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Title: It Was Hard
Post by: King Shizzo on February 17, 2022, 12:44:12 PM
My brother, my sister, and I, have just finished cleaning out my parents house. I'm exhausted.

We have a professional cleaning crew coming in, to make it look good. I have to go sign the closing papers tomorrow. The neighbors a few houses down, actually bought the house.

They have a step daughter and her husband that was living with them. Now, they have their own house, close by.

It's just a mind fuck looking at old photo albums, and realizing that this is really it.

I was looking at one of bhanks threads, and noticed that my parents had their house built in 2004 as well. I really don't think it has sunk in yet.

I watched the Superbowl for the first time without my father. My mother died on Superbowl Sunday last February.

Growing old sucks.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: ThisisOverload on February 17, 2022, 12:49:08 PM
Life is a bitch.

It's all in how you handle it dude.

You get used to it after a while.

Or dwell on it until you die.

At least you have siblings.

Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Tennisballz on February 17, 2022, 12:49:12 PM
Growing old sucks less if you workout.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: GymnJuice on February 17, 2022, 12:52:08 PM
Growing old sucks.

Beats the alternative...
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: webstar on February 17, 2022, 12:56:30 PM
Good thing you came online to post here.

Your E- friends will be a shoulder to cry on. Like its 2005 during the forum days

real question, do you have real friends? or are you one of those guys that sits and plays call of duty all day making "friends" on Redditt?
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: King Shizzo on February 17, 2022, 12:59:44 PM
Beats the alternative...
It depends. Somebody once told me something that stuck....

They sad: "have you ever noticed why some elderly people are so cranky?"

"It's because they have lived long enough to see the majority of their family and friends die."

If I live long enough (knock on wood) I will likely see the death of all my aunt's and uncles. I've only got one grandma left, and she is in her 80's.

If I could go back into the past to cherish our Christmas gatherings and Thanksgiving holidays, just a bit more. You don't know what you got until it's gone.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: King Shizzo on February 17, 2022, 01:02:41 PM
Good thing you came online to post here.

Your E- friends will be a shoulder to cry on. Like its 2005 during the forum days

real question, do you have real friends? or are you one of those guys that sits and plays call of duty all day making "friends" on Redditt?
You post on here more than I do, pal.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: joswift on February 17, 2022, 01:03:56 PM
thinking about sad things shouldnt give you an erection....
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: King Shizzo on February 17, 2022, 01:04:57 PM
thinking about sad things shouldnt give you an erection....
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: ThisisOverload on February 17, 2022, 01:07:24 PM
It depends. Somebody once told me something that stuck....

They sad: "have you ever noticed why some elderly people are so cranky?"

"It's because they have lived long enough to see the majority of their family and friends die."

If I live long enough (knock on wood) I will likely see the death of all my aunt's and uncles. I've only got one grandma left, and she is in her 80's.

If I could go back into the past to cherish our Christmas gatherings and Thanksgiving holidays, just a bit more. You don't know what you got until it's gone.

So old people who aren't assholes didn't have relatives die?

My 92 year old grandma is the nicest lady you would ever meet. I haven't seen her cranky ever in my life.

My grandfather died when i was 4 years old. The other when i was 12.

Barely even knew them.

Life is about perspective, which you are struggling with.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Rascal full on February 17, 2022, 01:08:25 PM
Sorry to hear about this Shizzo you have my best wishes.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: King Shizzo on February 17, 2022, 01:12:12 PM
So old people who aren't assholes didn't have relatives die?

My 92 year old grandma is the nicest lady you would ever meet. I haven't seen her cranky ever in my life.

My grandfather died when i was 4 years old. The other when i was 12.

Barely even knew them.

Life is about perspective, which you are struggling with.
You could be right. But I guess it also is based on how close you are to your family.

I had a conversation with my brother a few years back. I told him (At the time) that we had been extremely lucky, when it came to deaths in the family. I said "unfortunately, it's only going to get worse from here."

Little did I know, that the house of cards was just waiting to fall.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Taffin on February 17, 2022, 01:12:28 PM
thinking about sad things shouldnt give you an erection....

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Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: webstar on February 17, 2022, 01:12:47 PM
You post on here more than I do, pal.

you posted on here for members attention.

You want people  to say:

Stay Strong
Keep you head up
etc etc.


you are no different from the chicks on IG who post a half naked picture but say this is me without make up..
GTFO

Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: LurkerNoMore on February 17, 2022, 01:17:11 PM
It depends. Somebody once told me something that stuck....

They sad: "have you ever noticed why some elderly people are so cranky?"

"It's because they have lived long enough to see the majority of their family and friends die."

If I live long enough (knock on wood) I will likely see the death of all my aunt's and uncles. I've only got one grandma left, and she is in her 80's.

