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So I'm in college and work at a restaurant in a country club and I have 2 bosses. i have been picked on and singled out for about a good 2 months now by one particular boss, he'll say things like "you know I worry for you because I don't think you'll ever make it in life" or "you are the biggest idiot I've ever met" "your girlfriend must be awesome at making life choices for dating you" "you have got to be fucking kidding me how much stupider can you get" and more comments like that. They are giving me the empty/never seated sections of the restaurant and give me tables that don't tip a lot. Also I have the lowest hourly out of every server, even a new person there who got hired a month after me got a higher starting pay for no reason. How do I deal with this situation. My other boss is the one who gives me horrible sections and then I get blamed for everything even if it has nothing to with me like someone forgetting to do their side work before they leave.
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Find a better job as that sounds like utter shit even without the asshole manager, once find a new job wait outside old work for the manager in question and give him a good hiding
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Maybe, just maybe you might want to listen to him. That person might be telling you the truth that nobody is willing to tell you.
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Up the dose.
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Just go. There is nothing you can do to fix this situation. The longer you stay the more damaging to your confidence it will be.
There is no reason in the world to be around people who disrespect you, if you can find another job.
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I bet he's envious of the fact you do train and probably have a career ahead of you.
When you get your nice job after school, I'd go back as a client with a hot chick and totally rub it in his face.
Your time will come...
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Yeah worst part is I work with my girl and he takes everything she does out on me too. The other day she forgot to dump out the tea and wash the container so instead of telling her, he tells me to go scrub it for 10 minutes solely because I'm her boyfriend. We also have a man that comes in once a month and he tips so much money (over 100 dollars) that they have a list on which server gets him next. I was supposed to be next on the list but he skipped me and gave it to a guy who had just had him then gave it to my girl today and claimed he completely forgot about me. The worst part is he seats me the very old and cheap tippers and Asians/Blacks because he thinks they don't tip well and thinks I don't notice. Then when I got a big table a few days ago (15 people) he tells me that my girl will be taking 5 of them because it's a big table and then yesterday a table of 14 comes in and he gives it to my girl and tells me not to go near that table because she can handle it on her own.
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You sir are the workplace beta.
People only pick on weak people, you obviously have zero presence or charisma.
Stand up straight and quit slinking around.
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Maybe, just maybe you might want to listen to him. That person might be telling you the truth that nobody is willing to tell you.
This. Punk kids these days think they can never be at fault themselves.
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Yeah worst part is I work with my girl and he takes everything she does out on me too. The other day she forgot to dump out the tea and wash the container so instead of telling her, he tells me to go scrub it for 10 minutes solely because I'm her boyfriend. We also have a man that comes in once a month and he tips so much money (over 100 dollars) that they have a list on which server gets him next. I was supposed to be next on the list but he skipped me and gave it to a guy who had just had him then gave it to my girl today and claimed he completely forgot about me. The worst part is he seats me the very old and cheap tippers and Asians/Blacks because he thinks they don't tip well and thinks I don't notice. Then when I got a big table a few days ago (15 people) he tells me that my girl will be taking 5 of them because it's a big table and then yesterday a table of 14 comes in and he gives it to my girl and tells me not to go near that table because she can handle it on her own.
Like Parker said first: have you ever considered that you truly suck balls at this job? Apparently your girl is far superior to you, so of course they are going to give work that even a monkey can do to you, and not to her. She can actually do something useful.
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Like Parker said first: have you ever considered that you truly suck balls at this job? Apparently your girl is far superior to you, so of course they are going to give work that even a monkey can do to you, and not to her. She can actually do something useful.
I did consider that, but she has had horrible reviews by other members and the bosses shrug it off when they see the comments on the reciepts, also there are members that specifically ask to NOT have her as their server, so it makes no sense to me
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I did consider that, but she has had horrible reviews by other members and the bosses shrug it off when they see the comments on the reciepts, also there are members that specifically ask to NOT have her as their server, so it makes no sense to me
Does she know you talk about her like this?
Jeez, what a twat, no wonder you get picked on you snivelling little snitch.
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Does she know you talk about her like this?
Jeez, what a twat, no wonder you get picked on you snivelling little snitch.
She knows, I told her what I was noticing today. She doesn't take it personally at all. I'm not down talking her either, just stating facts I never said she was horrible at her job.
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She knows, I told her what I was noticing today. She doesn't take it personally at all. I'm not down talking her either, just stating facts I never said she was horrible at her job.
stop pointing fingers at other people and pull the other one out and get some fucking work done.
Crying on a website about being picked on, fuck me, why don't you call Childline?
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Yeah worst part is I work with my girl and he takes everything she does out on me too. The other day she forgot to dump out the tea and wash the container so instead of telling her, he tells me to go scrub it for 10 minutes solely because I'm her boyfriend. We also have a man that comes in once a month and he tips so much money (over 100 dollars) that they have a list on which server gets him next. I was supposed to be next on the list but he skipped me and gave it to a guy who had just had him then gave it to my girl today and claimed he completely forgot about me. The worst part is he seats me the very old and cheap tippers and Asians/Blacks because he thinks they don't tip well and thinks I don't notice. Then when I got a big table a few days ago (15 people) he tells me that my girl will be taking 5 of them because it's a big table and then yesterday a table of 14 comes in and he gives it to my girl and tells me not to go near that table because she can handle it on her own.
