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King Shizzo

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It Was Hard
« on: February 17, 2022, 12:44:12 PM »
My brother, my sister, and I, have just finished cleaning out my parents house. I'm exhausted.

We have a professional cleaning crew coming in, to make it look good. I have to go sign the closing papers tomorrow. The neighbors a few houses down, actually bought the house.

They have a step daughter and her husband that was living with them. Now, they have their own house, close by.

It's just a mind fuck looking at old photo albums, and realizing that this is really it.

I was looking at one of bhanks threads, and noticed that my parents had their house built in 2004 as well. I really don't think it has sunk in yet.

I watched the Superbowl for the first time without my father. My mother died on Superbowl Sunday last February.

Growing old sucks.
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ThisisOverload

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Re: It Was Hard
« Reply #1 on: February 17, 2022, 12:49:08 PM »
Life is a bitch.

It's all in how you handle it dude.

You get used to it after a while.

Or dwell on it until you die.

At least you have siblings.

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Re: It Was Hard
« Reply #2 on: February 17, 2022, 12:49:12 PM »
Growing old sucks less if you workout.
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Re: It Was Hard
« Reply #3 on: February 17, 2022, 12:52:08 PM »
Quote from: King Shizzo on February 17, 2022, 12:44:12 PM
Growing old sucks.

Beats the alternative...
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Re: It Was Hard
« Reply #4 on: February 17, 2022, 12:56:30 PM »
Good thing you came online to post here.

Your E- friends will be a shoulder to cry on. Like its 2005 during the forum days

real question, do you have real friends? or are you one of those guys that sits and plays call of duty all day making "friends" on Redditt?
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King Shizzo

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Re: It Was Hard
« Reply #5 on: February 17, 2022, 12:59:44 PM »
Quote from: GymnJuice on February 17, 2022, 12:52:08 PM
Beats the alternative...
It depends. Somebody once told me something that stuck....

They sad: "have you ever noticed why some elderly people are so cranky?"

"It's because they have lived long enough to see the majority of their family and friends die."

If I live long enough (knock on wood) I will likely see the death of all my aunt's and uncles. I've only got one grandma left, and she is in her 80's.

If I could go back into the past to cherish our Christmas gatherings and Thanksgiving holidays, just a bit more. You don't know what you got until it's gone.
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King Shizzo

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Re: It Was Hard
« Reply #6 on: February 17, 2022, 01:02:41 PM »
Quote from: webstar on February 17, 2022, 12:56:30 PM
Good thing you came online to post here.

Your E- friends will be a shoulder to cry on. Like its 2005 during the forum days

real question, do you have real friends? or are you one of those guys that sits and plays call of duty all day making "friends" on Redditt?
You post on here more than I do, pal.
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Re: It Was Hard
« Reply #7 on: February 17, 2022, 01:03:56 PM »
thinking about sad things shouldnt give you an erection....
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King Shizzo

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Re: It Was Hard
« Reply #8 on: February 17, 2022, 01:04:57 PM »
Quote from: joswift on February 17, 2022, 01:03:56 PM
thinking about sad things shouldnt give you an erection....
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Re: It Was Hard
« Reply #9 on: February 17, 2022, 01:07:24 PM »
Quote from: King Shizzo on February 17, 2022, 12:59:44 PM
It depends. Somebody once told me something that stuck....

They sad: "have you ever noticed why some elderly people are so cranky?"

"It's because they have lived long enough to see the majority of their family and friends die."

If I live long enough (knock on wood) I will likely see the death of all my aunt's and uncles. I've only got one grandma left, and she is in her 80's.

If I could go back into the past to cherish our Christmas gatherings and Thanksgiving holidays, just a bit more. You don't know what you got until it's gone.

So old people who aren't assholes didn't have relatives die?

My 92 year old grandma is the nicest lady you would ever meet. I haven't seen her cranky ever in my life.

My grandfather died when i was 4 years old. The other when i was 12.

Barely even knew them.

Life is about perspective, which you are struggling with.
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Re: It Was Hard
« Reply #10 on: February 17, 2022, 01:08:25 PM »
Sorry to hear about this Shizzo you have my best wishes.
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King Shizzo

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Re: It Was Hard
« Reply #11 on: February 17, 2022, 01:12:12 PM »
Quote from: ThisisOverload on February 17, 2022, 01:07:24 PM
So old people who aren't assholes didn't have relatives die?

My 92 year old grandma is the nicest lady you would ever meet. I haven't seen her cranky ever in my life.

My grandfather died when i was 4 years old. The other when i was 12.

Barely even knew them.

Life is about perspective, which you are struggling with.
You could be right. But I guess it also is based on how close you are to your family.

I had a conversation with my brother a few years back. I told him (At the time) that we had been extremely lucky, when it came to deaths in the family. I said "unfortunately, it's only going to get worse from here."

