Ladies: what "chick" things should a guy always have at his house?

[Al-Gebra]

during the early stages, you might end up there all weekend love nesting

what is w women and "love nesting"? I've noticed that some women have no desire to get out of bed on the weekends, and try to lure you to stay w them by offering all kinds of sex, but it makes no sense to me . . . after working all week, the last thing I want to do is spend the weekend in bed.  and even if i'm on vacation, why would i stay in bed?

deedee, you're not this nesting type, are you? if you are, what's the attraction?

[24KT]

 

[Count Grishnackh]

you might end up there all weekend love nesting,
so keeping that in mind I would say... new toothbrush

 

[xxxLinda]

what is w women and "love nesting"?
deedee, you're not this nesting type, are you? if you are, what's the attraction?

ermm...  when we women do the nesting thing, the sex thing, we immediately imagine what our name would sound like if it were the same as his, what the shelves would look like if they finally got put up, etc. etc. 

you wouldn't understand.

x

and the answer to your thread is:  an electric drill and all the bits.
maybe a chainsaw...

[Al-Gebra]

ermm...  when we women do the nesting thing, the sex thing, we immediately imagine what our name would sound like if it were the same as his, what the shelves would look like if they finally got put up, etc. etc. 

you wouldn't understand.

x

the putting shelves up part I get. i also get the wondering about how my last name would sound w their name. the part i don't get is the wanting to stay in bed all day . . . i hate staying in bed. it depresses me.

[Al-Gebra]

maybe you've either had enough sex or don't like it that much.
...perhaps you could do it on the kitchen counter or up the ladder whilst putting up those shelves (holding that drill in your other hand)?



x

It's possible that i don't like it as much as some women . . . I seem to have run into my fair share of nymphomaniacs. but they weren't the ones who wanted to stay in bed, they were willing to do it anywhere.

the kitchen island is definitely useful, but most stepladders are too rickety

[xxxLinda]

. . .they weren't the ones who wanted to stay in bed

come again?
that's I beg your pardon in English...

xL

>>>you're all over the place
which is good, I guess.

& perhaps the thing a guy should always have is a nice comfy clean bed to come back to each night.

[Al-Gebra]

frankly, the only sensible post was from the guy who said you need good wine. good wine and meat, and everybody's happy.

[Deedee]

How did my passion weekend reference take sudden left turn into putting up shelves and taking on someone else's last name? 

what is w women and "love nesting"? I've noticed that some women have no desire to get out of bed on the weekends, and try to lure you to stay w them by offering all kinds of sex, but it makes no sense to me . . . after working all week, the last thing I want to do is spend the weekend in bed.  and even if i'm on vacation, why would i stay in bed?

deedee, you're not this nesting type, are you? if you are, what's the attraction?

No, I'm not a nesting type per se... and like to be outside rather than in.  I was just commenting on what occasionally happens when you meet someone you might be intensely interested in. I sympathize with you and your problem with the luring women, though. 

[drkaje]

Condoms and lube.

Food is only good if you want them to stay.

Any guy whose gone out to pick up tampons knows most "chick things" are highly specific, personal choices. Unless she's already your girlfriend, having too much (= 1 item) of that stuff around is only gonna remind them of other women being at your place.

[ToxicAvenger]

gonna remind them of other women being at your place.

not always a bad thing..

esp if the current woman is a looker..

she should never forget (unless she loves ya), that she is exchangable...

[Deedee]

The condoms and lube don't imply that other women have been there 

[drkaje]

The condoms and lube don't imply that other women have been there 

All they imply are safety and consideration.

[tu_holmes]

I'll be honest... When my wife and I first started doing the staying over thing, I actually bought Maxi Pads and stuffed them under the sink in the bathroom.

As luck would have it, one day she was over and she "started". She was all "I have to leave", and I told her just look under the sink...

If you're serious with a chick, that certainly can't hurt.

[Deedee]

 . I guess it really wouldn't matter, would it?

[Deedee]

I'll be honest... When my wife and I first started doing the staying over thing, I actually bought Maxi Pads and stuffed them under the sink in the bathroom.

As luck would have it, one day she was over and she "started". She was all "I have to leave", and I told her just look under the sink...

If you're serious with a chick, that certainly can't hurt.

Thank you.    That was the point I was trying to get across.

[Al-Gebra]

I'll be honest... When my wife and I first started doing the staying over thing, I actually bought Maxi Pads and stuffed them under the sink in the bathroom.

As luck would have it, one day she was over and she "started". She was all "I have to leave", and I told her just look under the sink...

If you're serious with a chick, that certainly can't hurt.

hmmm . . . you struck me as the kind of guy who would offer her a dish towel.  mysteries never cease.

[ToxicAvenger]

would a vacuum cleaner count?

[drkaje]

I'd ask someone I was dating to bring stuff with. That being said, you would have to be dating someone quite a while to know what their preference in hygeine products.

[tu_holmes]

hmmm . . . you struck me as the kind of guy who would offer her a dish towel.  mysteries never cease.

I'm an Enigma... Don't try to label me.



I do remember this one time I had a chick stay over and it was early, and she woke me up asking where the towels were... I reached into the closet and pulled out a towel, handed it to her, and went back to sleep... When she came over again the next night, she showed me the towel I gave her... it was like a fucking wash cloth... I busted out laughing.

I did apologize, but hey, a tired guy is a tired guy.

[Earl1972]

not always a bad thing..

esp if the current woman is a looker..

she should never forget (unless she loves ya), that she is exchangable...

I couldn't agree more

if they think you don't have much luck with women your value goes down

E

[Samourai Pizzacat]

There's something to be said for clean towels and good food, condoms and lube, bringing in womens products is crossing the line I think.
Usually the women I've met have always been thinking ahead when they seemed to like me. Maybe it's the european emancipation, I dunno. But not having a new toothbrush isn't going to make or break the deal, and if it does, she wouldn't be the right type for me anway. Don't loose yourself in details.

[Earl1972]

There's something to be said for clean towels and good food, condoms and lube, bringing in womens products is crossing the line I think.
Usually the women I've met have always been thinking ahead when they seemed to like me. Maybe it's the european emancipation, I dunno. But not having a new toothbrush isn't going to make or break the deal, and if it does, she wouldn't be the right type for me anway. Don't loose yourself in details.

I actually was thinking the same but then I hear other places that a guy should have this and have that woman product etc

E

[Deedee]

You guys ask a question, then discount the answer. 

It's Friday.  You're hot for this guy you've seen twice already, and really, dinner is only a formality because you're in love and only want to be with him. However, although he seems to react the same, it seems a little strange to ask him on the phone whether you should bring your bathroom and a change of clothes with you.   I don't know any woman who carries around a blow dryer with her on a date.    So dinner is finished, you both know what's going to happen, but you're better off going to his place, because A) if he turns out to be a psychopathic lunatic serial killer, chances are less likely he'd kill you there since he'd have to get rid of the body, blah blah. B), just in case something doesn't work out, you can leave when you want to. If he comes to yours, chances are he'll stay and stay. However, it turns out to be the opposite and you just can't tear yourself away and he doesn't want you to go.  So what do you do? He probably has no hair (by choice) so there's no blow dryer.  His soap is manly soap, so you end up smelling like sandalwood or something all day. (Yuck) He doesn't use moisturizer so your skin falls off when you get out of the shower.    These things aren't a necessity... just make you feel... better.

No one really cares about a toothbrush, but there's something really sweet and romantic when he pulls a new one out and says, this one's yours from now on, and puts it next to his.

I think I'm the only romantic on this board. 

[michael arvilla]

another girl?