Man, you gotta find something else. Part in bold is the icing on the cake for sure. At least when he gives part of your work to your girl the money stays between you guys. But yeah, everything you say here would break almost anyone down.
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I did consider that, but she has had horrible reviews by other members and the bosses shrug it off when they see the comments on the reciepts, also there are members that specifically ask to NOT have her as their server, so it makes no sense to me
you considered it, but blithely assumed it could not be your own shortcomings. Customers ask not to have your girl as their server. And how many ask for YOU not to be their server? No matter how bad she is, apparently she is still miles better than you are. So stop being a pussy, don't run away like a coward, get better at your job. You suck at it so bad that there's no place to go but up.
Also, your girl is no doubt sucking off both bosses for extra rent money. Money that you could be earning, yet instead is earned by her swallowing hot old man loads. Shame on you.
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you considered it, but blithely assumed it could not be your own shortcomings. Customers ask not to have your girl as their server. And how many ask for YOU not to be their server? No matter how bad she is, apparently she is still miles better than you are. So stop being a pussy, don't run away like a coward, get better at your job. You suck at it so bad that there's no place to go but up.
Also, your girl is no doubt sucking off both bosses for extra rent money. Money that you could be earning, yet instead is earned by her swallowing hot old man loads. Shame on you.
Just when I was beginning to think that there is no one more miserable than my boss is with life lol...
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If you don't like your job. Quit or work harder.
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Gayer than having a boss...
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Play the game, be two faced and take control that way.
Always be the smartest guy in the room.
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Man up and utter the following to your boss:
I don't take kindly to disrespect. not on the internet, not in person, not in a grocery store parking lot, not in like at walmart, not in a restaurant, not at the beach, not at the dry cleaners... anywhere.
ppl talk about the 'pussyfication' of America, yet they run their mouths thinking they won't get slapped and get their arm broken in front of their friends.
spent many yrs in a place where if you talk slick and say something out of line to somebody, you know that when you say it, you better be ready for what happens. most ppl here in the 'real world', aren't ready for what could happen.. and run their mouths like the world is a make believe cartoon. despite wearing nice slacks, polished shoes and a nice shirt, the guy you steal that parking spot from at the grocery store and proceed to flip off, may have just gotten out of prison and will have no problem identifying they bitch in you and proceed to teach you a lesson by taking you down to the ground and kicking out your teeth before you even know what happened.
the guy who's willing to go the furthest, wins. if you're not willing to go all the way, it's best you keep your mouth shut and move on, and make it to the next day.
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Mega dose some Tren 8)
Just finish up your degree. You won't be working for this guy forever
If you don't like the job, leave
If you want respect, demand it
Don't be complacent - that is a habit that will stick around, degree or not.
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Quit. Consider G4P for a living.
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A lot in your language suggests that you and your girl are problems for the managers. I don't agree with negative reinforcement but you say you've been singled out, suggesting that perhaps they do not shit on their employees unless they are.. shit, in which case they are keeping you around when they can easily hire another person to do that job, which sort of sounds like doing you a favour.
Regardless, for you:
Save as much money as you can so you can have the freedom to make your decisions without pressure from the bank account forcing you to take shit because you have no choice.
On the one hand, I'd say this is just lowly waiting, but consider whether you really do have a poor work ethic. Food prep / handling / serving is some of the hardest work you'll ever do in life (provided you're able to skill up into the corporate world). If you can get through those jobs without people shitting on you, then you're probably going to be a decent worker where ever you land. If not, you'll be bouncing around.
No offence to your girl, but if she cannot wait well or win them over with her charm, you may have a lemon :)
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You sir are the workplace beta.
People only pick on weak people, you obviously have zero presence or charisma.
Stand up straight and quit slinking around.
Said the guy with charisma oozing out of his pores :)
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Just when I was beginning to think that there is no one more miserable than my boss is with life lol...
Oh, I love my life, don't worry. :D I just cannot stand losers who think everyone owes them something. You don't deserve anything, nobody does. Either work to be the best, or accept mediocrity graciously. It's in your control to change your life. The fact that you are not doing anything about it tells me you are weak.
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Just go. There is nothing you can do to fix this situation. The longer you stay the more damaging to your confidence it will be.
There is no reason in the world to be around people who disrespect you, if you can find another job.
I completely agree with this assessment.
Just leave.
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Oh, I love my life, don't worry. :D I just cannot stand losers who think everyone owes them something. You don't deserve anything, nobody does. Either work to be the best, or accept mediocrity graciously. It's in your control to change your life. The fact that you are not doing anything about it tells me you are weak.
Dude, it has nothing to do with working towards being the very best, it has to do with being immersed in a world that doesn't award hard work and dedication anymore. Who here honestly wants to follow their boss' footsteps? Who here admires his boss? Who here accepts his/her leadership? This was the norm among old timers.
See, when you work in a merit-based company, the weak, the gossipers and the slackers get weeded out faster than you can say fast. But in today's USA, there's an epidemic of ass-kissers among the management ranks that polutes everything in a company.
And it's no wonder that in such a clusterfuck of shitness you have supervisors/managers insulting the employees. My father used to say it all the time: "some people will not take your word for what it's worth, so you'll have to speak to them in signs or actions". You gettin up and leaving will send a stronger signal that any word coming out of your mouth.
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Quit and get another job ::)
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Dude, it has nothing to do with working towards being the very best, it has to do with being immersed in a world that doesn't award hard work and dedication anymore. Who here honestly wants to follow their boss' footsteps? Who here admires his boss? Who here accepts his/her leadership? This was the norm among old timers.