If I could go back into the past to cherish our Christmas gatherings and Thanksgiving holidays, just a bit more. You don't know what you got until it's gone.

You don't want that.  That's not good.  Maybe you should just die now.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: King Shizzo on February 17, 2022, 01:17:25 PM
you posted on here for members attention.

You want people  to say:

Stay Strong
Keep you head up
etc etc.


you are no different from the chicks on IG who post a half naked picture but say this is me without make up..
GTFO
You aren't going to ruffle my feathers.

I've been to the bottom. You are just a fly.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: King Shizzo on February 17, 2022, 01:20:54 PM
You don't want that.  That's not good.  Maybe you should just die now.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: webstar on February 17, 2022, 01:22:11 PM
You aren't going to ruffle my feathers.

I've been to the bottom. You are just a fly.

is this before or after you wanted online people to mourn your death?
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: King Shizzo on February 17, 2022, 01:29:39 PM
is this before or after you wanted online people to mourn your death?
Your psycho babble has little effect.

Getbig, is a place for entertainment. Sometimes it goes to the edge. It's no different than a shock comic on stage.

It just showed that people cared about me. Especially Chaos.  ;)
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: bhank on February 17, 2022, 01:44:11 PM
It depends. Somebody once told me something that stuck....

They sad: "have you ever noticed why some elderly people are so cranky?"

"It's because they have lived long enough to see the majority of their family and friends die."

If I live long enough (knock on wood) I will likely see the death of all my aunt's and uncles. I've only got one grandma left, and she is in her 80's.

If I could go back into the past to cherish our Christmas gatherings and Thanksgiving holidays, just a bit more. You don't know what you got until it's gone.

Well you could meet a woman and start your own family that would outlive you vs worrying about your Aunts and Uncles dying in 20 years and leaving you alone. Almost everyone outlives all their Grandparents Aunts and Uncles but not their kids.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: joswift on February 17, 2022, 01:51:21 PM
Well you could meet a woman and start your own family that would outlive you vs worrying about your Aunts and Uncles dying in 20 years and leaving you alone. Almost everyone outlives all their Grandparents Aunts and Uncles but not their kids.

You are unlikely to see your kid in long trousers..
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: bhank on February 17, 2022, 01:54:22 PM
You are unlikely to see your kid in long trousers..

I just feel like I am so hard I can't be faded
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: joswift on February 17, 2022, 01:56:57 PM
I just feel like I am so hard I can't be faded

You have faded dramatically in the last 9 months, this time next year you wont be able to cast a shadow
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: B_B_C on February 17, 2022, 01:57:18 PM



Growing old sucks.


but you are busy seeking a solution
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Gym-Rat on February 17, 2022, 01:58:44 PM
get used to it, stop feeling sorry for yourself, everyone dies, circle of life
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: B_B_C on February 17, 2022, 02:03:37 PM

It just showed that people cared about me. Especially Chaos.  ;)

gosh
no wonder its hard for you
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Cook on February 17, 2022, 02:09:16 PM
Sorry to hear about this Shizzo you have my best wishes.
yes this from me also
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: King Shizzo on February 17, 2022, 02:22:46 PM
get used to it, stop feeling sorry for yourself, everyone dies, circle of life
Are You a robot? I get that time heals things, but I get the impression that you aren't that close to your family. That means a lot in the discussion that we are having.

If you genuinely love your family, it hurts when they die.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: rick doot on February 17, 2022, 02:25:38 PM
I just feel like I am so hard I can't be faded

What does this even mean?
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: wes on February 17, 2022, 02:30:57 PM
Acceptance come after a while Shizz....sometime it take a while though.....it ain`t easy.

Stay busy and remember...this too shall pass.

Good luck buddy.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: King Shizzo on February 17, 2022, 02:36:29 PM
Acceptance come after a while Shizz....sometime it take a while though.....it ain`t easy.

Stay busy and remember...this too shall pass.

Good luck buddy.
Thanks, Wes. I've literally never gone through this before.

Especially everybody at the same time.

Grandma, Father, and Mother, within 6 months.

That's fucked up, no matter how you slice it.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Henda on February 17, 2022, 02:38:54 PM
Sounds tough mate, death of a loved one never really gets “better” you just learn to deal with it and carry on with life but sorry to say there will always be a massive hole and it never goes away. Find some new things thst bring you some form of joy, it will never be a replacement more of a way to cope
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: bhank on February 17, 2022, 02:39:18 PM
What does this even mean?

