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Title: Being More Positive
Post by: evacnam on February 20, 2021, 09:14:07 AM
So over the last while I have worked hard on being more positive

well fuck that. No matter how hard I try, people are assholes and the world is a shitty place, and I dont wanna try anymore.
No, it doesnt mean Im outing peoples info on here and being old me on here. I like it here and Im not fucking that up

Lets just say I wouldnt be 1% shocked if by September I was back in jail for a short stay.  Kind of curious what its like now compared to when I was in 20 years ago, but want to stay out for the summer.
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: joswift on February 20, 2021, 09:18:37 AM
people deep down are all c,,unts

They only maitain a facade of pleasentnees and geniality...

Every single person on this planet has the capebaility of being a camp guard at Aushwitz.
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: evacnam on February 20, 2021, 09:24:26 AM
people deep down are all c,,unts

They only maitain a facade of pleasentnees and geniality...

Every single person on this planet has the capebaility of being a camp guard at Aushwitz.

they really are. I dont maintain that facade, Im just a straight up asshole to them. I always wonder if this phoniness existed to this level pre internet era
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: BossBoss on February 20, 2021, 09:26:50 AM
"No matter how hard I try, people are assholes"

what happened?
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: Kwon on February 20, 2021, 09:27:17 AM
So over the last while I have worked hard on being more positive

well fuck that. No matter how hard I try, people are assholes and the world is a shitty place, and I dont wanna try anymore.
No, it doesnt mean Im outing peoples info on here and being old me on here. I like it here and Im not fucking that up

Lets just say I wouldnt be 1% shocked if by September I was back in jail for a short stay.  Kind of curious what its like now compared to when I was in 20 years ago, but want to stay out for the summer.

No matter how good one may feel with oneself (centered) there will always be assholes and delinquents that do not respect humanity one bit and it does not matter how good you are or how good you have been to others, there will still be assholes and world can be shit.

You notice it even more when getting older, back when i was in my twenties nothing bothered me one bit, but i have changed (and many others), but what's important is also that the world/society has changed since our heyday.

Back in my 20s i was an idealist who believed in Karma and tried to do good and be good.

Today i am (in general) a bitter old man that has lost faith in humanity/mankind.

There are just too many untermensch in the world, testing my patience.
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: evacnam on February 20, 2021, 09:29:33 AM
No matter how good one may feel with oneself (centered) there will always be assholes and delinquents that do not respect humanity one bit and it does not matter how good you are or how good you have been to others, there will still be assholes and world can be shit.

You notice it even more when getting older, back when i was in my twenties nothing bothered me one bit, but i have changed (and many others), but what's important is also that the world/society has changed since our heyday.

Back in my 20s i was an idealist who believed in Karma and tried to do good and be good.

Today i am (in general) a bitter old man that has lost faith in humanity/mankind.

There are just too many untermensch in the world, testing my patience.

youre old?
I thought you were like 20 or something
that threw me for a loop
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: Kwon on February 20, 2021, 09:31:27 AM
youre old?
I thought you were like 20 or something
that threw me for a loop

LOL i've been here on the forums since 2003 (joined back when i was training and didn't have any injuries).


Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: robcguns on February 20, 2021, 09:32:29 AM
I hear ya, I tried the positive thing on here a few times and it went alright but fuck it all.
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: evacnam on February 20, 2021, 09:33:11 AM
what happened?

a lot of it is how phony people are on social media
manners and common sense in real life are gone out the window
even though I am an introvert this phony covid garbage has got me on edge. Yes I believe it is a hard flu, but I dont believe the world economy had to be shut down

if this covid garbage is still going full steam at the end of this year ill be long gone in jail or the psych ward. Granted, I really like the ward, its full on entertainment
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: evacnam on February 20, 2021, 09:33:56 AM
LOL i've been here on the forums since 2003 (joined back when i was training and didn't have any injuries).

I had no idea. Sorry I was a dick in the other thread, Im just in a pissy mood
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: wes on February 20, 2021, 09:35:58 AM
People suck.............one reason why I keep to myself.
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: Kwon on February 20, 2021, 09:36:40 AM
People suck.............one reason why I keep to myself.

