pics
Friends till the end.
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Fuck no,
Think when your gf is waffling on about insanely boring shit and you switch of to the point that you don't hear a word of it, you put up with shit like that cos you get to fuck her and she cleans your house and cooks your tea, with a "female friend" you don't get those benefits that make putting up with her inanely boring shit worthwhile.
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Human nature doesn't have to equate to perversion. What if she's a 60-year-old lady?
You're 100% correct. I thought the context was someone in a compatible age. I also didn't say anything that implied perversion, most of us have known people that date/married others much older and younger.
Also I'm using the word friendship, not friendly or acquaintance, but someone you'd spend time with in social activities/settings in one on one situations, a confidant.
I meant western society has taught us to believe in ideas of fairy tale romance type relationships (and I know that they do happen but they're rare. For every Arnold that makes it as a movie star there's a million Dennis Wolf's struggling through a reading).
The other prevailing idea is that you marry your best friend, which is an idea I support. However in opposite friend relationships, even if clear boundaries have been explained and agreed upon, feelings inevitably develop on one side, which will lead to disaster if they're not eventually reciprocated.
Maybe you're a guy that can have multiple female friends and not have romantic feelings for them and they not have the same for you, it has and can be done, but usually it doesn't end well.
Also how would you handle your wife having a 60-year-old male friend ( I'm not saying anything sexual), we can make it a male coworker even that she meets weekly for coffee, outside of work?
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Sure, if she's ugly.
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Sure, if she's ugly.
Lol, it's true but then they usually fall for you. ...
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Only if the female isn't fuckable or never decides to let the male fuck her.
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Lol, it's true but then they usually fall for you. ...
Yeah, but if she repels you, you'll keep your pee pee tucked. Stay friends.
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Of course they can...
The females can be their relatives (cousins etc).
The females can be lesbians.
The females can be physically unappealing to the males.
All make for very good female friends without any sexual connotation attached to it.
"1"
I agree with you. Males cannot control sexual attraction period.
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Only rapists and creeps struggle to form a somewhat meaningful rapport with women without any sexual intent.
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It can be a fine line to walk, but if you are both responsible adults, what's the problem?
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You're 100% correct. I thought the context was someone in a compatible age. I also didn't say anything that implied perversion, most of us have known people that date/married others much older and younger.
Also I'm using the word friendship, not friendly or acquaintance, but someone you'd spend time with in social activities/settings in one on one situations, a confidant.
I meant western society has taught us to believe in ideas of fairy tale romance type relationships (and I know that they do happen but they're rare. For every Arnold that makes it as a movie star there's a million Dennis Wolf's struggling through a reading).
The other prevailing idea is that you marry your best friend, which is an idea I support. However in opposite friend relationships, even if clear boundaries have been explained and agreed upon, feelings inevitably develop on one side, which will lead to disaster if they're not eventually reciprocated.
Maybe you're a guy that can have multiple female friends and not have romantic feelings for them and they not have the same for you, it has and can be done, but usually it doesn't end well.
Also how would you handle your wife having a 60-year-old male friend ( I'm not saying anything sexual), we can make it a male coworker even that she meets weekly for coffee, outside of work?
Fairy tale lol...there is no such thing as a good girl brother, in fact I would say the more fucked up a chick is the more exciting the relationship/fling will be. Im talking about daddy issues and girls with abandonment issues. chicks like these will literally give you anything they want in the bedroom. Sex in public, being tied up, choked, you name it.. She will charm the fuck out of you, buy you presents, compliment you.. basically building you up into superman. There will always be warning signs and red flags but most guys are on cloud 9 in the honeymoon stage thinking they're the shit so they ignore the red flags... .deep down in her twisted sick mind she has already constructed a way to bring you down. She used sex as a tool to reel you in and of course she will use it as a weapon later on in the relationship to get what she wants. manipulative little girls
As for this bullshit thread well Quality chicks usually don't have guy friends because they have no need for an army of beta orbiters and white knights...so unless you make your intentions clear you'll never fuck them anyways. you usually have only a few weeks to get in a girl's pants before she loses interest so why bother being friends with her at that point? waste of my time. And if your not trying to bang the chick, if your not an emotional tampon for her then what are you? I always make fun of guys with female friends who they never fuck.....fucking pathetic.
