Now I think about it, I don't give passes per se I just generally try to be nice.
Also, my culture and gender make a difference. Not saying this is right, or how it should be, but where I am from, women are kinda different. Much more reserved etc. I am not about to troll a website, using foul language constantly, getting in fights etc. Hate to break out a 1950's term lol, but it's "unladylike". What's next? Break out a harley and some tobacco chew stuff and go to bar and knock back 12 beers?
Also, if someone wants to be totally nasty, that is their thing. I am not about to lower myself to their level. It shows something missing with them. Who actually would spend time being nasty to everyone they can? A sad person thats who.
Plus, never a need to add more hatred IMO. The world has enough.