Another reason not to get married

[BigRo]

no matter how cool a girlfreind is they all change bro when u get married, its like they think a ring on their finger means u r a prisoner in jail and they r the warden. if i could do it all over i would never get married man,i envy u bro caus u r still free, i got 8 yr old son that loves me,hes not old enough to realize his old man is a loser so he looks up to me,im ready to split cause when he realizes im a fucking failure he will turn on me also. wish i could get the balls up to slice my wrist and end this shit

dont think of yourself this way. If your a good person who has love in his heart that is enough, why let society tell you who you are...

[_aj_]

Lately have had a few friends have their marriages turn into thermonuclear divorce war. Never seen such hatred before.

[MikMaq]

Have children can be an amazing fulfilling experience for fathers

But once you have a child, the mother of the child owns your wallet for the next 18 years regardless of whether you are in a relationship with her or not.

Mothers often spend their child support money on handbags and shoes to wear to their next date with their new boyfriend.

Whatever dude there are more than a few dudes dropping $200 a month which won't even cover the kids food.

[Wolfox]

no matter how cool a girlfreind is they all change bro when u get married, its like they think a ring on their finger means u r a prisoner in jail and they r the warden. if i could do it all over i would never get married man,i envy u bro caus u r still free, i got 8 yr old son that loves me,hes not old enough to realize his old man is a loser so he looks up to me,im ready to split cause when he realizes im a fucking failure he will turn on me also. wish i could get the balls up to slice my wrist and end this shit

You're not a loser bro. Don't say stuff like that. You're a king like all fathers are to their children so you gotta be strong for him.

[Wolfox]

dont think of yourself this way. If your a good person who has love in his heart that is enough, why let society tell you who you are...

This. You don't need money or material possessions to be a good person.

[The_Iron_Disciple]

Whatever dude there are more than a few dudes dropping $200 a month which won't even cover the kids food.

I've dated a couple moms who were getting child support. And very rarely did I see that much go towards the child. Completely and totally fucked up. :/

[CDel19]

I am in the middle of a divorce w two young children-I had a good sex life w a good woman who I wasn't in love with and had affairs-we own a house together and at first made it out like I was a pot smoking juicehead using trt against me and my joy of marijuana after the gym LOL-anyway we becoming civil-I don't mind living in my parents basement where I grew up to afford keeping the house for my kids in the meantime-I live w my gf and her son 60 miles away on weekends and I basically left for her as eventually it would have been someone else I guess-but we have great connection-she is divorced from a man who cheated on her and had a kid w his gumada-i get depressed that things aren't the same w my kids but it will get better and actually enjoy being alone a few days a week-I Felt I got married because I had kids already-no more kids w the gf and idk if we get married one day but we will be domestic partners def -I love here enough to get married romantically but marriage is no doubt a benefit to a woman....If you saw her tits and ass youd understand why..but if it all goes to shit one day ill always have my test deca weed and right hand w many woman who wanna fuck me for my muscles and that will be enough cause im 42 now and this will be my last serious relationship    wish me luck  

[CDel19]

I've dated a couple moms who were getting child support. And very rarely did I see that much go towards the child. Completely and totally fucked up. :/

my gf ex is a bar owner who is finally doing the right thing after fucking her financially and it goes to her rent after she had to foreclose -so its not always the woman who is f up

[Parker]

I've been married 5 years and while Oldtimers post scares the shit out of me as I too have seen that happen, I think there are a few things that must be done to as best as you can ensure a decent marriage:

1- Live together before marriage. A must to see if you mesh.
2- Gauge her willingness to do anal.

That's what most people do. And many of those same people are getting divorce. Also, don't buy a house together if you two are not married. Watch Judge Judy for the answer.

[Wolfox]

I am in the middle of a divorce w two young children-I had a good sex life w a good woman who I wasn't in love with and had affairs-we own a house together and at first made it out like I was a pot smoking juicehead using trt against me and my joy of marijuana after the gym LOL-anyway we becoming civil-I don't mind living in my parents basement where I grew up to afford keeping the house for my kids in the meantime-I live w my gf and her son 60 miles away on weekends and I basically left for her as eventually it would have been someone else I guess-but we have great connection-she is divorced from a man who cheated on her and had a kid w his gumada-i get depressed that things aren't the same w my kids but it will get better and actually enjoy being alone a few days a week-I Felt I got married because I had kids already-no more kids w the gf and idk if we get married one day but we will be domestic partners def -I love here enough to get married romantically but marriage is no doubt a benefit to a woman....If you saw her tits and ass youd understand why..but if it all goes to shit one day ill always have my test deca weed and right hand w many woman who wanna fuck me for my muscles and that will be enough cause im 42 now and this will be my last serious relationship    wish me luck  

Good luck, brother. I hope you find happiness with this new woman.

