Tbombz, I won't argue with your expertise on everything gay since, unlike me, you have taken it up the ass. And I agree with you. The tragedy of gay men is that they are effeminate men who want masculine men who are pretty much all attracted to women. This is a problem that in many cases lead to suicide. Many adolescent gay boys usually fall into deep depression when they realize that pretty much all of the masculine boys they find so attractive want girls. Dating other effeminate boys is not an option for them because they find effeminacy a complete turn-off. They end up accepting other effeminates as sexual/emotional partners out of a lack of option. The ones who find the idea of dating other effeminates unbearable eventually have the operation and try to become as close to a real woman as possible to attract masculine men.
I disagree with you, however, about manly gay men wanting other manly gay men. This might be true in some rare cases, like that of Alexander the Great and Hephaistion, who were both warriors, but in general the manly gay men want delicate and young men. They even have a word for it: "twink". In ancient Greece, for instance, the masculine gay men were repulsed by each other and were only attracted to young and hairless boys between ages 16 and 20 - the so-called ephebes.
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i have to say im impressed by this post smm..
but your underestimating how successful most effeminate gays are at adapting to like other effeminate gays. effeminate gays, when in love, have an extremely close bond. im not very close with too many fems but from what ive gathered its kind of a taboo for them to be emotionally interested in masculine guys. as you hinted, they learn that lesson from a young age.
there certainly are quite a few masculine gays who prefer twinks, these are usually tops who arent versatile. these are usually the guys who arent really GAY gay, but just arent attracted to women in the slightest. so they go for pretty little boys by default. these guys also arent very masculine, they are more like the average straight dude. the most masculine guys are hypermasculine, versatile and enjoy both bottoming and topping other extremely maculine men.
i assume that all of these trends would be the same for lesbians