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An Alpha doesn't find women hot. Women find HIM (me) hot.
ridiculous statement
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Fairy tale lol...there is no such thing as a good girl brother, in fact I would say the more fucked up a chick is the more exciting the relationship/fling will be. Im talking about daddy issues and girls with abandonment issues. chicks like these will literally give you anything they want in the bedroom. Sex in public, being tied up, choked, you name it.. She will charm the fuck out of you, buy you presents, compliment you.. basically building you up into superman. There will always be warning signs and red flags but most guys are on cloud 9 in the honeymoon stage thinking they're the shit so they ignore the red flags... .deep down in her twisted sick mind she has already constructed a way to bring you down. She used sex as a tool to reel you in and of course she will use it as a weapon later on in the relationship to get what she wants. manipulative little girls
As for this bullshit thread well Quality chicks usually don't have guy friends because they have no need for an army of beta orbiters and white knights...so unless you make your intentions clear you'll never fuck them anyways. you usually have only a few weeks to get in a girl's pants before she loses interest so why bother being friends with her at that point? waste of my time. And if your not trying to bang the chick, if your not an emotional tampon for her then what are you? I always make fun of guys with female friends who they never fuck.....fucking pathetic.
"emotional tampon" :D that's great
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Haven't we gone over this?
No.
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me personally always had one thought in mind when i became freinds with a women,that was getting that pussy. dont get me wrong if a nice freindship bloomed during that time thats fine and dandy but i never just said im gonna become freinds with this girl and we can just hang out and talk, pussy was the motive always
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Of course they can...
The females can be their relatives (cousins etc).
The females can be lesbians.
The females can be physically unappealing to the males.
All make for very good female friends without any sexual connotation attached to it.
"1"
bingo!
The rule is that ANY pretty female with nice tits and/or sexy ass will never be "just a friend" to any straight male.
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ridiculous statement
Facts are dreadfully inconvenient, aren't they?
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As for this bullshit thread well Quality chicks usually don't have guy friends because they have no need for an army of beta orbiters and white knights...so unless you make your intentions clear you'll never fuck them anyways. you usually have only a few weeks to get in a girl's pants before she loses interest so why bother being friends with her at that point? waste of my time. And if your not trying to bang the chick, if your not an emotional tampon for her then what are you? I always make fun of guys with female friends who they never fuck.....fucking pathetic.
Haven't you heard of true friendship? Not every man is a pervert. I'm a protector of innocent girls. Tons of wolves out there. Me? I'm a knight in shining armour. Nobody shall be defiled. Nobody!
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bingo!
The rule is that ANY pretty female with nice tits and/or sexy ass will never be "just a friend" to any straight male.
For heaven's sake. A 'pretty female' cannot help being what she is. Your lust is eclipsing your humanity.
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NO, we always wanna fuck them.
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Only rapists and creeps struggle to form a somewhat meaningful rapport with women without any sexual intent.
Stop putting yourself down. We'll have none of that here.
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You're 100% correct. I thought the context was someone in a compatible age. I also didn't say anything that implied perversion, most of us have known people that date/married others much older and younger.
Also I'm using the word friendship, not friendly or acquaintance, but someone you'd spend time with in social activities/settings in one on one situations, a confidant.
I meant western society has taught us to believe in ideas of fairy tale romance type relationships (and I know that they do happen but they're rare. For every Arnold that makes it as a movie star there's a million Dennis Wolf's struggling through a reading).
The other prevailing idea is that you marry your best friend, which is an idea I support. However in opposite friend relationships, even if clear boundaries have been explained and agreed upon, feelings inevitably develop on one side, which will lead to disaster if they're not eventually reciprocated.
