Let me bottom-line this:
There is so much out of your control in bodybuilding/fitness, that the placing in a show is irrelevant. You may come in phenomenal shape, but if someone with superior genetics shows up that day, you're going to place lower. Or, you may have a judging panel that goes for "apples" instead of "oranges". If you're an "orange" you're SOL that day.
So, as far as I'm concerned, the only thing that matters is how you do against yourself. In that regard, I have to give kudos to both Mike/Laura. Both have managed to reach levels of development well beyond what they started with. No doubt it took a lot of effort and dedication.
That said...
It seems to me, that both Mike & Laura desperately long to attain the types of physiques that grace the pages of bodybuilding/fitness magazines. They very much aspire to have the types of bodies that command respect and admiration from others. I say this because of the lengths to which they have resorted to attain these physiques (drugs, plastic surgery, etc.) and how much value they place on the opinions of others. Hell, Mike even confessed to be willing to trade years of his life for a few added pounds of muscle! In my opinion, in spite of all their effort, neither has reached this elusive dream.