if you look at human attributes and actions you notice some things.One of the main things are
we use threats of punishment when people dont comply with our will. that is, if a child does something wrong or wont listen, we say "Your not watching tv tonight", we use a terror system with polar right and wrong.
God of the bible is like this. if we sin we will be punished, if we do that, this will happen.
Not all humans are the same. Some learn by a simple example or by simple instructions. Others, unfortunately only respond to punishment.
Proverbs 19:25"Flog a mocker, and the simple will learn prudence; rebuke a discerning man, and he will gain knowledge."
it sounds like god is quite human in that he suffers from this weakness. If he does then a simple example would suffice.
I don't believe that this is a weakness or that it has anything to do with God. It has more to do with what humans respond to best. Like I said, some humans respond to a simple example and to simple instructions. Others respond only to punishment. They'll do as much as they can get away with, or they'll do all kinds of bad things believing that it is okay as long as they don't get caught, no integrity.
a retarded person, clearly by scientific standards cannot choose right or wrong nor have a sense of morality(obviously there are varying degrees). Does he get punished for the sins he was not aware of? even though god made him like that?
my question is why is it that god has humanistic traits, i would perceive as weaknesses or negatives, and how can a retard accept christ and go to heaven if he cannot comprehend the concept? wouldnt that be god making a retard for the simple fact of torturing him?
I believe that babies and mentally retarded people are innocent. I do not believe that God would condemn these people. I do not believe that's Biblical.
any retards offended by this thread like camel jockey, i apologize.

I don't believe that Camel Jockey is really a retard, so he is not off the hook.
my question is why is it that god has humanistic traits
It is not that God has humanistic traits. It is the other way around. God created us in His image and likeness. So when you see God having traits similar to ours, it is because we have traits from God.
When you see a child and his father, and you notice that they have similar traits, you don't ask why the father has some traits that are the same as his child. The child is the one who got these traits from his father.