Exactly, I also knew her [not that well] and it really hit home. To many of you it's just a thread, if it was your friend you might melt also.
As far as Greg, don't know him, but I used to assume he was a twit due to the arms, but actually from reading his post over at MD for years he actually seems pretty cool and a nice guy.
But again and I don't want to make anybody feel bad, If I would be in your situation I would simply stay away from getbig at this time.
Getbig is just the last absolutly last place you want to discuss the passing of anybody.
The very thing that makes this board float ontop of all the other boards is the fact that you can pretty much say here what you want, that in itself in this given time with all the censoring and no more free speach is very unique in itself but works ultimatly against you when you have to read other people ripping black jokes.