Milos, if you are really as upstanding with your monetary relationships as you sound, you need not be so defensive. However, all those whom I have had business dealings with that become defensive upon confrontation regarding their ethic have been the very ones who end up not having the ethic they so ardently defend. I think this is the point Knny is trying to make w/ this thread...Mustafa hasn't once tried to defend himself, yet I'm sure he's online.
How am I being defensive?
By answering to the "charge"?
By making myself available to answer to anyone that has something to say about me?
It is very easy to ignore everyone and NOT to respond to the questions that could be "uncomfortable"...
If I have something to hide and IF I am afraid that someone REALLY did give me the money and I didn't pay them back - I would probably be silent...
But, when someone accuse me of something - instead of attacking them I politely said - OK if that is the case - go ahead and tell me WHO it is and what amount we are talking about...
So - people can see IF I am guilty as charged...
Now, as far as Mustafa (and I see that you are his fan) - YES he is on boards reading all this - and guess why he is not responding?
It is interesting how some of you judge someone who is standing up and making himself available to answer any questions (like I did in this case) as being defensive...