Why do you encourage thick women ? You go on a date with them is saying its ok to be thick as you put it (fat for us white guys)
It is okay for a woman to have a little more "cushion". There is something earthy (goddess like) and sexy about a woman with curves, especially when they are exaggerated (read "cushion")
When I say "thick" as I mean Voluptuous, like Anna Nicole Smith (during her guess years) or Anna Nicole Carson (black chick from Ally McBeal), or Bea Flora. 5'4 and a size 8 (that is roughly 135 pounds), with a flat stomach is not fat. I either like them petite or thick and shapely.
But I have found out, that the women who are petite, don't like muscular guys, but the women who are thick, like muscular guys. Voluptuous women straddle a fence between in shape and fat. Therefore the image that they have of themselves is not that of a "in shape girl", but that of a fat girl.The biggest problem with Voluptuous women is that if they get pregnant, the weight she's gained will be harder for her lose.
What I CANT stand now, is very fat women like Mo'Nique who truly encourage fat women by having F.A.T. contests. This is just a mass denial of the fact that one need to loose weight, but because losing weight takes time, effort, and discipline, its better to say, "I don't need to change, the world needs to change to suite my needs".
I don't understand why people cannot find a "happy medium". Not skinny, not fat ,but like Godilockssaid, "Just Right"
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We can't even really find that in the bbing world...