We agree that they gain fat in different places. I guess we just don't agree that when you gain fat, you're fat and it doesn't matter where you put it, its still fat.
So, does Melyssa Ford look fat to you?to me, fat is when you lose your shape, and you have fat legs, thighs, fat rolls on your sides, love handles, arm fat and and a gut, that is fat to me. When a woman still keeps her shape, has a flat stomach, no fat rolls, decent arms and thighs and is able to move about better than some "fitness" chicks, then that is not "fat"
We cannot and should not used bodybuilding standards for everyday people, especially women, who wants to date a chick with flat ass and striated glutes?