We still love ya on here though Fresh Wes!
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: falco on February 20, 2021, 09:38:22 AM
I started counseling. Last years i noticed i am becoming negative and hopeless. Its not how i perceived life when i was 30.
Being negative makes others stay away from you, like you have the stink of death or something.
I hope it works, need to get my head straight.
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: wes on February 20, 2021, 09:40:11 AM
We still love ya on here though Fresh Wes!
Luv ya` too my friend!!

( complete and total homo )   :D
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: evacnam on February 20, 2021, 09:41:18 AM
I started counseling. Last years i noticed i am becoming negative and hopeless. Its not how i perceived life when i was 30.
Being negative makes others stay away from you, like you have the stink of death or something.
I hope it works, need to get my head straight.

Ive seen soooo many younger people like yourself just deep in a negative and hopeless state. Its hard to be positive for younger people this day and age. Im glad Im older. Hope you get better
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: robcguns on February 20, 2021, 09:46:02 AM
Luv ya` too my friend!!

( complete and total homo )   :D

This is getbig, complete and total homo goes without saying.

Hahaha love all you fuckers even Pellius.
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: Kwon on February 20, 2021, 09:47:58 AM
I started counseling. Last years i noticed i am becoming negative and hopeless. Its not how i perceived life when i was 30.
Being negative makes others stay away from you, like you have the stink of death or something.
I hope it works, need to get my head straight.

Wait til you're closing in on 50 or 60.

Hoping for you falco.
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: BossBoss on February 20, 2021, 10:04:57 AM
a lot of it is how phony people are on social media

delete your Account.
social media is fake.

Not a good place for people like you.


manners and common sense in real life are gone out the window
even though I am an introvert

this phony covid garbage has got me on edge. Yes I believe it is a hard flu, but I dont believe the world economy had to be shut down

if this covid garbage is still going full steam at the end of this year ill be long gone in jail or the psych ward. Granted, I really like the ward, its full on entertainment

Try learn a new thing.
There is incredible stuff you can learn online.
Read one book per week.

That is what is helping me, a positive perspective.

If you learn a new thing and experience that you are getting better at it,
that is a extremely satisfying feeling.

It makes happy and bad thought processes change. 
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: wes on February 20, 2021, 10:13:03 AM
This is getbig, complete and total homo goes without saying.

Hahaha love all you fuckers even Pellius.
LOL  ;D
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: funk51 on February 20, 2021, 10:20:53 AM
&t=96s    there are still some good people left in this world........ but they are few and far between.
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: robcguns on February 20, 2021, 10:25:50 AM
&t=96s    there are still some good people left in this world........ but they are few and far between.

Dice was great. Was just listening to one of his shows a few days ago.
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: LurkerNoMore on February 20, 2021, 10:27:41 AM

if this covid garbage is still going full steam at the end of this year ill be long gone in jail or the psych ward. Granted, I really like the ward, its full on entertainment

Some people claim it is harder to get out of pysch than it is to get out of jail.
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: evacnam on February 20, 2021, 10:48:47 AM
Some people claim it is harder to get out of pysch than it is to get out of jail.

Jail you have statutory release. Psych not so much for severe cases.
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: Taffin on February 20, 2021, 11:13:32 AM
Some people claim it is harder to get out of pysch than it is to get out of jail.

If you can get past Jon Ronson making your flesh creep, this is quite an interesting look at that subject



Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: evacnam on February 20, 2021, 11:34:24 AM
If you can get past Jon Ronson making your flesh creep, this is quite an interesting look at that subject



kind of an interesting guy. Its tough to get in the ward from jail here. When I was in jail I saw some people with extreme mental disorders who absolutely should have been in the ward.
I was in Saskatchewan Hospital in North Battleford in the Forensic Ward which is for extreme criminals who lean towards very high levels of violence. It actually had a few women in there. There was this one gal, last name was Nicotine, she was full on batshit and violent. All of us guys were terrified of her lolol. We were anywhere from high level assault to murder, and this 5 foot 2 woman could put the fear of god into us. It was before they built the new hospital, and this place was OLD. There were the concrete wall/steel bar rooms in the basement for the extremely mentally ill, and some wouldnt have toilets or faucets because they would drink the water from them to essentially get drunk, some kind of electrolyte issue. The forensic unit even had the full on padded room for when a person went ballistic, and I made it in there a couple times.

