Like GH15 says, do not pause and select only several days of the year, pre-ordained by the marketing moguls that be, to show you are think of and loving your close ones.
Technically, there is a great lack of integrity in all of this.
And you know you have a bad woman if she EXPECTS something of substance and is disappointed in the color of the car you just bought her.
Be spontaneous, THROUGHOUT the yhear, and you be a prince in her eyes.
Mike