See, when you work in a merit-based company, the weak, the gossipers and the slackers get weeded out faster than you can say fast. But in today's USA, there's an epidemic of ass-kissers among the management ranks that polutes everything in a company.
And it's no wonder that in such a clusterfuck of shitness you have supervisors/managers insulting the employees. My father used to say it all the time: "some people will not take your word for what it's worth, so you'll have to speak to them in signs or actions". You gettin up and leaving will send a stronger signal that any word coming out of your mouth.
Be that as it may, it does not change the fact that the OP is doing nothing. Neither improving nor leaving, just being inert and weak.
Plus I disagree with you that hard work is no longer rewarded. Yes, a lot of managers are shit. But until the time ALL managers are shit, there are still ways to move forward. Claiming all managers are ass-kissers and therefore are holding you back sounds to me like an easy excuse to do nothing.
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hypothetical advice, not legal advice, just some theory
record audio video of this stuff
record u asking he stop saying these things
record repeat offence
go to aggressive jew or eyetalian lawyer
file lawsuit
do not reveal u have the recordings nor tell your lawyer
have them lie under oath during deposition
produce the recordings to your lawyer
bankrupt these animals
many here miss the point, it don't matter if what they are saying is or isn't true, they have no business doing that, NONE! When people abuse their power they must be destroyed using every possible legal means. They must be hunted down legally and destroyed from every possible angle, reputation and financially.
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So I'm in college and work at a restaurant in a country club and I have 2 bosses. i have been picked on and singled out for about a good 2 months now by one particular boss, he'll say things like "you know I worry for you because I don't think you'll ever make it in life" or "you are the biggest idiot I've ever met" "your girlfriend must be awesome at making life choices for dating you" "you have got to be fucking kidding me how much stupider can you get" and more comments like that. They are giving me the empty/never seated sections of the restaurant and give me tables that don't tip a lot. Also I have the lowest hourly out of every server, even a new person there who got hired a month after me got a higher starting pay for no reason. How do I deal with this situation. My other boss is the one who gives me horrible sections and then I get blamed for everything even if it has nothing to with me like someone forgetting to do their side work before they leave.
You're in college? So you're what, 20? 21? And judging by your profile picture you seem to understand bro science very well (no homo), so your dead beat manager could actually be jealous of you because you are young, studying, working and also looking really good. Whatever he said to you, he means the complete opposite, that's how I see it.
Just feel sorry for him. He looks at you, wishes to be you (no homo once again)
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hypothetical advice, not legal advice, just some theory
record audio video of this stuff
record u asking he stop saying these things
record repeat offence
go to aggressive jew or eyetalian lawyer
file lawsuit
do not reveal u have the recordings nor tell your lawyer
have them lie under oath during deposition
produce the recordings to your lawyer
bankrupt these animals
It is almost becoming a requirement to record everything nowadays between manager and employee. Had two circumstances with both my wife and i's jobs recently that managers blatantly lied to owners, etc. to save their own skin, etc. My manager actually told me to lie about several things for sale purposes. Told him that I would not lie for him or this company.
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It is almost becoming a requirement to record everything nowadays between manager and employee. Had two circumstances with both my wife and i's jobs recently that managers blatantly lied to owners, etc. to save their own skin, etc. My manager actually told me to lie about several things for sale purposes. Told him that I would not lie for him or this company.
smart, and yeah record everything, the legal penalty in most cases for recording without knowlege is way less than the shit some bs can get you into to if you had no recording
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Dude, it has nothing to do with working towards being the very best, it has to do with being immersed in a world that doesn't award hard work and dedication anymore. Who here honestly wants to follow their boss' footsteps? Who here admires his boss? Who here accepts his/her leadership? This was the norm among old timers.
See, when you work in a merit-based company, the weak, the gossipers and the slackers get weeded out faster than you can say fast. But in today's USA, there's an epidemic of ass-kissers among the management ranks that polutes everything in a company.
And it's no wonder that in such a clusterfuck of shitness you have supervisors/managers insulting the employees. My father used to say it all the time: "some people will not take your word for what it's worth, so you'll have to speak to them in signs or actions". You gettin up and leaving will send a stronger signal that any word coming out of your mouth.
Great post
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I`d punch that fucker out and leave if he talked down to me.......dead serious.
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I`d punch that fucker out and leave if he talked down to me.......dead serious.
jail time of peace
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jail time of peace
Fuck it.....I don`t take kindly to disrespect......not in a restaurant,not in a grocery store.......not in a line at the bank....
;D
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Back Double Biceps would take care of the issue in my case.
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Eye drops in the next meal he eats.
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it don't matter if what they are saying is or isn't true, they have no business doing that, NONE!
What bullshit commie rhetoric is this? If the kid sucks at his job, it is those managers' job to tell him that! It is also their job to allocate the shittiest jobs to those who are incapable of doing higher-value work. Although granted, I would have fired the kid a long time before it ever got to that stage, one can easily get a cheap 18-y.o. unemployed wretch to do it cheaper and better.
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He's jealous of you, of what you look like. So he treats you like crap. You need to get a job where the boss is a female or a male that is there to work and not take his insecurities to his job or out on employees.
