melvin anthony isnt comfortable with being sexy, shawn ray tried his best to be sexy and his routines are what he thoguht WAS, john brown can SUCK IT, old arrogant jackass
matarazzo was cool
heavy metal is only good if it fits your physique and you pose correctly..a guy like branch or markus can use it
i think you would be better off with slow music mike,,, your more aesthetic than huge