In 1994 the documentary for Gang Wars Banging in Little Rock came out. It was supposed to hurt democratic candidate Bill Clinton as it showed little Rock was a Cesspool of violence gangs and drugs. When they interviewed the 17 year old leader of the drug dealing driveby committing crip gang how he became the leader and he said the old leader was shot and killed. They then asked him if he was worried he would be killed and he responded. "I just feel like I am so Hard I can't be Faded" not sure how the meaning is not self evident. Faded means killed he is saying he is so badass he is unkillable. In white boy getbig speak he is so strong he is invincible.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: King Shizzo on February 17, 2022, 02:41:16 PM
Sounds tough mate, death of a loved one never really gets “better” you just learn to deal with it and carry on with life but sorry to say there will always be a massive hole and it never goes away. Find some new things thst bring you some form of joy, it will never be a replacement more of a way to cope
Thanks, Henda.

I didn't mean for this to be a pity party, but besides my family, I need an outlet, or else I will go insane.

I appreciate your advice.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: ThisisOverload on February 17, 2022, 02:41:36 PM
You could be right. But I guess it also is based on how close you are to your family.

I had a conversation with my brother a few years back. I told him (At the time) that we had been extremely lucky, when it came to deaths in the family. I said "unfortunately, it's only going to get worse from here."

Little did I know, that the house of cards was just waiting to fall.

I'm from an old school country farm family. About as close as you can get.

The point i'm making is that you either learn how to deal with these things or they haunt you forever.

I learned how to manage things that are out of my control many years ago. It's something everyone needs to learn how to do.

Also, i've experienced some wild things in my life and learned to let things go.

You telling people about "how close you are makes a difference" is just your way of justifying your grief.

I should be charging you for giving you advice. It's obvious you just want to vent and get a few pats on the back. Which isn't going to help you at all.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Marty Champions on February 17, 2022, 02:43:49 PM
In our prayers shizzo
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Dave D on February 17, 2022, 02:45:46 PM
Thanks, Wes. I've literally never gone through this before.

Especially everybody at the same time.

Grandma, Father, and Mother, within 6 months.

That's fucked up, no matter how you slice it.

That’s rough, my condolences.

Don’t dwell on the negative, it could have been worse. You had them for 40 years, you were shortchanged but you were blessed to have your whole family for 40 years.  You could have lost them all in a car accident. Be grateful you were fortunate enoughto say your goodbyes.

Stay strong dude it will get better.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Gym-Rat on February 17, 2022, 02:49:00 PM
Are You a robot? I get that time heals things, but I get the impression that you aren't that close to your family. That means a lot in the discussion that we are having.

If you genuinely love your family, it hurts when they die.

im older and have lost many, so maybe desensitized a bit
remember all the good times with them
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: King Shizzo on February 17, 2022, 02:50:23 PM
I'm from an old school country farm family. About as close as you can get.

The point i'm making is that you either learn how to deal with these things or they haunt you forever.

I learned how to manage things that are out of my control many years ago. It's something everyone needs to learn how to do.

Also, i've experienced some wild things in my life and learned to let things go.

You telling people about "how close you are makes a difference" is just your way of justifying your grief.

I should be charging you for giving you advice. It's obvious you just want to vent and get a few pats on the back. Which isn't going to help you at all.
But it's not obvious about anything. "Pats on the back?" Are you serious? 

Pats on the back.....that's literally one of the worst things you can say in this situation.

What the fuck.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: ThisisOverload on February 17, 2022, 02:52:13 PM
But it's not obvious about anything. "Pats on the back?" Are you serious? 

Pats on the back.....that's literally one of the worst things you can say in this situation.

What the fuck.

You came here for sympathy.

I'm sorry if i offended you by pointing out the obvious.

I'll let you get back to your regular scheduled program. ;D
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: bhank on February 17, 2022, 02:53:41 PM
Let me break this down.

Shizzo you need a girlfriend. Maybe if you started working out you might find one easier?
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: King Shizzo on February 17, 2022, 02:59:06 PM
You came here for sympathy.

I'm sorry if i offended you by pointing out the obvious.

I'll let you get back to your regular scheduled program. ;D
I came here for advice from some smart ass people. Getbig, is a hub for some of the smartest people on the planet. As the fake King, I have navigated the treacherous waters for literally 18 years, and before that, on Muscle Mayhem.

I'm an OG.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: King Shizzo on February 17, 2022, 02:59:53 PM
Let me break this down.

Shizzo you need a girlfriend. Maybe if you started working out you might find one easier?
I just pay for them.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: bhank on February 17, 2022, 03:01:12 PM
I just pay for them.