Maybe you're a guy that can have multiple female friends and not have romantic feelings for them and they not have the same for you, it has and can be done, but usually it doesn't end well.
Also how would you handle your wife having a 60-year-old male friend ( I'm not saying anything sexual), we can make it a male coworker even that she meets weekly for coffee, outside of work?
This especially jejune man-woman polarity that dominates society ought to be discarded in favour of fundamental human-to-human interaction. At the end of the day we are all human. Wherefore should we forswear our humanity to behave like randy beasts?
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Facts are dreadfully inconvenient, aren't they?
so where do you direct your passion?
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Yes, as long as you don't find her attractive.
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so where do you direct your passion?
Ro, you are really going to have a conversation with Harridan? Because he's probably the most obvious troll on GB.
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so where do you direct your passion?
I used to be a dirty dog until it dawned upon me that the women I was lusting after were the precious children of my fellow man. I was blinded by their supposed beauty until the horrifying realization struck me that the children of my time, MY CHILDREN, were rapidly blossoming into the same women that I had spilled my drool for! The latter had once been young too and I had dared look upon them, my fellow human beings, in the foulest of manners. After all I would not want anyone to so much as touch my beloved child. Our children's innocence is the most precious jewel of all. I have thus devoted myself to being a true man, a pure saint, a man after God's own heart. I am now a spiritual father, a puissant guardian and a fond friend to one and all because I am now free, truly free, from all evil lusts of the flesh.
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you have a wife and children then I take it?
Unless you have been practising deep meditation and sublimation of your sexual energy without lapse for many years I highly doubt you are free from sexual desire.
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and you wouldnt be bragging about women lusting over you.
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and you wouldnt be bragging about women lusting over you.
Nay! I have no wife or children! How could I, a mere child myself, do so vile a a thing? I am a staunch Christian! God CAN and DOES purge and purify! Meditation is nonsense. One must have a deep and abiding love for one's neighbour before all sick sexuality can be purged. This, my friend, is true strength and mighty manliness.
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Facts are dreadfully inconvenient, aren't they?
An Alpha doesn't find women hot. Women find HIM (me) hot.
the above is pure bragging, lusty ego talk.
the central message of Jesus can only be realized through deep surrender which can only come about through meditation. Jesus himself meditated, what do you think he was doing all the time in the dessert, mumbling constantly to God?
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Ro, you do know he is trolling, right?
Or will this go on like your "self rape" story?
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Can't be friends unless shes related or a lesbo.
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the above is pure bragging, lusty ego talk.
the central message of Jesus can only be realized through deep surrender which can only come about through meditation. Jesus himself meditated, what do you think he was doing all the time in the dessert, mumbling constantly to God?
Jesus was PRAYING to His Heavenly Father. Ego and lust are two separate things. My ego reminds me not to chase after the inferior ones ('hot' women). I, of course, am the superior one, the hottest of the hot! That is why I am now the pure one.
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Ro, you do know he is trolling, right?
Or will this go on like your "self rape" story?
???
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the deepest prayer happens when one relinquishes constant thinking. Ones whole being then becomes an effortless prayer.
I wont comment on the rest of what you said. Its obvious your full of shit.
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???
I posted a made up story about a mother calling the police after finding her son masturbating.
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the deepest prayer happens when one relinquishes constant thinking. Ones whole being then becomes an effortless prayer.
I wont comment on the rest of what you said. Its obvious your full of shit.
You can never relinquish constant thinking. You can quiet your mind but the brain is always working.
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I had this debate with a male buddy of mine the other day. I'm of the mindset that it's unlikely a straight male would have any genuine female 'friends', i.e a female version of your male buddies, unless there's an ulterior motive (getting into her pants, has a hot friend/friends etc). He reckons straight guys can have real female friends and spend time together/hang out without there being any intent for more.
What say you fellow Getbiggers?
Female friends are great whe you want to make your girlfriend jeoulosy. Specially if they have big boobs.