[nzmusclemonster]

no matter how cool a girlfreind is they all change bro when u get married, its like they think a ring on their finger means u r a prisoner in jail and they r the warden. if i could do it all over i would never get married man,i envy u bro caus u r still free, i got 8 yr old son that loves me,hes not old enough to realize his old man is a loser so he looks up to me,im ready to split cause when he realizes im a fucking failure he will turn on me also. wish i could get the balls up to slice my wrist and end this shit

Lol 

[anabolichalo]

what the fuck is tinder anyway

i see it on getbig mentioned a lot the last few months

[Nails]

51yr old wizard size sleeve slit  

[Shockwave]

On Kelly Ripa's show, they were talking about a study that showed the correlation between people who have expensive or large weddings, and those who have cheap weddings and the longevity of their marriages. The study found out that those who were cheap, were focused on the marriage, not the wedding.
Kelly Ripa said that her wedding was $175 (It was around that number), and she can show people how to hav a cheap wedding.

Many of today's women tend to want to get married in huge extravagant weddings, with that whole "Princess" atmosphere. But, many don't care about who they are marrying or are focused on the future---the marriage.
And the men, they just go along with it. So, you have many women pretending the whole damn time, and the man is either glad to get it over with, or having the wool pulled over his eyes.
As an older dude told me, and someone on here said that they were told by an older person, "marry a cheap woman".

It's all about me, me...
And that woman said it. Maybe she feels unappreciated, who knows. But, she comes off as selfish. But, reality will hit hard...
The thing is, she is 51, what type of men or quality of men is she pulling? By the time she is 55, 60...those young guys are going to dry up, because they will be after younger women. And these older women have to compete with younger women.

yup.

My wife and i didnt evem have a wedding, i was a broke college kid.. we went down to the courthouse and got married and her ring cost 750 at the time.

We may do a small family wedding and renew our vows on our 5th anniversery or before my grandparents pass away, but its more for our family than anything.

When we met we both had next to nothing, so it was all about US, and not what we could give each other.

In fact, she worked and paid the bills while i finished college.

[Thong Maniac]

yup.

My wife and i didnt evem have a wedding, i was a broke college kid.. we went down to the courthouse and got married and her ring cost 750 at the time.

We may do a small family wedding and renew our vows on our 5th anniversery or before my grandparents pass away, but its more for our family than anything.

When we met we both had next to nothing, so it was all about US, and not what we could give each other.

In fact, she worked and paid the bills while i finished college.

Nice man, that is how it should be.
My wife was surrounded by wealth and was an only child so of course we had the dream wedding of sorts, cliche as hell and awful. Was more for my bitch mother in law than either of us. Lookig back, my wife is much more simple now and less princessy which i attritube to her growing up alot and also moving away from her folks to the other side of the country. Not sure what it is, but breaking your wife away from the restraints and opinions of the mom, does wonders for growth and maturity

[_aj_]

yup.

My wife and i didnt evem have a wedding, i was a broke college kid.. we went down to the courthouse and got married and her ring cost 750 at the time.

We may do a small family wedding and renew our vows on our 5th anniversery or before my grandparents pass away, but its more for our family than anything.

When we met we both had next to nothing, so it was all about US, and not what we could give each other.

In fact, she worked and paid the bills while i finished college.

My wife and I were doing great financially and we decided to have a small wedding. Who am I to argue with a woman that wants to elope? We ended up with 6 people at the wedding, including the priest. Cost me about $1000 with dinner.

[El Diablo Blanco]

a friend of mine married a total kunt who was a single mom.  After two years they divorced, now he has to pay for her and the fucking kid.  As long as she doesn't remary he has to pay her alimony checks.  She ends up meeting some other dude and they date for a while and he wants to marry her but she refuses to get married because she's getting the free checks.  What a fucked up situation.

