I agree with DBallin to a point.
I just wish everyone would live up to the choices they make and not blame other things for what they do, what they've turned into, et al.
When I was big, I fell into that trap. Never, never again.
If people don't want to care about what they eat or what they choose to do or not do with themselves, so be it. Just live up to who you are and what you may have become as a result.
Having said that, becoming a "fat slob" is not something I think anyone should desire to become. It's unhealthy, unsavory, and a fat body is not one people aspire to have purposely. If that's what someone is, so be it. Just be prepared to deal with everything that comes with that. And none of it is glorious or desirable in any way, shape, or form, despite what those fat forums may say.
Just a thought.