anorexic boy at my workplace, is 5'4 90 pounds , 20 yo kid. seriously could pass for 16 or so.
generally the idea for me in life and work is to co-exist peacefully, but this kid seems bent on making everyone especially me miserable with his subtle acts of agression. (perhaps its a anorexic mindset thing)
i put up with it for a while, then i had enough and started "owning him" till i could visibly see he was trembling and distressed so i kind of felt bad and back off him. he laid off me for a while now he's back with his usual BS AGAIN
seriously, i have 2 choices i am looking at now
No1. own him daily till he has a mental breakdown (but i dont like agression, i think it brings you nowhere in life if you go down that road)
No2. treat it as part of human nature and ignore him (i am having problem ignoring him because imagine someone sitting next to you spending all his time at work thinking of how to screw u)
So now i need some advice. seriously. quitting the job is not an option till next year!