Author Topic: Advice to the lonely flotsom and jetsom on Getbig. (Read 20400 times)

WillGrant · « **Reply #50 on:** December 26, 2009, 11:21:41 PM »

Quote from: Quickerblade on December 26, 2009, 11:15:49 PM

Some guys here are just stuck in a rut and need a little motivation Vince, maybe some need a tan, whiten there teeth, a new hairstyle, fragrance, dressing style. Confidence is key, you cannot be nervous and ask a girl "um would you um like to ahh err stay with me at the umm shangri la hotel please" its my confidence that works for me.

I have been in positions where im just talking to a girl and mid conversation i make out with her..thats exciting for her. thats passion.

lol

webcake · « **Reply #51 on:** December 26, 2009, 11:21:43 PM »

Should i take this bitch i have been working on to a new years eve function i will be attending?

everyone cops a root on new years eve, right?

Quickerblade · « **Reply #52 on:** December 26, 2009, 11:23:27 PM »

Quote from: webcake on December 26, 2009, 11:21:43 PM

Should i take this bitch i have been working on to a new years eve function i will be attending?

everyone cops a root on new years eve, right?

absolutely web.
why not?

WillGrant · « **Reply #53 on:** December 26, 2009, 11:27:15 PM »

Quote from: webcake on December 26, 2009, 11:21:43 PM

Should i take this bitch i have been working on to a new years eve function i will be attending?

everyone cops a root on new years eve, right?

Dirty Sanchez her to

Vince B · « **Reply #54 on:** December 26, 2009, 11:27:31 PM »

"I have been in positions where im just talking to a girl and mid conversation i make out with her..thats exciting for her. thats passion."

Few muscleheads could ever post something like this. It takes more than a casual chat to score.

What about that strategy where the guy spoils the gal rotten on the first date and spends a fortune but that is the last time he does? I heard some Lebanese dudes used this trick. The gals are amazed and fall for the guy thinking he is rich, etc. Naturally it helps him get lucky.

webcake · « **Reply #55 on:** December 26, 2009, 11:28:18 PM »

she's hot, but fucking annoying at the same time. def just a one night kinda thing. seems like she isn't worthy of attending this new years eve do. how do i get rid of her afterwards?

Quickerblade · « **Reply #56 on:** December 26, 2009, 11:32:16 PM »

Quote from: Vince Basile on December 26, 2009, 11:27:31 PM

"I have been in positions where im just talking to a girl and mid conversation i make out with her..thats exciting for her. thats passion."

Few muscleheads could ever post something like this. It takes more than a casual chat to score.

What about that strategy where the guy spoils the gal rotten on the first date and spends a fortune but that is the last time he does? I heard some Lebanese dudes used this trick. The gals are amazed and fall for the guy thinking he is rich, etc. Naturally it helps him get lucky.

I prefer not to spend a lot of $$, they may as well hire a hooker, if they had any game at all they could win her over by taking her to the beach and having a few beers. It important the girl likes me for me and not money.
and it really take a dumb bitch to be amazed that a guy spent so much on the 1st date, girls actually find it creepy.

webcake · « **Reply #57 on:** December 26, 2009, 11:35:02 PM »

lol, what is a "jetsom"?

Quickerblade · « **Reply #58 on:** December 26, 2009, 11:35:31 PM »

Quote from: webcake on December 26, 2009, 11:28:18 PM

she's hot, but fucking annoying at the same time. def just a one night kinda thing. seems like she isn't worthy of attending this new years eve do. how do i get rid of her afterwards?

act sick and confused, she will rid herself of u..works all the time.

when i have girls over, i dont want them spending the night, so when they get cozy in bed i put on the lights play the xbox 360, if she doesnt take a hint, i get dressed and say lets go out..she will get the hint then.

webcake · « **Reply #59 on:** December 26, 2009, 11:38:46 PM »

sick and confused.......lol, that shouldn't be too hard for me.

Quickerblade · « **Reply #60 on:** December 26, 2009, 11:41:32 PM »

Quote from: webcake on December 26, 2009, 11:38:46 PM

sick and confused.......lol, that shouldn't be too hard for me.

good, then use it, i hate when girls stay over, if they stay once they think its ok to stay over again. No thanks, unless bitch wants chip in for the mortgage for her stay she can fuck off back to her apartment where 7 motherfuckers live all crammed together.

webcake · « **Reply #61 on:** December 26, 2009, 11:46:16 PM »

lol, share houses. What a nightmare that must be.

if she sees how i roll on new years eve, she will never leave me alone. I might have to rethink this over a bit more.