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Well at least you picked an appropriate screen name, kevthekid. I am guessing the only reason you put up with it and not go somewhere else is because you have tried and they see you for what you are too. I do a lot of hiring and firing and the type of weakness you are showing here would stand out in an interview. You are not making it at one of the most entry level jobs there is. I have no words of encouragement for you. :'(
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You're a limp wristed phaggot and every male that works there is fucking your girlfriend. The only reason you and her are still there is that your boss is smacking her fat titties and ass and busting nuts all over her face. When she comes home from work at you kiss her hello does she taste really salty?
Only one option for you now.....go buy a Prius, out yourself, move in with True Adonis.
Weak gimmick homo
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You're a limp wristed phaggot and every male that works there is fucking your girlfriend. The only reason you and her are still there is that your boss is smacking her fat titties and ass and busting nuts all over her face. When she comes home from work at you kiss her hello does she taste really salty?
Only one option for you now.....go buy a Prius, out yourself, move in with True Adonis.
Weak gimmick homo
LMFAO! I thought the same about the girlfriend. I bet her box looks like a gallon jug of Miracle Whip.
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LMFAO! I thought the same about the girlfriend. I bet her box looks like a gallon jug of Miracle Whip.
This homo is at home waiting for her to finish her shift at the restaurant, while she's in the backseat of the bosses 2004 Celica, with her head down and bum up, taking stiff dick in all her holes.
And you know the boss is married, she is telling the boss this guy is a closet homo, and she will end up knocked up by the boss.
Except.....this is a gimmick and all bullshit
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This homo is at home waiting for her to finish her shift at the restaurant, while she's in the backseat of the bosses 2004 Celica, with her head down and bum up, taking stiff dick in all her holes.
And you know the boss is married, she is telling the boss this guy is a closet homo, and she will end up knocked up by the boss.
Except.....this is a gimmick and all bullshit
Or.....he is so pathetic at all aspects of life that we figure he must be a gimmick but he is really living that sad life.
BTW, I bet the gf has contracted herpes from the Mexican bus boys that are banging her behind the restaurant dumpster.
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Take the cowards way out!
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bosses are very vulnerable. sprinkle sugar in his locker so ants are all over. pour urine on his lunch bag. Get creative.
find his sister on facebook. woo her and dazzle her. then rub it in his face. when it ends, blame him, so she always hates him for it.
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so many betas talking about quitting and shit. Just corner the mutherfucker in the backroom and tell him how it is. make him shit in his pants and threaten to rape him, his wife and his kids if he doesn't lay off, give you a raise and doesn't keep this whole incident private.
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Ricin.
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LOL@ soliciting career advice on Getbig.
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bosses are very vulnerable. sprinkle sugar in his locker so ants are all over. pour urine on his lunch bag. Get creative.
find his sister on facebook. woo her and dazzle her. then rub it in his face. when it ends, blame him, so she always hates him for it.
Way too much work.
Light his house on fire. Stand in his front yard and shoot his family as they escape out the front door.
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so many betas talking about quitting and shit. Just corner the mutherfucker in the backroom and tell him how it is. make him shit in his pants and threaten to rape him, his wife and his kids if he doesn't lay off, give you a raise and doesn't keep this whole incident private.
If the OP had even close to the balls to do what you describe above he would have never started this thread. This is not even an option for him. Hell, he is cucking his gf out to his boss so he can eat the cream pie. :-X
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Guy figured it out.
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Unleash (verbaly) at him then leave. Dont hurt him or he will press charges because he is a homo. However if he strikes first then fuck him up :).
Waiter is a shit job anyway get the fuck out of here dude.
I work an office job and some boss tried to bully me the same way (way way less worse tho), I reported him to his boss, she took my side and had a talk with him. Hes forced to be nice now :)
Bully only pick on people who dont fight back, as soon as they see you retaliate they will pick on someone else. Dont let anyone step on you.
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Quit. Consider G4P for a living.
This. G4P = be your own boss
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You're good looking & built right?? Sleep with his wife, or sister, or even sister in law...
THANK ME LATER!
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You're good looking & built right?? Sleep with his wife, or sister, or even sister in law...
THANK ME LATER!
Try this: "Say, the Jerk Store called, and they're running out of you."
If this falls flat, tell him you fucked his cancer-ridden wife.
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Unleash (verbaly) at him then leave. Dont hurt him or he will press charges because he is a homo. However if he strikes first then fuck him up :).
Waiter is a shit job anyway get the fuck out of here dude.
I work an office job and some boss tried to bully me the same way (way way less worse tho), I reported him to his boss, she took my side and had a talk with him. Hes forced to be nice now :)
Bully only pick on people who dont fight back, as soon as they see you retaliate they will pick on someone else. Dont let anyone step on you.
The boss isn't homo, the OP is.
The boss is an alpha who is banging out the OP's fat ugly girlfriend
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Unleash (verbaly) at him then leave. Dont hurt him or he will press charges because he is a homo. However if he strikes first then fuck him up :).
Waiter is a shit job anyway get the fuck out of here dude.
I work an office job and some boss tried to bully me the same way (way way less worse tho), I reported him to his boss, she took my side and had a talk with him. Hes forced to be nice now :)
Bully only pick on people who dont fight back, as soon as they see you retaliate they will pick on someone else. Dont let anyone step on you.
Yeah, I remember the time that somebody tried to "bully" me at the office. Wait, no...that never happened and never WILL happen. WTF, bullying? What is this, middle school?
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The boss isn't homo, the OP is.
