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« on: November 22, 2006, 11:25:37 PM »

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« Reply #1 on: November 23, 2006, 12:49:19 AM »

2ice ...

My first serious girlfriend Maria.

The closest thing to love I can remember....

So far removed from that memory now.

I'm a completely different person, hardened by life's rough edges.

She was soft, smooth and delicious......for my hands, for my soul.

At least I have the memory.



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« Reply #2 on: November 23, 2006, 05:55:29 AM »

Twice.

Firstly to the girl I lost my virginity to.

Secondly, my wife.
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« Reply #3 on: November 23, 2006, 07:32:33 AM »

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« Reply #4 on: November 23, 2006, 10:15:11 AM »

Ya know...that's truly a tough question.  Each time we tell someone we love them (boyfriend/girlfriend) and mean it...aren't we saying that we're "in love" with them?

Maybe you meant "true love".  A love that never dies regardless of the circumstances.

That being said I believe that is what I have now.  It certainly feels like it.  I can't see my life without Michael.  My world revolves around him and our happiness together.  Every breath I take in is of him and exhale whispers his name.  He is my first thought in the morning and the very last thought before I fall asleep.  I can only hope to have this feeling forever.  To me, that is true love...
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« Reply #5 on: November 23, 2006, 11:50:01 AM »

Twice for me. I think i've been in lust a hell of a lot more.

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« Reply #6 on: November 23, 2006, 03:00:37 PM »

I've "loved" 2 guys....one being my husband

I've been "IN LOVE" only once.  I know now what it is really like to be in love and feel complete, simply from someone's existance.  I'm with Cheri when I say...I can't see myself without Bob. 

While I've lived a fun and interesting life...it was nothing compared to the life I have now.
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« Reply #7 on: November 23, 2006, 08:12:02 PM »

twice.  but I've been in like, plenty of times
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« Reply #8 on: November 23, 2006, 08:41:23 PM »

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« Reply #9 on: November 23, 2006, 09:11:12 PM »

like i always say, it's a helluva drug.
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« Reply #10 on: November 23, 2006, 09:32:30 PM »

Between the ages of 14-19, nine times. Since then, twice.
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« Reply #11 on: November 23, 2006, 09:36:52 PM »


2 seems to be the magic no. in this thread . . .

I'm interested in hearing about what happened to love no. 1. 

I'm assuming y'all held on to no. 2.

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« Reply #12 on: November 23, 2006, 09:40:02 PM »

There always has to be one tragedy...  Cry

What's your magic number then... come on... fess up!  Smiley
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« Reply #13 on: November 23, 2006, 09:47:57 PM »

There always has to be one tragedy...  Cry

What's your magic number then... come on... fess up!  Smiley

still waiting for lightning to strike.   Sad

what's your tragic story?

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« Reply #14 on: November 23, 2006, 09:56:26 PM »

In a nutshell, fell madly in love with an "older" man... we were blissfully happy, ski weekends in Vermont, two dogs, laughed and talked into the wee hours, sailing weekends in the summer, supportive of each other's hopes and dreams, shared a love of theater and literature, the whole package... then his mid-life hit and he found religion in an extreme way. Wanted me to convert. I tried... but eventually it all fell apart. We shared custody of the dogs for awhile (not a good idea, trust me!). Finally, almost a year later, we had the "let's be friends lunch" where after a bunch of small talk, he said it was better when we were together, how he missed our life, how the religion thing was silly, etc... and at that moment, I hated him. Worse, I caught him sneaking a look at my hiney on the way out of the restaurant and never took another one of his calls again.  Smiley After that, life has been great.
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« Reply #15 on: November 23, 2006, 10:03:31 PM »

How can you say you've never been in love...  Sad
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« Reply #16 on: November 23, 2006, 10:21:02 PM »

. . . and at that moment, I hated him.

i can and can't understand that.

I can't understand how you can hate someone you were in love with, but I do understand that b/c I've never really hated any of my exes.

How can I say it? I've just never been . . . I've quite liked (and continue to like to some degree) and been quite comfortable w my exes, but i can't really say i've placed any of them above everything else. maybe for a brief time, but it was usually b/c of the sex or guilt . . .
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« Reply #17 on: November 23, 2006, 10:32:47 PM »

Maybe hate is a harsh word... disgusted was more like it. After all the grief, it turned out his "convictions" weren't all that. Besides, once you've tuned someone out, it's discomfiting to hear maudlin sentiments. (Plus, the sharing of the dogs had created some embarrassing situations.)

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How can I say it? I've just never been . . . I've quite liked (and continue to like to some degree) and been quite comfortable w my exes, but i can't really say i've placed any of them above everything else. maybe for a brief time, but it was usually b/c of the sex or guilt . . .

As for this other, I understand what you mean.  However, I have faith in you.
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« Reply #18 on: November 23, 2006, 10:58:27 PM »

once and it was also my biggest tragedy.
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« Reply #19 on: November 24, 2006, 06:22:28 AM »

I am not sure I ever kept track past the couple of special ones. The first real out of high school serious love was what I have both the fondest and saddest memorires of. Michele (turtle) was my best friend first (code for I wanted her with all my soul and she had just came out of a serious relationship and was affraid) she helped shape both good and bad standards I looked for for the rest of my life. I loved her with a passion and fury only youth knows. I also broke her heart with the crazy fire of young manhood that even to this day I feel bad about.I had a couple of degrees of love after including a girl I grew up with and my ex wife and a few times I felt I could be in love but pulled back. I have had occasion in my life to be extreamly passionate and even can say I fell in love with a friend of mine due to the closesness we shared over a long distance.

All that being said there is only one person I ever fell for after one date and love beyond myself and no matter where I go or what happens to me I consider myself lucky to know her, I call her my wife, and I hope I always have the honor of doing so because she treats me better then I deserve and if I live to be a hundred I will never be able to do enough for her to warrent all she has done for me.
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« Reply #20 on: November 24, 2006, 06:56:44 AM »

2 seems to be the magic no. in this thread . . .

I'm interested in hearing about what happened to love no. 1. 

I'm assuming y'all held on to no. 2.


Number 1 has to be the highschool puppy love thing. When that doesn't work it becomes heartbreaking especially since you don't know how to react being the first time. The second is the relationship you think is "the one" but it ends in tragady.

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« Reply #21 on: November 24, 2006, 08:49:08 AM »

Number 1 has to be the highschool puppy love thing. When that doesn't work it becomes heartbreaking especially since you don't know how to react being the first time. The second is the relationship you think is "the one" but it ends in tragady.

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« Reply #22 on: November 24, 2006, 08:49:56 AM »

Number 1 has to be the highschool puppy love thing. When that doesn't work it becomes heartbreaking especially since you don't know how to react being the first time. The second is the relationship you think is "the one" but it ends in tragady.

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« Reply #23 on: November 24, 2006, 08:51:48 AM »

Damn! Couldn't have said it better myself.

Morning Smurfette, hope you had a happy turkey day..Smiley
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« Reply #24 on: November 24, 2006, 08:54:05 AM »

Morning! Yes I did thank you (I ate waaay too much), I hope yours went well also.
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