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From the influenza A virus.
They weren’t vaxed for Covid or flu either.
They were type one diabetic though, and every virus they ever caught had taken longer and longer to recover from compared to the last one.
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Holy fuck that’s a horrible thing to go through mate really sorry to hear that
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From the influenza A virus.
They weren’t vaxed for Covid or flu either.
They were type one diabetic though, and every virus they ever caught had taken longer and longer to recover from compared to the last one.
So sorry, man. 😢
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Holy fuck that’s a horrible thing to go through mate really sorry to hear that
thank you very much. My wife is a doctor and even she was powerless to stop this it happened in less than 3 days.
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I’m so sorry man, I couldn’t imagine the pain. My deepest condolences.
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Damn, So sorry 🙏
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So sorry to hear that man. Nothing compares to the loss of a child, you will never get over it but in time can learn to live with it.
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Prayers my man. I'm very sorry for your loss. How are YOU doing?
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That's terrible no parents should have to go through. My condolences to you and your family.
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I am so sorry. There is no way anyone can imagine the pain you are going through.
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Prayers my man. I'm very sorry for your loss. How are YOU doing?
it is tough they were our only child.
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My condolences to you yours man. 13 year old son or daughter? Again, my deepest condolences.
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Very sorry for your loss.
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Wait, “they”? What am I missing here?
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Wait, “they”? What am I missing here?
I didn't wanna be the one to bring that up.😬
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I’m so sorry to hear about your loss. I have 2 children, I can’t imagine life without them. I’ll be praying for you and your family.
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All the best to you and your wife from other side of the world. As a doctor myself I've seen lots of parents who have dealt with the same pain as you have. Hardest thing to go through. So sorry for your loss.
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Very very sorry to hear this, that is absolutely horrible. My condolences to you and your family. Don’t really know what to say at all.
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Very sorry for your loss.
I couldn’t imagine what you’re going through.
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Im sorry for your loss.
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Wait, “they”? What am I missing here?
Were they twins?
If not, what kind of "they" were they?
Now that they are gone will you still refer to them as "they"?
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Very sorry for your loss.
I couldn’t imagine what you’re going through.
I 2nd what Oak said. Totally horrible man. So sorry for your loss and my condolences. :'(
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I am sorry for your loss!
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So sorry for your loss! Prayers 🙏
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Wait, “they”? What am I missing here?
Female don’t know why I wrote they.
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Were they twins?
If not, what kind of "they" were they?
Now that they are gone will you still refer to them as "they"?
nice guy, my child was a female.
I’m no friend of the trans lobby check my post in the trans womens sports thread.
If you go to my posts on my profile I commented on trans women in posts 50, 51 and 53.
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nice guy, my child was a female.
I’m no friend of the trans lobby check my post in the trans womens sports thread. If you go to my posts it is around post number 50 on the list.
Ok, sorry about that. It was confusing.
My condolences for your loss. It's terrible. Totally awful.
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sorry for your loss. Rest in peace child.
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Awful. Can't imagine your grief. So sorry for you.
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Female don’t know why I wrote they.
Female is an odd thing to say as well
Wouldnt "daughter" be the appropriate word.
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Damn that’s fucking horrible. I’m sorry.
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So sorry to hear. I hope you and your wife can, in time find peace. Unimagineable. Unfair. Takes my breath away. Again, all the best. Very, very sorry.
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Female is an odd thing to say as well
Wouldnt "daughter" be the appropriate word.
Get fucked. He's obviously shaken up.
"B-but ackshually, that was sub-optimal phrasing." ::)
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From the influenza A virus.
They weren’t vaxed for Covid or flu either.
They were type one diabetic though, and every virus they ever caught had taken longer and longer to recover from compared to the last one.
I know that my words are of little, if any, comfort...But still...The hope of the Resurrection is not just in the Bible but in the coming of every Spring.
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Get fucked. He's obviously shaken up.
"B-but ackshually, that was sub-optimal phrasing." ::)
It would seem so
TBH I wasnt the first to cast doubt
OP sorry for your loss
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No parent should ever have to endure the pain of burying a child. Condolences to you and your family.
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Female is all anyone else around me is calling my child right now since it is technically still a pending cause of death and they just had a full autopsy yesterday. Maybe that is why I said that I don’t know. Grammar is not a big deal right now.
