Yeah I agree 30 still too young, Im 44 now and just getting a clue LOL. Thing is people feel they have to get married before 35 or something is wrong with them and pressures from friends and family "why are you not married yet?" "Are you gay?"
That's part of the problem, right there. People such as friends and usually family, trying to tell you what to do. My mother was always that way. Always pressuring, "when are you gonna marry? Blah blah blah." What didn't help was her stupid religious beliefs, which she was always imposing on me. Cause you know, "god" is really concerned about me boning chicks I'm not married to. Instead of say....the non-stop wars, crimes, starvation, et cetera, around the world.
I swear, it's like they want you to be miserable as well.
In your case, the whole "are you gay?" thing.....well, you do like to stand on stage in your underwear...