The one cool thing was the bathtub was a large jet tub. Anyways, I used it this one time and was feeling frisky, so I crack one off with way too much shampoo while the jets were on and the fucking soap is everywhere due to the jets/shampoo combo. It was literally all over the floor going under the door. But hey, I was in there cause I was crazy, so I thought let them clean it up. Good times
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: LurkerNoMore on February 20, 2021, 11:44:19 AM
kind of an interesting guy. Its tough to get in the ward from jail here. When I was in jail I saw some people with extreme mental disorders who absolutely should have been in the ward.
I was in Saskatchewan Hospital in North Battleford in the Forensic Ward which is for extreme criminals who lean towards very high levels of violence. It actually had a few women in there. There was this one gal, last name was Nicotine, she was full on batshit and violent. All of us guys were terrified of her lolol. We were anywhere from high level assault to murder, and this 5 foot 2 woman could put the fear of god into us. It was before they built the new hospital, and this place was OLD. There were the concrete wall/steel bar rooms in the basement for the extremely mentally ill, and some wouldnt have toilets or faucets because they would drink the water from them to essentially get drunk, some kind of electrolyte issue. The forensic unit even had the full on padded room for when a person went ballistic, and I made it in there a couple times.

The one cool thing was the bathtub was a large jet tub. Anyways, I used it this one time and was feeling frisky, so I crack one off with way too much shampoo while the jets were on and the fucking soap is everywhere due to the jets/shampoo combo. It was literally all over the floor going under the door. But hey, I was in there cause I was crazy, so I thought let them clean it up. Good times

You sure that wasn't ESF in a wig?
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: pamith on February 20, 2021, 02:38:20 PM
You gotta be more positive
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: evacnam on February 20, 2021, 02:41:41 PM
You gotta be more positive

shut up fatass and get drinking, turn on some metal
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: TheShape. on February 20, 2021, 03:10:14 PM
The power of positive thinking is an amazing thing but it’s about being at peace with yourself, the world can be a dark and miserable place but there’s no reason to live like all the rest of those cookie cutters.
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: Walter Sobchak on February 20, 2021, 04:07:56 PM
So over the last while I have worked hard on being more positive

well fuck that. No matter how hard I try, people are assholes and the world is a shitty place, and I dont wanna try anymore.
No, it doesnt mean Im outing peoples info on here and being old me on here. I like it here and Im not fucking that up

Lets just say I wouldnt be 1% shocked if by September I was back in jail for a short stay.  Kind of curious what its like now compared to when I was in 20 years ago, but want to stay out for the summer.

You need to try to stop looking at being positive as something you’re doing for other people or to fit into society better.

Be positive and have an improved outlook on life solely for you.

Think of it like this...you know how your dog is always happy to see you and doesn’t care at all what’s going on in the world? Even though you know differently, use that same type of naive innocence and lack of perception your dog has naturally, to filter all the bullshit out of your life. Even though you know the bullshit and assholes exist, don’t give it/them any control over your life.

Instead of pushing back through arguing or stewing over other people’s stupidity....counter it with a complete lack of disregard, make it so insignificant to you that it doesn’t even register.
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: Taffin on February 20, 2021, 04:22:49 PM
kind of an interesting guy. Its tough to get in the ward from jail here. When I was in jail I saw some people with extreme mental disorders who absolutely should have been in the ward.
I was in Saskatchewan Hospital in North Battleford in the Forensic Ward which is for extreme criminals who lean towards very high levels of violence. It actually had a few women in there. There was this one gal, last name was Nicotine, she was full on batshit and violent. All of us guys were terrified of her lolol. We were anywhere from high level assault to murder, and this 5 foot 2 woman could put the fear of god into us. It was before they built the new hospital, and this place was OLD. There were the concrete wall/steel bar rooms in the basement for the extremely mentally ill, and some wouldnt have toilets or faucets because they would drink the water from them to essentially get drunk, some kind of electrolyte issue. The forensic unit even had the full on padded room for when a person went ballistic, and I made it in there a couple times.

