first of all i'd like to apologize for any grammar mistakes...........
better get to the point........
I never was a fan of reguralry checking hort girls out in the gym i go to, I respect the fact that they have the right not to be bothered during the workout by somebody staring at them or hitting on them etc; I always paid attention to my workout,............ so about a year ago this girl joined our gym.I kinda' ignored her at first but there was something about her that.......i don't know, hard to explain.Well i managed to ignore her presence for a couple of months, and then one day after I'd finished my workout, as i was heading home , i stopped, looked in both directions and saw a car on my right, it was her, she'd finished her workout as well,and when she was passing me by she looked at me in the eyes for a second,I thought to myself, wow such a beautiful girl cared to make eye-contact with me.............Since that day on i had this strange feeling in the gym, you know the one that you're being checked out by someone....... and then one day i took the courage and said goodbye to her as i was leaving the gym, so here's how it was: i was walking toward the exit, and she was sitting on the abductor machine near the exit, so when i came close enough, i looked up into her eyes and she was allready looking me in the eyes,then i said:''bye'', and she responded with the nicest smile i had ever seen and said ''bye''.From that day on her and i would always greet eachother, even if she was 60 feet away, she would look in my direction and said hi with a big smile on her face.Eventhough we were saying hi to eachother i still didn't want to stare at her in the gym.Once in the dressing area she arrived while i was getting ready to leave.She said hi, and asked me:''so, looks like you're finished with your workout'', and all i could say was :''yes, I had enough for today''.One day i stepped up to her and started a conversation, it felt like we'd known eachother for years.She also asked me what my plans for new years eve were and told me that she also preffers not going to any big new year parties etc.I was very happy that day and was very confident that she liked me.I saw her talking to other guys on a daily basis as well in the gym and it made me very jealous, she was a very talkative person i guess.This is what my workout day resembled: She would rest for a minute, stretch, i'd look at her and she'd look at me, and that was all i needed that day, that one eye-contact satisfied my needs and from that moment on i would only focus on finishing my workout.And she would usually step up to me and say with a big smile a few words like, ''so you're working out hard i see''; haven't you had enough for today, '' etc.And then one day she asked me what my name was and i told her and she told me hers and wanted to shake my hand, and i did, infront of 20 people that were present in the gym that day.One day she started talking about the weather outside, how she can't wait it to get hot and sunny cause she wants to go to the sea and she asked me if i had any plans for the summer.....The other week i wanted to see her so badly that i bought some protein bars and went to the pharmnacy store she works at.She seemed very happy to see me bring that stuff to her, and she kept telling me how nice it was from me, I didn't ask her out that day though.So yesterday i thought to myself,this is it, i going to ask her out no matter what.........and i did, i asked her if she would go for a drink or something.She hesitated for a moment and then she replied that she has a serious boyfriend,that he always asks her things like:where've you been etc. and that she would'n want to hurt his feelings by going for a drink with some guy and that she wouldn't like him to do this to her either.She told me that she's very loyal to him and that she's not into messing around anymore.......I told her that i was in love with her and that i had to tell her that.She replied that i'd find somebody else, that I'd get over it.......She also liked the fact that i was honest about my feelings and that i could come to pay her a visit from time to time where she worked......
I wonder how comfortable her boyfriend would be with the fact that she regularly adresses guys in the gym
btw i'm 25 she's 28
could you please explain this girl to me if you have any idea, what's going trough her mind, why is she so open to everybody in the gym, flirting and stuff.I can't get her out of my head, I've never fallen for a girl and cried over one this much,I actually thought i she was interested in me big time
thank you for reading this, i wish i could be more illustrative but english isn't my first language........will be very gratefull for any response
