OK so he should get back to the gym and get his abs back so why? So he can start fucking dudes after the rest of that insight you just gave? I'm not being sarcastic, I felt every word you just said but FUCK that leaves a bleak outlook.
i honestly don't know mate.
sometimes i just type as i think and hope i'll get to a point where i can summarise, but with this one i hit a wall.
fucking dudes? don't know about that one. if you're into dudes i suppose it's just as pointelss as fucking hoes. just something to nut into. for me though, fucking dudes would not appeal on any level.
my insight is cynical i know, but it's real a lot more than not. the guys who disagree (god bless em) are still at that point in the relationship where they prefer to think positively, and who wouldn't? there's the irony of life and, perhaps, my summary. you have to believe, you have no choice. if you don't, there is only marking time before death.
the reality is, there is only one person in this life that you can rely on, you. seems too obvious but how many people throw the whole basket of eggs into a relationship with the inevitable nothingness that comes when it's gone?
'until death do us part' was always a crock designed by
control religious freaks that used the name of god to enslaven everyone. no person owns anyone, including your life partner. if you don't give to her, she will not give back and then you'll end up like 90% of mariages, where both parties go through the motions because the alternative is Waddy and you try to keep your partner under a watchful eye, lest she finally realises that the grass really is greener on the other side. don't worry, she's doing the same with you...DAMN SHIT, this is not where i wanted to end up!
positivity is the answer.
give love unconditionally and constantly once you find someone you absolutely want to spend your life with. don't take it for granted because, despite what we've been told, it's not granted ie there are no guarantees and no amount of bible bashing or...
bashing 
will change this fact.
maybe i should have stuck with 'whatever'?