Little did I know, that the house of cards was just waiting to fall.
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Re: It Was Hard
« Reply #12 on: February 17, 2022, 01:12:28 PM »
Quote from: joswift on February 17, 2022, 01:03:56 PM
thinking about sad things shouldnt give you an erection....

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Re: It Was Hard
« Reply #13 on: February 17, 2022, 01:12:47 PM »
Quote from: King Shizzo on February 17, 2022, 01:02:41 PM
You post on here more than I do, pal.

you posted on here for members attention.

You want people  to say:

Stay Strong
Keep you head up
etc etc.


you are no different from the chicks on IG who post a half naked picture but say this is me without make up..
GTFO

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Re: It Was Hard
« Reply #14 on: February 17, 2022, 01:17:11 PM »
Quote from: King Shizzo on February 17, 2022, 12:59:44 PM
It depends. Somebody once told me something that stuck....

They sad: "have you ever noticed why some elderly people are so cranky?"

"It's because they have lived long enough to see the majority of their family and friends die."

If I live long enough (knock on wood) I will likely see the death of all my aunt's and uncles. I've only got one grandma left, and she is in her 80's.

If I could go back into the past to cherish our Christmas gatherings and Thanksgiving holidays, just a bit more. You don't know what you got until it's gone.

You don't want that.  That's not good.  Maybe you should just die now.
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King Shizzo

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Re: It Was Hard
« Reply #15 on: February 17, 2022, 01:17:25 PM »
Quote from: webstar on February 17, 2022, 01:12:47 PM
you posted on here for members attention.

You want people  to say:

Stay Strong
Keep you head up
etc etc.


you are no different from the chicks on IG who post a half naked picture but say this is me without make up..
GTFO
You aren't going to ruffle my feathers.

I've been to the bottom. You are just a fly.
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King Shizzo

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Re: It Was Hard
« Reply #16 on: February 17, 2022, 01:20:54 PM »
Quote from: LurkerNoMore on February 17, 2022, 01:17:11 PM
You don't want that.  That's not good.  Maybe you should just die now.
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Re: It Was Hard
« Reply #17 on: February 17, 2022, 01:22:11 PM »
Quote from: King Shizzo on February 17, 2022, 01:17:25 PM
You aren't going to ruffle my feathers.

I've been to the bottom. You are just a fly.

is this before or after you wanted online people to mourn your death?
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King Shizzo

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Re: It Was Hard
« Reply #18 on: February 17, 2022, 01:29:39 PM »
Quote from: webstar on February 17, 2022, 01:22:11 PM
is this before or after you wanted online people to mourn your death?
Your psycho babble has little effect.

Getbig, is a place for entertainment. Sometimes it goes to the edge. It's no different than a shock comic on stage.

It just showed that people cared about me. Especially Chaos.  ;)
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Re: It Was Hard
« Reply #19 on: February 17, 2022, 01:44:11 PM »
Quote from: King Shizzo on February 17, 2022, 12:59:44 PM
It depends. Somebody once told me something that stuck....

They sad: "have you ever noticed why some elderly people are so cranky?"

"It's because they have lived long enough to see the majority of their family and friends die."

If I live long enough (knock on wood) I will likely see the death of all my aunt's and uncles. I've only got one grandma left, and she is in her 80's.

If I could go back into the past to cherish our Christmas gatherings and Thanksgiving holidays, just a bit more. You don't know what you got until it's gone.

Well you could meet a woman and start your own family that would outlive you vs worrying about your Aunts and Uncles dying in 20 years and leaving you alone. Almost everyone outlives all their Grandparents Aunts and Uncles but not their kids.
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Re: It Was Hard
« Reply #20 on: February 17, 2022, 01:51:21 PM »
Quote from: bhank on February 17, 2022, 01:44:11 PM
Well you could meet a woman and start your own family that would outlive you vs worrying about your Aunts and Uncles dying in 20 years and leaving you alone. Almost everyone outlives all their Grandparents Aunts and Uncles but not their kids.

You are unlikely to see your kid in long trousers..
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Re: It Was Hard
« Reply #21 on: February 17, 2022, 01:54:22 PM »
Quote from: joswift on February 17, 2022, 01:51:21 PM
You are unlikely to see your kid in long trousers..

I just feel like I am so hard I can't be faded
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Re: It Was Hard
« Reply #22 on: February 17, 2022, 01:56:57 PM »
Quote from: bhank on February 17, 2022, 01:54:22 PM
I just feel like I am so hard I can't be faded

You have faded dramatically in the last 9 months, this time next year you wont be able to cast a shadow
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Re: It Was Hard
« Reply #23 on: February 17, 2022, 01:57:18 PM »
Quote from: King Shizzo on February 17, 2022, 12:44:12 PM



Growing old sucks.


but you are busy seeking a solution
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Re: It Was Hard
« Reply #24 on: February 17, 2022, 01:58:44 PM »
get used to it, stop feeling sorry for yourself, everyone dies, circle of life
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