i love it when people try to justify being with 1 person for 50 + years with things like u have to try hard to make it work etc., while there is no way we are monogamous lol, once ur sex interest in ur partner fades away it's simply time to move on

my grandfather ceased being able to have sex when he was 50 due to prostate cancer.
Theyre now both 85, they married at 17 and have no udea whay theyd do without each other. They havent had sex in nearly 35 years of the nearly 70 years theyve beem together.
My parents have been married 42 years.
My uncles have been married 40 years and 30 years respectively
I could go on and on..
If you cant stand the idea of being monogomous, by all means, just say so, but dont act like its inherent in our nature that we MUST fuck around. Its a relatievly new idea pushed by people who dont like the idea of committment and/or who fear getting fucked by a shitty woman they cant control.