Which is probably why you are a depressed fat drunk who doesn't even lift. Get a real girlfriend you will feel better
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: King Shizzo on February 17, 2022, 03:03:16 PM
Which is probably why you are a depressed fat drunk who doesn't even lift. Get a real girlfriend you will feel better
We all just pay for them.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: joswift on February 17, 2022, 03:03:50 PM
Which is probably why you are a depressed fat drunk who doesn't even lift. Get a real girlfriend you will feel better

What if she ends up filing restraining orders against him for no reason?
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Earl1972 on February 17, 2022, 03:05:04 PM
Which is probably why you are a depressed fat drunk who doesn't even lift. Get a real girlfriend you will feel better

a girl can also make him feel much worse, you can't count on a woman to make you happy and if he's depressed he is even less likely to get a girl to stick around

it's true what they say, happiness comes from within

E
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: joswift on February 17, 2022, 03:07:05 PM
a girl can also make him feel much worse, you can't count on a woman to make you happy and if he's depressed he is even less likely to get a girl to stick around

it's true what they say, happiness comes from within

E

an a penis goes in his mouth
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: King Shizzo on February 17, 2022, 03:10:57 PM
Which is probably why you are a depressed fat drunk who doesn't even lift. Get a real girlfriend you will feel better
I can sense it. You are literally on pins and needles.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: BB on February 17, 2022, 03:31:31 PM
In 1994 the documentary for Gang Wars Banging in Little Rock came out. It was supposed to hurt democratic candidate Bill Clinton as it showed little Rock was a Cesspool of violence gangs and drugs. When they interviewed the 17 year old leader of the drug dealing driveby committing crip gang how he became the leader and he said the old leader was shot and killed. They then asked him if he was worried he would be killed and he responded. "I just feel like I am so Hard I can't be Faded" not sure how the meaning is not self evident. Faded means killed he is saying he is so badass he is unkillable. In white boy getbig speak he is so strong he is invincible.

2 minutes in till about 3:15 -

.

Full part 1 -

.

Full part 2 -

.

Loved those old America Undercovers.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: King Shizzo on February 17, 2022, 03:35:25 PM
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Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: LurkerNoMore on February 17, 2022, 03:44:13 PM
In our prayers shizzo


No he’s not. 
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: BB on February 17, 2022, 03:45:40 PM
.

It's a Hankins thread now lil nigga, you just posting in it.

(P.S. Sorry for your losses).
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: AbrahamG on February 17, 2022, 03:46:12 PM
I haven't had a grand parent since 1995.  I've been an orphan since 2010.  In the last two years I've lost two cousins who were like brothers and my best friend of nearly 30 years.  It sucks and always will.  But what I will tell you is this.  Things do get better but they will never be the same.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: King Shizzo on February 17, 2022, 03:49:36 PM
I haven't had a grand parent since 1995.  I've been an orphan since 2010.  In the last two years I've lost two cousins who were like brothers and my best friend of nearly 30 years.  It sucks and always will.  But what I will tell you is this.  Things do get better but they will never be the same.
Meltdown.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: webstar on February 17, 2022, 03:52:00 PM
Let me break this down.

Shizzo you need a girlfriend. Maybe if you started working out you might find one easier?

That will be hard.

He is a pickle kisser.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Matt on February 17, 2022, 03:56:01 PM
My brother, my sister, and I, have just finished cleaning out my parents house. I'm exhausted.

We have a professional cleaning crew coming in, to make it look good. I have to go sign the closing papers tomorrow. The neighbors a few houses down, actually bought the house.

They have a step daughter and her husband that was living with them. Now, they have their own house, close by.

It's just a mind fuck looking at old photo albums, and realizing that this is really it.

I was looking at one of bhanks threads, and noticed that my parents had their house built in 2004 as well. I really don't think it has sunk in yet.

I watched the Superbowl for the first time without my father. My mother died on Superbowl Sunday last February.

Growing old sucks.

This sucks.

This is also why I don't personally feel life has any value. Why would anyone want to come alive [be born], only to live through losses like this? To me, NOTHING makes up for that degree of loss - nothing!

I don't expect people to agree with me on this. My unvaccinated father came down with Covid last month [January 20th]. It hit him pretty hard [he's 63, and eats too many carbohydrates, IMO]. Since the hospital refused to do ANYTHING for him except to tell him to come back when he is blue in the face.  ::)

I had to seriously contemplate what would happen if he died.

This is why I don't want to have any close relationships. Who wants to experience loss like that?  ???

What I'm saying is for me, I'd rather not have any relationships than go through that. I'd rather not exist than experience these sorts of losses in life. And I say that being "privileged" - I had all my grandparents alive until I was 30, and still have my mom's mom, now at 40. She lives up the road. She will be 90 in September.

So I'm lucky, I'll give myself that.

But I wouldn't wish what you just went through on anyone, King Shizzo. And what's more is that EVERYONE has to eventually go through it.

To me, it's just not worth it.

Good luck with everything, King. I hope your pain stops here.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: webstar on February 17, 2022, 04:06:52 PM
What if she ends up filing restraining orders against him for no reason?

Lmaoooo

Or texts them constantly and does not respect restraining orders
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: AbrahamG on February 17, 2022, 04:35:58 PM
Meltdown.