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Sorry, friend!
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My condolences. Worst thing a parent can deal with.
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Life is a bitch.
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Horrible thing. Not much condolence one can offer on something like this, but I hope you and your wife can find peace.
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RIP.
My sincere condolences on your loss.
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That's horrible, jwb.
I have a 13-year-old myself [girl], and my son will be 13 in March. I can't imagine losing them at that age.
Diabetes or not, this must be an absolute shock. My condolences, jwb.
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type 1 is cured by eating more, but getting sick makes you eat less sad to hear doctors are fools because they practice the wrong medicine
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joswift is the homo police of grammer full on loser
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type 1 diabetes is another medical lie
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An unimaginable tragedy, I’m very sorry for your loss.
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JWB, no words will bring you comfort or make this right. Only the passing of time will lessen your pain. I am sorry for your loss.
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Stay strong and hang in there.
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Female is all anyone else around me is calling my child right now since it is technically still a pending cause of death and they just had a full autopsy yesterday. Maybe that is why I said that I don’t know. Grammar is not a big deal right now.
Sad sad loss - may she rest in peace.
Your daughter hasn't a name ?
Lost my 2 Yr old daughter zoe-marie 34yrs ago. 😢😢😢
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So sorry to hear mate. That's tragic news. My thoughts are with you.
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From the influenza A virus.
They weren’t vaxed for Covid or flu either.
They were type one diabetic though, and every virus they ever caught had taken longer and longer to recover from compared to the last one.
Jesus Christ 😔😔😔 sorry man that’s really horrible shit don’t know what else too say 😔
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Very sorry to hear this, my condolences.
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Pain of losing anyone is awful, a child i just can't imagine. I hope you have the strength to get through this somehow.
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Female is all anyone else around me is calling my child right now since it is technically still a pending cause of death and they just had a full autopsy yesterday. Maybe that is why I said that I don’t know. Grammar is not a big deal right now.
I get it. You are in shock and just posting words in your mind.
Sorry for your loss and your daughter's loss. That's terrible and at such a young age. My condolences to your wife as well. Life can be really cruel sometimes. We need to cherish every minute that we have.
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I am so sorry for your loss. I have a daughter too, i cannot imagine losing her.
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Sorry to hear this
I would be devastated by this
Hope you will pull through
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SO SO SO SORRY!! :( :( :(
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Sad sad loss - may she rest in peace.
Your daughter hasn't a name ?
Lost my 2 Yr old daughter zoe-marie 34yrs ago. 😢😢😢
I wouldn't wish that on anyone. Sorry to hear that you went through that
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I wouldn't wish that on anyone. Sorry to hear that you went through that
Thank you .
I've never fully got over it - sad to admit i went off the rails Big Time back then
for far to long.
Always thought it wrong It should be me to Go 1st, not Her.
Life. !!
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Thank you .
I've never fully got over it - sad to admit i went off the rails Big Time back then
for far to long.
Always thought it wrong It should be me to Go 1st, not Her.
Life. !!
I am Atheist but I hope I am wrong for if this is all there is, then what is the logic, let alone the reasoning and purpose?
Having been down the tunnel that is Death now three times, it is my hope that at the End of All Things, Spring is coming for such as you and the OP, my friend.
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Sad sad loss - may she rest in peace.
Your daughter hasn't a name ?
Lost my 2 Yr old daughter zoe-marie 34yrs ago. 😢😢😢
Holy shit mate that must have been horrific so sorry you had to go through such a tragic thing mate
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Sorry for your loss brother.
There are no words..
"1"
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Holy shit mate that must have been horrific so sorry you had to go through such a tragic thing mate
Thank you for those kind words - pls don't feel sorry for me I've had a life - She didn't. 😢😢😢
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Thank you for those kind words - pls don't feel sorry for me I've had a life - She didn't. 😢😢😢
That`s a shame my brother....a tragic shame.
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I am Atheist but I hope I am wrong for if this is all there is, then what is the logic, let alone the reasoning and purpose?
Having been down the tunnel that is Death now three times, it is my hope that at the End of All Things, Spring is coming for such as you and the OP, my friend.
I'm like you an atheist - Though I do think there's something with our souls & spirits after our physical beings are done
She is with me Every day.
