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I Got Dumped....
« on: May 21, 2008, 04:25:19 PM »
So I got dumped, it has happened before and more then likely will happen again.
I am sure we've all been through this.

My question is....

If he goes out and has an affair how is my fault?

discuss please
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Re: I Got Dumped....
« Reply #1 on: May 21, 2008, 04:27:16 PM »
move on, getbig will make it more painful, why do you wanna be with him if he had a affair?? is your self esteem that low??

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Re: I Got Dumped....
« Reply #2 on: May 21, 2008, 04:37:42 PM »
So I got dumped, it has happened before and more then likely will happen again.
I am sure we've all been through this.

My question is....

If he goes out and has an affair how is my fault?

discuss please


Why would it be your fault?  He makes a decision to do that, not you!  Sorry that happened to you.  Yes, everyone goes through it.  Take a break from him.  Hangout with your friends.....You have been given a gift... Imagine if you planned your whole life with this guy?   All the best!!!!

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Re: I Got Dumped....
« Reply #3 on: May 21, 2008, 04:41:30 PM »

Why would it be your fault?  He makes a decision to do that, not you!  Sorry that happened to you.  Yes, everyone goes through it.  Take a break from him.  Hangout with your friends.....You have been given a gift... Imagine if you planned your whole life with this guy?    All the best!!!!

exactly, the best thing is think of fun things, don't dwell on it, or else it just plays on your mind,  watch a funny movie, go exercise,  he sounds like a loser anyway.

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Re: I Got Dumped....
« Reply #4 on: May 21, 2008, 05:05:37 PM »

Why would it be your fault?  He makes a decision to do that, not you!  Sorry that happened to you.  Yes, everyone goes through it.  Take a break from him.  Hangout with your friends.....You have been given a gift... Imagine if you planned your whole life with this guy?   All the best!!!!
i agree
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Re: I Got Dumped....
« Reply #5 on: May 21, 2008, 05:10:12 PM »
Bottom line: men are pigs. If you want the bacon, you gotta accept the occasional swine.

HTH.

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Re: I Got Dumped....
« Reply #6 on: May 21, 2008, 05:24:05 PM »
Bottom line: men are pigs. If you want the bacon, you gotta accept the occasional swine.

HTH.
Lol, what is Laurinatis?
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Re: I Got Dumped....
« Reply #7 on: May 21, 2008, 05:25:23 PM »
Lol, what is Laurinatis?

James Laurinaitis, Ohio State Buckeyes # 33 senior linebacker, best linebacker in the country.

We all love him around here for skipping the NFL and coming back for his senior year :)

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Re: I Got Dumped....
« Reply #8 on: May 21, 2008, 05:27:06 PM »
James Laurinaitis, Ohio State Buckeyes # 33 senior linebacker, best linebacker in the country.

We all love him around here for skipping the NFL and coming back for his senior year :)
It sounded like a disease. 

Oh, and what is HTH?

Call me blonde, but I'm just not figuring it out.  :)
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Re: I Got Dumped....
« Reply #9 on: May 21, 2008, 05:27:37 PM »
It sounded like a disease. 

Oh, and what is HTH?

Call me blonde, but I'm just not figuring it out.  :)

"Hope this helps."

HTH ::)

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Re: I Got Dumped....
« Reply #10 on: May 21, 2008, 05:36:27 PM »
"Hope this helps."

HTH ::)
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh  duh.  :-\

Can I blame it on the drugs I'm not on yet?   ;D


Thankd dweetir  :D
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Re: I Got Dumped....
« Reply #11 on: May 21, 2008, 07:58:40 PM »
So I got dumped, it has happened before and more then likely will happen again.
I am sure we've all been through this.

My question is....

If he goes out and has an affair how is my fault?

discuss please
NOT saying it's your fault, but a lack of excitement somewhere (in the bed) in the relationship will drive wandering eyes.
Liar!!!!Filt!!!!

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Re: I Got Dumped....
« Reply #12 on: May 21, 2008, 10:12:28 PM »
Agree with chaos.  Also, maybe you were the interim girl, and he was too ___ to break-up.  In any case, it's a good excuse to do some heroin. 


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Re: I Got Dumped....
« Reply #13 on: May 21, 2008, 11:06:09 PM »


If he goes out and has an affair how is my fault?


Depends.  Have you lost that extra 80 lbs yet?  Many men like a thicker girl, but not outright porkers (no offense).

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Re: I Got Dumped....
« Reply #14 on: May 22, 2008, 05:46:29 AM »
So I got dumped, it has happened before and more then likely will happen again.
I am sure we've all been through this.

My question is....

If he goes out and has an affair how is my fault?

discuss please
You're hooking up with the wrong type of people, Sin. Not your fault.