Yet I'm not the fat sucker of cocks as well as my own sisters nicotine titties who's on here attention whoring.  Meltdown.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: King Shizzo on February 17, 2022, 04:39:47 PM
Yet I'm not the fat sucker of cocks as well as my own sisters nicotine titties who's on here attention whoring.  Meltdown.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Walter Sobchak on February 17, 2022, 04:48:07 PM
Fellow Getbigger,

It is during times like this, when dealing with the loss of loved ones, that you must take consolation in the fact that…..at least you’re not Shizzo.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: LurkerNoMore on February 17, 2022, 05:47:14 PM
It seems like the wrong ones in Shitso’s family are dying. 
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: OAK on February 17, 2022, 06:04:51 PM
Sorry to hear.

🙁
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Rusty Trombone on February 17, 2022, 07:01:34 PM
....
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Redux on February 17, 2022, 07:40:48 PM
Shizzo, stop being so self-centered.
You think it's hard to bury your parents?
Just imagine how hard it was for them to bury their child after your car crash.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Henda on February 17, 2022, 11:21:44 PM
Think about getting a dog mate, they great company, gets you out the house in walks and female dog walkers will actually say hello and talk to you. Again it’s not trying to replace anything it’s just something new to enjoy and fill in your time
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Primemuscle on February 18, 2022, 12:15:16 AM
We all just pay for them.

This perspective is your choice. I am guessing you've not yet had a loving relationship where romantic partners are equals and in the ways they are not, each fills the gaps for the other, like hands in a glove.

I am so sorry COVID took out your family. Clearing out their property after they've passed is something I have not experienced to the degree that you have. It took me a year to donate my wife's clothing, most of which went to a battered women's shelter she supported throughout many years. Hope you and the rest of your family kept some meaningful objects they had to remember them by.

Cherish the memories. It is time for you to look forward. Easy to say...hard to do. 

Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Rusty Trombone on February 18, 2022, 05:30:50 AM

No he’s not.

Fellow Getbigger,

It is during times like this, when dealing with the loss of loved ones, that you must take consolation in the fact that…..at least you’re not Shizzo.

That will be hard.

He is a pickle kisser.

LMAO  :D
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: webstar on February 18, 2022, 05:52:02 AM
Shizzo, stop being so self-centered.
You think it's hard to bury your parents?
Just imagine how hard it was for them to bury their child after your car crash.

LMAO  ;D
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Soul Crusher on February 18, 2022, 05:54:17 AM
LMAO  ;D
;D
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: joswift on February 18, 2022, 06:07:48 AM
This perspective is your choice. I am guessing you've not yet had a loving relationship where romantic partners are equals and in the ways they are not, each fills the gaps for the other, like hands in a glove.

I am so sorry COVID took out your family. Clearing out their property after they've passed is something I have not experienced to the degree that you have. It took me a year to donate my wife's clothing, most of which went to a battered women's shelter she supported throughout many years. Hope you and the rest of your family kept some meaningful objects they had to remember them by.

Cherish the memories. It is time for you to look forward. Easy to say...hard to do.

You provide the clothes bhanks provides the residents.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: GymnJuice on February 18, 2022, 06:27:24 AM
It depends. Somebody once told me something that stuck....

They sad: "have you ever noticed why some elderly people are so cranky?"

"It's because they have lived long enough to see the majority of their family and friends die."

If I live long enough (knock on wood) I will likely see the death of all my aunt's and uncles. I've only got one grandma left, and she is in her 80's.

If I could go back into the past to cherish our Christmas gatherings and Thanksgiving holidays, just a bit more. You don't know what you got until it's gone.

It is normal to see your aunts and uncles die. They're supposed to be older than you. Some people don't even meet their grandparents, some their parents, some people are adopted. You could be some refugee from Syria or someplace. Instead you are in the USA with food on your table and a roof over your head. It could always be worse.

You say you don't know what you've got until it's gone. You have your health and you have some of your youth. Use it and get to the gym and get in shape. When you are 70 your joints might not allow you that luxury.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Taffin on February 18, 2022, 10:59:10 AM
But it's not obvious about anything. "Pats on the back?" Are you serious? 

Pats on the back.....that's literally one of the worst things you can say in this situation.

What the fuck.

Not sure that's accurate in this place...


It's a Hankins thread now lil nigga, you just posting in it.

(P.S. Sorry for your losses).

And there you go  ;D


I haven't had a grand parent since 1995.  I've been an orphan since 2010.  In the last two years I've lost two cousins who were like brothers and my best friend of nearly 30 years.  It sucks and always will.  But what I will tell you is this.  Things do get better but they will never be the same.