The boss is an alpha who is banging out the OP's fat ugly girlfriend
if the gf is fat and ugly
then the boss is at best a beta
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your girl is no doubt sucking off both bosses
and more..... OP, post a pic of your 'girl'.
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Everything you need to know about handling tough situations in life is found in the movie Roadhouse.
Here's how you deal with that boss:
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You're welcome.
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Seeing as you're a waiter this may also be appropriate:
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Again, you're welcome.
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Or if you were working at a shoe store:
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Or in an office setting:
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Point is this....Roadhouse has your answer.
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Quit.
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if the gf is fat and ugly
then the boss is at best a beta
I knew an expert on being a beta and being married to a fat chick would chime in sooner or later.
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Quit.
Nice avatar....the 8-bit Nintendo original Ninja Gaiden....one of the last video games I ever played LOL!!
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Nice avatar....the 8-bit Nintendo original Ninja Gaiden....one of the last video games I ever played LOL!!
It is STILL one my top 50 games of all time list.
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Everything you need to know about handling tough situations in life is found in the movie Roadhouse.
Here's how you deal with that boss:
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You're welcome.
Ask yourself, would Jesus do the same?
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It is STILL one my top 50 games of all time list.
Awesome game....I lived on Ninja Gaiden, Contra, Mike Tyson's Punchout, Super Mario Bros, Legend of Zelda, Tiger Heli, Super Dodgeball and Double Dribble for months and months!!
Before that I lived on Atari's Combat, Asteroids, PacMan, Frogger, Donkey Kong, Yars Revenge, Pele's Soccer, Defender, Missle Command and Space Invaders!
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Ask yourself, would Jesus do the same?
Jesus wore a WWDD bracelet.
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Everything you need to know about handling tough situations in life is found in the movie Roadhouse.
Here's how you deal with that boss:
(https://media.giphy.com/media/l41m0lVOcy98JrNRK/giphy.gif)
You're welcome.
That is surprisingly Christian of you. Glad to see that you didn't have to sacrifice your values.
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Best thing you can do is never work with your girlfriend. With that said, If your bosses are as bad as you say, find out who their wives and girlfriends are and try to fuck them immediately. One of two things will happen. First one is that they will let you fuck them and that alone will make yourself feel 100 times better that you got one over on your boss/s. Or they won't fuck you and they will tell their husband/boyfriend(your boss) what you tried to do. Honestly the second one in this case is better than actually fucking them. Trying to bang their wife regardless of being successful puts the husband/boyfriend into a very uneasy feeling that will stick with him for as long as he's with the women. You will make the guy second guess what actually happened when his wife/girlfriend ever gets caught down the road with other guy. And years later if you ever bump into your old boss, alway's ask him "hows the wife or girlfriend" and smile when you say it.
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So I'm in college and work at a restaurant in a country club and I have 2 bosses. i have been picked on and singled out for about a good 2 months now by one particular boss, he'll say things like "you know I worry for you because I don't think you'll ever make it in life" or "you are the biggest idiot I've ever met" "your girlfriend must be awesome at making life choices for dating you" "you have got to be fucking kidding me how much stupider can you get" and more comments like that. They are giving me the empty/never seated sections of the restaurant and give me tables that don't tip a lot. Also I have the lowest hourly out of every server, even a new person there who got hired a month after me got a higher starting pay for no reason. How do I deal with this situation. My other boss is the one who gives me horrible sections and then I get blamed for everything even if it has nothing to with me like someone forgetting to do their side work before they leave.
another reason why the US is shit.
we have minimum wage which goes from $15US to $20US, plus its illegal to bully at work, plus health care is free.
oh, and we dont have mass gun shootings every few days.
HTH.
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It's simple.
Confront him. Dummy him.
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That is surprisingly Christian of you. Glad to see that you didn't have to sacrifice your values.
Christian never makes jokes.
"You should relax and joke more."
Christian cracks a joke.
"That's not very Christian of you."
My solution is simple.....meh.
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another reason why the US is shit.
we have minimum wage which goes from $15US to $20US, plus its illegal to bully at work, plus health care is free.
oh, and we dont have mass gun shootings every few days.
HTH.
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Christian never makes jokes.
"You should relax and joke more."
Christian cracks a joke.
"That's not very Christian of you."
My solution is simple.....meh.
I think you misunderstood my intentions. I was praising you for following your religion.
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I think you misunderstood my intentions. I was praising you for following your religion.
Goal post shift LOL. None of this matters though. It's all meh to me anyways. ;D
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Goal post shift LOL. None of this matters though. It's all meh to me anyways. ;D
The way it should be, my friend.
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another reason why the US is shit.
we have minimum wage which goes from $15US to $20US, plus its illegal to bully at work, plus health care is free.
oh, and we dont have mass gun shootings every few days.
HTH.
And what third world shithole do you reside in Dicksuck Stu?
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After you quit and you see them outside the working enviroment
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so many betas talking about quitting and shit. Just corner the mutherfucker in the backroom and tell him how it is. make him shit in his pants and threaten to rape him, his wife and his kids if he doesn't lay off, give you a raise and doesn't keep this whole incident private.
Fight Club.
Great movie.
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Your girl is definitely taking busboy/manager loads in the face.
If you were any sort of man, you'd tell this asshat to lay off the insults or he's gonna come to a place he will not find to be conducive to his continued health.
If he continues to disrespect you, wait out back after a shift and take out his knees with a baseball bat. Then pee in his face.