The one cool thing was the bathtub was a large jet tub. Anyways, I used it this one time and was feeling frisky, so I crack one off with way too much shampoo while the jets were on and the fucking soap is everywhere due to the jets/shampoo combo. It was literally all over the floor going under the door. But hey, I was in there cause I was crazy, so I thought let them clean it up. Good times

Gotta admit that made my eyebrows raise there!  :o  ;D

Tell me to fvck off and mind my own business if this is too nosy, but I'm unlikely to get a similar opportunity any time soon, so:  was a straitjacket involved..?

And can you remember why Nicotine was in there?
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: evacnam on February 20, 2021, 04:31:07 PM
Gotta admit that made my eyebrows raise there!  :o  ;D

Tell me to fvck off and mind my own business if this is too nosy, but I'm unlikely to get a similar opportunity any time soon, so:  was a straitjacket involved..?

And can you remember why Nicotine was in there?

nono--no straightjacket, but Ive been strapped to the nuthouse bed numerous times. Ive never sewed myself up with guitar string so Im afraid I dont have those level of stories  :D

Nicotine, well, we could make pages of her crimes, but heres a sample complete with pic

In the Saskatchewan incidents, Nicotine separately held a nurse and a correctional officer hostage while armed with a knife in one case and a pen in another. ... Nicotine is serving a life sentence for the 1997 murder of a North Battleford, Sask. group home operator committed when she was 15
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: evacnam on February 20, 2021, 04:35:49 PM
Serena Nicotine, a twice-convicted killer who has been described as one of Canada's most dangerous female inmates, is facing new charges after holding another inmate hostage with a pair of eyeglasses in the Edmonton courthouse last month.

man this gal is gold.
Im just thankful she didnt kill me at North Battleford
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: Taffin on February 20, 2021, 04:38:13 PM
Yowser!!  :o


Extreme bad girl Serena Nicotine is like the MacGyver of prison hostage takers.

The "creative and cunning" convicted killer has used a variety of unusual objects as weapons -- including a pair of glasses, a pop can, a pen and a piece of glass -- during the seven hostage takings she has now been convicted of.

On Friday, when the 31-year-old Nicotine pleaded guilty to her sixth and seventh hostage taking, Provincial Court Judge Shelagh Creagh spoke of her "taking innocuous items and turning them into dangerous weapons."
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: Marty Champions on February 20, 2021, 04:52:34 PM
Life will always be a battery, postive charge negative charge and battery acid
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: tommywishbone on February 20, 2021, 04:59:25 PM
people deep down are all c,,unts

They only maitain a facade of pleasentnees and geniality...

Every single person on this planet has the capebaility of being a camp guard at Aushwitz.

They closed Aushwitz in April 1945 so your analogy is invalid sir.
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: joswift on February 21, 2021, 01:55:23 AM
They closed Aushwitz in April 1945 so your analogy is invalid sir.

Wont be long before they are opening similar camps again to lock up people who refuse Coivid vaccines, and cant you just see people queuing up to be gurads at those with all the bile and hatred shown towards people who dont want a vaccine?
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: robcguns on February 21, 2021, 03:43:22 PM
Yowser!!  :o


Extreme bad girl Serena Nicotine is like the MacGyver of prison hostage takers.

The "creative and cunning" convicted killer has used a variety of unusual objects as weapons -- including a pair of glasses, a pop can, a pen and a piece of glass -- during the seven hostage takings she has now been convicted of.

On Friday, when the 31-year-old Nicotine pleaded guilty to her sixth and seventh hostage taking, Provincial Court Judge Shelagh Creagh spoke of her "taking innocuous items and turning them into dangerous weapons."


It must be pretty cool to be legit insane and nothing matters so you just do whatever you feel. Hahahaha.
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: evacnam on February 21, 2021, 03:52:04 PM
It must be pretty cool to be legit insane and nothing matters so you just do whatever you feel. Hahahaha.