All the best to you Scott always.
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That`s a shame my brother....a tragic shame.
I should've gone long before her, very sadly there is No right or wrong in Nature.
Thank you & I sincerely hope you're well on the way to being fully recovered, my Brother.
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Thank you for those kind words - pls don't feel sorry for me I've had a life - She didn't. 😢😢😢
oh man I am so grateful I got 13 years and not just 2 like you did.
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That's horrible, jwb.
I have a 13-year-old myself [girl], and my son will be 13 in March. I can't imagine losing them at that age.
Diabetes or not, this must be an absolute shock. My condolences, jwb.
thanks Matt.
The more reading I do the more it seems the diabetes may not have been totally to blame. There are article after article out there of kids with zero apparent issues dying within three days of contracting influenza. There have been 6 kids in British Columbia just this flu season.
They equate it more to the Spanish flu response in 1918 where most who died were young and healthy and their body mounted TOO strong a defense to the H1N1 influenza virus.
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Biggest pain one has to endure, my mom lost two sons, I thought she would lose her mind.
My condolonces to you and your family, I hope you will endure by holding on each other.
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oh man I am so grateful I got 13 years and not just 2 like you did.
13 is still no age & Far Far to Young to Go, Pls Try your Hardest to remain Strong
for you, Your wife & any other Children you may have.
Always remember & cherish her Smile ,The joy & Happiness you all Shared
Her Soul & Spirit will Live on in You.
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From the influenza A virus.
They weren’t vaxed for Covid or flu either.
They were type one diabetic though, and every virus they ever caught had taken longer and longer to recover from compared to the last one.
Sorry to hear about your loss.
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Sad sad loss - may she rest in peace.
Your daughter hasn't a name ?
Lost my 2 Yr old daughter zoe-marie 34yrs ago. 😢😢😢
Very sorry to hear that.
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There is nothing more painful than losing one's child. So sorry for your wife's and your loss.
As I am sure you already know, the risk of serious illness from the flu is higher among folks of all ages with type 1 diabetes.
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Thank you .
I've never fully got over it - sad to admit i went off the rails Big Time back then
for far to long.
Always thought it wrong It should be me to Go 1st, not Her.
Life. !!
My daughter is 2 and had a couple of trips to the hospital this year. I can even fathom the thought of losing her at any age. It's not something I would ever recover from. Condolences to Jwb and yourself.
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Brutal if true
Delete this. It’s not appropriate.
I know this your gimmick but F off.
This is a timeout offense dude.
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Delete this. It’s not appropriate.
I know this your gimmick but F off.
This is a timeout offense dude.
Agreed, sir!
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Sorry for your loss.
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Brutal if true
Really ? You absolute Khunt JWB & his wife have suffered a Tragic & Terrible loss
and you want to be a Fucking Dick about -
I sincerely hope some Very painful & long lasting disease / illness afflicts you very soon.
I'm all for a bit of Banter & the verbal going at each other.
The Tragic Death of a Young Girl isnt the Time or Place.
I hope you Delete your post or The mods do & Ban you.
Fuck off Khunt
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Why do you write like that? With caps starting each word? Why did Getbig become the Hall of sensitivity and comfort? This is suppose to be a brutal place. I'm sure Pam Smith did not mean hatm.
Also,my condolences to the OP.
I don't have any kids but I can only imagine the hurt. Sorry.
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Why do you write like that? With caps starting each word? Why did Getbig become the Hall of sensitivity and comfort? This is suppose to be a brutal place. I'm sure Pam Smith did not mean hatm.
Also,my condolences to the OP.
I don't have any kids but I can only imagine the hurt. Sorry.
It’s not a hall of sensitivity or comfort, it’s a remnant of 30 people who have posted here through out the heyday. There are occasionally serious topics, where we treat others with respect.
If someone is taking time to post while suffering through their life trauma, without being an attention whore, at least have an ounce of decency and skip the thread.
If you feel better or find humor in Pamith’s post cool. I think Johnny Falcon was out of like with his comments. That doesn’t mean I’m right.
Shizzo took crap on here when his parents passed, and deservedly so because Shizzo has a tendency to be self indulgent, but ultimately no one really wished him further suffering when it was deemed he was telling the truth.