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so many betas talking about quitting and shit. Just corner the mutherfucker in the backroom and tell him how it is. make him shit in his pants and threaten to rape him, his wife and his kids if he doesn't lay off, give you a raise and doesn't keep this whole incident private.
Yeah.
That doesn't work in the real world.
Makes for a fun movie though.
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Christian never makes jokes.
"You should relax and joke more."
Christian cracks a joke.
"That's not very Christian of you."
My solution is simple.....meh.
Dude, you are SO not bound by anyone's bullshit judgment here. You walk it, talk it, and rep it better than anyone here ever has. You could tell the most vile rape joke, and your character would still be head and shoulders above the typical hypocritical lot.
So let's hear that rape joke, friend.
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Up the dose
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Yeah worst part is I work with my girl and he takes everything she does out on me too. The other day she forgot to dump out the tea and wash the container so instead of telling her, he tells me to go scrub it for 10 minutes solely because I'm her boyfriend. We also have a man that comes in once a month and he tips so much money (over 100 dollars) that they have a list on which server gets him next. I was supposed to be next on the list but he skipped me and gave it to a guy who had just had him then gave it to my girl today and claimed he completely forgot about me. The worst part is he seats me the very old and cheap tippers and Asians/Blacks because he thinks they don't tip well and thinks I don't notice. Then when I got a big table a few days ago (15 people) he tells me that my girl will be taking 5 of them because it's a big table and then yesterday a table of 14 comes in and he gives it to my girl and tells me not to go near that table because she can handle it on her own.
He is showing her favoritism because she gulps his baby batter.
Turn the tables, give him a couple hundred blowjobs and you may get a raise and a couple white tables
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Your boss either likes/loathes you, or into your girlfriend/using your girlfriend to manipulateyou, and is in a backdoor way trying to hint to something. Ask him man to man, if he has a real problem with your work performance, and to not use your girlfriend as a tool to undermine you.
At the very least he knows that you have the stones to ask what is up, and that you know the game. This will garner some sort of respect and level the playing field. At the very worst, he'll continue down the same road with more games or will fire you.
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Be glad u have a job
Look for a different job and only when u definitely have another job then do u quit
Do your job correctly and very well so u are the best
Unless there is another side to the story and perhaps u do suck
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Be glad u have a job
Look for a different job and only when u definitely have another job then do u quit
Do your job correctly and very well so u are the best
Unless there is another side to the story and perhaps u do suck
Typical sick homo queer imagining a man sucking
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So I'm in college and work at a restaurant in a country club and I have 2 bosses. i have been picked on and singled out for about a good 2 months now by one particular boss, he'll say things like "you know I worry for you because I don't think you'll ever make it in life" or "you are the biggest idiot I've ever met" "your girlfriend must be awesome at making life choices for dating you" "you have got to be fucking kidding me how much stupider can you get" and more comments like that. They are giving me the empty/never seated sections of the restaurant and give me tables that don't tip a lot. Also I have the lowest hourly out of every server, even a new person there who got hired a month after me got a higher starting pay for no reason. How do I deal with this situation. My other boss is the one who gives me horrible sections and then I get blamed for everything even if it has nothing to with me like someone forgetting to do their side work before they leave.
say hi to Getbigger Walter Sobchak from me.
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He is showing her favoritism because she gulps his baby batter.
Turn the tables, give him a couple hundred blowjobs and you may get a raise and a couple white tables
LOL
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another reason why the US is shit.
we have minimum wage which goes from $15US to $20US, plus its illegal to bully at work, plus health care is free.
oh, and we dont have mass gun shootings every few days.
HTH.
LOL Please. Yes bullying never happens in Australia, and workers are never too scared to report any bullying that happens for fear of losing their job.
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Go with your phone ready to record his words, next time he calls you "good for nothing" tell him: What? let him repeat it, click the record button, later report him or sue him.
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say hi to Getbigger Walter Sobchak from me.
I am Getbig's very own Tony Robbins.
Very sympathetic and empathetic to your needs.
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So I'm in college and work at a restaurant in a country club and I have 2 bosses. i have been picked on and singled out for about a good 2 months now by one particular boss, he'll say things like "you know I worry for you because I don't think you'll ever make it in life" or "you are the biggest idiot I've ever met" "your girlfriend must be awesome at making life choices for dating you" "you have got to be fucking kidding me how much stupider can you get" and more comments like that. They are giving me the empty/never seated sections of the restaurant and give me tables that don't tip a lot. Also I have the lowest hourly out of every server, even a new person there who got hired a month after me got a higher starting pay for no reason. How do I deal with this situation. My other boss is the one who gives me horrible sections and then I get blamed for everything even if it has nothing to with me like someone forgetting to do their side work before they leave.
Id knock him the fuck out,that is why i dont work for anyone any more,i would never take shit.
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Talked to him today after he made another insult towards and I told him to the corner to talk and he came over and I told him that I'm tired of the shit he says at work and if he has an actual problem with me then I have no problem taking this outside after we clock out. He then asked me if it was a threat and I said no that's what's going to happen if you don't stop, and try to fire me for this and I will go to the GM and say everything you have said to me in front of my other coworkers and they will back me up 100%. He apologized and promised it would never happen again
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and the conclusion to 5 pages of nonsense is...