Im gonna find out where she is being held and write to her, tell her she has a fan club on getbig.
Ive written to prisoners before, but she should be an adventure


slim pickings http://www.canadianinmatesconnect.com/female_inmates_1.html
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: ThisisOverload on February 21, 2021, 04:13:36 PM
You need to try to stop looking at being positive as something you’re doing for other people or to fit into society better.

Be positive and have an improved outlook on life solely for you.

Think of it like this...you know how your dog is always happy to see you and doesn’t care at all what’s going on in the world? Even though you know differently, use that same type of naive innocence and lack of perception your dog has naturally, to filter all the bullshit out of your life. Even though you know the bullshit and assholes exist, don’t give it/them any control over your life.

Instead of pushing back through arguing or stewing over other people’s stupidity....counter it with a complete lack of disregard, make it so insignificant to you that it doesn’t even register.

This is how i feel these days. With all the negativity i just ignore it and try to be happy. At the end of day you can't change people, so why ruin your day trying? I noticed that when i stopped instigating problems most of them went away. Most people are easy to ignore.

The problem with the internet age is that people are not held accountable for talking shit and acting all tough. It used to be if you ran your mouth or started shit with someone they were likely to show up to your house and/or place of work to straighten it out.

Online you can run your mouth and act all tough, because you know there are no consequences. There needs to be consequences.

You don't always have control over everything, but you ALWAYS have control over your attitude.
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: evacnam on February 21, 2021, 05:29:18 PM
You need to try to stop looking at being positive as something you’re doing for other people or to fit into society better.

Be positive and have an improved outlook on life solely for you.

Think of it like this...you know how your dog is always happy to see you and doesn’t care at all what’s going on in the world? Even though you know differently, use that same type of naive innocence and lack of perception your dog has naturally, to filter all the bullshit out of your life. Even though you know the bullshit and assholes exist, don’t give it/them any control over your life.

Instead of pushing back through arguing or stewing over other people’s stupidity....counter it with a complete lack of disregard, make it so insignificant to you that it doesn’t even register.

meh Ill be positive this week and miserable the next
sometimes peoples stupidity will bother me and sometimes it wont
its the up and down world I live in within my head
Ill behave on here though, other than mocking coach's stupidity
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: Bevo on February 21, 2021, 06:02:16 PM
nono--no straightjacket, but Ive been strapped to the nuthouse bed numerous times. Ive never sewed myself up with guitar string so Im afraid I dont have those level of stories  :D

Nicotine, well, we could make pages of her crimes, but heres a sample complete with pic

In the Saskatchewan incidents, Nicotine separately held a nurse and a correctional officer hostage while armed with a knife in one case and a pen in another. ... Nicotine is serving a life sentence for the 1997 murder of a North Battleford, Sask. group home operator committed when she was 15

She looks pretty hot there

Would hit, raw, no condom, no pull out
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: oldtimer1 on February 21, 2021, 06:36:32 PM
Just read about her. She is criminally insane. A real monster.
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: robcguns on February 21, 2021, 07:14:39 PM
Im gonna find out where she is being held and write to her, tell her she has a fan club on getbig.
Ive written to prisoners before, but she should be an adventure


slim pickings http://www.canadianinmatesconnect.com/female_inmates_1.html

Hahah, do it,maybe she gets computer time and can come join us and probably blend right in.
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: ThisisOverload on February 21, 2021, 08:17:22 PM
In all seriousness, get her address and i'll send some fan mail. ;)
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: evacnam on February 21, 2021, 08:20:42 PM
In all seriousness, get her address and i'll send some fan mail. ;)

I will 100% find something out tomorrow
Im guessing she is in either Pine Grove or Sask Psychiatric in Saskatoon
Title: Re: Being More Positive
Post by: robcguns on February 22, 2021, 03:56:45 AM
I find being positive works in getting things and making money but being positive with regards to people just doesn’t work well cause most people are assholes and positivity is lost on them.So if wanting things being positive will help to manifest them other than that I think positivity is overrated.
That said being positive is prob very good for your own health.