Help! advice needed, Im losing sleep over a girl #DATE OVER#

[Lord Humungous]

Ahh the excitment of the first date, I remember it, but it was a loooooooong time ago

[chaos]

An Update:

Im on a HIGH right now!!!!!. i took all ur advice about just goin for it and plucked up the courage to ask her if she wanted to maybe go for coffee or somthing and she agreed!!! i was a bag of nerves askin her but once she said yea it was euphoria!!! lol
i think i needed to be told to stop bin so scared so thanks guys!

By the end of coffee, you better have exchanged DNA with this chick, by the end of the night.......there better be your potantial children all over her face!

[_bruce_]

Cute - getting jiggly and nervous  
Many "good" tips here... keep us updated what happens....


...or not.

[ATHEIST]

Boost good job!   just make sure you get her to laugh as much as possible, and make sure to buy her coffee as it will help underline the fact that your intentions are to be more than just friends.. and by all means dont get too jittery with the coffee, youre not going to be able to calm down..and by all means dont freak out. also dont spend an hour and a half getting ready, she'll be able to tell. my long time gf called me on it on our first date, helped break the ice though. just some words of wisdom. hope this helps

[drkaje]

Make sure to hit it ASAP.

[chaos]

Make sure to hit it ASAP.

I got 5 bucks says 'Boost" spooges in his pocket before he kisses her....

[drkaje]

I got 5 bucks says 'Boost" spooges in his pocket before he kisses her....

He'll just say some 'creamer' spilled in his lap.

[Geo]

I have been talking to a girl at school for around 2 months, and my feelings for her are getting stronger and stronger.

Conversations are going and shes laughing at my jokes, we talk on msn and exchange kinda jokey text messages.

However im starting to realise that i really like her, but what SIGNS should i look for to indicate she is interested in me. Im terrible at taking things further than "just friends". I guess im scared of the rejection, and having to see her during group work/classes

PLease any advice cos its really starting to beat me up, im constantly checking my phone/facebook to see if she has messaged me and i cant stop thinking about her. Must sound pathetic, but i cant get her out of my head 
        

tell her you like her shoes.....




girls like that !

[Fury]

tell her you like her shoes.....




girls like that !

Now I understand why you're unmarried and a virgin at 60. 

[chaos]

Now I understand why you're unmarried and a virgin at 60. 

Walked right into that shit...... put on the bifocals Geo!!!

[drkaje]

Don't listen to Geo, talking about shoes won't get you laid.

During coffee.... turn off your phone and let her talk about her favorite subject.. probably herself, animals or some other stupid crap girls that age are always talking about. Just pretend to be interested and nod once and awhile. Then when she finally takes a break to breathe, don't make the mistake of talking about yourself... pretend to be interested and ask for more stupid crap about her. Eventually she'll want a second date to talk about herself more learn more about you.

Something like that works for most guys.

Also, be sure to ask if she has a boyfriend. Last thing you want is drama. Don't bother asking why the last relationship didn't work out.. she'll probably tell you in exhausting detail.

[Geo]

I have been talking to a girl at school for around 2 months, and my feelings for her are getting stronger and stronger.

Conversations are going and shes laughing at my jokes, we talk on msn and exchange kinda jokey text messages.

However im starting to realise that i really like her, but what SIGNS should i look for to indicate she is interested in me. Im terrible at taking things further than "just friends". I guess im scared of the rejection, and having to see her during group work/classes

PLease any advice cos its really starting to beat me up, im constantly checking my phone/facebook to see if she has messaged me and i cant stop thinking about her. Must sound pathetic, but i cant get her out of my head 
        

dude....




play the "I really like your shoes" card and close the damned deal....





trust me !

[drkaje]

dude....




play the "I really like your shoes" card and close the damned deal....





trust me !

He wants to get laid, G!

Looking at her shoes means you're either gay or really anal retentive and judging her... unless of course they are really expensive shoes. If they are expensive shoes then she either figures you have good taste or thinks you might fork over some cash for more shoes.

