Do you have an ephobophilic desire toward Jamie, which leads you to display this passive-agressive behavior toward him? Serious question. Lots of heterosexual homophobic men are attracted to pretty boys, and they reassure themselves that they are not "fags" by sublimating their desire with extreme anger and aggression toward their objects of desire. Methinks that might be your case.
extreme anger and aggression?
lol, i'm just making fun of the homophobic atmosphere here.
I#m very confident about my heterosexuality.