Funny thing is I really felt kind of happy for the couple. The media portrayed them as a loving pair who had waited years, blah blah blah, and were finally married. Now it seems pretty apparent that their devotion gay marriage, not the institution itself. Someone truly dedicated to being married (not attention-whoring) should have gone first instead of those who would further cheapen the it.
I do feel it's insane that one's marriage becomes nullified by crossing state lines, though. No heterosexual couple would ever stand for that but getting a divorce just to draw further attention to legal inequities is crass.
It proves what I've been arguing all along, but this is one of those times it would have been better to be wrong.