The OP took flak for the “they” and “female” comments and quickly addressed the issues.
If you think everything is fair game to ridicule I get it; this is Getbig after all, feel free to call other out but don’t object when we oppose someone for being an asshole.
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Why do you write like that? With caps starting each word? Why did Getbig become the Hall of sensitivity and comfort? This is suppose to be a brutal place. I'm sure Pam Smith did not mean hatm.
Also,my condolences to the OP.
I don't have any kids but I can only imagine the hurt. Sorry.
Why do you write like you do ? Because you want to. Me because I can & I choose to.
You can clearly read & understand no problems.
It is the Death of a young Girl & she wasn't on Getbig.
Likewise my daughter at 2yrs of age - so yes I took it personally & thought despicable.
I'm sure P Smith can answer for himself.
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Why do you write like you do ? Because you want to. Me because I can & I choose to.
You can clearly read & understand no problems.
It is the Death of a young Girl & she wasn't on Getbig.
Likewise my daughter at 2yrs of age - so yes I took it personally & thought despicable.
I'm sure P Smith can answer for himself.
I think people here are always skeptical of someone posting anything that borders on normal.
There have been so many clowns on here in the past that people are conditioned to not believe something rather than take it as truth.
Posting about the death of a daughter isnt really something that has happened before (at least not while I have been here) so people are going to be suspicious.
I posted about his use of the word "female", its an odd thing to say about a daughter, that said guy is obviously in shock about whats happened so its likely in those circumstances nothing can be deemed odd
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Speechless
You have friends here. You are not alone.
Praying for peace and healing for you and your wife
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Damn... sorry to hear that Brother.
:'(
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Brutal if true
Ban this Pam-gimmick
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Ban this Pam-gimmick
X2 👊🏻
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Delete this. It’s not appropriate.
I know this your gimmick but F off.
This is a timeout offense dude.
I mean posting this serious stuff on a random internet board with anonymous posters you will have to expect some trollposting regardless what subject
ontopic sorry about your loss couldn't imagine losing my kids
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sorry for your loss
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It’s not a hall of sensitivity or comfort, it’s a remnant of 30 people who have posted here through out the heyday. There are occasionally serious topics, where
we treat others with respect.
If someone is taking time to post while suffering through their life trauma, without being an attention whore, at least have an ounce of decency and skip the thread.
If you feel better or find humor in Pamith’s post cool. I think Johnny Falcon was out of like with his comments. That doesn’t mean I’m right.
Shizzo took crap on here when his parents passed, and deservedly so because Shizzo has a tendency to be self indulgent, but ultimately no one really wished him further suffering when it was deemed he was telling the truth.
The OP took flak for the “they” and “female” comments and quickly addressed the issues.
If you think everything is fair game to ridicule I get it; this is Getbig after all, feel free to call other out but don’t object when we oppose someone for being an asshole.
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Brutal if true? Is that what everyone is upset about… that doesn’t bother me at all.
I don’t post here often anymore guys and only checked getbig once in a while after I became a parent but I am 51 years old and have been on the site since 1997 believe it or not.
I was here before the whole forum got erased one year in the early 2000’s.
I was interested in the bodybuilding gossip and never really got into the underbelly of getbig etc and drifted out of it.
However, there are some people here who I have PMed over the years that I like as people and wanted to share my situation with.
Hell, even people like Coach, who I rarely agree about anything on outside of bodybuilding stuff, is a person I still liked interacting with and I always enjoyed his stories about his son when he was young and how he was excelling at baseball etc and I hoped to be a parent one day which finally happened at age 38… shit, even lately I have been asking Coach to get a CAC score done on his heart just in case he has any heart disease.
I even used getbig to announce the death of an Australian bodybuilder from the 90s only the elders would know about but many people PMed me thanking me for announcing it since they loved the guy and had lost touch with him (he was the most likable person I ever knew in bodybuilding and maybe even general life… RIP Adrian Chronis).
My wife and I are really in a bad place right now and I am rambling as you can see but this thread has helped me a little this week as I knew it would so thanks to everyone and have a great Olympia weekend I just purchased the live stream.
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Terrible news. Prayers to you and your wife.
I had a friend that died of Influenza Type A.
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Sorry to hear about all this. Keep posting here, you have a bunch of people here willing to hear you out as you deal with this.
