ehh i get tired of goin out and running the same games on these hoes. of course there are some pretty babes, but we all know what to expect and we all know its alot of bullshit to get something high quality, its doable but is it worth it? i was ready to party like crazy last week yet none of my #### friends were available and i wanted to go out n get some hoes so i simply stayed in and said fuck it who cares, even at my top shape all ill do is intimidate them, i can be the best looking tallest dude and most ripped and have the most to talk about yet when i go out these chicks never have shit to say they just look and gaze and smile and say something stupid here and there.
if you try to sound intelligent or have intelligent things to say it just makes them feel stupid and inferior, or they becomed wowed by it wich makes them intimidated and scared hahah fuk
ok, i'm not an expert, but believe me my friend, women like to talk.
thing is, what you're not accounting for is the fact that most hot women get hit on 50 times a night, during the day, hell, their gay best friend prob hit on em that day.
when a guy like you approaches said hot woman, all she's seeing and hearing is another guy hitting on them. she'll either pretend to get into what your saying because she wants to fuck you, hear you out because she's still assessing or completely ignore you because you just bombed/got no game.
meeting at clubs etc is just meat market where everyone bullshits, including the women. the guys with the best sales pitch, looks and game goes home with the hot woman and if that guy happens to be you, the only way you can fuck it up from that point is to say something stupid, so don't say much and what you do say, make sure it's what she wants to hear.
hot and intellectual??? oh boy, now you're heading for nothing but misery. she will compete with you constantly (not to start with when y'all doing the meat market thing, but when you become
familiar), get sick of you and dump you, because, let's face it Wad, you're a self absorbed fucker that's about as consistant, emotionally, as a....are you bipolar Waddy

this shit aint going to keep the hot ones, especially if she's got brains. she'll get bored of you bud and, at that point, if you've got a shit load of money, she'll stick around and fuck your best friend. if you haven't, she's gone, simple as that. all the deep and meaningfulls you had with her will account for shit because that's all they really were to her anyway (let's face it, women don't come to men for deep, intellectual shit. they come for dick and power/money, they got best friends for the other shit).
moral of the story is....whatever.
with the abs thing, it's just water retention mainly (fat takes longer to settle). get back to training and fine tune your diet and your abs will be back in a couple of days. you should know this.