ok "Tough Guy"
It is nothing to do with being a 'tough guy'. It is about the fact that this is a bodybuilding site and a bodybuilding forum.
It is not a chatsite. He should go to yahoo chat and start stuff like this. 'boo hoo i'm in hospital' 'my friend died' 'i can't take a shit' all this kind of stuff belong there with attention whores.
This shit should not be here and to make matters worst this guy frequently lies about things to get attention.
Take it somewhere relevant. that is all.
Not personal, just business.