Wow - what a coincidence - very similar for me - grandparents all gone by '93 and orphan since 2001 (couple of days before 9/11)

Haven't even got me a HazMat Brah to commiserate



/nice_mode_activated

Shizzo - let me have a very rare serious moment - I refilled my life by starting a family.  I realise that makes me a GetBig phag, and I absolutely know it's not for everyone.  But it's filled my life with joy, and you're still a young fella.  You have no idea how positive your life could turn out from this point - best of luck

/nice_mode_deactivated

You fucker

 ;)
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Taffin on February 18, 2022, 11:01:45 AM
Think about getting a dog mate, they great company, gets you out the house in walks and female dog walkers will actually say hello and talk to you. Again it’s not trying to replace anything it’s just something new to enjoy and fill in your time

Also good advices

I mentioned this in another thread, but my Wife wants a sausage-dog (dachshund/weiner dog) FFS - I'm going to look macho walking that little fecker

So my revenge is it's already been agreed we can call him 'Kielbasa' or just Kiel for short - this is absolutely true ;D
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Flexacon on February 18, 2022, 11:27:19 AM
Also good advices

I mentioned this in another thread, but my Wife wants a sausage-dog (dachshund/weiner dog) FFS - I'm going to look macho walking that little fecker

So my revenge is it's already been agreed we can call him 'Kielbasa' or just Kiel for short - this is absolutely true ;D

Not a dog guy so pretty clueless here, but is it a good idea to be shouting out Kiel in the park?
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: deadz on February 18, 2022, 11:28:01 AM
Good thing you came online to post here.

Your E- friends will be a shoulder to cry on. Like its 2005 during the forum days

real question, do you have real friends? or are you one of those guys that sits and plays call of duty all day making "friends" on Redditt?
HA!!! Shitzo is friendless. Crying about your parents death on a BB forum.  ::) because we all care.HA!
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: King Shizzo on February 18, 2022, 11:47:24 AM
HA!!! Shitzo is friendless. Crying about your parents death on a BB forum.  ::) because we all care.HA!
Just thought I'd switch it up a bit from all of the bhank, racist, Covid, and political threads.

Inject a bit of humanity (No homo) around here.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Walter Sobchak on February 18, 2022, 11:54:10 AM
Just thought I'd switch it up a bit from all of the bhank, racist, Covid, and political threads.

Inject a bit of humanity (No homo) around here.

Sh-Lizzo we feel your pain….

That doesn’t mean we care, want to help you with it, want to hear about it, or won’t keep laughing at it, but we do feel it.

 Never has the term, “the more the merrier” been so apt.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Flexacon on February 18, 2022, 11:55:39 AM
Sh-Lizzo we feel your pain….

That doesn’t mean we care, want to help you with it, want to hear about it, or won’t keep laughing at it, but we do feel it.

 Never has the term, “the more the merrier” been so apt.

Brutal but true
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: King Shizzo on February 18, 2022, 11:56:05 AM
Sh-Lizzo we feel your pain….

That doesn’t mean we care, want to help you with it, want to hear about it, or won’t keep laughing at it, but we do feel it.

 Never has the term, “the more the merrier” been so apt.
I don't get "the more the merrier" comment. You want more of my family to die?
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: King Shizzo on February 18, 2022, 12:00:23 PM
 Besides, did you assholes really think I made this thread for sympathy? Fuck, I joined Getbig in 2004.  I was a member of Muscle Mayhem before that.

I don't get rattled by these comments. Frankly, I was just bored and decided to tell you what's going on in my life.

Kind of like that retired, liberal cop who goes on and on about his vacation destinations like we give a fuck. Probably end up getting his head cut off with a chainsaw in Mexico.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Walter Sobchak on February 18, 2022, 12:01:38 PM
I don't get "the more the merrier" comment. You want more of my family to die?

Are there any of them left?

You wallowing in pain, suffering, self pity, loathing, self-hatred, and size 48 waist pants…there just isn’t enough of that to satisfy the rest of Getbig.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Walter Sobchak on February 18, 2022, 12:04:40 PM
Besides, did you assholes really think I made this thread for sympathy? Fuck, I joined Getbig in 2004.  I was a member of Muscle Mayhem before that.

I don't get rattled by these comments. Frankly, I was just bored and decided to tell you what's going on in my life.

Kind of like that retired, liberal cop who goes on and on about his vacation destinations like we give a fuck. Probably end up getting his head cut off with a chainsaw in Mexico.

Calm your tits, Princess.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: King Shizzo on February 18, 2022, 12:06:42 PM
Calm your tits, Princess.
Not mad at all.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Walter Sobchak on February 18, 2022, 12:09:34 PM
Not mad at all.

You certainly aren’t cursed with self-awareness…
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: King Shizzo on February 18, 2022, 12:16:26 PM
You certainly aren’t cursed with self-awareness…
Sure I am. I'm a good looking man with a hint of abs.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Henda on February 18, 2022, 03:26:12 PM
Also good advices

I mentioned this in another thread, but my Wife wants a sausage-dog (dachshund/weiner dog) FFS - I'm going to look macho walking that little fecker

So my revenge is it's already been agreed we can call him 'Kielbasa' or just Kiel for short - this is absolutely true ;D

Sausage dogs are fucking awesome mate I’d have one in a heartbeat. Awesome name as well please get one and call it thst haha
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Henda on February 18, 2022, 03:32:47 PM
Not sure that's accurate in this place...