The more she talks.... the better his chances get. We're not talking about a guy with game here. If he were smoother and had been around the block a few times the advice would be different. But.... a guy losing sleep over a chick he just met is probably gonna say something stupid and sabatage the chance of getting some every single time his mouth opens.

Geo....... I'm just guessing but would be willing to bet you talk a lot on dates.

[Geo]

He wants to get laid, G!

Looking at her shoes means you're either gay or really anal retentive and judging her...

maybe you're right.....


maybe booster should just break down and actually buy her some shoes....


either way, the way to a woman heart is shoes.......





you guys are just gonna have to trust me on this

[calmus]

Why coffee?  Should have asked her to do something that involves the steady imbibing of alcohol. 

[drkaje]

maybe you're right.....


maybe booster should just break down and actually buy her some shoes....


either way, the way to a woman heart is shoes.......





you guys are just gonna have to trust me on this

Being a very cunning linguist doesn't hurt.

[Geo]

Why coffee?  Should have asked her to do something that involves the steady imbibing of alcohol. 

exactly...

call her up.....

split an 18 pack of old milwaukee



polish up her shoes a little !...

and she'll fuck your brains out

[calmus]

exactly...

call her up.....

split an 18 pack of old milwaukee



polish up her shoes a little !...

and she'll fuck your brains out

lol at the shoe polish pic.

[w8m8]

By the end of coffee, you better have exchanged DNA with this chick, by the end of the night.......there better be your potantial children all over her face!

oh no , don't tell me he's dating xxxLinda 

[Boost]

Its the big day tommorow and i have to admit i think i'll be shaking by the time the date arrives!
Thanks for all the advice, i do have a tendency to talk about myself alot and turn into a chatterbox when im nervous, which from what have gathered from the advice could completlely kill chances of a second date. The worst thing is i often DONT REALISE im talking too much

great advice about not spending too long on my appearance, thats the kinda thing i would never have thought about and would likely have spent 1 hr + getting ready.

I'g gonna try be as natural as possible, i don't wanna go there with a load of pre-rehearsed lines and jokes cos i know my head will be all over the place anyway, and im gonna try sip the coffee, i dont want caffeine jitters 

[MB_722]

Its the big day tommorow and i have to admit i think i'll be shaking by the time the date arrives!
Thanks for all the advice, i do have a tendency to talk about myself alot and turn into a chatterbox when im nervous, which from what have gathered from the advice could completlely kill chances of a second date. The worst thing is i often DONT REALISE im talking too much

great advice about not spending too long on my appearance, thats the kinda thing i would never have thought about and would likely have spent 1 hr + getting ready.

I'g gonna try be as natural as possible, i don't wanna go there with a load of pre-rehearsed lines and jokes cos i know my head will be all over the place anyway, and im gonna try sip the coffee, i dont want caffeine jitters 

good luck dude. haha

[ToxicAvenger]

I can't imagine losing sleep over a girl. Maybe I'm a little jaded, LOL!

a LITTLE doc?? 

[calmus]

Its the big day tommorow and i have to admit i think i'll be shaking by the time the date arrives!
Thanks for all the advice, i do have a tendency to talk about myself alot and turn into a chatterbox when im nervous, which from what have gathered from the advice could completlely kill chances of a second date. The worst thing is i often DONT REALISE im talking too much

great advice about not spending too long on my appearance, thats the kinda thing i would never have thought about and would likely have spent 1 hr + getting ready.

I'g gonna try be as natural as possible, i don't wanna go there with a load of pre-rehearsed lines and jokes cos i know my head will be all over the place anyway, and im gonna try sip the coffee, i dont want caffeine jitters 

This coffee business is fucked up.  You should have figured out a way to use alcohol as a social lubricant.

[scooter]

dude just jerk off before you go out with her you will be relaxed and calm

[Fury]

Geo giving dating advice is like me giving advice on how to frost the tips of your hair, complete uninformed and lacking experience. STFU old fag.