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You can never relinquish constant thinking. You can quiet your mind but the brain is always working.
the compulsion to think can be relinquished, many have. And some yogis have been hooked up to monitor and have on all accounts become clinically dead only to 'come back to life' thus is the power of the deepest trances.
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I posted a made up story about a mother calling the police after finding her son masturbating.
Yeah, and I'm the one that's 'full of shit'. Flee from your unholy lusts, Ronan. Hearken unto God and He will free you from the evil that entoils you at present. If you do not get rid of this now, you will be lusting after young women even decades down the road, and these women are today's unconceived children, nothing at all! Why lust for nothing? Enough is enough. You aren't a little kid anymore. Will you renounce all concupiscence and decide to be a man, a real man? And meditation is dangerous occult junk. You sooner you realize this, the better it will be for you.
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I thought so with some chicks but it always turns out in the end that they wanted me to slay their poon. Most of the times it comes out when they get drunk and start slobering about liking me blah blah blah.
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Just as long as she gives me periodic blow jobs... yes.
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Of course they can...
The females can be their relatives (cousins etc).
The females can be lesbians.
The females can be physically unappealing to the males.
All make for very good female friends without any sexual connotation attached to it.
"1This.
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Yeah, and I'm the one that's 'full of shit'. Flee from your unholy lusts, Ronan. Hearken unto God and He will free you from the evil that entoils you at present. If you do not get rid of this now, you will be lusting after young women even decades down the road, and these women are today's unconceived children, nothing at all! Why lust for nothing? Enough is enough. You aren't a little kid anymore. Will you renounce all concupiscence and decide to be a man, a real man? And meditation is dangerous occult junk. You sooner you realize this, the better it will be for you.
I posted a piece of satire, wtf are you talking about.
You know nothing of true spirituality/religion if you call meditating junk.
And your so fucking deluded to think your free from lust!
Just fuck off.
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no and why the hell would you want to be other than for having her set you up with other girls?
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no and why the hell would you want to be other than for having her set you up with other girls?
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majority of the times they won't even hook you up. I was friends with a chick and really liked her friend. Eventually I made a move on her friend and she tells me that she likes me but her friend also likes me and she doesn't want to cause any issue. Fucking cock blocking whore.
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I posted a piece of satire, wtf are you talking about.
You know nothing of true spirituality/religion if you call meditating junk.
And your so fucking deluded to think your free from lust!
Just fuck off.
You posted some made-up crap, which you admitted to. That you are a dirty dog doesn't make every man like you. Then again there is no point in engaging with reality, is there? Give up the chase if there is any decency in you. That's someone's kid you are committing adultery with in your heart. And we know what the penalty for adultery is, don't we?
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theres only one thing I need to give up right now and its talking to your fat fuck self.
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Ro throwing his name in the hat for lowest I.Q. on Getbig.
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female friend test-
Have her bend over to get something out of a low drawer with you standing behind her.
If you think about buggering her ass = no friend
If you actually wanted her to get something= gay friend.
;D
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theres only one thing I need to give up right now and its talking to your fat fuck self.
I pity you because no woman is safe from your wandering eye. I, on the other hand, am free. Women are in my bondage, not yours. Deal with it.
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female friend test-
Have her bend over to get something out of a low drawer with you standing behind her.
If you think about buggering her ass = no friend
If you actually wanted her to get something= gay friend.
;D
That female is a human being like you. A human being that deserves respect and protection. Or are you really beyond redemption?
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female friend test-
Have her bend over to get something out of a low drawer with you standing behind her.
If you think about buggering her ass = no friend
If you actually wanted her to get something= gay friend.
;D
This happened with the occupational health woman at work, she was old and had a fat gut but when she bent over to get something out the drawer and her black pants went tight up her crack I could think of nothing else but burying my face in there, so much so that I performed very poorly when she administered the lung function test as I could think of nothing else but destroying her
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The concept that men and women cannot have a platonic relationship is antiquated thinking.