Vince B · « **Reply #62 on:** December 27, 2009, 01:26:10 AM »

There is a difference between scoring and having girlfriends. Any player would be wise not to bring any woman home because if they like you they will want to see you more and then you might have them showing up at inconvenient times. Obviously this has happened to QB so he has learned the hard way.

The occasion when he rented the hotel room in the hope the gal would show is not something a player would do. Especially one who claims he doesn't spend money on them. Why pay for an expensive room and not buy her what she wants to eat? The dude would boast about doing that only after he had sex and didn't particularly want to see her again. I mean, he wouldn't want a gal who would have affairs on the side, right? The rule is not to do anything that you don't know the answer to. If you can't be sure the gal would show then you don't rent the room. If she had rented the room then the player would be laughing. That isn't what I read. Guys that rent hotel rooms in the hope some sheila will front usually don't post about their failures on the internet. Posting about successes is bad form, too. Just remember, lots of guys here pretend to be impressed just to get you to reveal more of your stories. Nothing like an 'expert' to amuse the flotsam.

The truth is you have to behave in a decent way if you are going to have girlfriends. Simple as that. There are no shortcuts. A good strategy is to tell them you would like to talk to them again. That doesn't cost anything and at least you will find out if they might be interested.

BTW, Christmas and NYEve are bad times for relationships and many have problems or feel unhappy. It is a good time to meet disgruntled singles. The other good occasion is around Valentine's Day. If you don't ask a gal out don't blame women or the world for your loneliness. Most of us muscleheads would rather be lonely than feel rejected or undesirable.

Kwon · « **Reply #63 on:** December 27, 2009, 01:32:31 AM »

Welcome back Vince Basile!

Quickerblade · « **Reply #64 on:** December 27, 2009, 01:43:59 AM »

Quote from: Vince Basile on December 27, 2009, 01:26:10 AM

Why pay for an expensive room

this very subjective, maybe expensive to some. but i do understand where your coming from.

as for failures, i have crashed and burned many times, and i dont regret it, even michael jordan missed heaps of shots, years ago i saw Jamie foxx get knocked back girl after girl at the Establishment bar in the city, so if a hollywood oscar winner can fail so can i, its how u bounce back.

what are u supposed to do after a failing pick up or bad date? just give up? no, jump back on the horse and do it again.

I never said i was a expert, i just post some stories to entertain, no such thing as an expert, and you are right, its the girl that makes the decision on what happens.

Vince B · « **Reply #65 on:** December 27, 2009, 02:09:28 AM »

I just want to comment on the cavalier style of guy you were presenting who seemed to score at will all the time and who treated those conquests badly afterwards. Scoring doesn't happen that often. Yes, sometimes when you know a gal really likes you then you can ignore them and so on and they end up liking you more. Doesn't make sense but that is what happens. Women hate to be ignored. You are right about the best subject for a conversation with them......them! Yep, they are always willing to talk about themselves and even bad past relationships. Somehow you get across things about them that you like and then do other things that positively reinforce them. There is no substitute for experience and intelligence but all of that is insufficient to work out what the heck they want most of the time.

About going to parties. Those who go with a hot gal can usually meet other women because they seem to be attracted to guys who are successful with women. Guys who go alone are advertising that they have no one and gals instinctively wonder about you. Heck, bring someone attractive even if you aren't close and then do your own thing on NY Eve. Come to think about it, being single isn't that great. The internet helps but there are too many lonely people out there.

Quickerblade · « **Reply #66 on:** December 27, 2009, 02:41:15 AM »

Quote from: disturbia on December 27, 2009, 02:14:53 AM

quickerblade scores hot legal age chicks

Basile scores children

game over

Basile is trying to help out the guys here.

Its fair to say im in an industry where females are abundant, i make my intentions clear, some like it some dont, its like when you put your order through at the restaraunt, i put my order through when i meet a girl..some girls will give you what you ordered. some girls will have sex with you and a cool with not chatting again, some girls use sex to obtain a relationship.

WillGrant · « **Reply #67 on:** December 27, 2009, 02:44:17 AM »

Quote from: Quickerblade on December 27, 2009, 02:41:15 AM

Basile is trying to help out the guys here.

Its fair to say im in an industry where females are abundant, i make my intentions clear, some like it some dont, its like when you put your order through at the restaraunt, i put my order through when i meet a girl..some girls will give you what you ordered. some girls will have sex with you and a cool with not chatting again, some girls use sex to obtain a relationship.

So you visit brothals?

Quickerblade · « **Reply #68 on:** December 27, 2009, 02:48:25 AM »

Quote from: WillGrant on December 27, 2009, 02:44:17 AM

So you visit brothals?

No, i wouldnt pay to buy a girl a chocolate bar let alone pay her for her time.