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Sorry for your loss man. Condolences to you and your family.
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Brutal if true? Is that what everyone is upset about… that doesn’t bother me at all.
I don’t post here often anymore guys and only checked getbig once in a while after I became a parent but I am 51 years old and have been on the site since 1997 believe it or not.
I was here before the whole forum got erased one year in the early 2000’s.
I was interested in the bodybuilding gossip and never really got into the underbelly of getbig etc and drifted out of it.
However, there are some people here who I have PMed over the years that I like as people and wanted to share my situation with.
Hell, even people like Coach, who I rarely agree about anything on outside of bodybuilding stuff, is a person I still liked interacting with and I always enjoyed his stories about his son when he was young and how he was excelling at baseball etc and I hoped to be a parent one day which finally happened at age 38… shit, even lately I have been asking Coach to get a CAC score done on his heart just in case he has any heart disease.
I even used getbig to announce the death of an Australian bodybuilder from the 90s only the elders would know about but many people PMed me thanking me for announcing it since they loved the guy and had lost touch with him (he was the most likable person I ever knew in bodybuilding and maybe even general life… RIP Adrian Chronis).
My wife and I are really in a bad place right now and I am rambling as you can see but this thread has helped me a little this week as I knew it would so thanks to everyone and have a great Olympia weekend I just purchased the live stream.
Everyone deals with loss and grief differently. If posting on Getbig helps get you through a difficult time, post and ramble on as much as you like. Enjoy the Olympia live stream. It should be interesting.
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sorry to hear this.
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Everyone deals with loss and grief differently. If posting on Getbig helps get you through a difficult time, post and ramble on as much as you like. Enjoy the Olympia live stream. It should be interesting.
Wise words Prime. I hope you will be watching the live stream too.
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Wise words Prime. I hope you will be watching the live stream too.
I agree. I hope prime is willing to treat himself to the live stream this year, he deserves it.
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Brutal if true? Is that what everyone is upset about… that doesn’t bother me at all.
I don’t post here often anymore guys and only checked getbig once in a while after I became a parent but I am 51 years old and have been on the site since 1997 believe it or not.
I was here before the whole forum got erased one year in the early 2000’s.
I was interested in the bodybuilding gossip and never really got into the underbelly of getbig etc and drifted out of it.
However, there are some people here who I have PMed over the years that I like as people and wanted to share my situation with.
Hell, even people like Coach, who I rarely agree about anything on outside of bodybuilding stuff, is a person I still liked interacting with and I always enjoyed his stories about his son when he was young and how he was excelling at baseball etc and I hoped to be a parent one day which finally happened at age 38… shit, even lately I have been asking Coach to get a CAC score done on his heart just in case he has any heart disease.
I even used getbig to announce the death of an Australian bodybuilder from the 90s only the elders would know about but many people PMed me thanking me for announcing it since they loved the guy and had lost touch with him (he was the most likable person I ever knew in bodybuilding and maybe even general life… RIP Adrian Chronis).
My wife and I are really in a bad place right now and I am rambling as you can see but this thread has helped me a little this week as I knew it would so thanks to everyone and have a great Olympia weekend I just purchased the live stream.
Ramble on, whatever it takes.
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From the influenza A virus.
They weren’t vaxed for Covid or flu either.
They were type one diabetic though, and every virus they ever caught had taken longer and longer to recover from compared to the last one.
Sorry. That’s terrible. Hope you ca. find peace in time.
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I am a father/grandfather myself and can't imagine the sorrow you and your family are dealing with..
I am sorry for your loss.
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Brutal if true? Is that what everyone is upset about… that doesn’t bother me at all.
I don’t post here often anymore guys and only checked getbig once in a while after I became a parent but I am 51 years old and have been on the site since 1997 believe it or not.
I was here before the whole forum got erased one year in the early 2000’s.
I was interested in the bodybuilding gossip and never really got into the underbelly of getbig etc and drifted out of it.
However, there are some people here who I have PMed over the years that I like as people and wanted to share my situation with.
Hell, even people like Coach, who I rarely agree about anything on outside of bodybuilding stuff, is a person I still liked interacting with and I always enjoyed his stories about his son when he was young and how he was excelling at baseball etc and I hoped to be a parent one day which finally happened at age 38… shit, even lately I have been asking Coach to get a CAC score done on his heart just in case he has any heart disease.