[anabolichalo]

a friend of mine married a total kunt who was a single mom.  After two years they divorced, now he has to pay for her and the fucking kid.  As long as she doesn't remary he has to pay her alimony checks.  She ends up meeting some other dude and they date for a while and he wants to marry her but she refuses to get married because she's getting the free checks.  What a fucked up situation.

[Voice of Doom]

She'll run out of steam after a few years and then regret her decision to throw away marriage on a mid life crisis.  I thought the articles last line about "this is her reward for 20 years of service" was a bunch of bullshit.  Would they have written that if it was the husband breaking up the family for new young pussy?   

Nothing wrong with marriage if that's what you want.  My advice is don't do it with a woman raised in Western European/North American cultures.  Pick a woman from a more traditional background.

[gracie bjj]

I am in the middle of a divorce w two young children-I had a good sex life w a good woman who I wasn't in love with and had affairs-we own a house together and at first made it out like I was a pot smoking juicehead using trt against me and my joy of marijuana after the gym LOL-anyway we becoming civil-I don't mind living in my parents basement where I grew up to afford keeping the house for my kids in the meantime-I live w my gf and her son 60 miles away on weekends and I basically left for her as eventually it would have been someone else I guess-but we have great connection-she is divorced from a man who cheated on her and had a kid w his gumada-i get depressed that things aren't the same w my kids but it will get better and actually enjoy being alone a few days a week-I Felt I got married because I had kids already-no more kids w the gf and idk if we get married one day but we will be domestic partners def -I love here enough to get married romantically but marriage is no doubt a benefit to a woman....If you saw her tits and ass youd understand why..but if it all goes to shit one day ill always have my test deca weed and right hand w many woman who wanna fuck me for my muscles and that will be enough cause im 42 now and this will be my last serious relationship    wish me luck  

wow man sorry to hear that,when kids r involved it changes everything from being somewhat easy to really really hard,just hang in there man and everything will work out,remember that your kids r number one and thats all that matters,u will b ok trust me bro

[anabolichalo]

She'll run out of steam after a few years and then regret her decision to throw away marriage on a mid life crisis.  I thought the articles last line about "this is her reward for 20 years of service" was a bunch of bullshit.  Would they have written that if it was the husband breaking up the family for new young pussy?   

Nothing wrong with marriage if that's what you want.  My advice is don't do it with a woman raised in Western European/North American cultures.  Pick a woman from a more traditional background.

this was my first thought

bunch of idiots these women


their bodies have expired on them so they can never find tru love again

just a few horny dudes looking for a cock hole

[Natural Man]

99.9% of marriages end cause woman doesnt want to suck dick.

[Costanza]

In the last week I've spotted two women on Tinder who are married to mates of mine, both of which have kids....torn as to whether or not I should tell them. Personally if I was married and my friends knew my wife was whoring around I'd want them to tell me.

[bigmc]

Social media and the internet are the #1 cause of the skyrocketing divorce rate.

Makes it super easy for sluts to slut, and there 10 million guys willing to fawn over ever woman for a chance of pussy, regardless of how ugly or fat she is. Suddenly every woman thinks theyre a 10 and are entitled to everything theyve ever wanted because theres 60 dudes on their facebook telling them how hot they are..

That said, if a slut is going to slut, better off she does it and the guy finds out sooner rather than it happening after 20 years if marriage.

Truth

[Palpatine Q]

I have seen it so many times.  A man gets divorced and loses his house and the good car to his wife. He has to dish out monthly money to his wife and kids. Now he's broke he goes from living in a nice house to living like a rat in poorly furnished apartment.

 Now he's an older guys with little disposable income and no house. The women barely look at him. He finds most of his friends fall to the way side because their wives side with his ex.

The wife on the other hand starts dating like mad going on dating sites and getting fixed up from her girlfriends. She has a nice house and money coming in from the husband. Whenever she wants to have wild weekends she drops off the kids to her husband if the kids are young. Her face book blows up with pictures of her partying at clubs, restaurants, casinos, male strip clubs, and weekend getaways. She is smiling like a lunatic in all her pictures as she loves the attention from all the younger men that want to bang her.

When the husband goes to pick up the kids he waits while they get ready. Her boyfriend pulls up in his car that he had to give up in the divorce with a 12 pack of beer. He sits in his favorite spot and opens beer watching the game on the big screen tv that ex husband worked over time to afford.

Sorry about that dude.  i didn't know you were going to be there that fast.

That is a nice TV