And there you go  ;D


Wow - what a coincidence - very similar for me - grandparents all gone by '93 and orphan since 2001 (couple of days before 9/11)

Haven't even got me a HazMat Brah to commiserate



/nice_mode_activated

Shizzo - let me have a very rare serious moment - I refilled my life by starting a family.  I realise that makes me a GetBig phag, and I absolutely know it's not for everyone.  But it's filled my life with joy, and you're still a young fella.  You have no idea how positive your life could turn out from this point - best of luck

/nice_mode_deactivated

You fucker

 ;)

Similarly 3 of my grandparents were dead before I was born and the one left never liked me as she hated my dad haha she died 20 years ago, dad been dead years now still have a mam but we were never really close. Don’t see any other family. Life would be empty if didn’t have kids of my own even if they do get to an age they only come down from their rooms for food haha
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: King Shizzo on February 18, 2022, 03:36:16 PM
Similarly 3 of my grandparents were dead before I was born and the one left never liked me as she hated my dad haha she died 20 years ago, dad been dead years now still have a mam but we were never really close. Don’t see any other family. Life would be empty if didn’t have kids of my own even if they do get to an age they only come down from their rooms for food haha
But that is where the problem lies, Henda.

I was close to my family, which you clearly stated that you were not. That makes a difference, buddy.

Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Henda on February 18, 2022, 03:43:23 PM
But that is where the problem lies, Henda.

I was close to my family, which you clearly stated that you were not. That makes a difference, buddy.



I know that makes a difference mate not comparing to what you have had to go through, I was really close to my dad though and miss him all day every day so do have an understanding. My uncle Rob and aunty Brenda practically raised me till I was 9 lost my uncle to cancer in September and my aunty is 82 with vascular dementia I did/do have family was close too
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: King Shizzo on February 18, 2022, 03:47:24 PM
I know that makes a difference mate not comparing to what you have had to go through, I was really close to my dad though and miss him all day every day so do have an understanding. My uncle Rob and aunty Brenda practically raised me till I was 9 lost my uncle to cancer in September and my aunty is 82 with vascular dementia I did/do have family was close too
Sorry about your father. I too have an Uncle Rob, and he has been instrumental in helping our family transition.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: webstar on February 18, 2022, 04:12:06 PM
Sorry about your father. I too have an Uncle Rob, and he has been instrumental in helping our family transition.

You and your uncle should open up an auto body shop.

Do repair work on crashed cars.

Good time to bond.

I feel like you have knack for auto collisions.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: King Shizzo on February 18, 2022, 04:15:24 PM
You and your uncle should open up an auto body shop.

Do repair work on crashed cars.

Good time to bond.

I feel like you have knack for auto collisions.
I'd care more if I knew who you are.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: AbrahamG on February 18, 2022, 04:20:26 PM
Similarly 3 of my grandparents were dead before I was born and the one left never liked me as she hated my dad haha she died 20 years ago, dad been dead years now still have a mam but we were never really close. Don’t see any other family. Life would be empty if didn’t have kids of my own even if they do get to an age they only come down from their rooms for food haha

If your kids are anything like mine, they come out of their rooms for food and take it right back to their rooms.  Pisses me off sometimes and I make them eat in the kitchen and act like humans.  Other times, it's not worth saying anything.   ;D
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Primemuscle on February 18, 2022, 04:59:29 PM
If your kids are anything like mine, they come out of their rooms for food and take it right back to their rooms.  Pisses me off sometimes and I make them eat in the kitchen and act like humans.  Other times, it's not worth saying anything.   ;D

I just now went out to the kitchen to grab some egg salad to eat and brought it back to my bedroom. It is quieter here.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: AbrahamG on February 18, 2022, 05:07:24 PM
I just now went out to the kitchen to grab some egg salad to eat and brought it back to my bedroom. It is quieter here.

Now your bedroom is going to smell like ass!   ;D  Funny coincidence though, that is what I'm having for dinner here at work tonight.  I'll be having 2 egg salad sandwiches made with olive oil mayo and dispersed on Aunt Millies low carb bread.  Both sandwiches combined will only have 4grams of net carbs.  I'll chase it with a scoop of chocolate whey protein mixed with ice water. 
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Primemuscle on February 19, 2022, 12:10:35 AM
Now your bedroom is going to smell like ass!   ;D  Funny coincidence though, that is what I'm having for dinner here at work tonight.  I'll be having 2 egg salad sandwiches made with olive oil mayo and dispersed on Aunt Millies low carb bread.  Both sandwiches combined will only have 4grams of net carbs.  I'll chase it with a scoop of chocolate whey protein mixed with ice water.