I even used getbig to announce the death of an Australian bodybuilder from the 90s only the elders would know about but many people PMed me thanking me for announcing it since they loved the guy and had lost touch with him (he was the most likable person I ever knew in bodybuilding and maybe even general life… RIP Adrian Chronis).
My wife and I are really in a bad place right now and I am rambling as you can see but this thread has helped me a little this week as I knew it would so thanks to everyone and have a great Olympia weekend I just purchased the live stream.
Been here since 97 like you and appreciated you letting me know about Adrian who I had lost contact with post competitive bodybuilding, I'm so sorry for what you and your wife are going through right now, I hope in time you will learn to live with your loss, it will take time, I've lost love ones all be it never a loss as great as yours, until then reach out to any of us where you need to, whilst there's a lot of arseholes on here, there is also a core group of guys who have much in common, and have been through our own challenges, hang in there friend.
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Been here since 97 like you and appreciated you letting me know about Adrian who I had lost contact with post competitive bodybuilding, I'm so sorry for what you and your wife are going through right now, I hope in time you will learn to live with your loss, it will take time, I've lost love ones all be it never a loss as great as yours, until then reach out to any of us where you need to, whilst there's a lot of arseholes on here, there is also a core group of guys who have much in common, and have been through our own challenges, hang in there friend.
hey buddy hope you are well
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Absolutely devastating. My heart goes out to you and your wife. I am so sorry for your loss.
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From the influenza A virus.
They weren’t vaxed for Covid or flu either.
They were type one diabetic though, and every virus they ever caught had taken longer and longer to recover from compared to the last one.
My condolences :(
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My condolences :(
same from me sir.
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Really sorry to hear this, j.
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Sorry for your loss mate
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Can't begin to imagine what you and your wife are going through, condolences to you both.
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From the influenza A virus.
They weren’t vaxed for Covid or flu either.
They were type one diabetic though, and every virus they ever caught had taken longer and longer to recover from compared to the last one.
I’m so sorry for your loss
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It would seem so
TBH I wasnt the first to cast doubt
OP sorry for your loss
You need To come off the anti depressants. I mean it. It’s not an attack on you but I can sense they’re
affecting you negatively
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You need To come off the anti depressants. I mean it. It’s not an attack on you but I can sense they’re
affecting you negatively
At least Im not looking at joists in my garage and thinking the worst
I was in a deep hole for a couple of years.
Now with the medication I can at least function
Sure, I look at things differently, I dont have the downs (not syndrome)and I also dont have the ups either
My life is a straight line.
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At least Im not looking at joists in my garage and thinking the worst
I was in a deep hole for a couple of years.
Now with the medication I can at least function
Sure, I look at things differently, I dont have the downs (not syndrome)and I also dont have the ups either
My life is a straight line.
That’s very tough, my friend.
I didn’t realise you were that suicidal. Do you reckon juice and other PEDs have something to do with it or is it genetic? As in a dopamine deficiency? Do you think you’ll stay on them? Anyone I know who used lexapro went off the rails but probably because they stayed taking drugs and Other benzos like Xanax etc
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That’s very tough, my friend.
I didn’t realise you were that suicidal. Do you reckon juice and other PEDs have something to do with it or is it genetic? As in a dopamine deficiency? Do you think you’ll stay on them? Anyone I know who used lexapro went off the rails but probably because they stayed taking drugs and Other benzos like Xanax etc
I had simple kidney stone surgery that went wrong causing a bleed, I almost died, three hour surgery to stop the bleeding and three weeks in hospital.
Heavy blood loss is linked to depression (hence post natal depression after childbirth)
I have always been pretty nonplussed about people in general and dont really form strong bonds with them.
I dont really miss people if they die or tend to be that bothered.
There is only my wife that is important to me.
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hey buddy hope you are well
Im doing ok still above ground and training, all be it not like back in the day. Gather your strength for the upcoming holidays and Christmas, no doubt its going to be a very tough period for you and the wife. Hang in there, and stay strong for each other.Get in the gym and take time to walk, never under estimate the power of routine and exercise and its ability to help you take focus off what must be excruciating pain.Hang in there.