Depends how you look at it. It takes more than muscle to pick up a woman. They do not like arrogance but like confidence. But to answer your question, go to any night club or bar in the city. Its the muscular confident guy who has the ladies circled around him, not the skinny pipsqueek or the guy with the pot belly hanging in the corner. And the women that find big guys repulsive is usually because they can't get the big guy or they are jealous of the fact that he can pick up way better looking women that are out of her league. Truth be told.