Vince B · « **Reply #69 on:** December 27, 2009, 03:10:15 AM »

Those who are successful with women can detect others who are as well. No worries there about QB because he gets his fair share. Working with women he has learned to listen and so has insider knowledge about how they think re men. So he merely applies that to what he does with them and voila, it works. Well, enough to feel confident to pass on some tips to those date challenged blokes out there. Goodness knows gyms are full of guys who have little clue how to get a gal. Guys like QB have to keep more than his share of lonely women content but he must be tiring of the responsibility. After a while the conquests mean less and less and players will want a really top gal to be with instead of scoring with those he has little interest in.

The single thing I did to change my luck when I was young was to be interested in the gals who liked me. That made a huge difference. The guy here wondering about the Indian gal is not on easy street. It is much easier to negotiate some fun with a gal who already thinks you are okay. That is essentially what QB is saying about his conversations with them. He listens and asks pertinent questions to see how he is going. When he gets sufficient feedback that they like him he is home and hosed. The rest is too easy. The only trouble with this behaviour is you never meet the really special gal you dream about. However, having some affairs sure compensates for not having your soul mate. The really attractive gals aren't always asked out because guys assume they already have someone and second, they wouldn't go with them anyway. A lot of not so handsome guys get pretty gals because they weren't afraid to approach them and talk to them. Talking is the key.

Quickerblade · « **Reply #70 on:** December 27, 2009, 03:21:03 AM »

Quote from: Vince Basile on December 27, 2009, 03:10:15 AM

Talking is the key.

Jackpot

Talking is key, but dont talk to much shit, your opinion is useless, let her say whats on her mind, from there on you can gauge how she feel towards you, her body language is important, its subconscious, playing with her hair, smiling at you, biting her lips trying not to smile, her head leaning forward towards you.

Vince B · « **Reply #71 on:** December 27, 2009, 04:01:46 AM »

The amusing thing is guys at my gym would be more interested in a 'seminar' about how to meet women than in one re building muscles. No, I haven't given any such thing because it would be seen to be socially inappropriate. However, the interest is there. Those who have figured out a bit about how to proceed can pass on any tips to those who are a bit apprehensive.

QB might agree that it is harder to get rid of some women than to make out with them. That might sound crazy to sex starved guys out there but it is true, nevertheless.

About talking. By all means talk about her and what interests her. Not about yourself. At the end of a conversation you should know a lot about her but remain a mystery guy to her. That is part of the mystique of clever operators like QB. He must have the looks to go with that flair otherwise it won't work.

Quickerblade · « **Reply #72 on:** December 27, 2009, 04:10:55 AM »

Quote from: Vince Basile on December 27, 2009, 04:01:46 AM

The amusing thing is guys at my gym would be more interested in a 'seminar' about how to meet women than in one re building muscles. No, I haven't given any such thing because it would be seen to be socially inappropriate. However, the interest is there. Those who have figured out a bit about how to proceed can pass on any tips to those who are a bit apprehensive.

QB might agree that it is harder to get rid of some women than to make out with them. That might sound crazy to sex starved guys out there but it is true, nevertheless.

About talking. By all means talk about her and what interests her. Not about yourself. At the end of a conversation you should know a lot about her but remain a mystery guy to her. That is part of the mystique of clever operators like QB. He must have the looks to go with that flair otherwise it won't work.

well i do get compared to colin farrell alot, but yes, get her to tell you all she can about her, reveal nothing and watch her call, text you like crazy, dont call or text back straight away, u have the power, u are a mystery, stay that way

Vince B · « **Reply #73 on:** December 27, 2009, 04:23:47 AM »

The psychology of dealing positively with women is challenging. Sometimes doing the opposite of what you want to do works. Everyone wants to feel attractive and desirable. So if you refrain from giving that to an attractive woman you are withholding positive reinforcement and they don't like it. It is one way to get their attention. They know you are interested but aren't going overboard to impress them. So negative psychology can work. If you find a really attractive woman and instead of telling her how great she looks (which she hears all the time) you point out some flaw and what a pity that is. You know a good plastic surgeon or something like that. QB recommends that you don't wear your heart on your sleeve and that is important. There is competition out there for the attractive women so you have to stand out and one way is to appear unconcerned whether you have her as a girlfriend or not. Women will naturally want to win over those who aren't interested. Especially if the guys have things going for them and aren't ugly or total losers. Such unappealing guys following this brave path are doomed for sure. You can't do any of that unless you know they like you a bit. Goodness knows some guys instinctively sense all of this. The rest of us have to learn and it can be a lengthy process. Even with the most experience and success one never is an expert in this business.

Vince G, CSN MFT · « **Reply #74 on:** December 27, 2009, 07:02:44 AM »

Vince Basile posting pictures of me is as routine as a kid gone missing in the Australia area.