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Re: I Got Dumped....
« Reply #15 on: May 22, 2008, 07:33:03 AM »
Did he tell you it was your fault? Why would you even think something like that?
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Re: I Got Dumped....
« Reply #16 on: May 22, 2008, 11:38:02 AM »
So I got dumped, it has happened before and more then likely will happen again.
I am sure we've all been through this.

My question is....

If he goes out and has an affair how is my fault?

discuss please

  I am confused, your man went out and cheated on you and dumped you and how is it your fault he cheated on you

  or....

 you were dating a married man who dumped you and how is it your fault that he was having an affair with you in the first place?


    ???

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Re: I Got Dumped....
« Reply #17 on: May 22, 2008, 04:06:52 PM »
where the fuck is Original sin???? how old is the guy, how long were you with him??

or was this a one night stand, and you caught feelings??

Tough break, at least you have your health, everyday someone gets cheated on, who gives a fuck.

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Re: I Got Dumped....
« Reply #18 on: May 22, 2008, 05:50:44 PM »
I am not pining over the guy as some might think

I was totally floored when he said it was my fault that he slept with somebody else and I think Getbig is the perfect place for this type of question.

We have so many different people here and so many gimmicks, I thought it would be a good topic to discuss.
I think the only person who looks at things the way i do is Tasha, but she is my age and likes to play the same "games" I do  :)

and Flower no he wasn't married, just a scumbag.

Honestly, Hustleman and Laura is who I was looking for input from they are the "better angels of my soul" even though I fight them for there wisdom.  (Nobody likes to be shown the truth, ever.  but I love you for the fact you choose to dare to do so)  :-*

but have fun with the topic!!!  Damn it have fun!!
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Re: I Got Dumped....
« Reply #19 on: May 22, 2008, 06:01:48 PM »
I am not pining over the guy as some might think

I was totally floored when he said it was my fault that he slept with somebody else and I think Getbig is the perfect place for this type of question.

We have so many different people here and so many gimmicks, I thought it would be a good topic to discuss.
I think the only person who looks at things the way i do is Tasha, but she is my age and likes to play the same "games" I do  :)

and Flower no he wasn't married, just a scumbag.

Honestly, Hustleman and Laura is who I was looking for input from they are the "better angels of my soul" even though I fight them for there wisdom.  (Nobody likes to be shown the truth, ever.  but I love you for the fact you choose to dare to do so)  :-*

but have fun with the topic!!!  Damn it have fun!!


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Re: I Got Dumped....
« Reply #20 on: May 22, 2008, 07:21:01 PM »
I am not pining over the guy as some might think

I was totally floored when he said it was my fault that he slept with somebody else and I think Getbig is the perfect place for this type of question.

We have so many different people here and so many gimmicks, I thought it would be a good topic to discuss.
I think the only person who looks at things the way i do is Tasha, but she is my age and likes to play the same "games" I do  :)

and Flower no he wasn't married, just a scumbag.

Honestly, Hustleman and Laura is who I was looking for input from they are the "better angels of my soul" even though I fight them for there wisdom.  (Nobody likes to be shown the truth, ever.  but I love you for the fact you choose to dare to do so)  :-*

but have fun with the topic!!!  Damn it have fun!!


Wait, aren't you a stripper?  It's part of the stripper lifestyle to take advantage of men for $$$.  Why are you pissed now that the shoe is on the other foot?  Not flaming, just curious.

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Re: I Got Dumped....
« Reply #21 on: May 22, 2008, 07:47:56 PM »
Wait, aren't you a stripper?  It's part of the stripper lifestyle to take advantage of men for $$$.  Why are you pissed now that the shoe is on the other foot?  Not flaming, just curious.

Where is it stated I was pissed?

I mean if your going to flame at least show a little intelligence behind it.

The 80 lbs things was funny Squad.  keep trying though, I like laughing at you
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Re: I Got Dumped....
« Reply #22 on: May 22, 2008, 07:50:29 PM »

So did he actually tell you why it was your fault, or was he too much of an inarticulate retard to get that far... or you were so shocked you didn't hear his reason?

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Re: I Got Dumped....
« Reply #23 on: May 22, 2008, 07:54:20 PM »
I was totally floored when he said it was my fault that he slept with somebody else and I think Getbig is the perfect place for this type of question.

I hope you take this in the spirit of someone being honest and don't perceive me as insensitive.  But someone who strays could be doing so because he or she is not fulfilled by the other person, it could be physical, emotional, even intellectual.  So is it possible it is your fault?  Maybe not in the moral sense that we examine fault.  But yes, in the sense that maybe you could have been something more to the other person than you were.  It soes not make you a bad person or inadequate, but it could mean that you did not meet the promise the other person saw in  you when you became a couple.

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Re: I Got Dumped....
« Reply #24 on: May 22, 2008, 08:05:06 PM »
Translation: Original Sin is a shitty lay.

Not my point at all.