Sounds delicious! LOL! I'm lazy. I bought the egg salad from the Walmart neighborhood market. Without a doubt is is likely filled with shit that can kill you and give you bad gas in the process. I will say that so far that has not happened. I am still alive and I have not noticed that I was passing gas....but then most people don't or the pretend it wasn't them.

BTW their potato salad and coleslaw is really good too. Tomorrow night, I'm warming 1/2 rack of precooked Jack Daniel's baby back ribs which I will eat with Walmart coleslaw.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: MAXX on February 19, 2022, 12:28:08 AM
I thought Mentzer had a good philisophical take on grief and death of loved ones..

Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: SF1900 on February 19, 2022, 02:48:54 AM
Besides, did you assholes really think I made this thread for sympathy? Fuck, I joined Getbig in 2004.  I was a member of Muscle Mayhem before that.

I don't get rattled by these comments. Frankly, I was just bored and decided to tell you what's going on in my life.

Kind of like that retired, liberal cop who goes on and on about his vacation destinations like we give a fuck. Probably end up getting his head cut off with a chainsaw in Mexico.

Meltdown.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Gym-Rat on February 19, 2022, 03:02:55 AM
Besides, did you assholes really think I made this thread for sympathy? Fuck, I joined Getbig in 2004.  I was a member of Muscle Mayhem before that.

I don't get rattled by these comments. Frankly, I was just bored and decided to tell you what's going on in my life.

Kind of like that retired, liberal cop who goes on and on about his vacation destinations like we give a fuck. Probably end up getting his head cut off with a chainsaw in Mexico.

wow, you joined a forum. amazing stuff
whats your SQ, B, DL numbers
do you lift?
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: King Shizzo on February 19, 2022, 08:04:10 AM
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Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Walter Sobchak on February 19, 2022, 08:11:10 AM
But that is where the problem lies, Henda.

I was close to my family, which you clearly stated that you were not. That makes a difference, buddy.

Do you have any pics of you getting “close” to your sister’s big old saggy funbags?

Did you ever hop in the bathtub with her and give those things a bubble bath?
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: King Shizzo on February 19, 2022, 08:14:07 AM
Do you have any pics of you getting “close” to your sister’s big old saggy funbags?

Did you ever hop in the bathtub with her and give those things a bubble bath?
Normal people don't commit incest.

I'm sorry if I ruined your hard on.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Walter Sobchak on February 19, 2022, 08:18:48 AM
Normal people don't commit incest.

I'm sorry if I ruined your hard on.

So you’re saying you have them but you won’t share?

Just think of all the attention you will garner, it will be even better than when you faked your own death just to get a few thread views from anonymous strangers.

You’re so cool and edgy.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: King Shizzo on February 19, 2022, 08:22:08 AM
So you’re saying you have them but you won’t share?

Just think of all the attention you will garner, it will be even better than when you faked your own death just to get a few thread views from anonymous strangers.

You’re so cool and edgy.
Lol! You are a funny guy. A solid Getbig member in my eyes.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Walter Sobchak on February 19, 2022, 08:49:41 AM
Lol! You are a funny guy. A solid Getbig member in my eyes.

Like you once told me, “I had to, those cocks don’t suck themselves.”
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: King Shizzo on February 19, 2022, 08:51:21 AM
Like you once told me, “I had to, those cocks don’t suck themselves.”
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Grape Ape on February 19, 2022, 08:55:23 AM
Lol! You are a funny guy. A solid Getbig member in my eyes.

If there ever was an expert on solid members.....
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: King Shizzo on February 19, 2022, 08:59:22 AM
If there ever was an expert on solid memebers.....
I sense the sarcasm, but I will still take it as a compliment.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Walter Sobchak on February 19, 2022, 01:19:13 PM
Lol! You are a funny guy. A solid Getbig member in my eyes.

I’m not looking for your acceptance, Spermburper. I’m looking for pics of your sister’s big milky-white funbags.
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Taffin on February 19, 2022, 01:46:20 PM
Not a dog guy so pretty clueless here, but is it a good idea to be shouting out Kiel in the park?

You saying I might lure some Polish homoseksualiści out of the nearby bushes?  ;D


I don't get "the more the merrier" comment. You want more of my family to die?

Are there any of them left?

(http://i.postimg.cc/5N3jQHyT/giphy.gif)
Title: Re: It Was Hard
Post by: Taffin on February 19, 2022, 01:49:54 PM
Sausage dogs are fucking awesome mate I’d have one in a heartbeat. Awesome name as well please get one and call it thst haha

Thanks Henda - Wes said something similar.  I honestly did not expect this kind of response from GetBiggers

And the name is a lock - that was a condition of me spending fucking something like £2k on a dog (FFS!)