Talked to him today after he made another insult towards and I told him to the corner to talk and he came over and I told him that I'm tired of the shit he says at work and if he has an actual problem with me then I have no problem taking this outside after we clock out. He then asked me if it was a threat and I said no that's what's going to happen if you don't stop, and try to fire me for this and I will go to the GM and say everything you have said to me in front of my other coworkers and they will back me up 100%. He apologized and promised it would never happen again
To quote Judge Judy, "if something doesn't sound true, it probably isn't"
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and the conclusion to 5 pages of nonsense is...
To quote Judge Judy, "if something doesn't sound true, it probably isn't"
Nope. True story, he's a new manager so he knows his jobs at risk especially this early on.
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Nope. True story, he's a new manager so he knows his jobs at risk especially this early on.
Now, you just need to sort out the other one who gives you the shitty sections.
Strike while the irons hot.
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Now, you just need to sort out the other one who gives you the shitty sections.
Strike while the irons hot.
I'm saving that for tomorrow. It's just me him and one other server in the morning so I'm going to call him out for his bullshit and let you all know what he says.
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I'm saving that for tomorrow. It's just me him and one other server in the morning so I'm going to call him out for his bullshit and let you all know what he says.
http://www.mcdonalds.com/us/en/careers.html
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Talked to him today after he made another insult towards and I told him to the corner to talk and he came over and I told him that I'm tired of the shit he says at work and if he has an actual problem with me then I have no problem taking this outside after we clock out. He then asked me if it was a threat and I said no that's what's going to happen if you don't stop, and try to fire me for this and I will go to the GM and say everything you have said to me in front of my other coworkers and they will back me up 100%. He apologized and promised it would never happen again
Fuckin' Finally!
Good going kid
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Talked to him today after he made another insult towards and I told him to the corner to talk and he came over and I told him that I'm tired of the shit he says at work and if he has an actual problem with me then I have no problem taking this outside after we clock out. He then asked me if it was a threat and I said no that's what's going to happen if you don't stop, and try to fire me for this and I will go to the GM and say everything you have said to me in front of my other coworkers and they will back me up 100%. He apologized and promised it would never happen again
Not sure if you are bullshiting us but it its true congrats !
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Not sure if you are bullshiting us but it its true congrats !
Not bullshitting at all. I just had enough of his insults and leaving work every day with less than 5 dollars in tips while everyone else makes bank. 2 more years of this shit then I can finally get a real job
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Way to go kev. ;)
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Anything else you need Getbig to help you with Kev?
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Anything else you need Getbig to help you with Kev?
Yes actually, one more boss to deal with then all will be good.
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Yes actually, one more boss to deal with then all will be good.
Kill this second one.
GetBig requires a blood sacrifice for its assistance
Cthulhu be praised
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Not bullshitting at all. I just had enough of his insults and leaving work every day with less than 5 dollars in tips while everyone else makes bank. 2 more years of this shit then I can finally get a real job
You sucked his dick
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Just go. There is nothing you can do to fix this situation. The longer you stay the more damaging to your confidence it will be.
There is no reason in the world to be around people who disrespect you, if you can find another job.
Exactly.
Get the hell out.
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Nope. True story, he's a new manager so he knows his jobs at risk especially this early on.
He's a new manager and he's talking shit to an employee who was working there before him?
A bit hard to believe.
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Since you worked it out with the manager is he going to stop banging your girlfriend or was that part of the peace treaty?
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Since you worked it out with the manager is he going to stop banging your girlfriend or was that part of the peace treaty?
they agreed upon DP as long as the balls do not touch
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they agreed upon DP as long as the balls do not touch
I would put plastic wrap around my sack to eliminate any accidental syncronized ball swing and collision. The plastic barrier will keep from voiding agreement.
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He's jealous of you, of what you look like. So he treats you like crap. You need to get a job where the boss is a female or a male that is there to work and not take his insecurities to his job or out on employees.
So true. Same shit I just went through. It ended badly regardless so he should get out asap
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(http://klipd.com/screenshots/d309b85567ead91e9b38c7ce733907bd-1.jpg)
"Things are gonna get awfully physical, and I don't think you want that".
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Ha! Where in the fuck is that from again
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Ha! Where in the fuck is that from again
kevthekid talking to his boss.
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kevthekid talking to his boss.
Serious though hats killin me right now!!
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Not bullshitting at all. I just had enough of his insults and leaving work every day with less than 5 dollars in tips while everyone else makes bank. 2 more years of this shit then I can finally get a real job
have you considered becoming an entrepreneur? You could make a website called kev nutraceuticals or kev fitness. Some entrepreneurs get rich and eat chicken breast almost every day.
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The job sucks but if it is your best option at the moment I would continue. Btw, can't you find some shitty security job where you sit on your ass all day or night (part time of course) and get paid for studying your college work? Anyways, go to the GM and air it out. Your manager will likely be looking for a way to get rid of your at this point. Likely claiming you are taking cash or something of that nature. At a more legitimate business, you would go to human resources, and the person your manager reports to and air it out. You have witnesses. Work place bullying and harassment are hot topic these days. If he is new he is still on probation. The guy is fucked! Don't talk about taking things outside. That is a threat, and you can be fucked for it.
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I used to wait tables and usually wound up dating a fellow server who the manager desperately wanted to bang but couldn't. So he'd take shit out on me much like your manager is doing. There's only two options: Go over his head and speak to the owner and tell him that the manager is sexually harassing your girlfriend and retaliating against you or QUIT.
