Female wedding ring substitute idea?

[Luv2Hurt]

DO NOT listen to what the women tell you.

Listen to YOURSELF.

30=still way too young.

Lotta life to go after that.

Yeah I agree 30 still too young, Im 44 now and just getting a clue LOL.  Thing is people feel they have to get married before 35 or something is wrong with them and pressures from friends and family "why are you not married yet?"  "Are you gay?"

[Sassyclassywoman]

Wrong on this account.  That is the last thing to do to ensure that your relationships lasts.  IMO, finding a secure, mature woman who has a career is the best bet.  If she needs constant attention, needs to constantly party to enjoy life, and can't deal with alone time then you are looking for problems.  I am so glad I figured at least that much out so far in life.

What is so wrong with a live together test run.  That seems like the most logical thing to do?

[Cap]

Yeah I agree 30 still too young, Im 44 now and just getting a clue LOL.  Thing is people feel they have to get married before 35 or something is wrong with them and pressures from friends and family "why are you not married yet?"  "Are you gay?"

Eh, I can always give mom a little grand kid, I'll just be paying child support not alimony...lol.

What is so wrong with a live together test run.  That seems like the most logical thing to do?

It is the easiest way for one to not take marriage seriously and to ruin a current relationship.  Older generations really had this one right. 

[Sassyclassywoman]

huh... good point.    But what if marriage starts becoming a possibility and both parties become serious?

[Cap]

huh... good point.    But what if marriage starts becoming a possibility and both parties become serious?

Spending more time together is good but from experience it screws up a good thing.  I also did a lot of academic research for a thesis paper; needless to say 20 pages (research paper) later I learned a lot, all of which applied to my life.  There are so many negatives to cohabitation that can be seen in both gay and straight couples, one of the most common is violence. 

Basically, in cohabitation you learn that you can walk away from a seriously committed relationship and that carries over to marriage. 

[Sassyclassywoman]

oh wow..  I didn't know that.. 

[Parker]

I think that was the 60's?
Hooked Up=Made someone your whore for the night
Dating=Fucking for now
Seeing someone=Fucking less regularly
Married=Can't pull anymore ass and/or Whipped Hard
Happily Single=Good relationship with internet porn
Happily Married=Wife takes it anally on command

Quote this for posterity

[tu_holmes]

Spending more time together is good but from experience it screws up a good thing.  I also did a lot of academic research for a thesis paper; needless to say 20 pages (research paper) later I learned a lot, all of which applied to my life.  There are so many negatives to cohabitation that can be seen in both gay and straight couples, one of the most common is violence. 

Basically, in cohabitation you learn that you can walk away from a seriously committed relationship and that carries over to marriage. 

Seeing a woman anymore that 2 or 3 times a week is a guaranteed fuckup.

[Cap]

Seeing a woman anymore that 2 or 3 times a week is a guaranteed fuckup.

Quoted for truth

[gordiano]

Yeah I agree 30 still too young, Im 44 now and just getting a clue LOL.  Thing is people feel they have to get married before 35 or something is wrong with them and pressures from friends and family "why are you not married yet?"  "Are you gay?"

That's part of the problem, right there. People such as friends and usually family, trying to tell you what to do. My mother was always that way. Always pressuring, "when are you gonna marry? Blah blah blah." What didn't help was her stupid religious beliefs, which she was always imposing on me. Cause you know, "god" is really concerned about me boning chicks I'm not married to. Instead of say....the non-stop wars, crimes, starvation, et cetera, around the world. 

I swear, it's like they want you to be miserable as well.

In your case, the whole "are you gay?" thing.....well, you do like to stand on stage in your underwear...

[ozman]

NASTY

[Croatch]

That's part of the problem, right there. People such as friends and usually family, trying to tell you what to do. My mother was always that way. Always pressuring, "when are you gonna marry? Blah blah blah." What didn't help was her stupid religious beliefs, which she was always imposing on me. Cause you know, "god" is really concerned about me boning chicks I'm not married to. Instead of say....the non-stop wars, crimes, starvation, et cetera, around the world. 

I swear, it's like they want you to be miserable as well.

In your case, the whole "are you gay?" thing.....well, you do like to stand on stage in your underwear...

haha, Good stuff.  Same on the "future princesses" being raised.  Reminds me of my ex girlfriend.  Biggest goal in life, get a ring, have a big generic guido wedding...haha, pathetic.   In general, women are pretty unintelligent.  This may come as a shock to some people, I know.   I will say, through excessive daily breast meditation, my head was so spun...I was actually considering marriage..haha  Careful, oversized titties on a regular basis, will seriously fuck up your head.

[Eyeball Chambers]

If they're married to Coach, maybe. 

You're rude.  Coach has overcome adversity and obstacles none of us could.

[Cleanest Natural]

If you want a marriage to last you need to marry a woman that can hold her own.  She should be educated, with a job and you should do the same.  That will eliminate money problems which destroy most marriages.  Secondly, you and she should hold similar values which can be heritage (you're asian, she's asian), religion,  and opinions.  Thirdly, meet her family.  By looking at the woman's family, you are seeing what she will look like in the future and also where she came from as a person.   Then, you should have a test run.  Live with her at least a year to see if she is hiding anything from you about her personality, health and lifestyle.  If you follow this, and it turns out right for you, then this marriage should definitely last. 

ever been married ?

[medz zeppelin]

Always get the wife a really good ring, then she wont get upset when your coming home late from your girlfriends house.

see kobe

[no one]

You're rude.  Coach has overcome adversity and obstacles none of us could.

oh shit!

lol.

[Sassyclassywoman]

ever been married ?

Nope, I just know it works.

[Cap]

Nope, I just know it works.

Marriage or the advice you gave?