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Yeah worst part is I work with my girl and he takes everything she does out on me too. The other day she forgot to dump out the tea and wash the container so instead of telling her, he tells me to go scrub it for 10 minutes solely because I'm her boyfriend. We also have a man that comes in once a month and he tips so much money (over 100 dollars) that they have a list on which server gets him next. I was supposed to be next on the list but he skipped me and gave it to a guy who had just had him then gave it to my girl today and claimed he completely forgot about me. The worst part is he seats me the very old and cheap tippers and Asians/Blacks because he thinks they don't tip well and thinks I don't notice. Then when I got a big table a few days ago (15 people) he tells me that my girl will be taking 5 of them because it's a big table and then yesterday a table of 14 comes in and he gives it to my girl and tells me not to go near that table because she can handle it on her own.
This is going to prove to be prophetic. Tip: Don't kiss her after her shift unless she douches out her mouth.
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Take your phone out one day and record him talking to you like that, video not just audio. Show him the recording, then show your attorney. Get paid son. lol. Who's laughing now bitch.
That said...If I ever had a boss addressed me like that, I'd pop the trunk on his ass. Fuck that shit.
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I used to wait tables and usually wound up dating a fellow server who the manager desperately wanted to bang but couldn't. So he'd take shit out on me much like your manager is doing. There's only two options: Go over his head and speak to the owner and tell him that the manager is sexually harassing your girlfriend and retaliating against you or QUIT.
Yeah that's what happened to me at my old job. The bartender took one of my coworkers on a date and she rejected him then ended up going out with me. Long story short he found out I banged her 2 weeks later then went to the owner (his uncle) and told him I was drinking on the job which I wasn't and he fired me.
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So I'm in college and work at a restaurant in a country club and I have 2 bosses. i have been picked on and singled out for about a good 2 months now by one particular boss, he'll say things like "you know I worry for you because I don't think you'll ever make it in life" or "you are the biggest idiot I've ever met" "your girlfriend must be awesome at making life choices for dating you" "you have got to be fucking kidding me how much stupider can you get" and more comments like that. They are giving me the empty/never seated sections of the restaurant and give me tables that don't tip a lot. Also I have the lowest hourly out of every server, even a new person there who got hired a month after me got a higher starting pay for no reason. How do I deal with this situation. My other boss is the one who gives me horrible sections and then I get blamed for everything even if it has nothing to with me like someone forgetting to do their side work before they leave.
Dude, tell him to fuck off and QUIT. It's just a part-time job. You can find another one where you won't have to deal with that kind of abuse. School is stressful enough. You don't need that kind of pressure on top of it.
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Take your phone out one day and record him talking to you like that, video not just audio. Show him the recording, then show your attorney. Get paid son. lol. Who's laughing now bitch.
That said...If I ever had a boss addressed me like that, I'd pop the trunk on his ass. Fuck that shit.
And show him your never used, deluxe spare tire? :)
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So I'm in college and work at a restaurant in a country club and I have 2 bosses. i have been picked on and singled out for about a good 2 months now by one particular boss, he'll say things like "you know I worry for you because I don't think you'll ever make it in life" or "you are the biggest idiot I've ever met" "your girlfriend must be awesome at making life choices for dating you" "you have got to be fucking kidding me how much stupider can you get" and more comments like that. They are giving me the empty/never seated sections of the restaurant and give me tables that don't tip a lot. Also I have the lowest hourly out of every server, even a new person there who got hired a month after me got a higher starting pay for no reason. How do I deal with this situation. My other boss is the one who gives me horrible sections and then I get blamed for everything even if it has nothing to with me like someone forgetting to do their side work before they leave.
I love your boss.
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If I ever had a boss dumb enough to think he could treat me like shit I would rip my shirt off and bust into a side tricep shot followed up immediately by a most muscular with my tongue out.
That will put any boss in their place quickly and show them who the real boss is.
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If it was a chick, even an average 4-5 out of 10, start running some game and giving her sly smiles, telling shit jokes and comment on how she's looking fit (and hot if you're really game). Then ask her about her weekends, lie about going to the same bars or clubs as her, saying something suggestive like "might see you there one weekend", suss out when she's actually gonna be at one of these said clubs, tune her, act like she's the hottest chick in the joint, listen to her bullshit stories and buy her a drink (only one or two, don't go overboard) and get her home and bang her! You might find out that her bitchyness and 'wraggy' attitude equates to her being a demon in the sack! I've found that the hardest chicks to handle with the shortest attitudes in the workplace are just in need of a good fuck!
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If it was a chick, even an average 4-5 out of 10, start running some game and giving her sly smiles, telling shit jokes and comment on how she's looking fit (and hot if you're really game). Then ask her about her weekends, lie about going to the same bars or clubs as her, saying something suggestive like "might see you there one weekend", suss out when she's actually gonna be at one of these said clubs, tune her, act like she's the hottest chick in the joint, listen to her bullshit stories and buy her a drink (only one or two, don't go overboard) and get her home and bang her! You might find out that her bitchyness and 'wraggy' attitude equates to her being a demon in the sack! I've found that the hardest chicks to handle with the shortest attitudes in the workplace are just in need of a good fuck!
I think you are looking for bb.com with this stupid "game" shit.
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have you considered becoming an entrepreneur? You could make a website called kev nutraceuticals or kev fitness. Some entrepreneurs get rich and eat chicken breast almost every day.
Or how about something truly innovative like Kaliver Fitness?
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Might consider murder, but I'd recommend handling it yourself. Too many blabbermouth hitmen these days spilling their guts to The First 48.